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Starskii
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A bad trip ended my friendship.
#19355347 - 01/01/14 04:31 PM (10 years, 29 days ago) |
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It all started with a girl named Anna, she dumped me and I was destroyed afterwords. My best friend Seth, was my only vent. I vented with him about it a lot, but then something horrible happened that isn't cool. He started dating her and hid it from me. That's fucked. But after a few months I decided it wasn't worth losing a friend over. (keep in mind she dumped me about 7-8 months before they started dating.)
So, after having a fairly successful time repairing our friendship and my feelings for this girl were pretty much gone (it has been a year) we decided to trip together. Unfortunately all I could get my hands on was nBOME and that was my first time on an RC. I didn't like it.
I had a horrible trip, it started out good and his mom came home and she is awesome and was totally cool with it. She probably won't be anymore. I don't know why, but I started talking about politics (I'm a bit of a fanatic) and she told me "Jake, you could be President one day" this would come back later as a very negative comment.
I don't know why, I love his mom but I jokingly punched her in the arm and I guess it was kinda hard because she got upset with me and told me to sit down and calm down. I sat down but at this point for some reason I was set off, I started thinking about Anna and started talking about fucking her in the ass or something horrid. I told Seth he had an acne problem and it escalated and escalated until I broke a remote in half, whipped out my dick for no apparent reason. His mom yelled at me around this time "Jake CALM THE FUCK DOWN!" and I started hyper ventilating. I tried ripping off my nipple screamed "THIS ISN'T REAL" and that escalated into "I AM GOD!" and soon I was talking about how much I missed Anna, odd.
This ended with her calling my dad to come pick me up. He got their in time to see me sitting on the couch with my shirt ripped off, talking about being God. Yeah. I'm a fucktard.
I apologized profusely and bought her a new remote the next day when I came to pick up my car. I have apologized over and over again since, but that killed my friendship.
Any tips on how I can possibly re-open communication? He was my best friend, for 5 years and I really don't wanna lose them, but it seems I already have. I guess I still have a little bit of feelings for this girl which was a dangerous mix with psychedelics. :/
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tripologist
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Re: A bad trip ended my friendship. [Re: Starskii] 4
#19355358 - 01/01/14 04:34 PM (10 years, 29 days ago) |
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You're fucked, you better leave them alone.
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Re: A bad trip ended my friendship. [Re: Starskii]
#19355376 - 01/01/14 04:38 PM (10 years, 29 days ago) |
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All you can do is apologize. Be honest and real with your friend and go on with life. And for god sakes take more responsibility when you trip. You shouldn't be talking to someone's mother. You should be just chilling out listening to music or something.
You also shouldn't be tripping with a dude you are jealous over, friend or not. This is so obviously going to go wrong dude, you should have seen it coming.
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tripologist
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Re: A bad trip ended my friendship. [Re: LysergicX7]
#19355389 - 01/01/14 04:41 PM (10 years, 29 days ago) |
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Also don't take nBome or any research chemicals, those things are fucked up. Just stick to shrooms or LSD because they are powerful enough.
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Re: A bad trip ended my friendship. [Re: tripologist]
#19355427 - 01/01/14 04:49 PM (10 years, 29 days ago) |
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good story and good job whipping with the dick
Now find new friends for the next story
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Re: A bad trip ended my friendship. [Re: rikuni]
#19355497 - 01/01/14 05:07 PM (10 years, 29 days ago) |
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Is this real? I'm sorry if it is. But I wish I could have recorded it
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Re: A bad trip ended my friendship. [Re: Periscope]
#19355520 - 01/01/14 05:14 PM (10 years, 29 days ago) |
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i have a feeling he left out details
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Re: A bad trip ended my friendship. [Re: Deathcore]
#19355620 - 01/01/14 05:46 PM (10 years, 29 days ago) |
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Yeah ummm honestly I don't think anythings going to mend that relationship with your friend except for time... But at least you have a great story to tell your kids!
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Re: A bad trip ended my friendship. [Re: Deathcore] 1
#19355664 - 01/01/14 05:56 PM (10 years, 29 days ago) |
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This is too funny, I'm sorry I'm sure it was a horrible experience for you, but I don't think there's much of a chance of salvaging that friendship. You may be able to laugh about it later, but you crossed just about every boundary of respect there is and your lucky you didn't get your ass beat or worse.
