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#19292908 - 12/18/13 11:31 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Alright, so the girl I was dating for a few months randomly started ignoring me. She was thinking about moving to a diff city for school and a new start, which I wanted for her but if you're in a serious relationship, you just don't dip out like that. So she told me last week final decision, she wasn't moving. Then I didn't hear from her for 3 days. I called, I texted, went to her work to check in. I figured she ran away but they said she worked recently so I went to her apartment to check in... here's where shit gets fucked...
I walked in, looked around, all her stuff was there. She hadn't moved. Next thing I know, a fucking crowd of cops was at the apartment saying I broke and entered. So I called her to tell her to tell them that I was her boyfriend and I didn't B&E. She texted me back "My husband came and got me", which obviously fuckin' broke me. Then the cop called her and she sounded skiddish like she didn't know who she was with but apparently, she's not married I finally got in touch with her and turns out, she blocked me on facebook and planned on leaving the city without telling me.
So she played me on every level, lied to me, and is possibly with another guy. I'm facing charges because I went to check in on who I thought was my girlfriend. She acknowledges how fucked up it is but when I got real with her and called her a coward for doing this to me, she called ME selfish talkin' about how I'm immature.
I mean, what the fuck am I supposed to do? She was planning on leaving and telling me nothing and got caught. I've caught her on multiple lies since then. I have absolutely no intention of rekindling our relationship. I just want the truth and her to talk to the DA so they don't press charges.
I loved this girl to death and she really was a straightshooter at first. Always honest, everything. Just the past couple weeks she decided to fuck me over.
Anyways, I just wanted to share. Hada vent somewhere. Any advice or suggestions on how to handle this situation?
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0_0 Holy shit. Women
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: jsad316]
#19292943 - 12/18/13 11:42 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Find evidence to prove you were together...like text conversations that don't make you look like a stalker
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: jsad316]
#19292959 - 12/18/13 11:46 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Yikes! She sounds like a basket case. Sociopathic perhaps? I hope no charges get pressed OP, this is seriously fucked up. Good luck out there.
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Just text her and be like "hey I understand you don't want anything to do with me anymore, I just need you to help me get these charges dropped and then we'll go our separate ways"
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jsad316 said: 0_0 Holy shit. Women
Right?
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Black_Sunset said: Find evidence to prove you were together...like text conversations that don't make you look like a stalker
I have pictures, saved conversations, etc. I mean it was no secret that we were dating. She said she would talk to the DA but I don't feel it. I know she plans on leaving within the week and I don't think she wants to get mixed up in court but in all honesty, all she has to do is stop by one day after work, talk to the DA, and tell him it's a big misunderstanding.
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FrozenHappiness said: Yikes! She sounds like a basket case. Sociopathic perhaps? I hope no charges get pressed OP, this is seriously fucked up. Good luck out there.
I appreciate it. I really didn't think she was the kinda girl to do this.
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ShroomPuncher said: I really didn't think she was the kinda girl to do this.
who would be?
thats not "girl shit"
thats sociopath shit.
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How did you get into her apartment?
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: badchad]
#19293003 - 12/18/13 11:58 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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badchad said: How did you get into her apartment?
Door was unlocked. I walked in.
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: k00laid]
#19293006 - 12/18/13 11:58 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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FrozenHappiness said: Yikes! She sounds like a basket case. Sociopathic perhaps? I hope no charges get pressed OP, this is seriously fucked up. Good luck out there.
Yep, sounds like a sociopath to me.
Sociopaths have no conscience or emotions and thrive off of manipulating and lying to people.
Sucks when you come in contact with them, but you just have to remember they are not your friends and never really cared about you, and you have to move on.
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: badchad]
#19293010 - 12/18/13 12:00 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Girl sounds like a straight quack.
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: Shins]
#19293015 - 12/18/13 12:02 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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What you did was kinda creepy stalky though, and indeed a bit immature. You did kinf of B&E, you gots to respect peoples individually even if you're dating brah.
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: Shins]
#19293057 - 12/18/13 12:11 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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FrozenHappiness said: Yikes! She sounds like a basket case. Sociopathic perhaps? I hope no charges get pressed OP, this is seriously fucked up. Good luck out there.
Yep, sounds like a sociopath to me.
