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volcomstoner
I'll have just one more xanax



Registered: 07/20/09
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mjmihalov said:
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Legend said: It happens, you just have to tell them no. If they really don't get the message, kick em out of your life.
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mjmihalov said:
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Legend said: It happens, you just have to tell them no. If they really don't get the message, kick em out of your life.
/end thread
pretty much, I mean guys hitting on me never made me feel uncomfortable but this kid I used to work with would kind of push it too far. He was a really cool and I liked working with him but sometimes you gotta be upfront with them about what is and isn't acceptable.
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Acaterpillar
A little mad...



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In the beginning I made the mistake of telling them I'm bi. Now I don't even mention it because it's guaranteed to become an annoyance.
I don't put off gay vibes; it's just that I don't run away with my tail tucked when someone tells me there gay. I guess that's enough for them to think I'm down
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k00laid
NEMO


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ps. this is what its like to be a "hot girl" annoying kinda
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Acaterpillar
A little mad...



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It's nice to understand their perspective a little better.
But Jesus Christ, if I was a hot girl and EVERY guy acted this way I think I'd turn lesbian.
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Shins
Fun guy



Registered: 09/15/04
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lunarpiscean said: thats where i was going with the whole gay vibe thing ..
Yeah from what I've seen he looks very metrosexual.
I'd say try growing a beard or something...
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Acaterpillar
A little mad...



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Re: Why? [Re: Shins]
#19293039 - 12/18/13 12:07 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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You think I look metrosexual? Really?
I mostly post pictures of me in work clothes, but on a typical day I wear jeans and a tank-top. I don't see how that could be interpreted as metrosexual
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qman
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Acaterpillar said: In the beginning I made the mistake of telling them I'm bi. Now I don't even mention it because it's guaranteed to become an annoyance.
I don't put off gay vibes; it's just that I don't run away with my tail tucked when someone tells me there gay. I guess that's enough for them to think I'm down 
"telling them I'm bi"
So you have gay sex, and you're surprised gay dudes hit on you, it seems to make sense what is happening.
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k00laid
NEMO


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Re: Why? [Re: qman]
#19293173 - 12/18/13 12:38 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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qman said: So you have gay sex, and you're surprised gay dudes hit on you, after you ask them not to it seems to make sense what is happening.
there ya go
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shivas.wisdom
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Registered: 02/19/09
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Acaterpillar said: I mostly post pictures of me in work clothes, but on a typical day I wear jeans and a tank-top. I don't see how that could be interpreted as metrosexual 

op?
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Acaterpillar
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Re: Why? [Re: qman]
#19293240 - 12/18/13 12:53 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Okay, now I feel like y'all are just trolling
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Bassfreak
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if a gay dude kept hitting on me id flip the fuck out on them
but i also wouldnt wanna be friends with them either
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NetDiver
Wandering Mindfuck


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Don't worry, I don't think they'd want to be your friend either.
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qman
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I went to a family/friends party a few years ago, and some guy was asking me questions about myself and was just talking too much, I sensed that he must be gay and I walked away from him.
A few months later I found out that in fact he was a gay guy, so the best thing to do is just leave.
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x Ju x
Aubergine Of The Sun



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Re: Why? [Re: qman]
#19293320 - 12/18/13 01:17 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Whenever you guys hang out, is the interaction between you two too uncomfortable to deal with? If so it might be best to stop hanging with him or something.
If you've already made your intentions clear on just being friends then there's really nothing else you can do. If he keeps advancing towards you I'd say have a conversation with him and make sure he knows you feel uncomfortable.
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