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st1llnox
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Re: I don't ever want to move out [Re: Synthe]
#19326038 - 12/25/13 04:01 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Synthe said: Why couldn't I have been born into a family like that?
Synthe it's worse to have been born into a family like that and have it burn down around you, trust me 
I also agree with the post that OP may be in for a reality check but I'm happy for him for now.
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Shroomism
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Can't relate OP.. had a rough ass childhood, parents got divorced when I was 6 and moved out on my own when I was 16. The hard knock life and whatnot. But it made me strong and capable.
Sounds like a dream to be honest. Your parents sounds pretty fucking cool. Enjoy it. And treat them well. And learn some life skills while you are at it, you can't rely on them forever, and it seems it's usually the most spoiled and sheltered ones who are in for the biggest shock when real life strikes. Having a free pass through everything in life may work with your parents, but it won't work with everyone, and jobs and shit. Be prepared.
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badchad
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Re: I don't ever want to move out [Re: Shroomism] 1
#19326265 - 12/25/13 05:14 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Millennials, lol. Spoon fed for life, and proud of it.
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NWlight
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Re: I don't ever want to move out [Re: badchad]
#19327580 - 12/26/13 03:11 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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I am not spoiled to the point where OP is but i've never had anyone close to me die and I'm nervous how I will handle it
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Re: I don't ever want to move out [Re: NWlight]
#19327586 - 12/26/13 03:19 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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I would hate that. If my parents wasted money like that on me I would make a very big point on telling them I don't want that stuff. C'mon man, have some respect. You're using them, and being a complete leech if you plan on never changing. The parents are supposed to break away from their kids and vice versa, it's important for mental and pyschical development. Please want to change this soon, but it's nice you guys have a good relationship.
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Re: I don't ever want to move out [Re: st1llnox]
#19327606 - 12/26/13 04:03 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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My parents were/are awesome. As a child I always had what I wanted and needed. They divorced when I was little but did well to work together to raise their children.
I lived with my Dad until I was about 21. From around 17 on I had free reign to do whatever I wanted as long as I let him know where I was and went to school regardless of how late I stayed out and what I had been doing. Once I turned 18 and got a full time job I insisted on paying rent and contributing to bills, because my parents bent over backwards raising me and giving me what I wanted. I continued to live there because he was just so much fun, and all the friends I had would've made poor roommates.
My Mom pounded into my head the importance of being independent and self-reliant. She made sure I knew how to balance a checkbook, file my own taxes, write a resume`, and gave very good relationship advice. Because she raised me to maintain financial independence I never got fucked over during a breakup and I've never had to stay in a shitty relationship because I was unable to survive on my own financially or for lack of life skills. If I need her help with money now, she would have no problem loaning me money because I would pay her back, but I will do whatever it takes to not have to ask her because she has worked so hard all her life all I want is to see her happy and able to do the things she's always dreamed of doing.
My Dad passed almost two years ago. I moved back home to take care of him. My siblings also came home to help care for him so he could die in his own home. I would give up everything to do the same for my Mother, when the time comes, which hopefully doesn't happen until a long time from now.
It sounds like your parents are super cool, I hope you appreciate them and would be willing to give up everything if they needed you to. I've got to say though, if you ever do want to start a family, I'd seriously doubt any woman would want to live with her in-laws to do so with you, regardless of how much space and money they have.
I know...I'm a stranger here and there's some personal shit for you all to see... I have been lurking for nearly a decade on and off under a few different usernames. I keep forgetting my passwords and it always turns out I've deactivated the e-mails said screen names were linked to so I can never get my password reset. I dunno. Your post just really plucked at my heartstrings...My parents are amazing, too. I am so grateful for them.
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I'm an only child of a single mother. We don't have any other blood family that we maintain very good relations with. I'm 26 and still living with her, although I've struck out on my own a couple times to travel for a few months at a time.
I like being here and she likes having me here (not knowing this for sure bothered me in the past but I brought it up and we talked about it). We have a terrific relationship. I pay rent and do all I can to help around the house.
She's getting old and isn't in very good health. I want to be here to take care of her when her health inevitably deteriorates further. I don't intend to ever start a traditional family...I guess that could change in the future but it hasn't yet in 26 and a half years.
All that said, this thread is giving me a lot of anxiety as to whether staying actually is the right thing to do. Fuck.
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justanothersould
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Re: I don't ever want to move out [Re: daiy]
#19327674 - 12/26/13 04:56 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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daiy, I used to think that I moved out too late at 21. I was 23 when my Dad passed. I am so grateful I spent so much time with him while he was here.
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vinsue
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Quote:
PsychedelicLife said: Honestly man, my parents are the CHILLEST people ever...
They're fairly old (late 50s) and their age just makes them so mellow and sympathetic.

