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My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away
#19360248 - 01/02/14 07:01 PM (10 years, 28 days ago) |
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I haven't gotten laid in like a year, mainly because I'm completely up front and honest about the kinky shit I'm into and the guys around here are afraid of anything that's not missionary position. My question here is should I just not tell them? I mean it seems kind of devious to get them into bed and spring some kinky stuff on them that they're not down with, but it's no fun for me and not worth the trouble otherwise....maybe I should just move to a more open minded place near a porn studio idk?
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#19360276 - 01/02/14 07:07 PM (10 years, 28 days ago) |
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chicksgrowtoo said: I mean it seems kind of devious to get them into bed and spring some kinky stuff on them that they're not down with, but it's no fun for me and not worth the trouble otherwise...
Why is that devious? Whet their appetites with leading comments. Spring that surprise. I'm an old married man but if I were young and single again, I hope I'd have the adventurous spirit necessary. Go get 'em!
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: lemmingp]
#19360342 - 01/02/14 07:25 PM (10 years, 28 days ago) |
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What kind of kink are we talking about here?
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: 4nik8]
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: 4nik8]
#19360387 - 01/02/14 07:35 PM (10 years, 28 days ago) |
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I like to bring girls into the mix, strap-ons, some bondage, roll playing and whatnot. I wouldn't be completely opposed to fucking the guy instead of him fucking me if you know what I mean
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo] 1
#19360400 - 01/02/14 07:38 PM (10 years, 28 days ago) |
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Oh and double dildo action with a girl while the guy watches, stuff like that
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#19360407 - 01/02/14 07:41 PM (10 years, 28 days ago) |
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chicksgrowtoo said: I wouldn't be completely opposed to fucking the guy instead of him fucking me if you know what I mean
Ha. This may be scaring some people away. Keep this on the low till you get to know the person a bit. The rest of the stuff doesn't seem too crazy.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#19360414 - 01/02/14 07:43 PM (10 years, 28 days ago) |
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I presume that most of the guys especially in the younger ages are shy. I certainly was (early 20s), but gradually grow out of it (after 30). So you could start to discuss the more traditional stuff and gradually go for the more “fun” stuff?
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#19360416 - 01/02/14 07:44 PM (10 years, 28 days ago) |
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chicksgrowtoo said: Oh and double dildo action with a girl while the guy watches, stuff like that
uhhh where do I sign up?
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: sunbleeder]
#19360427 - 01/02/14 07:46 PM (10 years, 28 days ago) |
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I DO keep that one on the low lol....maybe they feel threatened by bringing another girl into it? Idk how guys feel about that sort of thing
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: JPDancer]
#19360440 - 01/02/14 07:48 PM (10 years, 28 days ago) |
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chicksgrowtoo said: Oh and double dildo action with a girl while the guy watches, stuff like that
uhhh where do I sign up? 
In bum fucking you gotta purdy mouth Georgia hahaha
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#19360457 - 01/02/14 07:51 PM (10 years, 28 days ago) |
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Can I be the creepy guy in the corner who watches?
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: JPDancer]
#19360460 - 01/02/14 07:52 PM (10 years, 28 days ago) |
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Besides being fucked, I would have no problems indulging in your fantasies. I'd say you just have some pussy guy friends around.
In my human sexuality class some 30 year old said if her fiance ever brought up blindfolding she wpould break up with him right there. This 19 year old chick sitting right next to her said she'd run. In my mind I was like,"cool, two more bitches I have no sexual interest in".
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: FruitOfLife] 1
#19360468 - 01/02/14 07:54 PM (10 years, 28 days ago) |
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FruitOfLife said: Can I be the creepy guy in the corner who watches?
I don't think it's creepy, I think it's hot and enjoy someone watching
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: Atrium]
#19360478 - 01/02/14 07:57 PM (10 years, 28 days ago) |
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Jamesdnh said: Besides being fucked, I would have no problems indulging in your fantasies. I'd say you just have some pussy guy friends around.
In my human sexuality class some 30 year old said if her fiance ever brought up blindfolding she wpould break up with him right there. This 19 year old chick sitting right next to her said she'd run. In my mind I was like,"cool, two more bitches I have no sexual interest in".
Those frigid bitches! lol They must be very sexually frustrated
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#19360495 - 01/02/14 08:02 PM (10 years, 28 days ago) |
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Sooo...would it be too too kinky (guys) for a girl to lick your asshole in the middle of a bj? Or would that also be pushing it too far for most?
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#19360505 - 01/02/14 08:04 PM (10 years, 28 days ago) |
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I don't think it's creepy, I think it's hot and enjoy someone watching
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#19360527 - 01/02/14 08:11 PM (10 years, 28 days ago) |
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chicksgrowtoo said: I DO keep that one on the low lol....maybe they feel threatened by bringing another girl into it? Idk how guys feel about that sort of thing
Well I presume it might depend on the guy’s background? Are we talking about guys that you just meet for one night stand/friend with benefits or are we talking about guys which you are in relationship with?
I can take myself as an example. When I was in my early 20s I dated a very open minded girl which was 3 year older and much more experienced than me. She proposed about week in our relationship to have an extra girl in the play so to say and I turned it down. This is probably the only mistake I would go back to correct. She also was interested in to invite another guy in which I was not so much happy about either.
Today, a good 15 years later, in relationship with a girl for almost 14 years, where we are married 8+ years, I would not have any problem and actually suggested to the wife if she is interested in such activities. One might ask what changed and why I am ok with this now and not back then? I presume, in my case it was lithe bit too early in the relationship. It might be different if we were more of a friend with the benefit kind of situation.
I think you might have better chance with older guys or rather say more matured ones.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: Anonymous #1]
#19360547 - 01/02/14 08:17 PM (10 years, 28 days ago) |
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Friends with benefits situations with it very clear that I'm NOT looking for a relationship..... So more mature guys then? I'll see how that works out though I rarely engage in sexual activity with someone younger than me to begin with. Thank you for your advice
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#19360568 - 01/02/14 08:23 PM (10 years, 28 days ago) |
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Hope it works for you. Can you give a loose age range of the guys you are “scaring” away?
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: Anonymous #1]
#19360575 - 01/02/14 08:25 PM (10 years, 28 days ago) |
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Pretty wide age range...mainly 24 to 27 with a 21 y.o mixed in there
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#19360632 - 01/02/14 08:41 PM (10 years, 28 days ago) |
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Well I think you should have a better chance with guys closer to or above 30. I presume a lot depends on the experience. Again, if I take myself as an example and I consider myself a normal healthy heterosexual guy. After so many years with standard sexual practices I have no problem with wilder experimentation and have this kind of ideas for some time.
There might me very experienced young guys who are looking forward to expand the experience, but I think you should have a higher chance to find such individuals in the age span which I already mentioned.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: Anonymous #1]
#19360647 - 01/02/14 08:45 PM (10 years, 28 days ago) |
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chicksgrowtoo said: I like to bring girls into the mix, strap-ons, some bondage, roll playing and whatnot. I wouldn't be completely opposed to fucking the guy instead of him fucking me if you know what I mean
hello.
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Anonymous said: Hope it works for you. Can you give a loose age range of the guys you are “scaring” away?
right?
It's a shame more guys aren't open to assplay. ignore social conditioning, enjoy the markedly enhanced orgasm.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#19360653 - 01/02/14 08:46 PM (10 years, 28 days ago) |
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How old are you yourself? I'm 19 and wouldn't have a problem with that shit. You said getting a rimjob mixed into a blowjob? Well, I mean, to me I might do it if my girl was real clean like just showered but I gues that'd be alright to get a rimjob. Never had one. Most I tried was a finger, didn't like it too well.
