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brokentv

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says i'm distant
#19320676 - 12/24/13 11:32 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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What can I say to a girl who says I seem distant? It's weird because I attempt to talk to her regularly, but she doesn't always reciprocate. and she'l act like there's a problem but wont tell me what it is. Maybe she's having personal issues but it's frustrating. Not sure what to do in this situation?
Edited by brokentv (12/24/13 11:43 AM)
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Re: says i'm distant [Re: brokentv]
#19320713 - 12/24/13 11:40 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Lol "too available"
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brokentv

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Re: says i'm distant [Re: Sheekle]
#19320733 - 12/24/13 11:43 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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lol I guess I should edit that, kinda contradictory.
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Re: says i'm distant [Re: brokentv] 1
#19326582 - 12/25/13 07:14 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Quote:
brokentv said: What can I say to a girl who says I seem distant? It's weird because I attempt to talk to her regularly, but she doesn't always reciprocate. and she'l act like there's a problem but wont tell me what it is. Maybe she's having personal issues but it's frustrating. Not sure what to do in this situation?
you run like hell
if everything you are describing are accurate observations
then she is projecting onto you, what she is actually doing.
halway into the relationship she will accuse you of cheating. and then you'll know...
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Re: says i'm distant [Re: k00laid]
#19326692 - 12/25/13 07:51 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Yea it's usually not a good sign, because I mean let's face it, the distance is directly caused by her since she is the one not reciprocating. Sounds like bullshit to me. If someone seems distant, you ask them some questions to clear up your confusion, you don't act like it's their fault. Maybe she just doesn't want to hurt your feelings by telling you she's not interested?
At this point, getting real direct and assertive is probably your best move. Just lay it out there if you can. I'm usually really shy, but in a situation like this you just gotta say the truth. And don't be afraid of what she thinks, or change what you have to say because you think it will make her feel a certain way. She'd probably appreciate it.
Or maybe she won't
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brokentv

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Re: says i'm distant [Re: 1620]
#19327007 - 12/25/13 09:48 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Thanks for the response this little ordeal is actually one of many to take place with this girl. I wish I listened to my intuition the first time around when I felt something was off.
Edited by brokentv (12/25/13 09:49 PM)
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