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The first Xmas after a family member dies
    #19322492 - 12/24/13 06:31 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Is always weird. Don't you guys think? Anyone else short a matriarch, patriarch, or other relative this year?


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Re: The first Xmas after a family member dies [Re: st1llnox]
    #19322503 - 12/24/13 06:33 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

My parents got divorced this year, so its the first Christmas since that.
Does that count?


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Re: The first Xmas after a family member dies [Re: TopPmz]
    #19322508 - 12/24/13 06:34 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Quote:

TopPmz said:
My parents got divorced this year, so its the first Christmas since that.
Does that count?




Could be worse than a death.


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Re: The first Xmas after a family member dies [Re: TopPmz]
    #19322510 - 12/24/13 06:35 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

I bet its very similar feeling, with obvious differences. Sorry man :hug:


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Re: The first Xmas after a family member dies [Re: st1llnox]
    #19322523 - 12/24/13 06:38 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Yeah it sucks. Its always a depressing time of the year for me. Almost all of my family has passed away, except my great grandmother.


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Re: The first Xmas after a family member dies [Re: st1llnox]
    #19322528 - 12/24/13 06:41 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Thanks for the thought, but TBH it doesn't bother me at all.
I was pretty beside myself when I caught my mom having an affair (didn't catch her in the act), which is what lead to the divorce, but aside from that feeling of betrayal, its not a big deal for me.
My dad's having a hard time with it though, and my 7 yr old brother is probably affected, though he doesn't show it.


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Re: The first Xmas after a family member dies [Re: st1llnox]
    #19322539 - 12/24/13 06:44 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Weird, indeed. And depressing.


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Re: The first Xmas after a family member dies [Re: danielx]
    #19322785 - 12/24/13 07:36 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

I was never close to people outside my nuclear family


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Re: The first Xmas after a family member dies [Re: Konyap]
    #19322793 - 12/24/13 07:38 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

This time of the year sucks. It just reminds me of shit. Sad shit


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Re: The first Xmas after a family member dies [Re: VivaLaMushie]
    #19322808 - 12/24/13 07:40 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

ungrateful:yesnod:


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Re: The first Xmas after a family member dies [Re: st1llnox]
    #19322828 - 12/24/13 07:42 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

A relative of mine died this year, it was strange and sad at Thanksgiving, maybe tomorrow won't be quite as bad.


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Re: The first Xmas after a family member dies [Re: idiotek]
    #19322845 - 12/24/13 07:44 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Sorry for your loss.


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Re: The first Xmas after a family member dies [Re: VivaLaMushie]
    #19322851 - 12/24/13 07:45 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

No worries.  Just try to carry on like they would have wanted.  It's the easiest way to deal with it.


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Re: The first Xmas after a family member dies [Re: st1llnox]
    #19322884 - 12/24/13 07:48 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

On the 18th my step grandma passed,it was her time and we are all very sad,there has been 4 deaths this year on their side of the family this year. It seems to be on the back burner for now though and we are thinking happy thoughts. My sister's pregnant and we are definitely joining together and having a good Christmas inspite of all the loss this year.


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Re: The first Xmas after a family member dies [Re: VivaLaMushie]
    #19322988 - 12/24/13 08:07 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Quote:

VivaLaMushie said:
This time of the year sucks. It just reminds me of shit. Sad shit




My last 3 or 4 Xmases sucked. But other people get super happy so :shrug:


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Re: The first Xmas after a family member dies [Re: st1llnox]
    #19323033 - 12/24/13 08:15 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

I've never had anybody close to me pass away. It's quite strange now that I think about it...

I have all 4 grandparents still, and every member of my "immediate" extended family (meaning my cousins and aunts and uncles and grandparents) is still alive.

I don't know the grief of losing a loved one, but I've felt it vicariously through friends with harsh losses. My heart goes out to all of you celebrating with the loss of someone dear in mind.


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