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Bassfreak
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: Shins] 6
#19293191 - 12/18/13 12:42 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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there are certain times in life when murdering a bitch is alright
and this is one of them
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shivas.wisdom
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: Shins] 1
#19293194 - 12/18/13 12:42 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Shins said: What you did was kinda creepy stalky though, and indeed a bit immature. You did kinf of B&E, you gots to respect peoples individually even if you're dating brah.
I don't think opening an unlocked door qualifies as breaking and entering.
I'm confused about the part where the cops just showed up. Did that happen immediately after you got there OP? How would they know you were there?
It does if its not your property. Do you really think you can just walk into anyone's place and snoop around if they leave their door unlocked?
I'm pretty sure forced entry is required to be considered breaking and entering--though, it could still be considered trespassing.
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: Shins]
#19293207 - 12/18/13 12:44 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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You seem very overposessive. My guess is that's why she wanted to bail and didn't want to deal with your drama.
Yeah exactly. I was thinking the same thing.
OP, just forget about her, move on, and learn from this experience so next time you don't make the same mistakes.
As for the breaking and entering charge; you DID break in and enter, no matter if the door was unlocked. I'm sure the court would still drop it if the "victim" in this case explained, but the law is the law. Imagine if you just walked around and tried every door, and eventually found one and walked in. Would that not be breaking and entering/burglary if you stole something?
But anyway, hope you get everything sorted out. Having charges sucks, especially felonies. Good luck man.
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shivas.wisdom said: I'm pretty sure forced entry is required to be considered breaking and entering--though, it could still be considered trespassing.
Yes that was my understanding.
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: Aopocetx]
#19293223 - 12/18/13 12:47 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Bassfreak said: there are certain times in life when murdering a bitch is alright
and this is one of them
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You seem very overposessive. My guess is that's why she wanted to bail and didn't want to deal with your drama.
Yeah exactly. I was thinking the same thing.
OP, just forget about her, move on, and learn from this experience so next time you don't make the same mistakes.
As for the breaking and entering charge; you DID break in and enter, no matter if the door was unlocked. I'm sure the court would still drop it if the "victim" in this case explained, but the law is the law. Imagine if you just walked around and tried every door, and eventually found one and walked in. Would that not be breaking and entering/burglary if you stole something?
But anyway, hope you get everything sorted out. Having charges sucks, especially felonies. Good luck man.
Yeah, unfortunately I already have a record from being adumbass in the past and she said she was gonna talk to the DA. But yes, it is considering felony B&E because it happened after a certain hour and I realize that it is still a crime. I just didn't think that would happen. I never imagined I'd get charged for walking into my girlfriends apartment.
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Possissive or not, all I can say is that i'm sorry OP, if this girl is a "sociopath" than I have met my fair share of sociopath girls as well. I know how you feel to an extent, I have never been in that exact situation but I know how badly it sucks to have the love ripped out of your life and receive the cold shoulder, I also know how it feels to have someone you completely trust turn into the person who completely fucks you over worst than anybody else ever has. I know you are probably really sad, and you have every right to feel betrayed.
I have since gotten over such things (took me over a year both times) and my advice to you is keep your chin up, stay strong (mentally and emotionally) and don't let some sleezy bitch like that get the best of you. Move on, that's all you can do. The sooner you find a new girl the easier it will be.
And to be honest, It seems like this girl was trying to mind fuck the shit out of you which is extremely immature. Don't worry man, Karma is real, she'll get hers.
Just be cool, keep your head up, and move on as best as you can. This is life.
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: Cpt.Crunch]
#19293377 - 12/18/13 01:33 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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I think a very pertinent question here is, How long have you been with this girl? I mean if you've been with her for a month, this is pretty creepy you just walking in IMO. If you've been together a while I could see it.  Either way it's pretty lame that you got caught up like that.
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Uzziel
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badchad said: How did you get into her apartment?
Door was unlocked. I walked in.
