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RavageTheEarth



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Re: girl that was like a sister to me, i just found out she overdosed and died [Re: VivaLaMushie]
#19351548 - 12/31/13 03:23 PM (10 years, 30 days ago) |
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I'm so sorry for your loss. I've been there way too many times. Just let yourself mourn. Too many people die on that shit. I'm sick of it :-(
At least she won't have to suffer being strangled by the chains of addiction anymore. Some people just can't be saved.
Whatever you do, don't play the "I could have done somthing to stop it" and the"but if I did this it might of not happened" game.
My condolences.
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Re: girl that was like a sister to me, i just found out she overdosed and died [Re: VivaLaMushie]
#19351731 - 12/31/13 04:12 PM (10 years, 30 days ago) |
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Sorry for your loss.
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Re: girl that was like a sister to me, i just found out she overdosed and died [Re: Dark_Star]
#19351752 - 12/31/13 04:18 PM (10 years, 30 days ago) |
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heroin's like that people always go off the deep end on that stuff you got to have like a ambulance or someone to drive right there in the room with them.
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Re: girl that was like a sister to me, i just found out she overdosed and died [Re: E_Z]
#19351797 - 12/31/13 04:31 PM (10 years, 30 days ago) |
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So so sorry Viva, let her soul finally rest in peace. Recently my step-brother shot himself in the head twice, he was 24. There are no good answers to why such precious life has to be struck down before their time in a tragic way. All you can do is keep her alive through your memory.
I know you would liked to have done something different but the truth is in addiction cases especially, all you can do is try and have some sort of intervention( which you did) And cut ties( which you did). Can't ask what if
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Re: girl that was like a sister to me, i just found out she overdosed and died [Re: Seriously_trippin]
#19352084 - 12/31/13 05:50 PM (10 years, 30 days ago) |
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What ifs only lead to more confusion and anger. It will consume you if you let it.
I say to remember them and not how they died bec with drugs and alcohol. First people blame the substance, then themselves or the people that said person was with. Its a never ending cycle of remorse, depression and anger.
Just let it go there is nothing that anyone but herself could've done. I didn't wanna give up my habit till it almost killed me multiple times. Even then I didn't voluntarily quit.
Remember that bright amazing person she used to be and not that distorted image of herself that is inevitable with addiction. That's the best thing you can do now.
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zappaisgod
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Re: girl that was like a sister to me, i just found out she overdosed and died [Re: VivaLaMushie]
#19352152 - 12/31/13 06:06 PM (10 years, 30 days ago) |
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VivaLaMushie said: I'm feeling guilty. Her and I stopped talking on good terms I told her I couldn't be friends w her if she was going to keep killing herself, I wonder if I had stuck around if maybe my tough love could have helped at all. Idk. Her mom even told me "you always had a way of making her listen" but I gave up on her and now I regret that so much
You have exactly zero culpability. If you had a way to make her listen she wouldn't have been a junkie at all.
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morrowasted
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Re: girl that was like a sister to me, i just found out she overdosed and died [Re: zappaisgod]
#19352188 - 12/31/13 06:18 PM (10 years, 30 days ago) |
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Quote:
zappaisgod said:
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VivaLaMushie said: I'm feeling guilty. Her and I stopped talking on good terms I told her I couldn't be friends w her if she was going to keep killing herself, I wonder if I had stuck around if maybe my tough love could have helped at all. Idk. Her mom even told me "you always had a way of making her listen" but I gave up on her and now I regret that so much
You have exactly zero culpability. If you had a way to make her listen she wouldn't have been a junkie at all.
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Patlal
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Re: girl that was like a sister to me, i just found out she overdosed and died [Re: morrowasted]
#19352470 - 12/31/13 07:38 PM (10 years, 30 days ago) |
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These fucking overdose threads...
A. I'm sorry for your loss Viva...
B. I'm pissed off at heroin more and more every day
C. I can't help but think that it was entirely their own fault for doing heroin in the first place
I'm 110% for some drugs and 200% against the bad ones.
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Re: girl that was like a sister to me, i just found out she overdosed and died [Re: VivaLaMushie]
#19352561 - 12/31/13 08:00 PM (10 years, 30 days ago) |
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My condolences Viva.
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