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Re: A bad trip ended my friendship. [Re: Starskii] 1
#19355682 - 01/01/14 06:00 PM (10 years, 29 days ago) |
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Maybe im missing something, but there's a possibility the combination of nbome, and your set/setting resulted in a psychotic break.
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Starskii
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Re: A bad trip ended my friendship. [Re: Legend]
#19355715 - 01/01/14 06:08 PM (10 years, 29 days ago) |
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Yeah I actually told him the day before I wasn't up for a trip but he insisted. His mom was cool with us tripping though. The only reason I did it was because I thought it would have been more of a bonding type of experience and it turned out to be the opposite. It was a absolutely horrible experience and at some point in the trip I forgot it was real, I kinda just told myself that it would be okay like I would wake up from a dream and it wouldn't have actually happened. But it did.
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Re: A bad trip ended my friendship. [Re: Starskii]
#19355748 - 01/01/14 06:16 PM (10 years, 29 days ago) |
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hahahahaha sounds like my first real trip...my acid trip..not nbome...
i was like..whew..all a dream...nope...real life...trips come in waves...
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Starskii
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Re: A bad trip ended my friendship. [Re: Deathcore]
#19355757 - 01/01/14 06:19 PM (10 years, 29 days ago) |
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Yeah you gotta be careful with that mentality. You can temporarily lose your fucking mind and end up looking like the king of dumbasses xD
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urthtown
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Re: A bad trip ended my friendship. [Re: Starskii]
#19355825 - 01/01/14 06:37 PM (10 years, 29 days ago) |
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Quote:
Starskii said: Yeah I actually told him the day before I wasn't up for a trip but he insisted. His mom was cool with us tripping though. The only reason I did it was because I thought it would have been more of a bonding type of experience and it turned out to be the opposite.
MDMA is what you were after...
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Starskii
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Re: A bad trip ended my friendship. [Re: urthtown]
#19355836 - 01/01/14 06:41 PM (10 years, 29 days ago) |
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I can actually get that, I'll keep that in mind if there is ever a next time.
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Jesus Christ
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Re: A bad trip ended my friendship. [Re: Starskii]
#19355871 - 01/01/14 06:51 PM (10 years, 29 days ago) |
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the whole ego-inflation i am god and overall chaotic madness seems to be a common thing with nbome's
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Re: A bad trip ended my friendship. [Re: Starskii]
#19355999 - 01/01/14 07:38 PM (10 years, 29 days ago) |
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You should of put on gangnam style and started screaming its psy its the psy Anna poo
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Re: A bad trip ended my friendship. [Re: Starskii]
#19356338 - 01/01/14 09:45 PM (10 years, 29 days ago) |
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Quote:
Legend said: Maybe im missing something, but there's a possibility the combination of nbome, and your set/setting resulted in a psychotic break.
Those were my thoughts too, OP.
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Starskii
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Yeah, I was a little bit anxious of my set and setting. I am usually quite careful with that, but I really valued this friendship and he really wanted to trip with me so I convinced myself it would be okay. My mistake :/
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Re: A bad trip ended my friendship. [Re: Starskii]
#19356384 - 01/01/14 10:04 PM (10 years, 29 days ago) |
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I think your best shot at repairing your friendship is a heartfelt apology to your friend and his mother.
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GreySatyr
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It wasn't the bad trip, it was you.
You acted like scum. 
Although him hiding it from you was lame but still, the way you acted, I wouldn't be your friend neither, man. Sounds crazy as fuck.
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Re: A bad trip ended my friendship. [Re: GreySatyr]
#19357644 - 01/02/14 09:14 AM (10 years, 29 days ago) |
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Yep. Poor preparation (who the hell goes on a psychedelic trip with someone they envy), poor setting and whipping your dick out? wtf.
Another prime example of how psychedelics get a bad rep. Idiots.
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wolf8312
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Quote:
MightyMustache said: Yep. Poor preparation (who the hell goes on a psychedelic trip with someone they envy), poor setting and whipping your dick out? wtf.
Another prime example of how psychedelics get a bad rep. Idiots.
