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ThatKidWithTheFace
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How to last longer?
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Help me out here, guys!
Regardless of how often I fuck, I never can seem to last long. Like, at all.
I've tried everything! From busting a nut before I meet up with the bitch, to rubbing cocaine on my dick! Nothing works!
Any advice?
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[quote]Sheekle said: [quote]ThatKidWithTheFace said: Is this the same aunt that fucks dogs?[/quote] u bet ur ass it is.[/quote]
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Acidic_Sloth
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instead of rubbing cocaine on your dick, why not put it up your nose next time?
i can't really give advice, as i don't have a penis, but some guys just can't last long. best bet is to learn how to be able to go again within a short period of time, odds are you'll last longer in round two.
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ThatKidWithTheFace
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Acidic_Sloth said: instead of rubbing cocaine on your dick, why not put it up your nose next time?
If I have enough to waste on my dick, my nose has obviously been taken care of. I have priorities, man!
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[quote]Sheekle said: [quote]ThatKidWithTheFace said: Is this the same aunt that fucks dogs?[/quote] u bet ur ass it is.[/quote]
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Acidic_Sloth
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seriously, what's the purpose of putting it on your dick, though? a cheaper solution with the same effects would to just be to buy some lidocaine.
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ThatKidWithTheFace
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It's not something I've done regularly, just something I tried.
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[quote]Sheekle said: [quote]ThatKidWithTheFace said: Is this the same aunt that fucks dogs?[/quote] u bet ur ass it is.[/quote]
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Acidic_Sloth
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just learn to be able to go multiple times. that's almost guaranteed to make any girl/guy happy.
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evileye001
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Acidic_Sloth said: just learn to be able to go multiple times. that's almost guaranteed to make any girl/guy happy.

im pretty happy with my ability to last but once in a while i may blow way to soon if im really worked up or somthing. its not like you have rapid fire or anything. if im to quick and she dosent get hers, at first im exhausted, breathing heavy not wanting to move like any other orgasm. just dont panic, lay there a few seconds like normal, when it gets to when your soft and would normally clean up, start to kiss her, rub her, finger, low energy for play. just keep her horny. there not like us, as long as you keep them warm they can keep going for a long time. 15 min of fondling you will be ready for round 2! even if you feel like you can barley move after the first explosion.
rev her engine and take off, if its to quick just keep her idling till your ready to punch the gas again!
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oh and for training. get close and stop, get close and stop, get close and stop exc... with her and when your by yourself. if your with her just make sure to stimulate her other ways. make it seem like your changing it up and what not.
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Gorlax



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Depends on the extent your talking about. What length do you want to reach? 15min should be ideal unless its like a slow jam night or some shit.
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Amphibolos
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When my GF grabs my balls firmly (but without injuring me), it helps me to last longer.
I dont know if you tried it. The problem is that some positions doesnt permit it, so you cant always count on that.
Otherwise, you can do what evileye said, practice to go near the climax and stop multiple times
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Black_Sunset
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What works for me is just going again. Finger her and play with her g-spot then go again after she is worked back up
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happygolucky
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Get yourself some oxycontin or roxydocones. You won't be able to bust.
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happygolucky
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And you need to strengthen your pc muscle.
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pwnasaurus
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Kegels. Read this forum, there are tons of regimens you can follow to help improve your stamina: http://www.pegym.com/forums/premature-ejaculation-forum/
Once you are strong enough you can have multiple orgasms by clenching your PC muscles at the right time.
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Personally, I'd recommend trying for a deep approach, plenty of clitoral rubbing and minimal amount of forward n back. It's enough for some girls to cum whilst giving me full control over ejaculation.
My current gf gets multiple orgasms and all i do is long swaying strokes for a bit, get really hard maybe even close to cumming, ram it home and continue the rhythm but apply pressure instead of strokes. Get the angle right to hit her spot and you'll be stimulating both.
Works everytime for me, made her cum 5 times the first time we had sex. It's only got better since.
Every girl is different though. If the fact is you can only last a few minutes, it's not necessarily a problem, just means you need to warm her up properly and make her cum hard in that time. Sometimes the best sex is the intense quickie. It's quality over quantity, find out what makes her tick.
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Once my girl gets her birthcontrol squared away i am gonna buy a cockring. 
Keep trying different things until you find sonething that works.
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Black_Sunset
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Anonymous said: Personally, I'd recommend trying for a deep approach, plenty of clitoral rubbing and minimal amount of forward n back. It's enough for some girls to cum whilst giving me full control over ejaculation.
My current gf gets multiple orgasms and all i do is long swaying strokes for a bit, get really hard maybe even close to cumming, ram it home and continue the rhythm but apply pressure instead of strokes. Get the angle right to hit her spot and you'll be stimulating both.
Works everytime for me, made her cum 5 times the first time we had sex. It's only got better since.