I'm just saying, in mine, and many older peoples opinion, I look "12" though I'm 6'1". I think my childish looks pretty much scare away any adventurous girls and that snowballed into me being down with a lot minus, like I said, me getting fucked. That and sharing. Must be why I haven't gotten laid in a year!
Oh yeah, though I'm me, I'd admit you probably look for some older guys.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#19360658 - 01/02/14 08:48 PM (10 years, 28 days ago) |
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chicksgrowtoo said: Sooo...would it be too too kinky (guys) for a girl to lick your asshole in the middle of a bj? Or would that also be pushing it too far for most?
^^^so would this be too kinky for a "more experienced" older guy do you think?
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: memes]
#19360673 - 01/02/14 08:52 PM (10 years, 28 days ago) |
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memes said:
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Anonymous said: Hope it works for you. Can you give a loose age range of the guys you are “scaring” away?
right?
It's a shame more guys aren't open to assplay. ignore social conditioning, enjoy the markedly enhanced orgasm.
Well I think the guys in very long and dull relationship or the divorced ones are probably the most promising groups. Ethically, I presume the ones in the relationships are probably out of the picture unless they live in a sort of open relationship.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#19360675 - 01/02/14 08:53 PM (10 years, 28 days ago) |
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chicksgrowtoo said: Sooo...would it be too too kinky (guys) for a girl to lick your asshole in the middle of a bj? Or would that also be pushing it too far for most?
^^^so would this be too kinky for a "more experienced" older guy do you think?
I have no problem with that.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: Atrium]
#19360679 - 01/02/14 08:53 PM (10 years, 28 days ago) |
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I'm 25 but I've been into kinky shit for a while, I get bored easily lol
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: memes]
#19360701 - 01/02/14 09:00 PM (10 years, 28 days ago) |
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chicksgrowtoo said: I like to bring girls into the mix, strap-ons, some bondage, roll playing and whatnot. I wouldn't be completely opposed to fucking the guy instead of him fucking me if you know what I mean
hello.
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Anonymous said: Hope it works for you. Can you give a loose age range of the guys you are “scaring” away?
right?
It's a shame more guys aren't open to assplay. ignore social conditioning, enjoy the markedly enhanced orgasm.
Someone's just as freaky as I am haha...finally, I don't feel so alone now
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#19360717 - 01/02/14 09:03 PM (10 years, 28 days ago) |
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chicksgrowtoo said: Someone's just as freaky as I am haha...finally, I don't feel so alone now
If a person is open minded he/she will probably turn kinkier as time goes, some get there earlier than others.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: Anonymous #1] 2
#19361581 - 01/03/14 12:39 AM (10 years, 28 days ago) |
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you just have to pretend your innocent for a while until you decide to let them hit it... yeah. guys eat that shit up.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: lunarpiscean]
#19361699 - 01/03/14 01:16 AM (10 years, 28 days ago) |
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lunarpiscean said: you just have to pretend your innocent for a while until you decide to let them hit it... yeah. guys eat that shit up.
Wait what..
If I thought a girl was nice and innocent then started trying to put some stuff in my butt then i believe playtime to be over. Make me a sandwich and let's discuss under what terms you thought that might be a good idea.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: highc]
#19361739 - 01/03/14 01:31 AM (10 years, 28 days ago) |
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well of course you don't try that shit on the first night with anyone.... 
you gotta ease your way into kinky shit like that.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#19361758 - 01/03/14 01:37 AM (10 years, 28 days ago) |
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it's possible that you're too forward in the beginning.
honestly, i don't know what to tell you as i personally don't have much experience with men. i'm pretty kinky though; i'm in to shit most guys wouldn't be cool with, but i'm aware of this.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: Acidic_Sloth]
#19361762 - 01/03/14 01:40 AM (10 years, 28 days ago) |
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try having sex and not talking about it beforehand at all? just let it happen?
certain men tend to get creeped out by forwardness from a female they don't know that well. in some cases when a woman is forward at all 
i don't tell men my kinks right off the bat i let them figure that out for themselves.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: Acidic_Sloth]
#19361843 - 01/03/14 02:15 AM (10 years, 28 days ago) |
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Acidic_Sloth said: it's possible that you're too forward in the beginning.
honestly, i don't know what to tell you as i personally don't have much experience with men. i'm pretty kinky though; i'm in to shit most guys wouldn't be cool with, but i'm aware of this.
Hmmm, now you got me interested. I presume, we all have our little secrets that we do not share with many.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: Anonymous #1]
#19361851 - 01/03/14 02:17 AM (10 years, 28 days ago) |
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let's just say i'm an extreme sub and get off on pain.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: Acidic_Sloth]
#19361855 - 01/03/14 02:19 AM (10 years, 28 days ago) |
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do you like to be hung up by your arms and beaten?
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: lunarpiscean]
#19361860 - 01/03/14 02:20 AM (10 years, 28 days ago) |
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i'm not going to go in to specifics.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: Acidic_Sloth]
#19361868 - 01/03/14 02:23 AM (10 years, 28 days ago) |
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As long as you get what you want out of it without getting permanent damage, then I think it is normal.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: Anonymous #1]
#19361870 - 01/03/14 02:24 AM (10 years, 28 days ago) |
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it's been a while since i've been with anyone. like i said, most people aren't okay with what i'm in to, but i also don't really put myself out there, either.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: Acidic_Sloth]
#19361878 - 01/03/14 02:27 AM (10 years, 28 days ago) |
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Fully understandable.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: Anonymous #1]
#19361895 - 01/03/14 02:32 AM (10 years, 28 days ago) |
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No one has scared me yet.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#19362210 - 01/03/14 06:21 AM (10 years, 28 days ago) |
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chicksgrowtoo said: Oh and double dildo action with a girl while the guy watches, stuff like that
uhhh where do I sign up? 
In bum fucking you gotta purdy mouth Georgia hahaha
holy fuck... you have no idea how close to each other we live I live in Squeal Like A Pig Georgia
and yeah, the people in this area are just too damned vanilla
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: Prisoner#1]
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chicksgrowtoo said: Oh and double dildo action with a girl while the guy watches, stuff like that
uhhh where do I sign up? 
In bum fucking you gotta purdy mouth Georgia hahaha
holy fuck... you have no idea how close to each other we live I live in Squeal Like A Pig Georgia
and yeah, the people in this area are just too damned vanilla
YES YES YES that's the EXACT word for it! lol
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: Acidic_Sloth]
#19362548 - 01/03/14 09:23 AM (10 years, 28 days ago) |
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I change my "who would you meet on the shroomery" vote to slothie
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#19362552 - 01/03/14 09:26 AM (10 years, 28 days ago) |
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It's very easy:
We want a lady on the street but a freak in the bed.
It's not your freakyness that is the problem. It's the not so lady like upfrontness about it that is a turn off.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: GoldenEye]
#19362568 - 01/03/14 09:34 AM (10 years, 28 days ago) |
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GoldenEye said: It's very easy:
We want a lady on the street but a freak in the bed.
It's not your freakyness that is the problem. It's the not so lady like upfrontness about it that is a turn off.
I don't think I need to be lady like in a fuck buddy situation....that's kind of contradicting don't cha think? lol
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#19362598 - 01/03/14 09:44 AM (10 years, 28 days ago) |
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Appearently you do... I mean you did mention it hasn't been working out lately?
Men are a bit weird sometimes. We do want the freaky stuff but we want to feel special as well.
