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ShroomPuncher
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Get a load of this shit.. 1
#19292908 - 12/18/13 11:31 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Alright, so the girl I was dating for a few months randomly started ignoring me. She was thinking about moving to a diff city for school and a new start, which I wanted for her but if you're in a serious relationship, you just don't dip out like that. So she told me last week final decision, she wasn't moving. Then I didn't hear from her for 3 days. I called, I texted, went to her work to check in. I figured she ran away but they said she worked recently so I went to her apartment to check in... here's where shit gets fucked...
I walked in, looked around, all her stuff was there. She hadn't moved. Next thing I know, a fucking crowd of cops was at the apartment saying I broke and entered. So I called her to tell her to tell them that I was her boyfriend and I didn't B&E. She texted me back "My husband came and got me", which obviously fuckin' broke me. Then the cop called her and she sounded skiddish like she didn't know who she was with but apparently, she's not married I finally got in touch with her and turns out, she blocked me on facebook and planned on leaving the city without telling me.
So she played me on every level, lied to me, and is possibly with another guy. I'm facing charges because I went to check in on who I thought was my girlfriend. She acknowledges how fucked up it is but when I got real with her and called her a coward for doing this to me, she called ME selfish talkin' about how I'm immature.
I mean, what the fuck am I supposed to do? She was planning on leaving and telling me nothing and got caught. I've caught her on multiple lies since then. I have absolutely no intention of rekindling our relationship. I just want the truth and her to talk to the DA so they don't press charges.
I loved this girl to death and she really was a straightshooter at first. Always honest, everything. Just the past couple weeks she decided to fuck me over.
Anyways, I just wanted to share. Hada vent somewhere. Any advice or suggestions on how to handle this situation?
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jsad316
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0_0 Holy shit. Women
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: jsad316]
#19292943 - 12/18/13 11:42 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Find evidence to prove you were together...like text conversations that don't make you look like a stalker
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: jsad316]
#19292959 - 12/18/13 11:46 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Yikes! She sounds like a basket case. Sociopathic perhaps? I hope no charges get pressed OP, this is seriously fucked up. Good luck out there.
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Just text her and be like "hey I understand you don't want anything to do with me anymore, I just need you to help me get these charges dropped and then we'll go our separate ways"
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ShroomPuncher
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jsad316 said: 0_0 Holy shit. Women
Right?
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Black_Sunset said: Find evidence to prove you were together...like text conversations that don't make you look like a stalker
I have pictures, saved conversations, etc. I mean it was no secret that we were dating. She said she would talk to the DA but I don't feel it. I know she plans on leaving within the week and I don't think she wants to get mixed up in court but in all honesty, all she has to do is stop by one day after work, talk to the DA, and tell him it's a big misunderstanding.
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FrozenHappiness said: Yikes! She sounds like a basket case. Sociopathic perhaps? I hope no charges get pressed OP, this is seriously fucked up. Good luck out there.
I appreciate it. I really didn't think she was the kinda girl to do this.
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ShroomPuncher said: I really didn't think she was the kinda girl to do this.
who would be?
thats not "girl shit"
thats sociopath shit.
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badchad
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How did you get into her apartment?
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ShroomPuncher
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: badchad]
#19293003 - 12/18/13 11:58 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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badchad said: How did you get into her apartment?
Door was unlocked. I walked in.
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: k00laid]
#19293006 - 12/18/13 11:58 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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O rly?
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FrozenHappiness said: Yikes! She sounds like a basket case. Sociopathic perhaps? I hope no charges get pressed OP, this is seriously fucked up. Good luck out there.
Yep, sounds like a sociopath to me.
Sociopaths have no conscience or emotions and thrive off of manipulating and lying to people.
Sucks when you come in contact with them, but you just have to remember they are not your friends and never really cared about you, and you have to move on.
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: badchad]
#19293010 - 12/18/13 12:00 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Girl sounds like a straight quack.
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: Shins]
#19293015 - 12/18/13 12:02 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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What you did was kinda creepy stalky though, and indeed a bit immature. You did kinf of B&E, you gots to respect peoples individually even if you're dating brah.
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ShroomPuncher
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: Shins]
#19293057 - 12/18/13 12:11 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Samurai Drifter said:
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FrozenHappiness said: Yikes! She sounds like a basket case. Sociopathic perhaps? I hope no charges get pressed OP, this is seriously fucked up. Good luck out there.
Yep, sounds like a sociopath to me.
Sociopaths have no conscience or emotions and thrive off of manipulating and lying to people.
