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chicksgrowtoo


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Re: gf has been on a rebellious power trip phase latley [Re: claraclairvoyant]
#19341714 - 12/29/13 02:03 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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she wants her freedom dude, she probably just doesn't know how to tell you so she's acting out instead.
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Re: gf has been on a rebellious power trip phase latley [Re: evileye001]
#19341766 - 12/29/13 02:17 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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I'd end it in your shoes OP, not interested in any lifelong relationships though
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Re: gf has been on a rebellious power trip phase latley [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#19342341 - 12/29/13 04:16 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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chicksgrowtoo said:
she wants her freedom dude, she probably just doesn't know how to tell you so she's acting out instead.
this doesnt mean the relationship is over, just that she has to have time for herself, if he doesnt let her do her thing, he will lose her
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Re: gf has been on a rebellious power trip phase latley [Re: Prisoner#1]
#19342575 - 12/29/13 05:11 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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chicksgrowtoo said:
she wants her freedom dude, she probably just doesn't know how to tell you so she's acting out instead.
this doesnt mean the relationship is over, just that she has to have time for herself, if he doesnt let her do her thing, he will lose her
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Re: gf has been on a rebellious power trip phase latley [Re: TrentBoyett]
#19343981 - 12/29/13 10:28 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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thank you! i knew half of the responses would be. sorry, time to move on. but the others have had some great advice.
no this is not my first serious relationship. my longest yes. im not worrying about her leaving me. i have seen/heard her turning down guys and saying she is in a relationship and what not. whit out her knowing that i did, just out of coincidence. not that i was worried any ways. not saying i never get jealous just not worried she is gana bang some dude one night.
trust me this is not the roughest patch that we have hit b4! lol
just was trying to make seance of this last weird twist in our relationship. came as a bit of a puzzler. but thanks to (some) of you who arent so quick to say fuck it, iv gained a lot of light.
-------------------- we are the universe contemplating its self.
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Re: gf has been on a rebellious power trip phase latley [Re: evileye001] 1
#19344823 - 12/30/13 03:27 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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All I can say is good luck holding on to your teenage sweetheart as she starts to grow up. It's going to be a rough ride.
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Re: gf has been on a rebellious power trip phase latley [Re: evileye001]
#19344951 - 12/30/13 04:30 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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shroomluv said: Yep, like vandago said, ya have to just let it be. Everyone goes through that wild streak before they realize who they are and what they want in life. Do your own thing too cuz the more you try to tell her what you think her priorities should be, the more she will pull away from you.
im not trying to tell her that.
we have been together for five years. she has a ring on her finger! is it asking so much to ask to check in when im worried? or ask why she blew me off to get shit faced? if i did that it WOULD BE MY ASS! has any one had a relationship longer then 6 months with some input?
I have been with my husband for 12 years now and we were pretty young when we first got together and had to go through a similar thing. All I'm trying to say is you're both young and if you are truly compatible it will just fit together eventually. But not if you make her feel like she has to give up her friends. Friend time is really important to having a happy relationship. (imo) You can't be everything to each other all the time. Also she might feel a little smothered since she's still living at home. (I know I would) I'm not saying to stop seeing each other, just allow her some breathing room. That being said, you should still be considerate to each other by scheduling "friend time" & "couples' time" and not blowing each other off "uhhhhuhhuhhu you said blow each other uuuhhhuuhhuuhhuuhhuu"
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Re: gf has been on a rebellious power trip phase latley [Re: evileye001] 1
#19345153 - 12/30/13 06:17 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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evileye001 said: but thanks to (some) of you who arent so quick to say fuck it, iv gained a lot of light.
some of us are quick to say "fuck it" because we've walked down this road a few times and know when to hop off the path.
sorry everyone didnt say 100% exactly what you wanted to hear :eyeroll:
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Re: gf has been on a rebellious power trip phase latley [Re: memes]
#19345162 - 12/30/13 06:21 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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koraks
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Re: gf has been on a rebellious power trip phase latley [Re: memes]
#19345168 - 12/30/13 06:23 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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It's sympathetic that he wants to be optimistic. Hey, weren't we all at some point? And granted, 0.1% of the couples do make it through a phase like this and live happily ever after (or at least several years). Perhaps they are part of the 0.1%. I'll gladly grant them the benefit of that particular doubt, I really do. But like you, memes, I think it will be a sad sight if OP has to face the harsh reality of the 99.9% at some point. Perhaps we just want to make the landing a little less hard for him by preparing him a bit? Yeah...that must be it.
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Re: gf has been on a rebellious power trip phase latley [Re: Lynnch]
#19345186 - 12/30/13 06:31 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Lynnch said: It's called being 21 man, you're both still young and figuring things out. Don't argue with drunk people. She's gonna do dumb stuff, try to forgive her. You're gonna want her to act a certain way as your girlfriend, and to some extent, control her. Hopefully she can understand why, and forgive you when you overstep. Other than that it sounds like some overblown bullshit, or shes fuckin somebody else bro. Just let it go instead of continuing the fight.
This, no more can or needs to be said.
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Re: gf has been on a rebellious power trip phase latley [Re: koraks]
#19345550 - 12/30/13 09:16 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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koraks said: It's sympathetic that he wants to be optimistic. Hey, weren't we all at some point? And granted, 0.1% of the couples do make it through a phase like this and live happily ever after (or at least several years). Perhaps they are part of the 0.1%. I'll gladly grant them the benefit of that particular doubt, I really do. But like you, memes, I think it will be a sad sight if OP has to face the harsh reality of the 99.9% at some point. Perhaps we just want to make the landing a little less hard for him by preparing him a bit? Yeah...that must be it.
All I'd be thinking is its time to find a new woman
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