We basically want to have the impression that you are doing freaky things you would never even consider with another partner because you are so crazily attracted to us.
Play that game and you'll be fine.
My ex didn't swallow at first but after a while she very innocently and quickly sampled my mess with her tongue with a guilty blushy smile. After that she just went for it.
I'm sure she had swallowed before seeing how quickly she went from not at all to no worries.
But still, her act about it, trying to make me feel special was very pleasing. Probably even more so than the act of the swallowing itself.
Make us feel special!
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
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Why are there not more girls like you, where are you.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: sololas]
#19362950 - 01/03/14 11:25 AM (10 years, 27 days ago) |
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Well Chick, I guess you could always come hang out with my girlfriend and I, we totally love the kink thing
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: sololas]
#19363047 - 01/03/14 11:46 AM (10 years, 27 days ago) |
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sololas said: Why are there not more girls like you, where are you.
In Georgia where they banish you for having these sick thoughts....then they sleep with their sister
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: TheSheph]
#19363053 - 01/03/14 11:47 AM (10 years, 27 days ago) |
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Sounds fun
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#19363090 - 01/03/14 11:58 AM (10 years, 27 days ago) |
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youre a chick
you shouldnt be going years without getting laid. flaunt what you have. i put on make up maybe once a month...and still get laid!
try not being so upfront, even in a fuck buddy situation it can still be really iffy.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: lunarpiscean]
#19363121 - 01/03/14 12:07 PM (10 years, 27 days ago) |
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I just feel guilty when I'm not up front but I guess I'm going to have to spoon feed it to them for a wiggle lol or catch them up in the moment maybe
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#19363269 - 01/03/14 12:46 PM (10 years, 27 days ago) |
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Yeah, in all honesty you should be up front about it, sex and being physical is a very important part of a relationship. If you end up in a relationship where you like/love someone, but are not having those needs met, you will feel repressed. I can relate, I've been in relationships that have the repressed side, it is better without. Communication is key, everyone needs to be comfortable and communicate, if that can happen, people will find that they can be happier.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: TheSheph]
#19363291 - 01/03/14 12:52 PM (10 years, 27 days ago) |
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See?!! that's how I feel....it's like I'm not comfortable having sex with someone who's not comfortable with the things I'm into....and if I hide it I'll never be satisfied or when I reveal it and the person I'm with isn't comfortable with it I just wasted my time. Brutal honesty is just my forte lol
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#19363310 - 01/03/14 12:57 PM (10 years, 27 days ago) |
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The "in the heat of the moment" kink is a pretty awesome way to introduce things, I've learned a lot and gotten away with a lot that way. I think people can try way more than they think while in the throws of ecstatic sex, lol.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: TheSheph]
#19363319 - 01/03/14 12:59 PM (10 years, 27 days ago) |
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I am more freaky than you, but I am a mate for life kind of guy...
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#19363584 - 01/03/14 02:01 PM (10 years, 27 days ago) |
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Well Im in FL im sure we could play out some fun ones between here or there. Cabin fever might be not so bad.... You write the book and ill play my part and see where the story goes...
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#19363657 - 01/03/14 02:25 PM (10 years, 27 days ago) |
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chicksgrowtoo said: Sooo...would it be too too kinky (guys) for a girl to lick your asshole in the middle of a bj? Or would that also be pushing it too far for most?
Is this seriously a question? You know guys who have objected to that?
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: sololas]
#19363668 - 01/03/14 02:28 PM (10 years, 27 days ago) |
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I for one find forwardness in a woman to be really hot. Most guys are paranoid about "those kinds" of girls due to all the bullshit they've been fed by school and TV.
I'm forward myself and honestly, it scares the shit out of most women. Sometimes it works out though.
I'm kind of in the same boat as you, so I don't have an answer.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: lemmingp]
#19363741 - 01/03/14 02:48 PM (10 years, 27 days ago) |
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lemmingp said:
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chicksgrowtoo said: Sooo...would it be too too kinky (guys) for a girl to lick your asshole in the middle of a bj? Or would that also be pushing it too far for most?
Is this seriously a question? You know guys who have objected to that?
Yes totally serious...I've been with someone who liked it but it was an "in the moment" type of deal so I didn't know how the majority felt about that.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: TheWiz]
#19363753 - 01/03/14 02:50 PM (10 years, 27 days ago) |
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TheWiz said: I for one find forwardness in a woman to be really hot. Most guys are paranoid about "those kinds" of girls due to all the bullshit they've been fed by school and TV.
I'm forward myself and honestly, it scares the shit out of most women. Sometimes it works out though.
I'm kind of in the same boat as you, so I don't have an answer.
Damn why can't there be more people like you here?
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#19363824 - 01/03/14 03:10 PM (10 years, 27 days ago) |
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chicksgrowtoo said:
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lemmingp said:
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chicksgrowtoo said: Sooo...would it be too too kinky (guys) for a girl to lick your asshole in the middle of a bj? Or would that also be pushing it too far for most?
Is this seriously a question? You know guys who have objected to that?
Yes totally serious...I've been with someone who liked it but it was an "in the moment" type of deal so I didn't know how the majority felt about that.
Maybe it's a generation thing. People conditioned by porn to expect certain sexual behaviour?
I believe in the old Woody Allen quote - “Is sex dirty? Only when it's being done right.”
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: lemmingp]
#19363910 - 01/03/14 03:27 PM (10 years, 27 days ago) |
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Looks like you posted in the right place, no shortage of kinky people here.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: 4nik8]
#19364099 - 01/03/14 04:10 PM (10 years, 27 days ago) |
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Love your username
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#19364220 - 01/03/14 04:33 PM (10 years, 27 days ago) |
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Thank you. Hopefully I picked it seconds before someone else thought of it and totally ruined their day. Jk. You seem like a cool chick, I hope you find a guy that's freaky enough for you.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: 4nik8]
#19364262 - 01/03/14 04:42 PM (10 years, 27 days ago) |
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Awww...thank you
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#19365552 - 01/03/14 08:15 PM (10 years, 27 days ago) |
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Acidic_Sloth said: let's just say i'm an extreme sub and get off on pain.
I change my "who would you meet on the shroomery" vote to slothie
if you really knew me i doubt you'd say that.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: Acidic_Sloth]
#19365704 - 01/03/14 08:49 PM (10 years, 27 days ago) |
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Do not be so harsh to yourself. I am 100% sure that every person will click perfectly with at least a couple other individuals in this world. The tricky part is to find these individuals.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: B0b0]
#19365881 - 01/03/14 09:26 PM (10 years, 27 days ago) |
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B0b0 said: I read a bit of the first page, and it seems that you're pretty young maybe in your late teens to early 20s ...
If you would have read the second page as well, you would not have to guess.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: Acidic_Sloth]
#19365925 - 01/03/14 09:34 PM (10 years, 27 days ago) |
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Awww...don't say that, I think you're awesome
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#19365994 - 01/03/14 09:49 PM (10 years, 27 days ago) |
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sololas said: Why are there not more girls like you, where are you.
In Georgia where they banish you for having these sick thoughts....then they sleep with their sister 
they slept with my sister too
but I tagged it first. fucking losers
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: Prisoner#1]
#19366021 - 01/03/14 09:54 PM (10 years, 27 days ago) |
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sololas said: Why are there not more girls like you, where are you.
In Georgia where they banish you for having these sick thoughts....then they sleep with their sister 
they slept with my sister too
but I tagged it first. fucking losers
Fucking "theys"
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#19366253 - 01/03/14 11:00 PM (10 years, 27 days ago) |
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chicksgrowtoo said:
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chicksgrowtoo said:
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sololas said: Why are there not more girls like you, where are you.
