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Re: Friends with benefits a good thing [Re: Icyus]
#19355131 - 01/01/14 03:33 PM (10 years, 29 days ago) |
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Icyus said: ...You, I believe to incorrect too..
If your love cheats on you, and you respond by killing the accomploce.. that is not love, but as a deffence of territory... meaning the love was like the love for an object... not true love..
That makes sense.So my love for her isn't true?I've often questioned that myself a lot.I think you guys are helping me figure all this out without even knowing it.
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Re: Friends with benefits a good thing [Re: IISkuNkII]
#19355623 - 01/01/14 05:46 PM (10 years, 29 days ago) |
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It is what it is... you may care deeply for someone though you do not love them.. it is a feeling, i would say.. not being in love, but true love.. the fact that nothing else in your life matters.. that you would give up your life, your soul (the principle) or let your live be eternal torture so the person would be happy.. in your eyes atleast..
True love is quite a rare thing.. almost all those preaching about it havent a clue what it is... it is very rare.. what most people, if you excuse my generalizing, refer to as love is simply affection... this being said by me who has never shared it with anyone and probably never will, but i believe it to be so.. not that this is a comforting to my ego, but that I have expereanced this, which I atleast beloeve to be love.. and the pain of it too.. yin yang and all that ..
Be abliss then.
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Re: Friends with benefits a good thing [Re: Icyus]
#19355691 - 01/01/14 06:02 PM (10 years, 29 days ago) |
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Icyus said: It is what it is... you may care deeply for someone though you do not love them.. it is a feeling, i would say.. not being in love, but true love.. the fact that nothing else in your life matters.. that you would give up your life, your soul (the principle) or let your live be eternal torture so the person would be happy.. in your eyes atleast..
True love is quite a rare thing.. almost all those preaching about it havent a clue what it is... it is very rare.. what most people, if you excuse my generalizing, refer to as love is simply affection... this being said by me who has never shared it with anyone and probably never will, but i believe it to be so.. not that this is a comforting to my ego, but that I have expereanced this, which I atleast beloeve to be love.. and the pain of it too.. yin yang and all that ..
Be abliss then.
I don't know what I'd call it for certain.I feel that I'm not in love with her anymore.I still care deeply for her and would do anything I could to help her out.I guess that means I'm not result in love anymore.Sometimes I feel that I'm just falling back into familarity.
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Re: Friends with benefits a good thing [Re: IISkuNkII]
#19355783 - 01/01/14 06:25 PM (10 years, 29 days ago) |
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IISkuNkII said:
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Icyus said: It is what it is... you may care deeply for someone though you do not love them.. it is a feeling, i would say.. not being in love, but true love.. the fact that nothing else in your life matters.. that you would give up your life, your soul (the principle) or let your live be eternal torture so the person would be happy.. in your eyes atleast..
True love is quite a rare thing.. almost all those preaching about it havent a clue what it is... it is very rare.. what most people, if you excuse my generalizing, refer to as love is simply affection... this being said by me who has never shared it with anyone and probably never will, but i believe it to be so.. not that this is a comforting to my ego, but that I have expereanced this, which I atleast beloeve to be love.. and the pain of it too.. yin yang and all that ..
Be abliss then.
I don't know what I'd call it for certain.I feel that I'm not in love with her anymore.I still care deeply for her and would do anything I could to help her out.I guess that means I'm not result in love anymore.Sometimes I feel that I'm just falling back into familarity.
sounds like you were experiencing lust
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IISkuNkII said:
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Icyus said: It is what it is... you may care deeply for someone though you do not love them.. it is a feeling, i would say.. not being in love, but true love.. the fact that nothing else in your life matters.. that you would give up your life, your soul (the principle) or let your live be eternal torture so the person would be happy.. in your eyes atleast..
True love is quite a rare thing.. almost all those preaching about it havent a clue what it is... it is very rare.. what most people, if you excuse my generalizing, refer to as love is simply affection... this being said by me who has never shared it with anyone and probably never will, but i believe it to be so.. not that this is a comforting to my ego, but that I have expereanced this, which I atleast beloeve to be love.. and the pain of it too.. yin yang and all that ..
Be abliss then.
I don't know what I'd call it for certain.I feel that I'm not in love with her anymore.I still care deeply for her and would do anything I could to help her out.I guess that means I'm not result in love anymore.Sometimes I feel that I'm just falling back into familarity.
sounds like you were experiencing lust
Sadly I'd have to say the same thing.At first when we broke up I cold truely say that I was still in love with her.I now know that it isn't right for me to keep trying to persuade her.Thanks for all your comments guys.You've all helped me make it through a really rough time and I can't thank you guys enough.
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Re: Friends with benefits a good thing [Re: Icyus]
#20149321 - 06/18/14 11:14 AM (9 years, 7 months ago) |
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So basically you usually have to paymoney opposed to exchanging sexual pleasures sort of similar to a "you scratch my back I scratch yours" approach to it? Tbh I want to findsomeone that can have that attitude, where we are both being satisfied & while I can and will pay her if Im fucking her all the time and giving her immense pleasure we should beon the same wavelength as far as that goes.
Idk if you find someone willing to FWB is it mostly a trade of fluids or cash? Because while I have money to burn I believe it we are both being satisfied then why should I pay extra and you don't? It sounds a little unfair no? If thats the way this world works then whats the point of prudent economics? If you are looking to save as much money for the future youd want to work around having to pay what you don't have to. Don't getme wrong I'm far from cheap but i only have around 5k in my bank right now, hardly enough to make it in this world. Albeit I'm living w my parentscurently & gettng a job at panera soon but still I'd like to have some stored away. Keep in mind I rarely waste money. I don't do drugs or anything so kind of just sits in there decaying away.
Being something of a pure celestial angel I'm somewhat new to the decadent scene. I don't know how these dealers work and what shoddy methods they use ove unsuspecting victims. I hope I can find someone halfway reasonable and doesn't demand my wallet for a little pussy. I will make that sacrifice if necessary however. Anyone can fill me in(literally).
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Re: Friends with benefits a good thing [Re: drkkenny]
#20151350 - 06/18/14 07:26 PM (9 years, 7 months ago) |
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Re: Friends with benefits a good thing [Re: drkkenny]
#20151631 - 06/18/14 08:19 PM (9 years, 7 months ago) |
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Friends with benefits doesn't require money, kenny.
You're thinking of prostitution.
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Re: Friends with benefits a good thing [Re: TopPmz]
#20152659 - 06/18/14 11:23 PM (9 years, 7 months ago) |
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I'm still new to this game.I've always been an asexual/puritan...thankgod I converted its much more"exciting"or"lively"may be the word im looking for.
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