Sociopaths have no conscience or emotions and thrive off of manipulating and lying to people.
Sucks when you come in contact with them, but you just have to remember they are not your friends and never really cared about you, and you have to move on.
That's truth. I appreciate that, man.
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Shins said: What you did was kinda creepy stalky though, and indeed a bit immature. You did kinf of B&E, you gots to respect peoples individually even if you're dating brah.
I did it outta concern. I didn't know if she was hurt, gone, cheating, etc. I should've just left it alone or found another less 'invasive' way, though. Could've been smarter about it. I was just sick of the stress and sleepless nights and constant concern.
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OP, turn this shit into a screenplay
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: Shins]
#19293093 - 12/18/13 12:19 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Shins said: What you did was kinda creepy stalky though, and indeed a bit immature. You did kinf of B&E, you gots to respect peoples individually even if you're dating brah.
I don't think opening an unlocked door qualifies as breaking and entering.
I'm confused about the part where the cops just showed up. Did that happen immediately after you got there OP? How would they know you were there?
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: psi]
#19293153 - 12/18/13 12:35 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Nimpo said: OP, turn this shit into a screenplay
"The day I met my sociopath" starring shroompuncher as 'thatguy'
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I don't think opening an unlocked door qualifies as breaking and entering.
I'm confused about the part where the cops just showed up. Did that happen immediately after you got there OP? How would they know you were there?
Her neighbors called the cops. They happen to be daughters of a cop and I think she told them that she was outta town or something, which wasn't true. I was there for a few minutes till they showed up.
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FrozenHappiness said: Yikes! She sounds like a basket case. Sociopathic perhaps? I hope no charges get pressed OP, this is seriously fucked up. Good luck out there.
Yep, sounds like a sociopath to me.
Sociopaths have no conscience or emotions and thrive off of manipulating and lying to people.
Sucks when you come in contact with them, but you just have to remember they are not your friends and never really cared about you, and you have to move on.
That's truth. I appreciate that, man.
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Shins said: What you did was kinda creepy stalky though, and indeed a bit immature. You did kinf of B&E, you gots to respect peoples individually even if you're dating brah.
I did it outta concern. I didn't know if she was hurt, gone, cheating, etc. I should've just left it alone or found another less 'invasive' way, though. Could've been smarter about it. I was just sick of the stress and sleepless nights and constant concern.
You seem very overposessive. My guess is that's why she wanted to bail and didn't want to deal with your drama.
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: psi]
#19293174 - 12/18/13 12:39 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Shins said: What you did was kinda creepy stalky though, and indeed a bit immature. You did kinf of B&E, you gots to respect peoples individually even if you're dating brah.
I don't think opening an unlocked door qualifies as breaking and entering.
I'm confused about the part where the cops just showed up. Did that happen immediately after you got there OP? How would they know you were there?
It does if its not your property. Do you really think you can just walk into anyone's place and snoop around if they leave their door unlocked?
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: Shins]
#19293186 - 12/18/13 12:41 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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FrozenHappiness said: Yikes! She sounds like a basket case. Sociopathic perhaps? I hope no charges get pressed OP, this is seriously fucked up. Good luck out there.
Yep, sounds like a sociopath to me.
Sociopaths have no conscience or emotions and thrive off of manipulating and lying to people.
Sucks when you come in contact with them, but you just have to remember they are not your friends and never really cared about you, and you have to move on.
That's truth. I appreciate that, man.
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Shins said: What you did was kinda creepy stalky though, and indeed a bit immature. You did kinf of B&E, you gots to respect peoples individually even if you're dating brah.
I did it outta concern. I didn't know if she was hurt, gone, cheating, etc. I should've just left it alone or found another less 'invasive' way, though. Could've been smarter about it. I was just sick of the stress and sleepless nights and constant concern.
You seem very overposessive. My guess is that's why she wanted to bail and didn't want to deal with your drama.
Overpossessive? I didn't even know if she was alive. I actually wasn't possessive at all. She knew she could do what she wanted (somethings, without saying, you don't do in a relationship). I was over-concerned. That's for sure but I was by no means a stalker or a creep for checking in on my girlfriend. If she had left me or I was an ex, then yeah but I feel like my actions are pretty justified... just could've been smarter about it.
