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tripp23
Kratom Freak



Registered: 05/21/08
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#19353319 - 01/01/14 12:15 AM (10 years, 30 days ago) |
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I'm lost. I've made a post on here, over the summer about a chick that worked at my work that I wanted to try and ask out. She quit or something and I've never seen her since of course.. with my luck.. Thing is.. that was the first time in so so long that I was actually attracted fully to a girl. In which.. I look for decent looks and a good personality. It's so difficult these days because everyone around my area is a bunch of raging alcoholics.
My story.. I've had my fair share of girl friends and.. well.. friends. Recently, I've basically gotten out of the group of friends that I was in because they were all alcoholics and all they do is drink and hit up bars. Don't get me wrong, it's cool every once in a while but I can't do it every night like them anymore. Ever since I left them, I've been searching for a new group of friends, more soberish i guess. Im the kind of guy that enjoys working out, playing sports (not watching), music, etc. All around, im just an active person pretty much.. Just longing to live a "normal/american" life.
Thing is, i dont know where to look anymore. The gym is just littered with egotistical air heads that ruin all the chances of ever talking to a girl in there because they all pounce as soon as they see one so that's over killed. Other than that, I don't know.
Even if I should meet a girl in the gym.. How. What do I say even that doesnt reflect of what some juice head just said to her. It sucks because they all kill the chances for the good people.
Man im just tired of trying.. And im tired of failed relationships. but most of all, im tired of sitting home alone every day and working. It'd be so cool/nice to find a lady friend that enjoys the same things i do.
any input? cuz im lost.
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gulper2323
Unknown Landscape Climber



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You could try contacting that girl you worked with over Facebook (you know with some crap like "hey I was just thinking about you the other day...").
Like the worst that could happen is she rejects your offer to hang out, but it's not like you run into her much anyway so who cares if she does reject you?
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sukhavati12
Level 50 Mushroom Shaman



Registered: 07/03/13
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You could also try talking to girls at the gym. Seems like you're just giving up on that.
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claraclairvoyant
well oiled machine



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sukhavati12 said: You could also try talking to girls at the gym. Seems like you're just giving up on that.
you could but maybe try stores and libraries instead. as a girl, i do not like being approached by a guy at the gym. that's me time!
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XUL
OTD Janitor



Registered: 03/16/05
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I can't tell you what is right for you, but here is something.
I was dead set on women for a while. I even got engaged at one point. What a mistake to force it.
Now I am living free and studying, playing violin, getting fit, and making money.
Also, my dad was remarried a 3rd time at age 60.
Don't hype up love and women. Kick it for a while, maybe?
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You'll find friends through the music. To to all the shows.
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