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tyrannicalrex
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EX's
#19351195 - 12/31/13 01:33 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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So there was a guy I dated for 2 years (did not live together) and the last few months of it were just not good. I was trying to get him to break up but he insisted he still wanted to date/see me. He got mad at me for seeing someone one week when I told him about it beforehand. He agreed to date me and I let him know I wanted to be in an open relationship type thing for now. Just got out of a 14 year LTR and met him one month after I broke up.
He doesn't call me or get back to me after several messages are sent (voicemail and text). The weekend of the 4th of July is coming and I make plans without him. He shows up at my apartment thinking I was supposed to be at work. He gets mad at me for going out of town.
I tell him if he would have called me we could have made plans and so on. He continues to be angry and he starts to leave. I say "I'll call you when I get back" he just looks back at me and says very angrily "WHAT FOR!"
I get back and try to contact him at least 5 times by text, voicemail, and even email! No answer for a couple of weeks. I try 2 more emails because I lost my phone with his number. Nothing! This man claimed to "love me" and wanted to be with me etc...
Why no answer back?
So I see him on Xmas night after a few drinks and I am a little loaded. He completely ignores me as I walk by him! I decide not to talk to him and walk on by. I lock eyes with him at the other end of the bar, or he is just looking there, I don't know! I finish my drink and leave. I write him an email to see if he wants to talk again. Nothing!
What a fucking jerk! Thanks for reading!
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koods
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I dunno. If you look at it from his point of view, you were kind of a player. I would probably react the same way if it was a month later. I don't hold grudges very long though, and after six months, I would would feel pretty guiltily to give someone the cold shoulder.
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XUL
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Re: EX's [Re: koods]
#19352389 - 12/31/13 07:14 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Life is a bitch sometimes, eh?
Hang in there.
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Bassfreak
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Re: EX's [Re: XUL]
#19357904 - 01/02/14 10:59 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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no guy wants to share his girl with anyone, so obviously the whole you wanting to fuck other guys thing was a serious turn off
he decided u werent worth it. he probly did love you, but you sayin open relationship was probly a deal breaker
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claraclairvoyant
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sorry! i fear the day i run into my ex! i avoid the part of town he spends most of his time in, pathetic.
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Bassfreak
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ehhh nobody wants to see an ex. its just too weird/awkward
i remember my friends went to a concert and i didnt go and they mentioned they saw my ex. made me so fucking happy i didnt go
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tyrannicalrex
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Quote:
Bassfreak said: no guy wants to share his girl with anyone, so obviously the whole you wanting to fuck other guys thing was a serious turn off
he decided u werent worth it. he probly did love you, but you sayin open relationship was probly a deal breaker
He agreed to it for a full year or so and then he started saying he wanted to have the monogamy etc... he even started saying "we talked about doing something on such and such day but you were probably high." and also "what are you high?" "what has it ever done for you?' etc... after agreeing that it was OK. Oh well, next! Still fucking sucks that he was that shitty about it.
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