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Acaterpillar
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Why?
#19290774 - 12/17/13 09:57 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Why does every gay guy I talk to end up falling for me?
I tell them I prefer girls and that I only wanna be friends.
They agree, but it never happens.
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fiddle



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It's probably for the same reason that a guy will pursue a girl who just wants to be friends. And then the guy gets upset when the girl just wants to be friends.

People don't listen to what they don't want to hear.
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Acaterpillar
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Re: Why? [Re: fiddle]
#19290785 - 12/17/13 10:02 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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fiddle said: It's probably for the same reason that a guy will pursue a girl who just wants to be friends. And then the guy gets upset when the girl just wants to be friends.

People don't listen to what they don't want to hear.
Yeah you're probably right. I don't want to be a dick and be like "Get out of here bro", but I dunno what else to do at this point.
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I have a gay friend who has beenmaking comments lately like "dude everyones a little bicurious, its ok dude."
I don't think hes into me or at least he doesn't say so.
getting old tho
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fiddle



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If he's bothering you or making you uncomfortable then tell him to take his tank top and tonka truck and kick rocks.
There's nothing wrong with more forcibly letting him know you're not interested if he's still pursuing you.
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Happens to me too. Once they know I like shrooms they assume I'm gay. Well I am because of the shrooms, but I just lie and tell'em that shrooms don't make you gay because I don't have the heart to tell'em they're ugly.
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Mushrooms=Gardar. The mushrooms are giving off gay vibes.
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Re: Why? [Re: qman] 1
#19290888 - 12/17/13 10:26 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Gotta set boundaries with them, honestly its a bit harder to do with guys. They're so fucking persistent.
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maybe you give off a gay vibe so they think youre gay
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Re: Why? [Re: qman]
#19290891 - 12/17/13 10:27 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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It's either the mushrooms or the fact that you talk to them...
Straight guys generally don't talk to guys in most cases although there are exceptions...but still you're kinda setting yourself up by even giving them attention. You have to realize that most men are straight and by being different, you are opening yourself up and they see you as more attractive and obtainable whereas a straight guy that doesn't talk to them, well they obviously have no chance.
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Quote:
Acaterpillar said: Why does every gay guy I talk to end up falling for me?
I tell them I prefer girls and that I only wanna be friends.
They agree, but it never happens. 
Same thing happens to me. I've had more gay's hit on me over the last 2 years than I expected to have throughout my whole life.
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It happens, you just have to tell them no. If they really don't get the message, kick em out of your life.
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Quote:
Shroomopotamus said:
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Acaterpillar said: Why does every gay guy I talk to end up falling for me?
I tell them I prefer girls and that I only wanna be friends.
They agree, but it never happens. 
Same thing happens to me. I've had more gay's hit on me over the last 2 years than I expected to have throughout my whole life.
Ive had it happen. Its cuz we'r pretty
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Shins
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Re: Why? [Re: Legend]
#19290923 - 12/17/13 10:34 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Judging by the pics I've seen of you I'd say its your style...
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Magicman69
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Re: Why? [Re: Shins]
#19290944 - 12/17/13 10:40 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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thats where i was going with the whole gay vibe thing ..
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berdinwall
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K1ngSp4de said: Happens to me too. Once they know I like shrooms they assume I'm gay. Well I am because of the shrooms, but I just lie and tell'em that shrooms don't make you gay because I don't have the heart to tell'em they're ugly.
wait...I know I've heard this several hundred times but people actually mean it when they say shrooms make you gay? shrooms didn't make me gay...they made you gay?
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i give it they like seeing you squirm.
have you ever hit on girls with the persistence that gay guys hit on dudes? do u think there is anything to be learned there, or is that just a legal case waiting to happen?
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volcomstoner
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stimpson said: i give it they like seeing you squirm.
have you ever hit on girls with the persistence that gay guys hit on dudes? do u think there is anything to be learned there, or is that just a legal case waiting to happen?
no, that would just be creepy.
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Re: Why? [Re: Legend]
#19291234 - 12/18/13 12:11 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Legend said: It happens, you just have to tell them no. If they really don't get the message, kick em out of your life.
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volcomstoner
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Quote:
mjmihalov said:
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Legend said: It happens, you just have to tell them no. If they really don't get the message, kick em out of your life.
/end thread
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mjmihalov said:
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Legend said: It happens, you just have to tell them no. If they really don't get the message, kick em out of your life.
/end thread
pretty much, I mean guys hitting on me never made me feel uncomfortable but this kid I used to work with would kind of push it too far. He was a really cool and I liked working with him but sometimes you gotta be upfront with them about what is and isn't acceptable.
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Acaterpillar
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In the beginning I made the mistake of telling them I'm bi. Now I don't even mention it because it's guaranteed to become an annoyance.
I don't put off gay vibes; it's just that I don't run away with my tail tucked when someone tells me there gay. I guess that's enough for them to think I'm down
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ps. this is what its like to be a "hot girl" annoying kinda
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Acaterpillar
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It's nice to understand their perspective a little better.
But Jesus Christ, if I was a hot girl and EVERY guy acted this way I think I'd turn lesbian.
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Shins
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lunarpiscean said: thats where i was going with the whole gay vibe thing ..
Yeah from what I've seen he looks very metrosexual.
I'd say try growing a beard or something...
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Acaterpillar
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Re: Why? [Re: Shins]
#19293039 - 12/18/13 12:07 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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You think I look metrosexual? Really?
I mostly post pictures of me in work clothes, but on a typical day I wear jeans and a tank-top. I don't see how that could be interpreted as metrosexual
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Acaterpillar said: In the beginning I made the mistake of telling them I'm bi. Now I don't even mention it because it's guaranteed to become an annoyance.
I don't put off gay vibes; it's just that I don't run away with my tail tucked when someone tells me there gay. I guess that's enough for them to think I'm down 
"telling them I'm bi"
So you have gay sex, and you're surprised gay dudes hit on you, it seems to make sense what is happening.
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Re: Why? [Re: qman]
#19293173 - 12/18/13 12:38 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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qman said: So you have gay sex, and you're surprised gay dudes hit on you, after you ask them not to it seems to make sense what is happening.
there ya go
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Acaterpillar said: I mostly post pictures of me in work clothes, but on a typical day I wear jeans and a tank-top. I don't see how that could be interpreted as metrosexual 

op?
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Acaterpillar
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Re: Why? [Re: qman]
#19293240 - 12/18/13 12:53 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Okay, now I feel like y'all are just trolling
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if a gay dude kept hitting on me id flip the fuck out on them
but i also wouldnt wanna be friends with them either
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Don't worry, I don't think they'd want to be your friend either.
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qman
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I went to a family/friends party a few years ago, and some guy was asking me questions about myself and was just talking too much, I sensed that he must be gay and I walked away from him.
A few months later I found out that in fact he was a gay guy, so the best thing to do is just leave.
Edited by qman (12/18/13 02:08 PM)
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Re: Why? [Re: qman]
#19293320 - 12/18/13 01:17 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Whenever you guys hang out, is the interaction between you two too uncomfortable to deal with? If so it might be best to stop hanging with him or something.
If you've already made your intentions clear on just being friends then there's really nothing else you can do. If he keeps advancing towards you I'd say have a conversation with him and make sure he knows you feel uncomfortable.
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