This wasn't some random girl. This is the girl I was with. She made it clear that I was welcome over whenever so I didn't think shit of it.
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: Shins] 6
#19293191 - 12/18/13 12:42 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: Shins] 1
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Shins said: What you did was kinda creepy stalky though, and indeed a bit immature. You did kinf of B&E, you gots to respect peoples individually even if you're dating brah.
I don't think opening an unlocked door qualifies as breaking and entering.
I'm confused about the part where the cops just showed up. Did that happen immediately after you got there OP? How would they know you were there?
It does if its not your property. Do you really think you can just walk into anyone's place and snoop around if they leave their door unlocked?
I'm pretty sure forced entry is required to be considered breaking and entering--though, it could still be considered trespassing.
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: Shins]
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You seem very overposessive. My guess is that's why she wanted to bail and didn't want to deal with your drama.
Yeah exactly. I was thinking the same thing.
OP, just forget about her, move on, and learn from this experience so next time you don't make the same mistakes.
As for the breaking and entering charge; you DID break in and enter, no matter if the door was unlocked. I'm sure the court would still drop it if the "victim" in this case explained, but the law is the law. Imagine if you just walked around and tried every door, and eventually found one and walked in. Would that not be breaking and entering/burglary if you stole something?
But anyway, hope you get everything sorted out. Having charges sucks, especially felonies. Good luck man.
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shivas.wisdom said: I'm pretty sure forced entry is required to be considered breaking and entering--though, it could still be considered trespassing.
Yes that was my understanding.
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: Aopocetx]
#19293223 - 12/18/13 12:47 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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You seem very overposessive. My guess is that's why she wanted to bail and didn't want to deal with your drama.
Yeah exactly. I was thinking the same thing.
OP, just forget about her, move on, and learn from this experience so next time you don't make the same mistakes.
As for the breaking and entering charge; you DID break in and enter, no matter if the door was unlocked. I'm sure the court would still drop it if the "victim" in this case explained, but the law is the law. Imagine if you just walked around and tried every door, and eventually found one and walked in. Would that not be breaking and entering/burglary if you stole something?
But anyway, hope you get everything sorted out. Having charges sucks, especially felonies. Good luck man.
Yeah, unfortunately I already have a record from being adumbass in the past and she said she was gonna talk to the DA. But yes, it is considering felony B&E because it happened after a certain hour and I realize that it is still a crime. I just didn't think that would happen. I never imagined I'd get charged for walking into my girlfriends apartment.
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Possissive or not, all I can say is that i'm sorry OP, if this girl is a "sociopath" than I have met my fair share of sociopath girls as well. I know how you feel to an extent, I have never been in that exact situation but I know how badly it sucks to have the love ripped out of your life and receive the cold shoulder, I also know how it feels to have someone you completely trust turn into the person who completely fucks you over worst than anybody else ever has. I know you are probably really sad, and you have every right to feel betrayed.
I have since gotten over such things (took me over a year both times) and my advice to you is keep your chin up, stay strong (mentally and emotionally) and don't let some sleezy bitch like that get the best of you. Move on, that's all you can do. The sooner you find a new girl the easier it will be.
And to be honest, It seems like this girl was trying to mind fuck the shit out of you which is extremely immature. Don't worry man, Karma is real, she'll get hers.
Just be cool, keep your head up, and move on as best as you can. This is life.
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: Cpt.Crunch]
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I think a very pertinent question here is, How long have you been with this girl? I mean if you've been with her for a month, this is pretty creepy you just walking in IMO. If you've been together a while I could see it.  Either way it's pretty lame that you got caught up like that.
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badchad said: How did you get into her apartment?
Door was unlocked. I walked in.
That is called breaking and entering dude...a normal person knocks on the door and goes away when nobody answers. Not opens the door and walks in...
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: Uzziel]
#19293613 - 12/18/13 02:34 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Uzziel said: That is called breaking and entering dude...a normal person knocks on the door and goes away when nobody answers. Not opens the door and walks in...
Yeah exactly, that's the only problem.
I still feel bad for the OP though. People make mistakes (sometimes very minor ones that result in a lot of negative effects).