Every girl is different though. If the fact is you can only last a few minutes, it's not necessarily a problem, just means you need to warm her up properly and make her cum hard in that time. Sometimes the best sex is the intense quickie. It's quality over quantity, find out what makes her tick.
Can you give more description to your technique?
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Icyus
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Let her suck you till you are almost about to cum and you get a finger in your ass pushing straight at your prostate..mit will stop the cum and you will go on.. keep doin this each time you feel like loosing control..
Mentally, you could try moving the energy from your genitals up to your heart... it will not be as pleasurable right then and there, but you will last longer...
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With my current gf we got talking and playing out before going to sex so i had an idea of what makes her cum. Her preference is towards clitoral stimulation, loves a general pressure n grinding but too sensitive to go poking with fingers. She also enjoys a g spot orgasm but slightly harder to achieve. Oddly she doesn't like oral and has only came once by hand so doesn't bother with that. Took a lot of effort to achieve it, much easier ways 
Everyone's different but for us:
Take notice of what she likes. For the clitoral pressure, from missionary just go as normal then move in deeper and get very close. You should pretty much be aiming to rub pubic bones to get the stimulation going. From the right position you should be able to make shorter, faster up and down motions that won't feel very sensitive to you, but you should be right on her clit with your pubic bone region and angled nicely to the g spot. It's important to maintain a nice solid erection, it'll get bigger and harder the closer you are to coming, get used to that range and make use of it. Long swaying strokes to get you both going, then in with the pressure to finish her off.
Repeat until she's had a few orgasms.
From then you are free to do as you please. Hammer away, try other postions, blow your wad and everyone's happy.
If you feel you lack control over when your going to blurt, i.e once you feel it, it's happening regardless. Try to learn your range by masturbating for a longer period. I don't mean wack off more often, but if you do, take your time, when you get close slow down. Keep yourself teetering for as long as you can and learn your own limits. Then during sex you can change position when you feeling it coming on. Swap to a deep missionary which should be less sensitive for you but do the job for her.
Obviously everyone is different though. Shallow strokes might be what finishes some guys.
Another tip is to think about something else. Don't zone out and ruin it for her but try to focus your mind on something else.
Also don't be nervous. Psychology can play a major part. With sex/ masturbation being a somewhat taboo topic at home all of your wanks to date have been rushed jobs in ur room or on the family pc. Your body and mind has been conditioned to think it's a dirty secret, hence get it over and done with so you don't get caught.
If your sneaking some in whilst the parents/ roomates are out then mentally your preparing for a quick exit. If unavoidable in these situtations that you'll cum quick, say beforehand 'X is out, fancy a quickie?' Quick intense sessions can be just as satisfying, and talking and planning the sex will get her warmed up nicely.
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Black_Sunset
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pwnasaurus said: Kegels. Read this forum, there are tons of regimens you can follow to help improve your stamina: http://www.pegym.com/forums/premature-ejaculation-forum/
Once you are strong enough you can have multiple orgasms by clenching your PC muscles at the right time.
http://www.pegym.com/forums/premature-ejaculation-forum/28535-byggds-guide-controlling-your-ejaculation-response.html
I checked this out and I'm glad I did. There is a thread for people with premature ejaculation problems on how to increase duration before finishing. I dont have this problem but I do want to last longer in bed so I applied his main tactics. I don't really masturbate because I have my gf and I don't need to cum on days when we don't have sex, so I haven't been doing his masturbation exercises...only doing this when we have sex, which has been twice since I read this.
Basically, be consciously aware of your arousal level and rate it on a scale of 1-10. 7 is hard and very aroused, 8-9 is approaching orgasm. You want to keep yourself at about a 7 at all times..I've been staying about 5-7 with my lady.
Mentally you want to remain aware of your level and when it starts to get out of your control you need to slow it down. Basically don't just pump away. I have been going a lot slower and applied something I do when going down on my lady which is a different scale I made myself. I never eat my lady out going more than 80% strength/speed because if I go balls out chances are my tongue gets tired before she cums. Keep it at 80% when I'm trying to push her over the edge and we're golden.
In addition to the awareness level and the speed/strength I make sure I'm breathing deep breaths whenever I can. Keep that body/mind calm.
OH! and another thing he mentioned that worked for me is changing your thoughts away from "don't cum yet...dammit you're getting close...." just negative thoughts about cumming. You want to be thinking "hell yeah I'm going to last last long as I want this time. I'm in control and I'm deciding when I'm finishing."
read more in his post I highly recommend it. Since I began implementing his tricks we have (after foreplay) sex with me in her for about 45-1hr or so. I mean 45-1hr of actual penetration. We lose tracks and most sessions last 3-4 hours. Both times I was in complete control the entire time and it was amazing sex. When you're in control it gives you plenty of time for g-spot and kama sutra positions.
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