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Fapping, porn, and erectile dysfunction.
#19346410 - 12/30/13 01:54 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Now I have only had sex with one girl. It took me quite a while to get hard and was quite embarassing. Obviously I was nervous but Im wondering if fapping and porn had anything to do with it. I didnt fap for 4 days beforehand but I had viewed many erotic medias
Im wondering if fapping and porn have a correlation with ED? And if so, should i no longer fap? Should I no longer view any sort of pic or vid thats makes me horny?
any advice?
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Re: Fapping, porn, and erectile dysfunction. [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#19346499 - 12/30/13 02:12 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Your first time didn't go perfectly? How unusual...
I wouldn't worry about it, most likely nerves.
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Re: Fapping, porn, and erectile dysfunction. [Re: Guy1980]
#19347133 - 12/30/13 04:30 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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is this legit? should i quit viewing anything that makes me horny once and for all?
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Re: Fapping, porn, and erectile dysfunction. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#19347690 - 12/30/13 06:09 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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If fapping and porn had anything to do with it, 100% of men would have erectile dysfunction
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Re: Fapping, porn, and erectile dysfunction. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#19348641 - 12/30/13 09:11 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Anonymous said: I didnt fap for 4 days beforehand but I had viewed many erotic medias
Dude does this mean that you watched porn for 4 days without jacking off? That comes off pretty fuckin creepy and I think it may point to serious deep-seated psychological issues... Fuckin weird
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Re: Fapping, porn, and erectile dysfunction. [Re: Big_Dave]
#19349343 - 12/31/13 12:11 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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It's either something in your head or you are taking substances that interfere with that. Are you on opiate maintenance or taking anti depressants or anything like that?
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Re: Fapping, porn, and erectile dysfunction. [Re: ilus]
#19350825 - 12/31/13 11:38 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Big_Dave said:
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Anonymous said: I didnt fap for 4 days beforehand but I had viewed many erotic medias
Dude does this mean that you watched porn for 4 days without jacking off? That comes off pretty fuckin creepy and I think it may point to serious deep-seated psychological issues... Fuckin weird
I just checked a few porn site occaisonally but I didn't fap to them
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illustrain said: It's either something in your head or you are taking substances that interfere with that. Are you on opiate maintenance or taking anti depressants or anything like that?
only medication im on is propranolol for anxiety. I dont take it everyday though.
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Re: Fapping, porn, and erectile dysfunction. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#19351062 - 12/31/13 12:53 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Look a lot of people on here seem to not think it's possible. People also don't understand I "trip" harder on a few hits of weed than mushrooms. It's all up to individual body chemistry and such. Try going a substantial period of time without either and see if it helps. If not, then you just ruled out one more thing but the worst that'll happen is your boners will start ripping through your pants like you were 14 again.
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Re: Fapping, porn, and erectile dysfunction. [Re: Atrium]
#19351191 - 12/31/13 01:32 PM (10 years, 30 days ago) |
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Well for what it's worth: I got laid for the first time pretty late in life. Of course, until that finally happened, I had been jacking off for years, watching porn and not watching porn. When I finally got together with a girl, it went BAD. In fact, it didn't went at all! It was just a one-night thing, but I sure didn't perform as I hoped I would.
Next time with another girl was also bad. We were a couple for a short time but never even once was I able to get hard enough to penetrate her. We did other things but after I while I figured I really wasn't into her and I moved on.
Then it got a little better with the next few girls I met, but it was far from perfect. I was getting worried until I met this one girl who was amazing. I loved her a lot and we were together for a while and the sex was great. Of course, while I was with her, I wasn't fapping or watching porn either. I certainly do see a correlation in my personal case. I think porn is detrimental to an extent because you become dependant on it and it eventually makes regular sex feel awkward if you're not careful. Especially if you are a virgin and have been relying on it up until you found a woman to have sex with. Might different for some people, but in my case, I think it had a negative impact.
What I'm saying is, don't worry too much about it but if you can, stay away from porn. If you have to jerk it, do it using your imagination or simply get turned on by the mere fact that you are receiving direct stimulation ( even if you are the one providing it ) In the long run, you'll meet a lovely woman who will turn you on like nothing else in this world and you'll see what I mean.
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Edited by solstice (12/31/13 01:33 PM)
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Re: Fapping, porn, and erectile dysfunction. [Re: Guy1980]
#19352399 - 12/31/13 07:16 PM (10 years, 30 days ago) |
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Guy1980 said: Your first time didn't go perfectly? How unusual...
I wouldn't worry about it, most likely nerves.
Indeed.
Maybe porn has something to do with it but you might also consider gender roles during sex.
Men are typically expected to preform while women are typically the pleasure receivers, or at least take a lesser role. Typically.
This makes a lot of men nervous about it. Performance anxiety. Look into Master's and Johnson's sexual therapy. They have some neat ideas. Try sensate touching.
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Re: Fapping, porn, and erectile dysfunction. [Re: XUL] 1
#19353267 - 12/31/13 11:56 PM (10 years, 30 days ago) |
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Sensate touching... That's for fucking long term relationships. This dude needs to work on self, not building some trust and love between some wet hole.
I'm telling you dude, abstinence of our favorite activities makes the excitement, plateau and resolution all the more rewarding. In terms shroomery will understand, tripping all the time takes away the fun. Abstain for a bit, then try again.
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Re: Fapping, porn, and erectile dysfunction. [Re: Atrium]
#19353617 - 01/01/14 03:17 AM (10 years, 30 days ago) |
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Jamesdnh said: Sensate touching... That's for fucking long term relationships. This dude needs to work on self, not building some trust and love between some wet hole.
I'm telling you dude, abstinence of our favorite activities makes the excitement, plateau and resolution all the more rewarding. In terms shroomery will understand, tripping all the time takes away the fun. Abstain for a bit, then try again.
heh.
You may be right. But I feel it's still important to consider the expectations put on men in the bedroom. Try having the girl be the initiator. Girl on top, or girl at your side.
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Re: Fapping, porn, and erectile dysfunction. [Re: XUL]
#19354255 - 01/01/14 10:45 AM (10 years, 30 days ago) |
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XUL said:
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Jamesdnh said: Sensate touching... That's for fucking long term relationships. This dude needs to work on self, not building some trust and love between some wet hole.
I'm telling you dude, abstinence of our favorite activities makes the excitement, plateau and resolution all the more rewarding. In terms shroomery will understand, tripping all the time takes away the fun. Abstain for a bit, then try again.
heh.
You may be right. But I feel it's still important to consider the expectations put on men in the bedroom. Try having the girl be the initiator. Girl on top, or girl at your side.
You are correct and I also agree with you. I want to apologize for a harsh response but it seems so many people on this website do not believe ANY correlation exists between porn and ED. I believe, just like saying there is not one single death from marijuana, that's horseshit. Someone, somewhere, could have possibly been allergic shutting off their windpipes somewhat akin to peanuts but we ignore that idea because it doesn't coincide with our misconceptions or personal agenda.
There is much subjective experiences documented online of individuals being unable to maintain/achieve erection after long bouts with pornogrophy, especially of a demented nature.
I want to lay down the possibility to OP that it very much can be this, as much as low T or being obese but I feel if he believes this may be a cause, attempt a 3-6 month hiatus of pornography, erotica, and masturbation and see what advantages will come of it. At worst, he will have just challenged himself to give up a commodity in the name of will power and that can only be a good thing.
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Re: Fapping, porn, and erectile dysfunction. [Re: Atrium]
#19358494 - 01/02/14 01:17 PM (10 years, 28 days ago) |
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so i should stop watching porn and stop fapping?
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