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: Aopocetx]
#19293628 - 12/18/13 02:36 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Yeah this situation is beyond fucked up. Idk what's worse between her sociopathic tendencies or your overpotective-ness. Either way I feel bad for you OP but your intentions seemed pure and i'm sure it'll all work out in the end
Best of luck sir
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I really don't see how OP was being a stalker or whatever, like seriously guys
If my girlfriend told me she may be moving, then told me she's not and then I didn't hear from her after trying to contact her for a few days...... Ummm yeah I think I'd go to where she lives too and see WTF is going on.
Call me a stalker but that's just me
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op how many times did you have sex with you "girlfriend"
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: k00laid]
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k00laid said: op how many times did you have sex with you "girlfriend"
A shit ton. According to her, she was the most sexually active with me. She only had 3 actual relationships other than me.
And I appreciate the advice and support from you guys. Hopefully it'll turn out for the better. I just gotta get my shit right and move on.
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You didn't know it she was dead or cheating, so what? You did not own this girl, if she wants to cheat, that's her business, if she was dead, you would find out eventually.
You can't go around walking into someones home, and then claim you did it out of concern.
If she didn't respond to your texts and messages, it means she's blowing you off, next time don't give a shit.
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I'm pretty sure this is just some chick that you have been stalking. She probably doesn't even know who you are.
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The5thElement said: I really don't see how OP was being a stalker or whatever, like seriously guys
If my girlfriend told me she may be moving, then told me she's not and then I didn't hear from her after trying to contact her for a few days...... Ummm yeah I think I'd go to where she lives too and see WTF is going on.
Call me a stalker but that's just me 
You must not have had a lot of relationships.
When the girl you like stops talking to you, its not good news and it usually means take a hint. Yeah its a cowardly thing to do, but that is how some people are.
I can understand going to her place and knocking on the door, but not just walking in and then confronting someone who doesn't want to be confronted.
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: Uzziel]
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ummmmm get her to get those charges dismissed and then never talk to that bitch again.
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: qman]
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qman said: You didn't know it she was dead or cheating, so what? You did not own this girl, if she wants to cheat, that's her business, if she was dead, you would find out eventually.
You can't go around walking into someones home, and then claim you did it out of concern.
If she didn't respond to your texts and messages, it means she's blowing you off, next time don't give a shit.
"If she was dead, you would find out eventually"
Just stfu.
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Some people are pieces of shit, move on and get over it. Big mistake breaking into her house though, I would claim you were worried that she was injured or something of that sort.
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: Uzziel]
#19293960 - 12/18/13 04:08 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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The5thElement said: I really don't see how OP was being a stalker or whatever, like seriously guys
If my girlfriend told me she may be moving, then told me she's not and then I didn't hear from her after trying to contact her for a few days...... Ummm yeah I think I'd go to where she lives too and see WTF is going on.
Call me a stalker but that's just me 
You must not have had a lot of relationships.
When the girl you like stops talking to you, its not good news and it usually means take a hint. Yeah its a cowardly thing to do, but that is how some people are.
I can understand going to her place and knocking on the door, but not just walking in and then confronting someone who doesn't want to be confronted.
Yeah..... Right because people never get into accidents, or kidnaped, or anything out of the ordinary. K everyone, next time your in a relationship and if out of nowhere your partner stops contacting you... You should immediately stop trying to get a hold of them and just assume the relationship is over. Sound advice
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Here is what I don't understand.
People have raped little children. People have exploited millions of sentient, living human beings, beat them, made them work like horses, and treated them worse than shit. People have killed and beheaded their closest family members for money and power.
Why are you SOOOO surprised at what happened to you? I feel complete sympathy for you and I'm sorry it had to be this way, but the world is chaotic as fuck. No matter how close you get to someone, you will never really see what's inside their heart. Their "id", if you will.
Your ex-girlfriend is scum, she is a piece of shit. She is a massive dick on every level. What she did was unacceptable and cruel. Automatic third strike. She is not a good, dignified human being.
What you do is get a lawyer, explain the situation, and forget her. There's really nothing else you can or should do.
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Lol, how the fuck am I a stalker for checking in on her? She was suicidal. She fell into a deep depression and talked about running away or killing herself. I think I was fine in checking in on her. I admit it was dumb to walk in like that but still. If you give a fuck about someone and know these things are going on, it's natural to check the situation.