I'm 56... . . .
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Re: I don't ever want to move out [Re: vinsue]
#19328153 - 12/26/13 09:54 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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We've been that way to our kids. You just have to hold out the net and hope you catch them when they fall from grace. I'd do anything for my kids including letting them move back in if that is what they want to do, but they all have their own families now and their own responsibilities, so not much chance of that.
That and the fact that Mrs. MPD and I are just nutso over our good fortune to have a grand family and kids to love.
Next week they are going to show their love and move Mrs. MPD and I into assisted living.
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PsychedelicLife said: Honestly man, my parents are the CHILLEST people ever. I fucking love them. And Christmas makes me appreciate their beautiful souls even more.
They're fairly old (late 50s) and their age just makes them so mellow and sympathetic. They also own a BEAUTIFUL, spacious property downtown that's completely renovated and filled with so much extra space that we don't even use. Hell, there's at least three fully utilizable bedrooms that we simply keep for random guests.
My parents fucking spoil me with gifts I don't even deserve. I just got a fucking Xbox One out of the blue, a beautiful new Lenovo Laptop, and 8 PS3 games I'll probably never touch. We have a cleaning lady who comes by every three days and does all the chores so I don't have to. And they're amazing at planning road trips, mannn its sooo much fun. They've even taken me to Europe a few times, they're perfect. Mexico was really awesome too, tequila and sun ahhhh such bliss.
Even though I'm a full-time student and will be finishing up my undergraduate studies in 2 years, I see ABSOLUTELY no reason to leave home. If I ever decide to start a family, I can do it in my very own home because there's so much fucking space!
I have so much freedom at home. I have a little "music station" set up in my basement with a brand new bass where me and my friend jam out for hours. My parents have never once complained about the noise and it gets loud af. I can light joints, smoke shisha, and trip out on acid down there and they don't give a rat's ass. I can be out until 2am snorting blow and getting drunk and when I come home, my mother comes down, gives me a hug, and asks me if I would like her to heat up a meal for me.
Are anyone's parents this amazing? Does anyone plan to never, ever move out like me?

I LOVE YOU MOMMY AND DADDY.
You are amazingly lucky.
If I ever have children, I'm gonna boot them out of the house when they turn 18 so they don't turn into spoiled brats like I'm sure you aren't.
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Re: I don't ever want to move out [Re: deCypher]
#19328810 - 12/26/13 01:03 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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I'm gonna make 'em get a job, once they turn 6 or so
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Re: I don't ever want to move out [Re: Shroomism]
#19328862 - 12/26/13 01:23 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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In this economy?
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deCypher



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Re: I don't ever want to move out [Re: mpd]
#19328895 - 12/26/13 01:32 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Obama just needs to repeal the child labor laws, then we'll be good.
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My parents are wonderful people. The have done so much for me. I am/will be a better person/parent because they are in my life.
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Re: I don't ever want to move out [Re: mpd]
#19328946 - 12/26/13 01:43 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Are you sure they honestly don't mind having you live there? How old are you? I'm assuming you're pretty young to be saying all this. And you kinda sound like a mamma's boy. I mean, with today's economy the way it is, it's becoming more common for older people to have to live with their parents when it's a necessity, not because they truly want to live with their parents.
Is the house paid off?
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Re: I don't ever want to move out [Re: occollegeboi]
#19329045 - 12/26/13 02:06 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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I had to move back in with my parents and I wish it was that cool. If I woke either of my parents up by coming home at 2am, they would fucking kill me.
I wouldn't trade them for any other parents though because they made me and raised me and now I kick ass. Although I really do wish my mom would learn that the door doesn't unlock when you jiggle the handle because that shit makes me anxious!
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thelanzii

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Re: I don't ever want to move out [Re: empty space] 1
#19329065 - 12/26/13 02:11 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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you sir have a case of affluencza
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stimpson
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Re: I don't ever want to move out [Re: thelanzii]
#19329123 - 12/26/13 02:24 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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if you want to get rich, dun move out til you have a chick that is making you move out into your own pad.
here's a secret... all those rich italian dudes living in staten island and new jersey that can work construction jobs and spend all their time and money on the gym and rolling smiles at the club... they do that because they just live at their parents house til their parents die, and then inherent their house. staten island and jersey city are notorious for kids who work in the city, make bank and just live at their parents house sucking in money and packing their bank accounts.
just so you know... dun be ashamed.
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Re: I don't ever want to move out [Re: stimpson]
#19329169 - 12/26/13 02:40 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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This thread makes me sad.
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