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GreySatyr
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It wasn't the bad trip, it was you.
You acted like scum. 
Although him hiding it from you was lame but still, the way you acted, I wouldn't be your friend neither, man. Sounds crazy as fuck.
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MightyMustache
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Re: A bad trip ended my friendship. [Re: GreySatyr]
#19357644 - 01/02/14 09:14 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Yep. Poor preparation (who the hell goes on a psychedelic trip with someone they envy), poor setting and whipping your dick out? wtf.
Another prime example of how psychedelics get a bad rep. Idiots.
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wolf8312
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Quote:
MightyMustache said: Yep. Poor preparation (who the hell goes on a psychedelic trip with someone they envy), poor setting and whipping your dick out? wtf.
Another prime example of how psychedelics get a bad rep. Idiots.
Oh please! Spare us the phoney moral indignation! This sort of thing could never happen to you right?
Stop hating on the dude simply in the hope that you can galvanize some popularity around yourself simply for stating the easy and obvious, knowing full well that there's a shit ton of like minded individuals out there all just waiting to jump aboard the bandwagon with you! He quite obviously knows he fucked up! What is done is done, cannot be undone, and now laudably he simply want's to make amends! Guy's got balls for even daring to apologize if you ask me!
His post is a prime example of how every poor sucker out there who has ever majorly fucked up on psychedelics came to understand in the very first instance the danger of such substances! At this point he's well ahead of the majority of people out there still believing that these things are all completely harmless fine and dandy! Nobody ever learned to respect psychedelic drugs simply because that was what everybody was saying you should do on the shroomery! They learned respect the hard way through brutal painful experiences and fuck ups just like his!
Shouldn't go out with people I envy? Who in God's name would honestly realize how efficient these things are at burrowing so deeply into the subconscious, beforehand?
For the vast majority of people all this prepare before you trip is bullshit sheep mentality and lip-service! It is the experience he has had in itself that will actually award him with some honest to god genuine respect for for psychedelics!
If I was to take a wild guess I'd say the OP's biggest mistake was that he no doubt smoked some cannabis!
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Aopocetx
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Re: A bad trip ended my friendship. [Re: wolf8312]
#19358023 - 01/02/14 11:35 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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OP that sucks. What details did you leave out though? They're probably pretty funny.
I'm just wondering. Were you really thinking about your ex when you took the stuff or it just brought those thoughts into your head?
Can you not control what you say on nbome? I mean I thought I was God before on acid but I still didn't tell it to people (I wanted to though I'm sure).
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psilocybinjunkie
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Re: A bad trip ended my friendship. [Re: Aopocetx]
#19358068 - 01/02/14 11:53 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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OP sounds like he's 12, I regretted clicking this thread last night. Hitting someones mother, flipping out in their home, having your dad come get you??? Certainly does not sound like an adult, bad trips happen, but this sounds like the behavior of a child to me. You should quit getting high until your older and have developed enough maturity to handle yourself, I feel bad for the negative experience you put your friend and his family through.
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MightyMustache
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Re: A bad trip ended my friendship. [Re: wolf8312]
#19358079 - 01/02/14 11:56 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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wolf8312 said:
Oh please! Spare us the phoney moral indignation! This sort of thing could never happen to you right?
Probaby not no. Because i actually think about what im going to do instead of just ingesting some RC with a person i have deep-rooted issues with.
Stop hating on the dude simply in the hope that you can galvanize some popularity around yourself simply for stating the easy and obvious, knowing full well that there's a shit ton of like minded individuals out there all just waiting to jump aboard the bandwagon with you!
Is this a messageboard about psychedelic drugs or a popularity contest?
He quite obviously knows he fucked up! What is done is done, cannot be undone, and now laudably he simply want's to make amends! Guy's got balls for even daring to apologize if you ask me!
His post is a prime example of how every poor sucker out there who has ever majorly fucked up on psychedelics came to understand in the very first instance the danger of such substances!
And that is where our opinions differ, i'd rather have someone read up and ask himself "mmm, should i trip with the guy i hate deep down because he's fucking my ex gf?" then just go ahead and end up breaking stuff and exposing their genitals.
At this point he's well ahead of the majority of people out there still believing that these things are all completely harmless fine and dandy! Nobody ever learned to respect psychedelic drugs simply because that was what everybody was saying you should do on the shroomery! They learned respect the hard way through brutal painful experiences and fuck ups just like his!
Shouldn't go out with people I envy? Who in God's name would honestly realize how efficient these things are at burrowing so deeply into the subconscious, beforehand?
For the vast majority of people all this prepare before you trip is bullshit sheep mentality and lip-service! It is the experience he has had in itself that will actually award him with some honest to god genuine respect for for psychedelics!
Yeah, ingesting a drug and then punching someone's mother, breaking a remote in half and whipping your dick out is something totally normal and acceptable. And a valuable experience at that
Edited by MightyMustache (01/02/14 11:57 AM)
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wolf8312
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Psychotic experience no doubt! He was asking for help in apologizing to his friend, and asking how he should maybe go about it!
When I was seventeen I too had a similar (though I didnt get me knob out) experience! Don't judge who he is, simply on account of what he did when he was psychotic! It's very unfair to suggest he is crazy simply because he did crazy things once psychotic!
Let's just say I can relate!
-------------------- "I'm every nightmare you ever had. I am your worst dreams come true. I am everything you ever were afraid of." Pennywise the dancing clown
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lot_justice
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Re: A bad trip ended my friendship. [Re: wolf8312]
#19358249 - 01/02/14 12:30 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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It seems to me that if your good friend started dating the immediate ex you still had feelings for, you were in the clear to whip your dick out in front of his mom as well as leave him remote-less for one evening. You administered some lot justice my friend. Bravo
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lot_justice
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Re: A bad trip ended my friendship. [Re: lot_justice]
#19358261 - 01/02/14 12:33 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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No apologies. If things aren't square he doesn't desire to be an equal friend, he just wants to have you around in a position lower than him
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Shortknight