In Georgia where they banish you for having these sick thoughts....then they sleep with their sister 
they slept with my sister too
but I tagged it first. fucking losers
Fucking "theys"
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: Prisoner#1]
#19366886 - 01/04/14 04:53 AM (10 years, 27 days ago) |
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I just wanted to say, everything you've suggested in this thread sounds outrageously hot to me. ALL OF IT.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: mushroom_sandwich]
#19367223 - 01/04/14 08:28 AM (10 years, 27 days ago) |
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Really now?
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#19367749 - 01/04/14 11:47 AM (10 years, 26 days ago) |
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Can you not just start naming the things you wouldnt do instead?
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: Icyus]
#19367767 - 01/04/14 11:50 AM (10 years, 26 days ago) |
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That's a shorter list huh? haha
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#19367779 - 01/04/14 11:53 AM (10 years, 26 days ago) |
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I might be, if you name things close to where you draw the line...
we should make a new thread, a game of sorts..
like.. I would not fuck people I do not like. Like I would not fuck children.. that also being the major of earths population.. mentally atleast..
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: Icyus]
#19367821 - 01/04/14 12:02 PM (10 years, 26 days ago) |
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Uh yeah both of those would be on my "not fuck" list
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: lemmingp]
#19369855 - 01/04/14 07:11 PM (10 years, 26 days ago) |
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I'm totally cool with all of the stuff you were talking about
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: elgatogordo]
#19369873 - 01/04/14 07:15 PM (10 years, 26 days ago) |
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ALL of it? lol you sure?
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#19369883 - 01/04/14 07:17 PM (10 years, 26 days ago) |
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chicksgrowtoo said: Really now? 
uhhhh fuck yeeaahh, being dominant all the time gets a little boring, I've always wanted to get dominated by a girl, sounds hot as FUUUUUUU but most girls are vanilla as fuck and honestly kind of boring.
fucking Texas man, where are all the cool kinky ladies at? I feel like I can't even bring up half the shit I'd like to do without them running for the hills
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: mushroom_sandwich]
#19369908 - 01/04/14 07:21 PM (10 years, 26 days ago) |
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Ok now I want to know the ages of all the guys that are into it so we can get some stats lol
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#19369935 - 01/04/14 07:25 PM (10 years, 26 days ago) |
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I'm 20, and I also like older women. 
you're my kind of gal OP.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#19369966 - 01/04/14 07:33 PM (10 years, 26 days ago) |
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all i can talk about is my perspective, but really the only concern with dirty girls is who theyve been around with before you. same as anyone, doesnt matter the gender. if you want freaky shit, best thing is a partner haha. if i can put up with a girl leaving her leg hair in the drain & farting in front of me there's not much sexually that bothers me, and i know most people are like that. really, what guy doesnt like to do shit that their parents told them not to? it's just when people tell you too much shit when youve just met them it can weird you out. get a boyfriend and turn him into a freak too, trust me. itll work haha. find someone you like & make them happy, theyll let you be as weird as you want to be.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: marsbandit]
#19370018 - 01/04/14 07:42 PM (10 years, 26 days ago) |
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I can see someone thinking that even though I really haven't been with many people.... ugh boyfriends are just so much trouble though but I do see your point
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: mushroom_sandwich]
#19370022 - 01/04/14 07:44 PM (10 years, 26 days ago) |
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mushroom_sandwich said: I'm 20, and I also like older women. 
you're my kind of gal OP.
Ding ding ding....we have a winner hahaha jk jk
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#19370028 - 01/04/14 07:46 PM (10 years, 26 days ago) |
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chicksgrowtoo said:
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mushroom_sandwich said: I'm 20, and I also like older women. 
you're my kind of gal OP.
Ding ding ding....we have a winner hahaha jk jk
what do I win?
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: mushroom_sandwich]
#19370104 - 01/04/14 08:05 PM (10 years, 26 days ago) |
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hahahaha jk jk
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: mushroom_sandwich]
#19370108 - 01/04/14 08:07 PM (10 years, 26 days ago) |
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In the minority with this nigga^^
Already said I'm 19 but I'm sure most people within a decade of my age aren't down with a lot.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: Atrium]
#19370120 - 01/04/14 08:10 PM (10 years, 26 days ago) |
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A whole decade? Well fuck
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#19370279 - 01/04/14 09:01 PM (10 years, 26 days ago) |
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23 here. I think the emphasis people in this thread are putting on age is exaggerated.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: TheWiz]
#19370313 - 01/04/14 09:12 PM (10 years, 26 days ago) |
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I think it's a mental age thing like someone here said...I mean I've seen 18 year olds that were more mature than 40 year olds, so I guess that makes sense
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#19370338 - 01/04/14 09:17 PM (10 years, 26 days ago) |
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OP you should look into becoming a professional dominatrix. Sounds like it would be your kind of kink. Not to mention the world needs more women like you.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#19370345 - 01/04/14 09:19 PM (10 years, 26 days ago) |
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Age is arbitrary, I think it has a lot to do with experience, imagination and being comfortable with yourself.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: JustinCord]
#19370413 - 01/04/14 09:37 PM (10 years, 26 days ago) |
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Professional? What kind of resume would I have to submit for that job?
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: JustinCord]
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DISAGREEMENT! DISAGREEMENT!
If your idea is more "dominant" women anywhere outside the bedroom the no bueno homie. I already walk to class and feel like I'm castrated in front of these feminist teachers and students.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: TheSheph]
#19370419 - 01/04/14 09:38 PM (10 years, 26 days ago) |
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: Atrium]
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JustinCord said: OP you should look into becoming a professional dominatrix. Sounds like it would be your kind of kink. Not to mention the world needs more women like you.
DISAGREEMENT! DISAGREEMENT!
If your idea is more "dominant" women anywhere outside the bedroom the no bueno homie. I already walk to class and feel like I'm castrated in front of these feminist teachers and students.
She hasn't said anything to suggest she's that sort of person at all.
I think he just meant the world needs more sexual deviants, which I agree with big time.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: TheWiz]
#19370486 - 01/04/14 09:58 PM (10 years, 26 days ago) |
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It's funny when you say sexual deviant. That literally means the variation from the regular standard of sex. It just made me think, what is the regular standard of sex? It makes me think back to when I was coming of age and how I viewed it, or even when I first thought of sex. Basically, what is my view of standard sex, lol. Kind of a trip to think about.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: TheSheph]
#19370507 - 01/04/14 10:05 PM (10 years, 26 days ago) |
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TheSheph said: It's funny when you say sexual deviant. That literally means the variation from the regular standard of sex. It just made me think, what is the regular standard of sex? It makes me think back to when I was coming of age and how I viewed it, or even when I first thought of sex. Basically, what is my view of standard sex, lol. Kind of a trip to think about.
I feel like I've always had the same idea of what I think sex should be like, I remember getting bored of missionary after the first time I had sex my exact thought was "is this it? this is what I've been waiting 16 years for?" thankfully my girlfriend at the time was more open to things than a lot of girls I've met.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
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chicksgrowtoo said: Ok now I want to know the ages of all the guys that are into it so we can get some stats lol
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: memes]
#19370694 - 01/04/14 11:03 PM (10 years, 26 days ago) |
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So far that makes the age rage 19-27 then
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: FruitOfLife]
#19371531 - 01/05/14 06:36 AM (10 years, 26 days ago) |
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FruitOfLife said: Can I be the creepy guy in the corner who watches?
