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Anonymous #1
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Girls and their games
#19344152 - 12/29/13 11:16 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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I'm a heterosexual animal so put bluntly, I enjoy genitals of the opposite sex. I like girls and I always will, even though I'll get fooled and played and played and fooled so many times over.
There's one girl, K, I hooked up with her once a bit ago as a one night stand (although we've been friends earlier...side note way before this all happened I told my friend that K is a girl who doesn't know what she wants..). So as it goes, she didn't know what she wanted the next week so the vibes were mixed. If she simply didn't like me I'd have admitted it to myself, but she straight up didn't know what she wanted. She'd get close and flirty one day and distant the next..
SO winter break rolls around and we're texting/snapping every day.. Again mixed signals a lot of the time..
Here's what happens today: K goes "I want school to start so I could see you already." I respond saying something to the extent of the feeling being mutual Around 30 minutes later (For context we're picking K/C up on the way to school to drive them up: K goes "Can this guy come ride with us? He could sit on my lap :P or we could share a seat please please please." I don't respond to this one because, wtf? Around 20 minutes after that: K texts me "Dude I miss you I can't wait" I didn't text back.
Attraction instantly lost after that whole shit. I don't need to play fucking high school games anymore. Either like me and want to be with me or fuck off with the attention/jealousy game. I used to be fine working through this type of thing to reach the epic vagina, but I realize I'm done with that. It's not worth it. A girl who is insecure enough to send those 3 texts in a row just isn't a girl for me. It's just too bad that 90% of college freshman girls are like that. She could grow the fuck up
Edited by Anonymous (12/30/13 02:07 PM)
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Anonymous #2
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Yeah man, I feel ya. I don't really have any proper advise other than she's shit testing you, and if you feel like dealing with that go for it.
If you have more important things to worry about, there are so many fucking women in this world. Move on!
or DSHSB. whichever.
Edit: I also wanted to add on the first point, she could have just been overly excited on the first day. She probably knew she fucked up after she asked that, trying to save some face with a cover text.
Wow.
Edited by Anonymous (12/30/13 01:52 AM)
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Anonymous #1
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No, that wasn't a first day. That was yesterday, 3 weeks into break and we've been texting every day. I'm just not going to get tested like that, I don't want ANY girl that much. It's not even that I don't want to try that hard - it's just a fucking turnoff. I will NEVER talk about a hot girl or any girl at all to a girl I like. I won't go that low to test her or make her jealous, it's immature.
I still haven't responded to those texts or the couple snaps she sent me that night... I probably should at least respond to the text soon but I'll just keep it pretty dry
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Anonymous #2
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In the future don't take these sort of things to personally. You have your mind made up, let me know how things turn out.
I would still talk to her, just don't give her romantic signals or something.
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Anonymous #1
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It's just weird, I did take it personally (I probably shouldn't in the future, I just got out of a relationship w/ a girl who played games like these so I'm sensitive to it) and my opinion of her changed in a flash. I can't undo it. I responded to her leaving out the reciprocal missing by just saying "Haha I'll be there soon enough", sort of dry but whatever. I'll update this after I see her, this could get interesting.
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Anonymous #3
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Quote:
Anonymous #1 said: It's just weird, I did take it personally (I probably shouldn't in the future, I just got out of a relationship w/ a girl who played games like these so I'm sensitive to it) and my opinion of her changed in a flash. I can't undo it. I responded to her leaving out the reciprocal missing by just saying "Haha I'll be there soon enough", sort of dry but whatever. I'll update this after I see her, this could get interesting.
Why don't you man up and call the bitch back on the phone and say, "what the fuck girl?", "don't text me bullshit like that ever again".
You froze when she tested you, next time be prepared for female bullshit, and CALL HER ON HER BULLSHIT!!
She will respect you, but now she knows you're a fish, no spine, a guy who puts pussy on a pedestal.
I don't care what female you meet down the road, she will test you, she will pull bullshit games, be ready next time.