Oh please! Spare us the phoney moral indignation! This sort of thing could never happen to you right?
Stop hating on the dude simply in the hope that you can galvanize some popularity around yourself simply for stating the easy and obvious, knowing full well that there's a shit ton of like minded individuals out there all just waiting to jump aboard the bandwagon with you! He quite obviously knows he fucked up! What is done is done, cannot be undone, and now laudably he simply want's to make amends! Guy's got balls for even daring to apologize if you ask me!
His post is a prime example of how every poor sucker out there who has ever majorly fucked up on psychedelics came to understand in the very first instance the danger of such substances! At this point he's well ahead of the majority of people out there still believing that these things are all completely harmless fine and dandy! Nobody ever learned to respect psychedelic drugs simply because that was what everybody was saying you should do on the shroomery! They learned respect the hard way through brutal painful experiences and fuck ups just like his!
Shouldn't go out with people I envy? Who in God's name would honestly realize how efficient these things are at burrowing so deeply into the subconscious, beforehand?
For the vast majority of people all this prepare before you trip is bullshit sheep mentality and lip-service! It is the experience he has had in itself that will actually award him with some honest to god genuine respect for for psychedelics!
If I was to take a wild guess I'd say the OP's biggest mistake was that he no doubt smoked some cannabis!
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Re: A bad trip ended my friendship. [Re: wolf8312]
#19358023 - 01/02/14 11:35 AM (10 years, 29 days ago) |
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OP that sucks. What details did you leave out though? They're probably pretty funny.
I'm just wondering. Were you really thinking about your ex when you took the stuff or it just brought those thoughts into your head?
Can you not control what you say on nbome? I mean I thought I was God before on acid but I still didn't tell it to people (I wanted to though I'm sure).
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Re: A bad trip ended my friendship. [Re: Aopocetx]
#19358068 - 01/02/14 11:53 AM (10 years, 29 days ago) |
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OP sounds like he's 12, I regretted clicking this thread last night. Hitting someones mother, flipping out in their home, having your dad come get you??? Certainly does not sound like an adult, bad trips happen, but this sounds like the behavior of a child to me. You should quit getting high until your older and have developed enough maturity to handle yourself, I feel bad for the negative experience you put your friend and his family through.
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Re: A bad trip ended my friendship. [Re: wolf8312]
#19358079 - 01/02/14 11:56 AM (10 years, 29 days ago) |
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Quote:
wolf8312 said:
Oh please! Spare us the phoney moral indignation! This sort of thing could never happen to you right?
Probaby not no. Because i actually think about what im going to do instead of just ingesting some RC with a person i have deep-rooted issues with.
Stop hating on the dude simply in the hope that you can galvanize some popularity around yourself simply for stating the easy and obvious, knowing full well that there's a shit ton of like minded individuals out there all just waiting to jump aboard the bandwagon with you!
Is this a messageboard about psychedelic drugs or a popularity contest?
He quite obviously knows he fucked up! What is done is done, cannot be undone, and now laudably he simply want's to make amends! Guy's got balls for even daring to apologize if you ask me!
His post is a prime example of how every poor sucker out there who has ever majorly fucked up on psychedelics came to understand in the very first instance the danger of such substances!
And that is where our opinions differ, i'd rather have someone read up and ask himself "mmm, should i trip with the guy i hate deep down because he's fucking my ex gf?" then just go ahead and end up breaking stuff and exposing their genitals.
At this point he's well ahead of the majority of people out there still believing that these things are all completely harmless fine and dandy! Nobody ever learned to respect psychedelic drugs simply because that was what everybody was saying you should do on the shroomery! They learned respect the hard way through brutal painful experiences and fuck ups just like his!
Shouldn't go out with people I envy? Who in God's name would honestly realize how efficient these things are at burrowing so deeply into the subconscious, beforehand?
For the vast majority of people all this prepare before you trip is bullshit sheep mentality and lip-service! It is the experience he has had in itself that will actually award him with some honest to god genuine respect for for psychedelics!
Yeah, ingesting a drug and then punching someone's mother, breaking a remote in half and whipping your dick out is something totally normal and acceptable. And a valuable experience at that
Edited by MightyMustache (01/02/14 11:57 AM)
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wolf8312
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Psychotic experience no doubt! He was asking for help in apologizing to his friend, and asking how he should maybe go about it!