There's 4 corners to a room. I call one.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: T-Rex]
#19371729 - 01/05/14 08:05 AM (10 years, 26 days ago) |
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FruitOfLife said: Can I be the creepy guy in the corner who watches?
There's 4 corners to a room. I call one.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
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chicksgrowtoo said: ALL of it? lol you sure?
Well everything you mentioned at least!!!! I'm 20
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#19372380 - 01/05/14 11:10 AM (10 years, 25 days ago) |
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OP, I know I couple girls you would get along great with lol! Even in the same age group. Its nothing to be ashamed of, but try coming on slower about it. Often, when a woman is so upfront about those kinds of kinks, it catches men off guard.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: blackwidow187]
#19372574 - 01/05/14 12:01 PM (10 years, 25 days ago) |
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I love girls!!! lol
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: blackwidow187]
#19372588 - 01/05/14 12:03 PM (10 years, 25 days ago) |
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blackwidow187 said: OP, I know I couple girls you would get along great with lol! Even in the same age group. Its nothing to be ashamed of, but try coming on slower about it. Often, when a woman is so upfront about those kinds of kinks, it catches men off guard.
however, it totally excites some of them
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#19372671 - 01/05/14 12:22 PM (10 years, 25 days ago) |
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A lot of guys are insecure. Find one who is secure with his sexuality and is able to explore your kinks with you. They are out there.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: mushroom_sandwich]
#19372724 - 01/05/14 12:34 PM (10 years, 25 days ago) |
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blackwidow187 said: OP, I know I couple girls you would get along great with lol! Even in the same age group. Its nothing to be ashamed of, but try coming on slower about it. Often, when a woman is so upfront about those kinds of kinks, it catches men off guard.
however, it totally excites some of them 
QFT. That's probably why I know a few girls like this.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: blackwidow187]
#19372769 - 01/05/14 12:43 PM (10 years, 25 days ago) |
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The mighty katz magic carpet ride continues..
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: sololas]
#19372804 - 01/05/14 12:49 PM (10 years, 25 days ago) |
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Where are your carpets by the way? On your wall or floor?
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: Icyus]
#19372862 - 01/05/14 01:03 PM (10 years, 25 days ago) |
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Icyus said: Where are your carpets by the way? On your wall or floor?[/quote ] Its a song that she reminds me of that was stuck in my head still is after seeing the threaf still running chicksgrow2 understands the carpet ride song....
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: sololas]
#19372873 - 01/05/14 01:06 PM (10 years, 25 days ago) |
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You still didnt answer my question...
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: sololas]
#19373217 - 01/05/14 02:16 PM (10 years, 25 days ago) |
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Icyus said: Where are your carpets by the way? On your wall or floor?[/quote ] Its a song that she reminds me of that was stuck in my head still is after seeing the threaf still running chicksgrow2 understands the carpet ride song....
Yeah but I looked up the wrong song to begin with and now I have that stupid lords of acid song in my head....I like it, hey hey hey, I like it, he's kinda kinky in a way....make it stop! make it stop! It's so stupid! please make it stop haha
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#19374024 - 01/05/14 05:39 PM (10 years, 25 days ago) |
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Yah feel you there That LOAcid one really is a torture. I had to play so reggae that didnt work then went to some Antibalas to throw off the balenced . Seemed to work no more "I like it kinky, I like it kink.... wait there it goes again... Hope you'll had a nice relax sunday...
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: sololas]
#19374459 - 01/05/14 07:31 PM (10 years, 25 days ago) |
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Hey, chicksgrowtoo, you should post some porn vids of the kinds of stuff you're talking about.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: TheWiz]
#19395090 - 01/09/14 06:15 PM (10 years, 21 days ago) |
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How do you feel about K-9?
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: cricket]
#19395568 - 01/09/14 07:40 PM (10 years, 21 days ago) |
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cricket said: How do you feel about K-9?
dogs give the BEST head.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: mushroom_sandwich]
#19398292 - 01/10/14 10:29 AM (10 years, 21 days ago) |
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"If I put peanut butter on my balls and let the dog lick it off would that be known as cheetin on my girlfriend?" one of the funniest lines I have heard....
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: sololas]
#19398421 - 01/10/14 11:08 AM (10 years, 20 days ago) |
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sololas said: "If I put peanut butter on my balls and let the dog lick it off would that be known as cheetin on my girlfriend?" one of the funniest lines I have heard....
There was a girl in highschool who put peanut butter on her pussy and had her dog lick it off. She never heard the end if it
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: FruitOfLife]
#19398518 - 01/10/14 11:31 AM (10 years, 20 days ago) |
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What if the dog didn't want to slowly lick the peanut butter and would rather eat it in one shot. And took a bite out of her va jay jay.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: T-Rex]
#19398550 - 01/10/14 11:38 AM (10 years, 20 days ago) |
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OUCH! all dogs like to eat pussy, known fact.....:crazy
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: sololas]
#19398612 - 01/10/14 11:52 AM (10 years, 20 days ago) |
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: T-Rex]
#19398630 - 01/10/14 11:55 AM (10 years, 20 days ago) |
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T-Rex said: Define "eat".
they eat the fuck out of every crotch of every underwear of every girl i've ever dated.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: FruitOfLife]
#19398675 - 01/10/14 12:03 PM (10 years, 20 days ago) |
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sololas said: "If I put peanut butter on my balls and let the dog lick it off would that be known as cheetin on my girlfriend?" one of the funniest lines I have heard....
There was a girl in highschool who put peanut butter on her pussy and had her dog lick it off. She never heard the end if it
Did we go to the same high school? They called that girl Alpo for like 4 years man haha
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: memes]
#19398691 - 01/10/14 12:06 PM (10 years, 20 days ago) |
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T-Rex said: Define "eat".
they eat the fuck out of every crotch of every underwear of every girl i've ever dated.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#19398772 - 01/10/14 12:23 PM (10 years, 20 days ago) |
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sololas said: "If I put peanut butter on my balls and let the dog lick it off would that be known as cheetin on my girlfriend?" one of the funniest lines I have heard....
There was a girl in highschool who put peanut butter on her pussy and had her dog lick it off. She never heard the end if it
Did we go to the same high school? They called that girl Alpo for like 4 years man haha
OMG YES!!!!
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: FruitOfLife]
#19398808 - 01/10/14 12:32 PM (10 years, 20 days ago) |
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This girls name was Candace...everyone just called her Alpo...or barked at her... woof woof
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#19398828 - 01/10/14 12:38 PM (10 years, 20 days ago) |
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We had one that had a thing for candles......
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: sololas]
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wtf, you both went to highschools where girls got eaten out via PB by their dogs, and you BOTH came up wtiht he nickname Alpo?
Is there something about a dog eating peanutbutter off a vagina that implies "Alpo"? IS Alpo a common term I just dont get? This seems too coincidental to be random
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: memes]
#19398864 - 01/10/14 12:44 PM (10 years, 20 days ago) |
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Alpo is a brand of dog food man and that's what the dog was eating off the girl that went to my high school, I literally JUST remembered it wasn't peanut butter....her brother walked in on her while he was on the phone with one of my friends
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: memes]
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Very odd. Maybe more people are into beastality then we think.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: T-Rex]
#19398911 - 01/10/14 12:52 PM (10 years, 20 days ago) |
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Sex education is now in session....
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: sololas]
#19399035 - 01/10/14 01:15 PM (10 years, 20 days ago) |
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#19399091 - 01/10/14 01:25 PM (10 years, 20 days ago) |
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The raping of people's endocrine systems becomes more an more evident.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: happygolucky]
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There is still difference between beastiality and zoofilia..