And I appreciate the solid advice from some of you guys.
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qman said: You didn't know it she was dead or cheating, so what? You did not own this girl, if she wants to cheat, that's her business, if she was dead, you would find out eventually.
You can't go around walking into someones home, and then claim you did it out of concern.
If she didn't respond to your texts and messages, it means she's blowing you off, next time don't give a shit.
"If she was dead, you would find out eventually"
Just stfu.
So every time some bitch doesn't respond to someones messages, the conclusion should be she might be dead? 99.999999%, she's blowing you off. Grow up dude.
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: qman]
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qman said: You didn't know it she was dead or cheating, so what? You did not own this girl, if she wants to cheat, that's her business, if she was dead, you would find out eventually.
You can't go around walking into someones home, and then claim you did it out of concern.
If she didn't respond to your texts and messages, it means she's blowing you off, next time don't give a shit.
"If she was dead, you would find out eventually"
Just stfu.
So every time some bitch doesn't respond to someones messages, the conclusion should be she might be dead? 99.999999%, she's blowing you off. Grow up dude.
No shit she was blowing me off. I just said how she was talking about suicide and was in a deep depression. i'm not the kind of person who says 'fuck it' because I don't hear from someone.
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: qman] 1
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qman said: You didn't know it she was dead or cheating, so what? You did not own this girl, if she wants to cheat, that's her business, if she was dead, you would find out eventually.
You can't go around walking into someones home, and then claim you did it out of concern.
If she didn't respond to your texts and messages, it means she's blowing you off, next time don't give a shit.
"If she was dead, you would find out eventually"
Just stfu.
So every time some bitch doesn't respond to someones messages, the conclusion should be she might be dead? 99.999999%, she's blowing you off. Grow up dude.
This wasn't some random, it was his GF
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This wasn't some random, it was his GF
Most likely only in his mind.
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: Enlil]
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This wasn't some random, it was his GF
Most likely only in his mind.
Right, just like every time we fucked and hungout, that was in my mind. It was pure imagination. If I was stalking this girl, I would've gone to fucking jail and she would've pressed charges. I wouldn't be here to bitch about it, dipshit.
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: Nimpo]
#19294084 - 12/18/13 04:32 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Watch the flaming, bro...it's unshroomy as fuck.
Think about it, dude. If she thought of you as her boyfriend, would you really be in this situation? YOU were the only one who thought that.
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: Enlil]
#19294143 - 12/18/13 04:44 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Enlil said: Watch the flaming, bro...it's unshroomy as fuck.
Think about it, dude. If she thought of you as her boyfriend, would you really be in this situation? YOU were the only one who thought that.
Apparently she didn't think of me as that the last few days. Doesn't change the fact that I still loved her and looked out for her on every level. Just because it was easy for her doesn't make it much easier for me.
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: Enlil]
#19294149 - 12/18/13 04:45 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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why are you trolling so much Enlil? 
OP, obviously walking in may have been a bit too much, but I understand where you're coming from and I would think most level headed people would get that you were legitimately concerned for her well being.
Hope everything works out.
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Enlil said: Watch the flaming, bro...it's unshroomy as fuck.
Think about it, dude. If she thought of you as her boyfriend, would you really be in this situation? YOU were the only one who thought that.
Apparently she didn't think of me as that the last few days. Doesn't change the fact that I still loved her and looked out for her on every level. Just because it was easy for her doesn't make it much easier for me.
Sounds overbearing.
most girls don't want nor need to be looked after on every level. That stinks of overbearing and overposessive to me. Chalk up mild stalkyness and all of this only a couple months in and we might be getting an idea about why she ducked out.
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qman said: You didn't know it she was dead or cheating, so what? You did not own this girl, if she wants to cheat, that's her business, if she was dead, you would find out eventually.
You can't go around walking into someones home, and then claim you did it out of concern.
If she didn't respond to your texts and messages, it means she's blowing you off, next time don't give a shit.
"If she was dead, you would find out eventually"
Just stfu.
So every time some bitch doesn't respond to someones messages, the conclusion should be she might be dead? 99.999999%, she's blowing you off. Grow up dude.
