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Anonymous #1

was she cheating? *DELETED*
    #19357897 - 01/02/14 10:56 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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Anonymous #2

Re: was she cheating? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #19358121 - 01/02/14 12:04 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Could text her ex and say "So <your gf's name> told me yal have been hanging out" and see what he says. This could come back on you, if they really aren't hanging out, and he tells her. But short of just blind trust, there's not much more you can really do at this point.

Only thing I could think to do that doesn't involve straight up confronting her or stalking her, both of which I don't really recommend.


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Anonymous #1

Re: was she cheating? [Re: Anonymous #2]
    #19358272 - 01/02/14 12:35 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Yeah Idk if I want to do that. I feel like if she actually did cheat she would deny them hanging out then message him right after. She would message him either way so I feel like it's a lose lose situation.should I just ask why she was googling stds? Should I ask if she cheated on me then tell her why I might think that? Cause I'm going to her house probably in a couple hours and I want to at least say something. It also socks cause my new years resolution was to quit cigarettes. Bought a pack last night and have been chain smoking. I've never felt so much in security and anxiety/stress in a long time :/ felt I was just going up and up hill till last night.


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Anonymous #1

Re: was she cheating? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #19358288 - 01/02/14 12:38 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Feel like the universe is just fu cking with me


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Anonymous #3

Re: was she cheating? [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
    #19358944 - 01/02/14 02:53 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Why would you want to be with a girl you can't trust.  Liars are liars man, if she's already lied about screwing the guy, who's to say she wouldn't again.  I'd find a girl that you don't gotta worry about, this stressin out over girls is a young man's game.


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Anonymous #4

Re: was she cheating? [Re: Anonymous #3] * 1
    #19359697 - 01/02/14 05:12 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Yeah you both sound kinda crazy, not to be rude.

Dump her do your own thing go to school, work, eat breakfast and just do yo own thang. You're young, kid. Do you want your dick to fall off?


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Anonymous #5

Re: was she cheating? [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #19362936 - 01/03/14 11:21 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Look man, half the women around a lyres. Don't let it bother you; it's their way of caring for your feelings.
If you dump her for lying then you're just setting your future self up for a world of disappointment.
Don't tell her you looked through her messages. Only insecure people do that. You're going to have to work on that by the way.
Start talking to other women, not through text, but in person, and openly. Act like it's no big deal, they're ordinary friends, and while being in a relationship that's all they should be.


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Anonymous #6

Re: was she cheating? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #19364845 - 01/03/14 06:14 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

:popcorn:


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Anonymous #7

Re: was she cheating? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #19365593 - 01/03/14 08:24 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Damn this is a difficult situation. You could trust her and possibly let her get away with the cheating, or you could choose not to trust her and accuse her of something. If you do the latter, all trust is gone immediately whether she did something or not. I did this with an ex who I later found out never did cheat on me, but it just killed the relationship


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Anonymous #8

Re: was she cheating? [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
    #19365642 - 01/03/14 08:35 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Here's what you do:

Hang out with her, act as if all is cool.

When she least expects it, look her square in the eyes and ask if she has ever cheated on you. This is important, because it might not be him that she's worried about getting the STD from.

You will see everything you need to know in her eyes, for about 2 seconds before she gains conscious composure and responds verbally.

An innocent person will have upset or angry eyes, in that case explain to her that you saw the STD thing on her phone and yadda yadda yadda.

A guilty person will have sorrowful or shocked eyes. In that case, walk the fuck out and don't talk to her again. Break up via text. Don't trust anything that she tells you.


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Anonymous #9

Re: was she cheating? [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
    #19365670 - 01/03/14 08:42 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

You want some real advice? Don't beat around the bush. Don't play games and have her guess what's wrong. Don't draw it out. Lay out your cards and be a man about it. You have reasonable suspicion. Don't do anything drastic. Don't stalk her don't ask around and text him.

Here's where she fucked up. Why would she google that std thing? If she was your first, she wouldn't have to worry about kind of stuff because you would be clean. The only reason for her to be looking up information like that AT ALL would be because she is double dippin'.

Just talk to her. Why hasn't anyone given this advice in the first place????

JUST TALK TO HER!!! What's the worst that could happen? You find out? You already know dude. Don't drag it on and bet all your sheckles on the one pony you know is going to lose. You'll end up hurting yourself more in the long run.