When I was seventeen I too had a similar (though I didnt get me knob out) experience! Don't judge who he is, simply on account of what he did when he was psychotic! It's very unfair to suggest he is crazy simply because he did crazy things once psychotic!
Let's just say I can relate!
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lot_justice
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Re: A bad trip ended my friendship. [Re: wolf8312]
#19358249 - 01/02/14 12:30 PM (10 years, 28 days ago) |
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It seems to me that if your good friend started dating the immediate ex you still had feelings for, you were in the clear to whip your dick out in front of his mom as well as leave him remote-less for one evening. You administered some lot justice my friend. Bravo
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Re: A bad trip ended my friendship. [Re: lot_justice]
#19358261 - 01/02/14 12:33 PM (10 years, 28 days ago) |
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No apologies. If things aren't square he doesn't desire to be an equal friend, he just wants to have you around in a position lower than him
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Re: A bad trip ended my friendship. [Re: wolf8312]
#19358263 - 01/02/14 12:33 PM (10 years, 28 days ago) |
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Yeah, no matter what OP did, hes showing steps of moving forward and atleast trying to fix/make better what he did. Every experience can be looked at and can teach us something, no matter what is was. Why not this ridicules fucked up one?
lol Goodluck!
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Re: A bad trip ended my friendship. [Re: Shortknight]
#19358346 - 01/02/14 12:49 PM (10 years, 28 days ago) |
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I would apologize to the Mom. She didnt do anytbing. Faq dat "friend". While you were trying to salvage a friendship he was porking your ex and more than likely talking about you. Sharing some pass around hoe or 1 night stand is one thing. Even just banging an ex is another. Dating a friends ex . . . Ive faught over that to make sure the friendship was over.
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lot_justice
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Re: A bad trip ended my friendship. [Re: Smeagol] 1
#19358746 - 01/02/14 02:06 PM (10 years, 28 days ago) |
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You should send the mom flowers. Maybe incorporate some humor. On the card you could have the company put "I'm Jesus, bitch."
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Re: A bad trip ended my friendship. [Re: lot_justice]
#19358889 - 01/02/14 02:40 PM (10 years, 28 days ago) |
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If you were trying to bang your friends mom you did it wrong...
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lot_justice
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Re: A bad trip ended my friendship. [Re: aw11driver]
#19359036 - 01/02/14 03:08 PM (10 years, 28 days ago) |
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We need a banging moms tek on this site
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Re: A bad trip ended my friendship. [Re: lot_justice]
#19359049 - 01/02/14 03:11 PM (10 years, 28 days ago) |
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MILF's demystified
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Re: A bad trip ended my friendship. [Re: Legend]
#19359179 - 01/02/14 03:36 PM (10 years, 28 days ago) |
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As stupid as this thread has gotten, I've got to agree.
What is so special about this person that you feel after he has been a shit friend and tapped your ex that you have to try and salvage some kind of relationship with him?
Its a recipe for disaster if ever i saw one.
There's 7 billion people on the planet bro, don't worry your self with what one muppet's doing. Be the bigger man, move on and get some new friends.
Chances are she'll do the same to him anyway, then he'll realize where his loyalties should have lay.
Edited by Bubbles85 (01/02/14 03:37 PM)
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Re: A bad trip ended my friendship. [Re: Bubbles85]
#19359260 - 01/02/14 03:54 PM (10 years, 28 days ago) |
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You've already apologized (at least) once. Give the folks some space. The situation is embarrassing for them too.
With that in mind I'd say no flowers. Just picture the mom having to roll her eyes every time someone asks her what they were for.
Just to be clear, I'm not in the camp that thinks the drug revealed that you're a shitty person or that you exercised poor judgement while on the drug. Clearly you had no judgement. Clearly you didn't know how hard you hit your friend's mom. What came out (aside from your dick) wasn't necessarily the real you. That said, some damage has clearly been done.
But there's no need to beat yourself up about it. You were in over your head. Learn from your experience and try to benefit the world enough to offset the discomfort you caused your friend and his mom.
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