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: Icyus]
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
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Zoofilia, in general is sex with animals.. beatiality is forced sex with animals... like if the girl were to somehow force the dog to lick her snatch, it would be beatiality.. simply letting the dog lick her or mount her is not.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: Icyus]
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Ahhhh ok
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#19399347 - 01/10/14 02:08 PM (10 years, 20 days ago) |
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That's some real education, a female Quiche Loraine. More B-52s similies chicksgrowtoo went from strobelight to this. And their from Macon bacon,GA your ahhhhhhh area kinda. My thoughts go in circles around and around and around inside my head...
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: sololas]
#19399606 - 01/10/14 03:07 PM (10 years, 20 days ago) |
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this thread
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: Icyus]
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Icyus said: Zoofilia, in general is sex with animals.. beatiality is forced sex with animals... like if the girl were to somehow force the dog to lick her snatch, it would be beatiality.. simply letting the dog lick her or mount her is not.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: memes]
#19399782 - 01/10/14 03:48 PM (10 years, 20 days ago) |
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I would just, how do you say... eunulate you, as in eunuck, for rape.. it is realle that simple..
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: memes]
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"Boy you sure got a pretty mouth, make you quack, quack like a duck.....
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: sololas]
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i have certain fetishes that have made my dating life challenging. i gave up last spring.
i wouldn't recommend fetlife or any other kink related social/dating site. whereas i was meeting nice girls who just weren't on the same page with me on bedroom stuff on regular dating sites, my encounter with the kink community was overwhelmingly negative. there are some profoundly wounded people out there. in all fairness mileage varies i'm sure.
but now, after all this not looking, out of nowhere i'm talking to someone who's totally in tune with everything about me. so idk.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
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sololas said: "If I put peanut butter on my balls and let the dog lick it off would that be known as cheetin on my girlfriend?" one of the funniest lines I have heard....
There was a girl in highschool who put peanut butter on her pussy and had her dog lick it off. She never heard the end if it
Did we go to the same high school? They called that girl Alpo for like 4 years man haha
Rofl a girl in my high school did this too. Maybe its sort of common?
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: blackwidow187]
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I wanna know how all the other kids found out about this.
Did these girls get licked and tell? I mean, the dog isn't gonna say anything.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: Sleepwalker]
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Apparently this chick was stupid and did this while expecting friends to come over because 3 girls walked in on her while the dog was going to town
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: millzy]
#19400207 - 01/10/14 05:00 PM (10 years, 20 days ago) |
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millzy said: i have certain fetishes that have made my dating life challenging. i gave up last spring.
i wouldn't recommend fetlife or any other kink related social/dating site. whereas i was meeting nice girls who just weren't on the same page with me on bedroom stuff on regular dating sites, my encounter with the kink community was overwhelmingly negative. there are some profoundly wounded people out there. in all fairness mileage varies i'm sure.
but now, after all this not looking, out of nowhere i'm talking to someone who's totally in tune with everything about me. so idk.
so am I dude, I'm excited to say the least.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: mushroom_sandwich]
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You'd be surprised how many girlks have let themselves be eatin out by a dog or mounted. I mean, personally, I wouldn't be weirder out if this (theoretical) told me in conversation she has done that before. What would be bothersome is more action in that manner than interest in a human partner. I understand the taboo in it, it's an animal. I just don't understand why it's any more weird than liking to be dominated or something which, again to me is not weird. Averages and deviances huh? Weird shit.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#19401943 - 01/11/14 12:46 AM (10 years, 20 days ago) |
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chicksgrowtoo said: This girls name was Candace...everyone just called her Alpo...or barked at her... woof woof 
there's a girl in a town north of me, Chattsworth Ga, she was on the net with it
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: Prisoner#1]
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woah poeticirony
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Fuck. I can't unsee that shit. A new corner of the Internet I've never seen before.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: koods]
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oh you found the pictures? link me baby
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: T-Rex]
#19418577 - 01/14/14 05:49 PM (10 years, 16 days ago) |
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Exact opposite here. I scare girls away. "Can I hab your numbah"
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: Trvr]
#19419187 - 01/14/14 07:28 PM (10 years, 16 days ago) |
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Are you aware of my postings on the "kinkiest things you've ever done" thread? lol it involves 2 guys and a double sided toy haha....yeah, they tend to run away....pussies
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#19423949 - 01/15/14 05:27 PM (10 years, 15 days ago) |
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chicksgrowtoo said: Are you aware of my postings on the "kinkiest things you've ever done" thread? lol it involves 2 guys and a double sided toy haha....yeah, they tend to run away....pussies 
Is this a post just to see how many guys you can lead into the snake den, then watch'em squirm...
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: sololas]
#19423997 - 01/15/14 05:37 PM (10 years, 15 days ago) |
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No haha this post was made out of my own sexual frustration from not getting laid for an entire year. Guys will be soooooo interested in me until I tell them the kinky shit I'm into, then they don't seem too interested anymore
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#19424051 - 01/15/14 05:48 PM (10 years, 15 days ago) |
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chicksgrowtoo said: No haha this post was made out of my own sexual frustration from not getting laid for an entire year. Guys will be soooooo interested in me until I tell them the kinky shit I'm into, then they don't seem too interested anymore 
It's pretty damn weird to talk about the super kinky things you are into before you have even had sex for the first time.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#19424067 - 01/15/14 05:53 PM (10 years, 15 days ago) |
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I just think the men are scared of the strap on agenda I would fit in that category as well and I but will roll with the rest in the streight category.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: pwnasaurus]
#19424123 - 01/15/14 06:06 PM (10 years, 15 days ago) |
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chicksgrowtoo said: No haha this post was made out of my own sexual frustration from not getting laid for an entire year. Guys will be soooooo interested in me until I tell them the kinky shit I'm into, then they don't seem too interested anymore 
It's pretty damn weird to talk about the super kinky things you are into before you have even had sex for the first time.
Do I get to claim virginity after the year mark or something?
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#19424148 - 01/15/14 06:16 PM (10 years, 15 days ago) |
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pwnasaurus said: It's pretty damn weird to talk about the super kinky things you are into before you have even had sex for the first time.
Do I get to claim virginity after the year mark or something?
What? I don't understand what you're trying to say.
When I'm chilling and flirting with someone it's fun if there's a little bit of mystery and unknown. That's what flirting is all about. It's WEIRD to just start talking about pegging a guy you hardly know and have never been intimate with. It would be weird in general to just talk candidly about sex with someone you hardly know, never mind one of the most taboo kink out there.
It's similar to guy asking "can I kiss you" or "can we have sex" before you've hooked up. It kills the moment. Likewise it's a turn-off to be delving into these kinks in a normal conversation before you have been intimate. IMO it's better to just feel it out and go for it when it feels right.
I obviously can't say for sure but it sounds like you might just be a little socially awkward . Not trying to be mean, but it seems like you have some issues reading people or this wouldn't keep happening.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: pwnasaurus]
#19424386 - 01/15/14 07:17 PM (10 years, 15 days ago) |
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Haha I thought you had pegged me for a virgin. I'm not trying to have "moments" with these guys and they're not people I barely know either (they know I'm crazy)....it's also usually them that starts talking about the things that they're into and when I share what I'm into they're usually not into the same things
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#19424417 - 01/15/14 07:24 PM (10 years, 15 days ago) |
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I still think you're approaching it in entirely the wrong way.
I bet that most of the guys you talk to aren't not into the same things as you - I'm betting most of them have never even TRIED any of them. You need to ease into it. If you have sex with someone a few times you can start adding in some kinks little by little. Diving in from never having a finger in the butt while getting a blowjob to getting pegged is not a realistic step.