That is called breaking and entering dude...a normal person knocks on the door and goes away when nobody answers. Not opens the door and walks in...
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: Uzziel]
#19293613 - 12/18/13 02:34 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Uzziel said: That is called breaking and entering dude...a normal person knocks on the door and goes away when nobody answers. Not opens the door and walks in...
Yeah exactly, that's the only problem.
I still feel bad for the OP though. People make mistakes (sometimes very minor ones that result in a lot of negative effects).
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: Aopocetx]
#19293628 - 12/18/13 02:36 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Yeah this situation is beyond fucked up. Idk what's worse between her sociopathic tendencies or your overpotective-ness. Either way I feel bad for you OP but your intentions seemed pure and i'm sure it'll all work out in the end
Best of luck sir
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I really don't see how OP was being a stalker or whatever, like seriously guys
If my girlfriend told me she may be moving, then told me she's not and then I didn't hear from her after trying to contact her for a few days...... Ummm yeah I think I'd go to where she lives too and see WTF is going on.
Call me a stalker but that's just me
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op how many times did you have sex with you "girlfriend"
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: k00laid]
#19293800 - 12/18/13 03:25 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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k00laid said: op how many times did you have sex with you "girlfriend"
A shit ton. According to her, she was the most sexually active with me. She only had 3 actual relationships other than me.
And I appreciate the advice and support from you guys. Hopefully it'll turn out for the better. I just gotta get my shit right and move on.
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You didn't know it she was dead or cheating, so what? You did not own this girl, if she wants to cheat, that's her business, if she was dead, you would find out eventually.
You can't go around walking into someones home, and then claim you did it out of concern.
If she didn't respond to your texts and messages, it means she's blowing you off, next time don't give a shit.
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I'm pretty sure this is just some chick that you have been stalking. She probably doesn't even know who you are.
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The5thElement said: I really don't see how OP was being a stalker or whatever, like seriously guys
If my girlfriend told me she may be moving, then told me she's not and then I didn't hear from her after trying to contact her for a few days...... Ummm yeah I think I'd go to where she lives too and see WTF is going on.
Call me a stalker but that's just me 
You must not have had a lot of relationships.
When the girl you like stops talking to you, its not good news and it usually means take a hint. Yeah its a cowardly thing to do, but that is how some people are.
I can understand going to her place and knocking on the door, but not just walking in and then confronting someone who doesn't want to be confronted.
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: Uzziel]
#19293932 - 12/18/13 04:01 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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ummmmm get her to get those charges dismissed and then never talk to that bitch again.
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: qman]
#19293942 - 12/18/13 04:03 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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qman said: You didn't know it she was dead or cheating, so what? You did not own this girl, if she wants to cheat, that's her business, if she was dead, you would find out eventually.
You can't go around walking into someones home, and then claim you did it out of concern.
If she didn't respond to your texts and messages, it means she's blowing you off, next time don't give a shit.
"If she was dead, you would find out eventually"
Just stfu.
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Some people are pieces of shit, move on and get over it. Big mistake breaking into her house though, I would claim you were worried that she was injured or something of that sort.
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: Uzziel]
#19293960 - 12/18/13 04:08 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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The5thElement said: I really don't see how OP was being a stalker or whatever, like seriously guys
If my girlfriend told me she may be moving, then told me she's not and then I didn't hear from her after trying to contact her for a few days...... Ummm yeah I think I'd go to where she lives too and see WTF is going on.
Call me a stalker but that's just me 
You must not have had a lot of relationships.
When the girl you like stops talking to you, its not good news and it usually means take a hint. Yeah its a cowardly thing to do, but that is how some people are.
I can understand going to her place and knocking on the door, but not just walking in and then confronting someone who doesn't want to be confronted.
Yeah..... Right because people never get into accidents, or kidnaped, or anything out of the ordinary. K everyone, next time your in a relationship and if out of nowhere your partner stops contacting you... You should immediately stop trying to get a hold of them and just assume the relationship is over. Sound advice
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