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Alexestalex
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Here is what I don't understand.
People have raped little children. People have exploited millions of sentient, living human beings, beat them, made them work like horses, and treated them worse than shit. People have killed and beheaded their closest family members for money and power.
Why are you SOOOO surprised at what happened to you? I feel complete sympathy for you and I'm sorry it had to be this way, but the world is chaotic as fuck. No matter how close you get to someone, you will never really see what's inside their heart. Their "id", if you will.
Your ex-girlfriend is scum, she is a piece of shit. She is a massive dick on every level. What she did was unacceptable and cruel. Automatic third strike. She is not a good, dignified human being.
What you do is get a lawyer, explain the situation, and forget her. There's really nothing else you can or should do.
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ShroomPuncher
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Lol, how the fuck am I a stalker for checking in on her? She was suicidal. She fell into a deep depression and talked about running away or killing herself. I think I was fine in checking in on her. I admit it was dumb to walk in like that but still. If you give a fuck about someone and know these things are going on, it's natural to check the situation.
And I appreciate the solid advice from some of you guys.
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qman
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qman said: You didn't know it she was dead or cheating, so what? You did not own this girl, if she wants to cheat, that's her business, if she was dead, you would find out eventually.
You can't go around walking into someones home, and then claim you did it out of concern.
If she didn't respond to your texts and messages, it means she's blowing you off, next time don't give a shit.
"If she was dead, you would find out eventually"
Just stfu.
So every time some bitch doesn't respond to someones messages, the conclusion should be she might be dead? 99.999999%, she's blowing you off. Grow up dude.
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ShroomPuncher
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: qman]
#19294006 - 12/18/13 04:16 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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qman said:
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Repertoire89 said:
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qman said: You didn't know it she was dead or cheating, so what? You did not own this girl, if she wants to cheat, that's her business, if she was dead, you would find out eventually.
You can't go around walking into someones home, and then claim you did it out of concern.
If she didn't respond to your texts and messages, it means she's blowing you off, next time don't give a shit.
"If she was dead, you would find out eventually"
Just stfu.
So every time some bitch doesn't respond to someones messages, the conclusion should be she might be dead? 99.999999%, she's blowing you off. Grow up dude.
No shit she was blowing me off. I just said how she was talking about suicide and was in a deep depression. i'm not the kind of person who says 'fuck it' because I don't hear from someone.
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The5thElement
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: qman] 1
#19294027 - 12/18/13 04:20 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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qman said:
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Repertoire89 said:
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qman said: You didn't know it she was dead or cheating, so what? You did not own this girl, if she wants to cheat, that's her business, if she was dead, you would find out eventually.
You can't go around walking into someones home, and then claim you did it out of concern.
If she didn't respond to your texts and messages, it means she's blowing you off, next time don't give a shit.
"If she was dead, you would find out eventually"
Just stfu.
So every time some bitch doesn't respond to someones messages, the conclusion should be she might be dead? 99.999999%, she's blowing you off. Grow up dude.
This wasn't some random, it was his GF
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Enlil
OTD God-King