Secondly, you don't have to get into all of your kinks to have an enjoyable sexual experience. If you haven't been laid in a year I assure you straight-up vanilla sex would be pretty fucking awesome and is probably very attainable for you.
Put these two pieces together and you can find a partner is open-minded and willing to try some new things once they are comfortable.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: pwnasaurus]
#19424443 - 01/15/14 07:31 PM (10 years, 15 days ago) |
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I see what you're saying about the vanilla sex but vanilla sex is not going to do much for me and the bored look on my face may offend the guy
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
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Are you incapable of enjoying sex unless you are pegging a guy? If so you I think you are going to have a pretty trying sexual life. I think a lot of guys are into, or are open-minded enough to try, a lot of the things you have suggested, but just not the first time you have sex with them.
If you are willing to get comfortable with each other and work up to it then you will find many partners willing to try new things with you. I think you have extremely unrealistic expectations.
I wouldn't take a girl home from the bar and try to bang her in the ass (unless she asked for it explicitly). Likewise most guys feel the same way, probably even more so as most have little experience in that department.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: pwnasaurus]
#19424553 - 01/15/14 07:57 PM (10 years, 15 days ago) |
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no... I said I don't find vanilla sex enjoyable, also you're probably more kinky than me if you fuck random strangers from bars lol
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#19424583 - 01/15/14 08:03 PM (10 years, 15 days ago) |
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I like a gal that tells it like it is. If she wants to peg me, at least she tells me to my face. I've found that being more up front with my desires has let me experience more and I've been more satisfied. No reason to try and take any back doors, lol.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
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I never have, actually, but I'm not opposed to doing so .
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: pwnasaurus]
#19424599 - 01/15/14 08:08 PM (10 years, 15 days ago) |
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Hey, whatever fucks your chicken man if that works for you go for it
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chicksgrowtoo said: Hey, whatever fucks your chicken man if that works for you go for it
You're changing the subject; being a little too abrasive, etc. These are impatient personality traits that don't make introducing kinky sexual behavior into a relationship easy.
I'm going to try not to insult you here, but I need to tell it like I see it, because I've noticed a lot of trends through out this 2 week long thread.
First, just because you are bored with vanilla sex doesn't mean that it will offend the dude if you let them know that... but you have to try to enjoy it and be nice about that at the same time. You can't just be like, "Sorry, this isn't working." Because even if it isn't, how the fuck are you going to earn their sexual trust if you don't at least tell them in bed that their body and their sex is good enough to go a step further onto your level? You need to find something impressing about that person, even through the boring shit, and then flatter them. You need to express to them how great it would be for you if you could go further. DO NOT emphasize or even mention how much they'll have to bend just to make it work. Don't act like it's going to be work for them or make a big deal out of it.
This is how relationships work. Baby steps. Enlighten them on your ways when the time is right, and roll with the punches. Don't expect anything from that person without getting to know them a little bit better first, and then, if you are understanding enough and everything is working well, and you're got a positive attitude rather than the same old "guhhh, I'm bored" mentality, then you will see them be able to do things with you that you never thought they'd open up to. Shit, maybe you'd even be able to do stuff you've never dreamed of.

And you'll realize later that the reason why is because you got them to like you; you earned their sexual trust rather than being lazy and just hoping that you both would walk right into a sexual relationship and have all of the shit down... As if.
You have to be more patient and open minded with this stuff, IMO. Silently hoping that it will just work, or that a magical sex God who loves being dominated will just enter your life and embrace it all, will take a very long time to work. Whereas if you take my advice and work your ass off to initiate new men into your routine, they could end up loving you for it.
But like I said, it's going to take patience and hard work and not lazily sitting around for a year wishing that somebody will just make it happen for you.
Again, really sorry if this offends you, and I don't mean to make a knock on your character, it's just some shit I saw from this thread that I wanted to point out... and nobody seems to have really said it in so many words. You seem like a really cool chick and I would totally do half (maybe more) of that shit with you from your original post. I know where you're coming from, and I'm sorry the last year has been so frustrating for you.
Good luck,
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: Dense Cake]
#19425115 - 01/15/14 09:48 PM (10 years, 15 days ago) |
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Thanks...you didn't offend me at all lol
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: Dense Cake]
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Fantastic post. Basically what I said but expanded upon.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: pwnasaurus]
#19425180 - 01/15/14 10:02 PM (10 years, 15 days ago) |
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Ok, cool. Glad I didn't. Just hope that you can take something from that post. I don't want all those great guys out there to be missing out on what seems like a fantastic person, and what sounds like awesome sex. Everyone just needs a little reassurance sometimes that says "heyyyyyyy, it's all right, baby. We allllll good."
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: Dense Cake]
#19426091 - 01/16/14 02:55 AM (10 years, 15 days ago) |
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Seriously? Screw the graces , they bring only missery.
I would appreciate people being straight forward. You just need to steer away from insecure boys.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: Icyus]
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Icyus said: Seriously? Screw the graces , they bring only missery.
I would appreciate people being straight forward. You just need to steer away from insecure boys.
OP has been straight forward with plenty of guys and it isn't working. She was clear about that. My post was about an alternative solution to her problem.
My post wasn't about OP being more indirect with her intentions, it was about her finding a new way to introduce men to her ideas about sex slowly and with care. Because face it, man... these sexual attitudes of women being the dominator are not the most common mindset in the United States. Guys have a hard time getting used to that at first if it has never happened to them before, and It's not necessarily because they are insecure, but it might be because they are inexperienced and don't know how to deal with the idea at first.
Being brutal and straight forward with men or acting disappointed in their sexual competence is not the answer if OP is looking to attract men. Maybe it is for some, but for the large majority who have never been pegged, and as most people have indicated in this thread, it would take some getting used to at first and a little encouragement.
Also it's spelled misery*.
Just because somebody is opposed to something at first doesn't mean they are insecure. They just might not know what they're missing. But with luck OP can turn that sort of mentality upside down for these men.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: Dense Cake]
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Someone who would reject an other because they are too kinky clearly are either judgemental or insecure in their sexuality. It is noting wrong with not willing to join in on something, but to reject someone becuase of it, without even trying? This seems to have hit you personally.. i will leave it at that..
yes... it is quite uncommon for the majority.. would someone really even wish to communicate with the majority of people on earth, more so in the us? I citizise your definition of men that cannot handle such.. that are repulsed by honesty. That is behqvior or children.
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Icyus said: Someone who would reject an other because they are too kinky clearly are either judgemental or insecure in their sexuality.
This isn't true for obvious reasons.
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Icyus said:It is noting wrong with not willing to join in on something, but to reject someone becuase of it, without even trying? This seems to have hit you personally.. i will leave it at that..
Sorry that's the way the world works. People are quick to judge. If OP can be more seductive and thorough with her presentation, then her sexual results will improve. No, this hasn't hit me personally.
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Icyus said:yes... it is quite uncommon for the majority.. would someone really even wish to communicate with the majority of people on earth, more so in the us?
Simple statistics say that OP is going to be dealing more with the majority than the minority. It's not that she wishes to communicate with everyone, but the fact is she is going to continue to run into people that aren't ready for kinky sex, and will have to work to get some results out of them if she finds anything attractive about them.
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Icyus said:I citizise your definition of men that cannot handle such.. that are repulsed by honesty. That is behqvior or children.
Just because a guy doesn't know what to do or say when a girl expresses a desire to fuck them from behind? Seriously, that's a big deal for a lot of guys. I personally might try it, but a lot of guys would be completely opposed. It's not because they're insecure. They're just not used to that idea.
