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nicechrisman
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Re: Would you date a girl who has a kid? [Re: Magenta]
#19287588 - 12/17/13 08:32 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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I have. It was OK. Not really what I'm looking for, but it could be OK if it was the right lady.
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Middleman

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Re: Would you date a girl who has a kid? [Re: Ythan]
#19287605 - 12/17/13 08:38 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Ythan said:
in some situations you can still be liable for child support even if you were never married or had any kids together.
Whaaaat? Being in my late thirties in the desert SW, I don't seem to have any other choice. Many women around here in their 30's are freakin grandmothers. Kids are great, but i don't want anything to do with teens.
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Re: Would you date a girl who has a kid? [Re: Middleman]
#19287643 - 12/17/13 08:55 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Rev. Morton said:
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Ythan said:
in some situations you can still be liable for child support even if you were never married or had any kids together.
Whaaaat? Being in my late thirties in the desert SW, I don't seem to have any other choice. Many women around here in their 30's are freakin grandmothers. Kids are great, but i don't want anything to do with teens.
lol ya thats bullshit. i would appeal the shit out of that
realistcially id probly just tell her to fuck off
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pwnasaurus
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Re: Would you date a girl who has a kid? [Re: Middleman]
#19287657 - 12/17/13 08:59 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Probably not. I'm only 24, I don't want to have anything to do with kids for AT LEAST 5 more years if ever.
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Konichiwaffle
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Re: Would you date a girl who has a kid? [Re: Ellis Dee]
#19287817 - 12/17/13 09:56 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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The male lion has no problem in taking over a pride of lionesses who have kids. His first duty is to dispose of the lion cubs fathered by anyone other than him, by killing them. He then creates new cubs by inseminating the lionesses. In human society it is not so simple as disposing of the previous guy's kids, due to laws calling such acts criminal for instance. For that reason I generally avoid women that already have kids.
This crazy motherfucker right here....
I, however, would date a woman who has a child. Only because I have a thing for Mexican women.
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Re: Would you date a girl who has a kid? [Re: Konichiwaffle]
#19287873 - 12/17/13 10:10 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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I did it once. She was seventeen. So I can honestly say I once was with a jailbait MILF.
in the end she left me for her babys daddy when he finally decided to man up and take care of the kid he was responsible for birthing. I'm honestly happy for them all, they seem like a happy family
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Re: Would you date a girl who has a kid? [Re: morrowasted]
#19287901 - 12/17/13 10:22 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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I don't think I could do it. I'm way too young to deal with kids and hell I don't want anything to do with kids for the next decade at least.
They are just too much responsibility. I want to go crazy, travel, take drugs all the time, do things on the spot when I think of it, etc. Definitely not ready to take on the responsibility of being a father when everything has to be "planned" to do anything fun.
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mpd
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Re: Would you date a girl who has a kid? [Re: Uzziel]
#19287908 - 12/17/13 10:25 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Kids can be a drag on your social life and wallet. There were lots of times through the years where we the kids cost us dearly. College, health care, allowances, clothes, games, toys... The whole nine yards. You just have to change your focus to make it work. Not so much of me, me, me and a whole lot of us, us, us...
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Re: Would you date a girl who has a kid? [Re: mpd]
#19287926 - 12/17/13 10:31 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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I'm 21 so i'm gonna say HELL NO. I can barely take care of myself sometimes much less some kid that I don't even know
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Re: Would you date a girl who has a kid? [Re: Magenta]
#19287940 - 12/17/13 10:38 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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In my younger years I did. No problem with kids.
My present spouse had a 4 year old boy and a 7 year old girl when I met her. Now almost 20 years later, that little girl has provided us with a grand daughter and grand son... . . .
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Re: Would you date a girl who has a kid? [Re: Malcolm_Xtasy]
#19287946 - 12/17/13 10:41 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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I'm open to the idea. I don't mind decently mannered kids. Unless things got serious I'm not trying to be a care taker though.
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pwnasaurus
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Re: Would you date a girl who has a kid? [Re: mpd]
#19287972 - 12/17/13 10:46 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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mpd said: Kids can be a drag on your social life and wallet. There were lots of times through the years where we the kids cost us dearly. College, health care, allowances, clothes, games, toys... The whole nine yards. You just have to change your focus to make it work. Not so much of me, me, me and a whole lot of us, us, us...
Yeah... I have no desire to change my focus.
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Re: Would you date a girl who has a kid? [Re: Magenta]
#19287981 - 12/17/13 10:49 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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I would never date a dude with a kid. Never ever ever ever ever
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Re: Would you date a girl who has a kid? [Re: VivaLaMushie]
#19288021 - 12/17/13 11:00 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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VivaLaMushie said: I would never date a dude with a kid. Never ever ever ever ever
lol
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Re: Would you date a girl who has a kid? [Re: VivaLaMushie]
#19288061 - 12/17/13 11:10 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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VivaLaMushie said: I would never date a dude with a kid. Never ever ever ever ever
If its a really great guy and the kids arent satans spawn then sure, I might.
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Re: Would you date a girl who has a kid? [Re: VivaLaMushie]
#19288070 - 12/17/13 11:11 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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This all depends on several factors is the father part of his life? and if so, is he a lunatic?
How old the kid is, sorry ladies but I would never step into a situation with an adolescent. :hairpull:
Am I stepping in as a father? eg. biological father is nowhere in the kids life.. NO
Do you see yourself with this girl for a long time? if the answer is no, move on. Believe me, the kid will get attached, and you don't want to hurt the little person.
Remember, this girl knows she doesn't want to raise a kid by herself forever, so she is looking for help from a man. marriage, money, and a mans discipline. If you're in it for just sex, you're going to be finding yourself in a world of shit.
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Re: Would you date a girl who has a kid? [Re: Ellis Dee]
#19288071 - 12/17/13 11:11 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Ellis Dee said: The male lion has no problem in taking over a pride of lionesses who have kids. His first duty is to dispose of the lion cubs fathered by anyone other than him, by killing them. He then creates new cubs by inseminating the lionesses. In human society it is not so simple as disposing of the previous guy's kids, due to laws calling such acts criminal for instance. For that reason I generally avoid women that already have kids.
My mane man!
Yeah but lionesses are great bro. It's their job to spend the day working to bring back meat while I relax. Lion society is a wonderful thing.
I imagine while relaxing I'd throw some shroomery browsing into the mix.
As long as the kid isn't some liger crossbreed I don't see how it would be an issue.
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