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Jack yo Self foo
The Artful Dodger



Registered: 06/28/08
Posts: 3,096
Loc: Where the red fern grows....
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to me kids are like a new book in your life
fucking new chapter isn't even the right phrase...everything before kids was a party
i love them, and it is a whole new experience...its one thing to have someone else's kids around, but when they are yours its that much better
this is my opinion..i mean i know people who have kids and just jetted on out...kind of low down...i get it, but man...it is soooo wrong
again...i have a kid so i am a little biased...what blows my mind is that there is still so much more to experience and to tell you the truth i can't wait. I almost honestly don't remember my life before this kid came along...i remember things, but as far as what i did on a day-to-day basis....not a clue
like i said...its like the beginning of a new life (I'd venture to say it is like being reborn because you live through their experiences in a way)
a new book entirely
-------------------- You learn something new everyday, so be sure you learn something from it.
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Mr Person


Registered: 02/02/12
Posts: 551
Loc: inner circle of fault
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This thread hits close to home. My partner of 5 years just hit me with the "I can't wait for kids anymore..." ultimatum. I don't know what to do. Part of me feels like it's time to put away childish things and take the next step in life, and the other part of me just wants to keep my freedom. I've avoided making commitments for selfish reasons in the past and have regretted, but I also don't want to regret having a child one day. I think that's one of the worst things you can do to a kid.
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Raven Gnosis
𝔰𝔢𝔯𝔭𝔢𝔫𝔱𝔦𝔠𝔦𝔡𝔞


Registered: 02/10/11
Posts: 1,311
Loc: Necoc Yaotl
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An instinctual part of myself is no doubt driven to have children...
But the mind I have developed due to the life I have had screams into the depths of my being how foolish it would be...
I don't think people truly take into consideration what it means to bring another human into this world, and just like 'falling in love' and going into a relationship, they are driven by their own selfish feelings about it and do not take into consideration in honest what it will mean for this other being and how it will effect them...
If people are unable to truly see past their own selfish feelings about things, I don't think they are prepared to sincerely and earnestly help another being 'come into being'... IMO, its a shame our biology supersedes that. What a hypothetically wonderful world it would be if biologically the only people that could breed were those who could in earnest, be earnest and not contribute to damn near genocide worthy shit like this.
-------------------- To be human is to be fettered, to endure what one is, in perpetuum, no matter what the debility or perversity.
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skullphuxxx
free food finder



Registered: 05/02/13
Posts: 341
Loc: Smurfs village
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Re: Children - blessing or curse? [Re: Raven Gnosis]
#19355311 - 01/01/14 04:19 PM (10 years, 29 days ago) |
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Whoop whoop Juggalo for life! teach your kids how to think not what to think.
much clown love!
-------------------- a stranger is a friend i haven't met yet.
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