Do you even know what the definition of insecurity is? Maybe I should be using different words, because the way I see it there are a lot of really healthy men out there who love sex and are confident in sex and know how to handle themselves, but not all of them are going to be ready to get ass fucked. To me that doesn't make them insecure, because they're already secure in what they know to be good and healthy sex. But when somebody comes along with a dildo they get a little weirded out because it's not what they're used to, and that's fine. Why should we knock them because they aren't used to that and are afraid to try? Shit, I'd be skeptical. I think anybody would who has never tried it.
It's not the behavior of a child, it's the behavior of a healthy person who isn't sure they want to get involved in something they aren't familiar with. Back the fuck up and let people experiment in a positive environment with easy-to-understand concepts and you will see positive results. Criticize them for their 'insecurity' as you call it, and they will run like scared babies.
It's the simple facts of fucking life. I'm done trying to argue this with you.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: Dense Cake]
#19426615 - 01/16/14 07:43 AM (10 years, 15 days ago) |
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There's a reason you have 5 shrooms and he just recently opted out of ratings. Another great post. While his uses ad hominem attacks and blanket judgemental statements, yours present logical points and helpful suggestions.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: pwnasaurus]
#19426921 - 01/16/14 09:25 AM (10 years, 15 days ago) |
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chicksgrowtoo said: no... I said I don't find vanilla sex enjoyable, also you're probably more kinky than me if you fuck random strangers from bars lol
I never have, actually, but I'm not opposed to doing so .
This would be considered kinky??
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: Shpongle1]
#19426994 - 01/16/14 09:37 AM (10 years, 15 days ago) |
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chicksgrowtoo said: no... I said I don't find vanilla sex enjoyable, also you're probably more kinky than me if you fuck random strangers from bars lol
I never have, actually, but I'm not opposed to doing so .
This would be considered kinky??
Not even a little bit in my mind.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: Shpongle1]
#19427005 - 01/16/14 09:38 AM (10 years, 15 days ago) |
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chicksgrowtoo said: no... I said I don't find vanilla sex enjoyable, also you're probably more kinky than me if you fuck random strangers from bars lol
I never have, actually, but I'm not opposed to doing so .
This would be considered kinky??
I'm in college, and if this is kinky.... then I'm one kinky dude (I already was one anyways)
Although, I'm not sure if the same rules apply in "the real world"
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: AlwaysChildish]
#19427141 - 01/16/14 10:00 AM (10 years, 15 days ago) |
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I was just saying I don't fuck strangers from bars....which seems to be what a lot of people are thinking. That would be very taboo to me the same way my fetishes seem taboo to everyone...
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: AlwaysChildish]
#19430652 - 01/16/14 09:52 PM (10 years, 14 days ago) |
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chicksgrowtoo said:That would be very taboo to me the same way my fetishes seem taboo to everyone...
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AlwaysChildish said:I'm in college, and if this is kinky.... then I'm one kinky dude (I already was one anyways)
You all are right. Humans are humans. We all function differently and various things are gonna make our gears turn. We will inevitably spend a lot of time online trying to figure out different ways that our social lives could pass, but in the end it's all just going to hit the pavement with a smack.
Everybody has their own way of enjoying a relationship. It's quite lovely, and I love reading and learning about the diversity. I think it's cool how we all talk and get to know each other up to a point of our values and make unconscious decisions on whether we are right for each other. Even over the internet it is quite blatant how we clique and form our attractions.
I'm feeling the love. Keep up the interesting conversation.
Here's one question that can get people to continue talking about this healthily: Is it possible that any of you men opposed to being dominated could succumb to OP's interests? And OP, is it possible that you could be seduced by a really handsome guy you met out at a bar on the first night of knowing him? I mean, in the most interesting dimension of a parallel universe, could it happen?
I'll come back once more has been said.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: Dense Cake]
#19431028 - 01/16/14 11:09 PM (10 years, 14 days ago) |
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could definitely happen.
then again, i'm not a man nor am i opposed to being dominated (or dominating for that matter).
you are correct in that being open to suggestions such as what the OP is in to is something that comes with sexual trust and has nothing to do with insecurity. and let's face it, some people will just never be open to such suggestions, period--their loss. being relatively deviant myself, i can say that i would never expect someone to be down for what i'm in to the first few (or more) times of being intimate, regardless of whether it's a purely sexual relationship or something more. then again, i'm in to some strange stuff that may or may not be healthy. it is what it is. personally, i'm not worried about it. granted, i haven't been intimate in any way with someone in a very long time so it's possible i have no idea what i'm talking about.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: Acidic_Sloth]
#19431306 - 01/17/14 12:04 AM (10 years, 14 days ago) |
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seems more detrimental to deny what gets you off than to just let it be. as long as no ones getting hurt (unless they want to ) who gives a fuck anyways 
10 pages i couldnt read, but theres nothing wrong with having a dry spell OP. I dont know if ill ever have another dry spell cause im probably gonna marry the girl im with now. but if i did, i would fucking celebrate. not cause sex isnt awesome but being out of the game shit that is a lot of extra time to have to onesself.
you could learn to play the flute
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: ManianFH]
#19482991 - 01/27/14 07:14 PM (10 years, 3 days ago) |
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You let me fist pump your asshole while I piss on you Ill let you wear a stap on.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#19483144 - 01/27/14 07:38 PM (10 years, 3 days ago) |
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chicksgrowtoo said: I like to bring girls into the mix, strap-ons, some bondage, roll playing and whatnot. I wouldn't be completely opposed to fucking the guy instead of him fucking me if you know what I mean
I know some people who would definitely be into this. Try hanging around some LARP nerds and i think you'll find what you're looking for
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: JacksonMetaller]
#19483812 - 01/27/14 09:50 PM (10 years, 3 days ago) |
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From what I've gathered the guys your talking about are more or less really good guy friends, whom you've happened to ask if they are keen for some non-committal fun? Then possibly they are thinking straight up sex and your thinking rimjobs and dildos? And if that's the case I think you need to find more open minded friends, I know myself I prefer being friends with girls and if they want to have some fun without commitment (not dating just good friends with benefits) then that's a bonus. The funny thing is girls are more open to kinky things than guys for some reason, but then again I also think woman are more sexually aware then guys.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: newageshaman]
#19485333 - 01/28/14 09:19 AM (10 years, 3 days ago) |
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The funny thing is girls are more open to kinky things than guys for some reason
That's a bold statement.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: Shpongle1]
#19486745 - 01/28/14 03:27 PM (10 years, 2 days ago) |
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The funny thing is girls are more open to kinky things than guys for some reason
That's a bold statement.
in my experience its true however. I'm friends with quite a few women and one of their main complaints about their boyfriends is that they don't want to try the kinky shit that the girl is into.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: psyconaught]
#19486926 - 01/28/14 03:57 PM (10 years, 2 days ago) |
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"Nothing Shocking..... sex is violent, sex is violent . Its not shocking"
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: Shpongle1]
#19486942 - 01/28/14 04:00 PM (10 years, 2 days ago) |
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The funny thing is girls are more open to kinky things than guys for some reason
That's a bold statement.
it may be bold, but from personal experience it seems to hold true. In all honesty i know bugger all males into anything "kinky", me on the other hand make some of my friends a bit wary when i tell them i've let myself been tied up and beaten. so... 
each to there own in my opinion.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#19509382 - 02/02/14 04:49 AM (9 years, 11 months ago) |
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MRFs act like they never HEARD what you said and it has to be explained to them. Thoroughly.
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