Sucks when you come in contact with them, but you just have to remember they are not your friends and never really cared about you, and you have to move on.
That's truth. I appreciate that, man.
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Shins said: What you did was kinda creepy stalky though, and indeed a bit immature. You did kinf of B&E, you gots to respect peoples individually even if you're dating brah.
I did it outta concern. I didn't know if she was hurt, gone, cheating, etc. I should've just left it alone or found another less 'invasive' way, though. Could've been smarter about it. I was just sick of the stress and sleepless nights and constant concern.
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OP, turn this shit into a screenplay
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: Shins]
#19293093 - 12/18/13 12:19 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Shins said: What you did was kinda creepy stalky though, and indeed a bit immature. You did kinf of B&E, you gots to respect peoples individually even if you're dating brah.
I don't think opening an unlocked door qualifies as breaking and entering.
I'm confused about the part where the cops just showed up. Did that happen immediately after you got there OP? How would they know you were there?
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ShroomPuncher
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: psi]
#19293153 - 12/18/13 12:35 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Nimpo said: OP, turn this shit into a screenplay
"The day I met my sociopath" starring shroompuncher as 'thatguy'
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Shins said: What you did was kinda creepy stalky though, and indeed a bit immature. You did kinf of B&E, you gots to respect peoples individually even if you're dating brah.
I don't think opening an unlocked door qualifies as breaking and entering.
I'm confused about the part where the cops just showed up. Did that happen immediately after you got there OP? How would they know you were there?
Her neighbors called the cops. They happen to be daughters of a cop and I think she told them that she was outta town or something, which wasn't true. I was there for a few minutes till they showed up.
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ShroomPuncher said:
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Samurai Drifter said:
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FrozenHappiness said: Yikes! She sounds like a basket case. Sociopathic perhaps? I hope no charges get pressed OP, this is seriously fucked up. Good luck out there.
Yep, sounds like a sociopath to me.
Sociopaths have no conscience or emotions and thrive off of manipulating and lying to people.
Sucks when you come in contact with them, but you just have to remember they are not your friends and never really cared about you, and you have to move on.
That's truth. I appreciate that, man.
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Shins said: What you did was kinda creepy stalky though, and indeed a bit immature. You did kinf of B&E, you gots to respect peoples individually even if you're dating brah.
I did it outta concern. I didn't know if she was hurt, gone, cheating, etc. I should've just left it alone or found another less 'invasive' way, though. Could've been smarter about it. I was just sick of the stress and sleepless nights and constant concern.
You seem very overposessive. My guess is that's why she wanted to bail and didn't want to deal with your drama.
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: psi]
#19293174 - 12/18/13 12:39 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Shins said: What you did was kinda creepy stalky though, and indeed a bit immature. You did kinf of B&E, you gots to respect peoples individually even if you're dating brah.
I don't think opening an unlocked door qualifies as breaking and entering.
I'm confused about the part where the cops just showed up. Did that happen immediately after you got there OP? How would they know you were there?
It does if its not your property. Do you really think you can just walk into anyone's place and snoop around if they leave their door unlocked?
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: Shins]
#19293186 - 12/18/13 12:41 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Shins said:
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ShroomPuncher said:
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Samurai Drifter said:
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FrozenHappiness said: Yikes! She sounds like a basket case. Sociopathic perhaps? I hope no charges get pressed OP, this is seriously fucked up. Good luck out there.
Yep, sounds like a sociopath to me.
Sociopaths have no conscience or emotions and thrive off of manipulating and lying to people.
Sucks when you come in contact with them, but you just have to remember they are not your friends and never really cared about you, and you have to move on.
That's truth. I appreciate that, man.
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Shins said: What you did was kinda creepy stalky though, and indeed a bit immature. You did kinf of B&E, you gots to respect peoples individually even if you're dating brah.
I did it outta concern. I didn't know if she was hurt, gone, cheating, etc. I should've just left it alone or found another less 'invasive' way, though. Could've been smarter about it. I was just sick of the stress and sleepless nights and constant concern.
You seem very overposessive. My guess is that's why she wanted to bail and didn't want to deal with your drama.
Overpossessive? I didn't even know if she was alive. I actually wasn't possessive at all. She knew she could do what she wanted (somethings, without saying, you don't do in a relationship). I was over-concerned. That's for sure but I was by no means a stalker or a creep for checking in on my girlfriend. If she had left me or I was an ex, then yeah but I feel like my actions are pretty justified... just could've been smarter about it.
This wasn't some random girl. This is the girl I was with. She made it clear that I was welcome over whenever so I didn't think shit of it.
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