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Re: A bad trip ended my friendship. [Re: wolf8312]
#19358263 - 01/02/14 12:33 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Yeah, no matter what OP did, hes showing steps of moving forward and atleast trying to fix/make better what he did. Every experience can be looked at and can teach us something, no matter what is was. Why not this ridicules fucked up one?
lol Goodluck!
Shorty
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Smeagol
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Re: A bad trip ended my friendship. [Re: Shortknight]
#19358346 - 01/02/14 12:49 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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I would apologize to the Mom. She didnt do anytbing. Faq dat "friend". While you were trying to salvage a friendship he was porking your ex and more than likely talking about you. Sharing some pass around hoe or 1 night stand is one thing. Even just banging an ex is another. Dating a friends ex . . . Ive faught over that to make sure the friendship was over.
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lot_justice
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Re: A bad trip ended my friendship. [Re: Smeagol] 1
#19358746 - 01/02/14 02:06 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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You should send the mom flowers. Maybe incorporate some humor. On the card you could have the company put "I'm Jesus, bitch."
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aw11driver



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Re: A bad trip ended my friendship. [Re: lot_justice]
#19358889 - 01/02/14 02:40 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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If you were trying to bang your friends mom you did it wrong...
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lot_justice
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Re: A bad trip ended my friendship. [Re: aw11driver]
#19359036 - 01/02/14 03:08 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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We need a banging moms tek on this site
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Legend
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Re: A bad trip ended my friendship. [Re: lot_justice]
#19359049 - 01/02/14 03:11 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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MILF's demystified
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Bubbles85

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Re: A bad trip ended my friendship. [Re: Legend]
#19359179 - 01/02/14 03:36 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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As stupid as this thread has gotten, I've got to agree.
What is so special about this person that you feel after he has been a shit friend and tapped your ex that you have to try and salvage some kind of relationship with him?
Its a recipe for disaster if ever i saw one.
There's 7 billion people on the planet bro, don't worry your self with what one muppet's doing. Be the bigger man, move on and get some new friends.
Chances are she'll do the same to him anyway, then he'll realize where his loyalties should have lay.
Edited by Bubbles85 (01/02/14 03:37 PM)
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Me_Roy
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Re: A bad trip ended my friendship. [Re: Bubbles85]
#19359260 - 01/02/14 03:54 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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You've already apologized (at least) once. Give the folks some space. The situation is embarrassing for them too.
With that in mind I'd say no flowers. Just picture the mom having to roll her eyes every time someone asks her what they were for.
Just to be clear, I'm not in the camp that thinks the drug revealed that you're a shitty person or that you exercised poor judgement while on the drug. Clearly you had no judgement. Clearly you didn't know how hard you hit your friend's mom. What came out (aside from your dick) wasn't necessarily the real you. That said, some damage has clearly been done.
But there's no need to beat yourself up about it. You were in over your head. Learn from your experience and try to benefit the world enough to offset the discomfort you caused your friend and his mom.
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