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Anonymous #5

Re: was she cheating? [Re: Anonymous #9]
    #19366133 - 01/03/14 10:23 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #9 said:
Here's where she fucked up. Why would she google that std thing? If she was your first, she wouldn't have to worry about kind of stuff because you would be clean. The only reason for her to be looking up information like that AT ALL would be because she is double dippin'




This isn't really true. People get confused easily with all the information out there, some of it contradicting.
I for example have predominant ectopic sebaceous glands on my penis due to acne when i was teen.
Back then i was a virgin, i had no idea what the fuck they were. I was very self conscious and concerned about having sex because i thought i'd somehow contracted herpes from a public toilet seat or something.
Thank fuck i was seeing a dermatologist at the time about my acne, and had the guts to ask him about my cock. It was so awkward, getting out my penis for a man, and a person i didn't know.
It was a big relief though when he told me what i had was normal.

Point is, people easily get confused when they don't know what their facing. A girl with thrush for the first time could easily think she'd caught something some how.
I'm not saying the girl hasn't cheated, i'm just saying that we are only hearing the story from the Op's point of view, and that there could be unknown details that give the girl perfectly good reason.
As wyatt woodsmall once said.
'we all only see life through our own lenses'.


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Anonymous #10

Re: was she cheating? [Re: Anonymous #5] * 2
    #19366258 - 01/03/14 11:01 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

You dated a girl for 3 years and had sex 2 times???  :lolwut:

Dump this bitch and find a girl that will fuck, this one is a waste of time.


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Anonymous #9

Re: was she cheating? [Re: Anonymous #5]
    #19366394 - 01/03/14 11:40 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #5 said:
Quote:

Anonymous #9 said:
Here's where she fucked up. Why would she google that std thing? If she was your first, she wouldn't have to worry about kind of stuff because you would be clean. The only reason for her to be looking up information like that AT ALL would be because she is double dippin'




This isn't really true. People get confused easily with all the information out there, some of it contradicting.
I for example have predominant ectopic sebaceous glands on my penis due to acne when i was teen.
Back then i was a virgin, i had no idea what the fuck they were. I was very self conscious and concerned about having sex because i thought i'd somehow contracted herpes from a public toilet seat or something.
Thank fuck i was seeing a dermatologist at the time about my acne, and had the guts to ask him about my cock. It was so awkward, getting out my penis for a man, and a person i didn't know.
It was a big relief though when he told me what i had was normal.

Point is, people easily get confused when they don't know what their facing. A girl with thrush for the first time could easily think she'd caught something some how.
I'm not saying the girl hasn't cheated, i'm just saying that we are only hearing the story from the Op's point of view, and that there could be unknown details that give the girl perfectly good reason.
As wyatt woodsmall once said.
'we all only see life through our own lenses'.




You're right. Certain things from OPs story really stuck out and I sort of just jumped to conclusion. It happens though especially when I'm going off a few paragraphs:shrug: I had the same thing going on with those sebaceous glands as well as a few penile papules. Freaked me out as a teenager. Reading over parts of it again, she does seem very inexperienced and possibly misinformed.

Either way, I think you should talk to her. Talking is the best solution.


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Anonymous #11

Re: was she cheating? [Re: Anonymous #10]
    #19368786 - 01/04/14 03:17 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #10 said:
You dated a girl for 3 years and had sex 2 times???  :lolwut:

Dump this bitch and find a girl that will fuck, this one is a waste of time.




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Anonymous #12

Re: was she cheating? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #19368831 - 01/04/14 03:29 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Quote:

Anonymous #1 said:
i told her -i saw you added your ex on facebook. id rather you not talk to him too often but i'm ok with you adding him.





attempting to control who someone else talks to is a dick move. you may have a cheating girlfriend, but she also has a paranoid, controlling boyfriend. neither of those is any bueno.


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Anonymous #13

Re: was she cheating? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #19369194 - 01/04/14 04:50 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

I'm just going to only read the title, and tell you that its 91% percent chance you're seeing it what it is but your fragile heart doesn't want to believe it, in hopes that a story with clear (not to the readers, but you know what I'm talking about) hints that she possibly wasn't cheating will be picked up by stupid people with lack of experience on this topic/people who want to tell you what you want to hear.

9% chance actual paranoia from insecurities and fear of losing her.


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Anonymous #5

Re: was she cheating? [Re: Anonymous #13] * 1
    #19369325 - 01/04/14 05:18 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

85% of people will believe anything told to them as long as it's put in the form of a statistic.


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Anonymous #13

Re: was she cheating? [Re: Anonymous #5]
    #19369359 - 01/04/14 05:28 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

95% of the people I this forum have mental issues mainly consisting of social disorders, also a large number of posters are lacking in knowledge on the social net (not Facebook) where they are not connected to what people they would call "normal" causing them to have off the wall thoughts that are unrealistic, some of these people will have a high self awareness, and know this, which in my book makes them not strange, but a perso with strange characteristics. Its the people who are way out there as don't realize it I don't like very much.


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Anonymous #5

Re: was she cheating? [Re: Anonymous #13]
    #19369457 - 01/04/14 05:49 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

What the fuck is 'the social net'?


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