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The5thElement said:
This wasn't some random, it was his GF
Most likely only in his mind.
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ShroomPuncher
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: Enlil]
#19294083 - 12/18/13 04:31 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Enlil said:
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The5thElement said:
This wasn't some random, it was his GF
Most likely only in his mind.
Right, just like every time we fucked and hungout, that was in my mind. It was pure imagination. If I was stalking this girl, I would've gone to fucking jail and she would've pressed charges. I wouldn't be here to bitch about it, dipshit.
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: Nimpo]
#19294084 - 12/18/13 04:32 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Nimpo said: OP, turn this shit into a screenplay
QFT
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Enlil
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Watch the flaming, bro...it's unshroomy as fuck.
Think about it, dude. If she thought of you as her boyfriend, would you really be in this situation? YOU were the only one who thought that.
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ShroomPuncher
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: Enlil]
#19294143 - 12/18/13 04:44 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Enlil said: Watch the flaming, bro...it's unshroomy as fuck.
Think about it, dude. If she thought of you as her boyfriend, would you really be in this situation? YOU were the only one who thought that.
Apparently she didn't think of me as that the last few days. Doesn't change the fact that I still loved her and looked out for her on every level. Just because it was easy for her doesn't make it much easier for me.
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: Enlil]
#19294149 - 12/18/13 04:45 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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why are you trolling so much Enlil? 
OP, obviously walking in may have been a bit too much, but I understand where you're coming from and I would think most level headed people would get that you were legitimately concerned for her well being.
Hope everything works out.
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Shins
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Enlil said: Watch the flaming, bro...it's unshroomy as fuck.
Think about it, dude. If she thought of you as her boyfriend, would you really be in this situation? YOU were the only one who thought that.
Apparently she didn't think of me as that the last few days. Doesn't change the fact that I still loved her and looked out for her on every level. Just because it was easy for her doesn't make it much easier for me.
Sounds overbearing.
most girls don't want nor need to be looked after on every level. That stinks of overbearing and overposessive to me. Chalk up mild stalkyness and all of this only a couple months in and we might be getting an idea about why she ducked out.
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qman
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The5thElement said:
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qman said:
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qman said: You didn't know it she was dead or cheating, so what? You did not own this girl, if she wants to cheat, that's her business, if she was dead, you would find out eventually.
You can't go around walking into someones home, and then claim you did it out of concern.
If she didn't respond to your texts and messages, it means she's blowing you off, next time don't give a shit.
"If she was dead, you would find out eventually"
Just stfu.
So every time some bitch doesn't respond to someones messages, the conclusion should be she might be dead? 99.999999%, she's blowing you off. Grow up dude.
This wasn't some random, it was his GF
You think "GF's" don't pull this bullshit on a regular basis? It's a common practice for some women that lose interest in a guy.
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fapjack
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: Enlil]
#19294177 - 12/18/13 04:54 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Enlil said: Watch the flaming, bro...it's unshroomy as fuck.
Think about it, dude. If she thought of you as her boyfriend, would you really be in this situation? YOU were the only one who thought that.
I've had gfs that have done the same shit to me before, and we were most def boyfriend and gf. She was just a cowardly bitch who prefered to have 0 conflict in her life. Fucking hate people like that, might as well just stop shaving yourself and move out west.
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If I was in a relationship with someone and just up and disappeared without any real word on where, I sure as hell would hope they care enough that they'd try to figure out what happened to me.. Not just assume it was my way of breaking up with them..
Who wants to be in a relationship with someone so uncaring that when you disappear they just shrug their shoulders and say "time to move on"..?
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r00tuuu123
Now I'm just really piseed



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mushroom_sandwich said: why are you trolling so much Enlil? 
Because he is a little girl.
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Sheekle
FREE BURKE



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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: NetDiver]
#19295686 - 12/18/13 11:14 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Samurai Drifter said: Sociopaths have no conscience or emotions and thrive off of manipulating and lying to people.
Sucks when you come in contact with them, but you just have to remember they are not your friends and never really cared about you, and you have to move on.
I became close friends with a sociopath for many several months, he hid it well for a while but eventually it became evident. Those sorts of vibes scare the living fuck out of me. Sometimes talking to him really just left me wondering "where is the humanity?"
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: Sheekle]
#19295801 - 12/18/13 11:38 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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did u accidentally pitb?
shitty situation
shoulda just let it be, thats life sometimes
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Enjoywho
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: Sheekle]
#19296180 - 12/19/13 01:24 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Sheekle said:
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Samurai Drifter said: Sociopaths have no conscience or emotions and thrive off of manipulating and lying to people.
Sucks when you come in contact with them, but you just have to remember they are not your friends and never really cared about you, and you have to move on.
I became close friends with a sociopath for many several months, he hid it well for a while but eventually it became evident. Those sorts of vibes scare the living fuck out of me. Sometimes talking to him really just left me wondering "where is the humanity?"
More interested in this story than OP going into some girls house without permission.
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KGB Is Go
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: Enjoywho]
#19296224 - 12/19/13 01:54 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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You were with her for a few months and don't hear from her for 3 days and you get all antsy and proceed to go to her work and ask co-workers about her, and then enter her place without her being there? I guess a lot can happen in a few months but I don't see that as a huge period of time in a relationship and 3 days is certainly not a sufficient duration to be getting so worked up about things. The fact that you did get so worked up, plus the fact that she was willing to move city, was avoiding contact and also that she mentioned a 'husband' in her response to you, makes me wonder about the overbearing thing others have mentioned.
Personally, I think there's another side to this story - perhaps a part which elucidates why there was a communication problem and why she was apparently avoiding you.
Calling her a sociopath seems a bit premature. It may be that she was afraid to tell OP any bad news - perhaps she was oversensitive to the point of avoidance. Or perhaps she simply had more important shit going on her life and didn't have the time and energy to talk to OP. If I had someone at me for not getting back to them for 3 days, I'd not be encouraging them but instead trying to gain some space.
Anyhow, don't mean to attack you OP, I just think there's more to it. Sorry to hear about the situation. Hope things don't get messy with the law involved.
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