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Anonymous #4
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Either she is trying to make you jealous or she isn't. Either she is a flake or doesn't know better. Either its a game or you're an idiot. Either you don't seriously care about making her your girl or you do. Either you're playing catch or you're the monkey in the middle. I do not understand that in between indecisive stuff so I can not give you any advice but will comment that both of your behavior seems both absurd and confounding to me. Either you play games or you don't. Either you have a pulse with hot blood coursing through your veins or you don't. Either you're a man or a boy. Get the idea? Of course not. And I don't either because I'm probably more confused as a random bystander than you are in the midst of it. Humans and their mating rituals, lol.
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Anonymous #2
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Anonymous #5
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She's trying to make you jealous. Many, many girls get off on playing games like that.
Just call her out on it and tell her you're not going to play her games. Either she'll move on and play games with the next guy or she'll see you aren't going to put up with her bullshit and she'll stop acting like a 7th grader.
Imo she's not worth it if she's doing that shit in the first place, but either way let her know you're not a doormat.
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Anonymous #6
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You gotta know how to play the game to stay in the game. I lost many chances to land a girl because I would always back off and give up when she tried to make me jealous. I regret those missed chances now. Man up.
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Anonymous #7
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I met a girl online. We talked for months. I drove out to see her once but my car broke down. She usually sent mixed signals. Sometimes I felt like she was feeling it and others I didn't. It was really erratic. I always made it clear I was into her and one night on ecstasy we talk about it and she says she reciprocates my feelings. So I plan to go out to see her, picking up a bunch of shifts at work to pay for it all. We talk about the trip.
I put in my vacation time and on the same day she tells me that I can't spend the night in her apartment because it might upset her son's father (off and on boyfriend). She must've fallen for him again during Christmas or something. So I tell her I'm pissed off. We didn't plan on those conditions. I'm upset too. Why the fuck would you plan this trip with me and let me work my ass off to pay for it after telling me you were interested if you won't even let me sleep in your house?
She says she thought we were just friends this whole time. This pissed me off, bad. We get into a huge argument with her not only pretending that she never said she reciprocated my feelings but that she never even knew I was interested in her! It was a flatout lie to make her feel less guilty about all of this. When I show her screencaps of her saying she reciprocated my feelings (and my obviously being explicit in my own) she says she forgot about it and it's not good for us to talk and unfriends me on Facebook and all that shit.
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Anonymous #6
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I hate girls who lie like that. She was just playing with your emotions while the whole time knowing she probably will just end back up with her baby daddy. Did u know he was in the picture or did she hide him completly, and if she didnt were u suspious at all?
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Anonymous #7
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I didn't know anything about him for the first month or so. Then she brought him up, mostly to speak bad of him. Then she started speaking about him more openly and we'd argue about it. There was a period where we didn't talk and she got closer to him, I guess. Before this happened she'd speak of him only to say she was going to leave him soon.
I agree. I think in all likelihood she knew she'd ultimately stay with him.
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Anonymous #8
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girls are like drugs. you only need em temporarily
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Anonymous #9
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Anonymous #8 said: girls are like drugs. you only need em temporarily 
quote of the year. Exactly my mindset. You cant be high 24/7 because you need lows to feel the highs. Precisely why I will never get married and I got a vasectomy at 18!
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Anonymous #11
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Well, there's also the possibility that she likes you as well as someone else and she wants to be with nobody in a committed sense. I mean, I don't know. I don't really care if a partner has other partners or love interests. There's no limit to our capacity to love except the ones we impose on ourselves and others. I've felt this way for as long as I can remember, long before I ever used any psychedelics.
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Anonymous #12
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Anonymous #1 said: K goes "Can this guy come ride with us? He could sit on my lap :P or we could share a seat please please please."
i would have replied
"how are you gonna suck my dick with him in the front seat with you?"
or maybe he was gonna bring some weed and smoke everyone out for the ride? maybe she was trying to surprise you 
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Anonymous #13
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what if you had said, "cool bring him over we can have a threesome"..
just shootin the shit.. cool thread, im learning so much//
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Anonymous #14
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"can this guy ride with us he can sit on my lap tee-hee"
"uh no." *close door* *drive away*
duh
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