This wasn't some random, it was his GF
You think "GF's" don't pull this bullshit on a regular basis? It's a common practice for some women that lose interest in a guy.
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: Enlil]
#19294177 - 12/18/13 04:54 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Enlil said: Watch the flaming, bro...it's unshroomy as fuck.
Think about it, dude. If she thought of you as her boyfriend, would you really be in this situation? YOU were the only one who thought that.
I've had gfs that have done the same shit to me before, and we were most def boyfriend and gf. She was just a cowardly bitch who prefered to have 0 conflict in her life. Fucking hate people like that, might as well just stop shaving yourself and move out west.
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If I was in a relationship with someone and just up and disappeared without any real word on where, I sure as hell would hope they care enough that they'd try to figure out what happened to me.. Not just assume it was my way of breaking up with them..
Who wants to be in a relationship with someone so uncaring that when you disappear they just shrug their shoulders and say "time to move on"..?
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Because he is a little girl.
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: NetDiver]
#19295686 - 12/18/13 11:14 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Sucks when you come in contact with them, but you just have to remember they are not your friends and never really cared about you, and you have to move on.
I became close friends with a sociopath for many several months, he hid it well for a while but eventually it became evident. Those sorts of vibes scare the living fuck out of me. Sometimes talking to him really just left me wondering "where is the humanity?"
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: Sheekle]
#19295801 - 12/18/13 11:38 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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did u accidentally pitb?
shitty situation
shoulda just let it be, thats life sometimes
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: Sheekle]
#19296180 - 12/19/13 01:24 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Samurai Drifter said: Sociopaths have no conscience or emotions and thrive off of manipulating and lying to people.
Sucks when you come in contact with them, but you just have to remember they are not your friends and never really cared about you, and you have to move on.
I became close friends with a sociopath for many several months, he hid it well for a while but eventually it became evident. Those sorts of vibes scare the living fuck out of me. Sometimes talking to him really just left me wondering "where is the humanity?"
More interested in this story than OP going into some girls house without permission.
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: Enjoywho]
#19296224 - 12/19/13 01:54 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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You were with her for a few months and don't hear from her for 3 days and you get all antsy and proceed to go to her work and ask co-workers about her, and then enter her place without her being there? I guess a lot can happen in a few months but I don't see that as a huge period of time in a relationship and 3 days is certainly not a sufficient duration to be getting so worked up about things. The fact that you did get so worked up, plus the fact that she was willing to move city, was avoiding contact and also that she mentioned a 'husband' in her response to you, makes me wonder about the overbearing thing others have mentioned.
Personally, I think there's another side to this story - perhaps a part which elucidates why there was a communication problem and why she was apparently avoiding you.
Calling her a sociopath seems a bit premature. It may be that she was afraid to tell OP any bad news - perhaps she was oversensitive to the point of avoidance. Or perhaps she simply had more important shit going on her life and didn't have the time and energy to talk to OP. If I had someone at me for not getting back to them for 3 days, I'd not be encouraging them but instead trying to gain some space.
Anyhow, don't mean to attack you OP, I just think there's more to it. Sorry to hear about the situation. Hope things don't get messy with the law involved.
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The5thElement said: I really don't see how OP was being a stalker or whatever, like seriously guys 
whe a chick stops answering your calls, texts, blocks you on facebook and other shit, and you stop by her work, then her home and just help yourself to entry, that's stalker behavior. it shows the chick cut contact and was avoiding you.
maybe the story the OP gave is 100% accurate, maybe it's not, regardless when a chick is avoiding you, it's best to let her have that space because a charge is the end result almost every time
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: Prisoner#1]
#19296439 - 12/19/13 03:34 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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The last 2 are 100% how I feel about this thread.
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: Enjoywho]
#19296454 - 12/19/13 03:44 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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I didn't read this whole thread and yeah the whole situation seems a little shady...
but maybe he feared for her safety or something.
I mean if OP didn't do anything crazy to deserve this, that is definitely odd behavior on her part.
If there was someone I was talking to nearly every day for months and then they just disappeared for a few days I'd be a little worried too.
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: TrentBoyett]
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OP post a pic.
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Re: Get a load of this shit.. [Re: fapjack]
#19296824 - 12/19/13 07:00 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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