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ManianFH
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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: g00ru]
#19282061 - 12/16/13 01:01 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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pretty sure ive been cheated on. definitely emotional cheating as my gf was completely invested in another guy the last few months of our relationship. she finally broke up with me and was pregnant with his kid a month later. i later saw a facebook post of hers saying their anniversary, which was before she had even broken up with me. cut all ties with her at that point. at the time i was pretty fucked up over it, but now i dont really care, just dont care to ever see either of them again.
if i was cheated on again, nothing crazy, i would just break it off with the girl and stay single. i really enjoy being single.
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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: Envix] 2
#19282089 - 12/16/13 01:14 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Envix said: she did, and i forgave her and still love her. i'm not angry or jealous but i was for a while. at some point you realize that love is the only thing worth living for, really
you're a stronger man than most. 
myself, I'd bury their bodies on the second page of a google search because no one would ever look there
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ManianFH
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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: Prisoner#1]
#19282160 - 12/16/13 01:45 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Envix said: at some point you realize that love is the only thing worth living for, really
i found that video games and football are pretty good things to live for as well
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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: ManianFH]
#19282168 - 12/16/13 01:47 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Forgive her like a chump then get cheated on again.
first and last time i make that mistake.
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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: Shins] 1
#19282198 - 12/16/13 02:00 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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you'd have to be content with seeming like a chump and getting cheated on again.
if they chose to hurt you again, that's their choice. and if you chose to stay with them, that's your choice. you'll only be happy with the decisions you really want to make, and so will they.
if you go with decisions you know you'll regret, that's called a "mistake". and hopefully, we can learn from them
if you go with a decision you know you won't regret, then there's no need to worry because you already know you made the right decision
sometimes you won't know if you'll regret your decisions or not. but that's okay, because no one can predict the future. and if future circumstances do present themselves conflicting with a past decision, then that will just be another level of decisions you'll have to come to terms with.
what's the point in it all, you ask? just to learn more about yourself, and to learn more about your preferences in decision-making
some day you'll become a master-refined-decision-maker. but until then, you're going to have to keep making a lot of shitty mistakes. can we all learn to live with that? i mean, can we accept the fact that people are poor decision-makers for a percentage of their lives, until they eventually learn how to follow their hearts instead of their egos?
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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: Envix]
#19282334 - 12/16/13 03:26 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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my most recent woman did this to me, she didn't really cheat, and we were never really "together" but she started dating someone else and basically just screwed me over. i was pretty pissed and shattered at first. and i still wish her the best and all, but i'm done with that. if she's going to go as far as to do that then shes on her own.
i've been avoiding her for about a month now, and its pretty shitty cos we work together, know the same people at work, catch the same train, at similar times. and go out for drinks with the same work people. so dodging her has been pretty difficult and an on going thing.
but to be honest i just dont want to see her anymore. she fucks with me and its not good for me to be around her. the lame thing is that even though i don't like to admit it, i still want her and want to be with her and all that but she has shat all over everything and enough is enough.
kinda shitty situation to be in though, its shit to not have her around or have her to look forwards to, and its shit to be around her. ???? shit+shit=shit. i don't even know how i got myself into this situation. theres really no good result or option here
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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: Soulidarity]
#19282400 - 12/16/13 04:16 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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realistically? I'd probably cry
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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: spixce]
#19282556 - 12/16/13 05:58 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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spixce said: I would beat the shit out of him and dump that bitch
I would hang up when you called for bail.
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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: CosmicJoke]
#19282634 - 12/16/13 07:01 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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First I'd sneak into her dildo box and rub jalapenos on her toys. Then I'd kick her ass out the house. Anybody who decides to cheat on you is eventually gonna do the same. If I had to stay with her...giant groupsex orgy?
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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: TheGreenArrow]
#19282824 - 12/16/13 08:39 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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I've been cheated on before. It was quite upsetting.
Best thing to do is forget about it IMO.
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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: spixce]
#19282849 - 12/16/13 08:51 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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I'd start talking to her best friend/sister/mother and DSHSB.
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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: spixce]
#19282859 - 12/16/13 08:57 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Ultimately, it depends on the person and the situation.
Do I really love her?
Does she love me?
Did it mean anything?
Is she truly guilty and sorry for what she did?
Can I learn to trust her again?
Can she cook?
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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: thoughts]
#19282860 - 12/16/13 08:57 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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best thing is to try to be mature. break up and get over it. no childish texts or phone calls etc etc. just get over it
drugs and new pussy really really helps
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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: Bassfreak]
#19283825 - 12/16/13 01:06 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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I dropped my ex like a bag of bricks when she cheated on me
Now that I've grown and matured since then I'd probably give her a second chance and try to work things out
Being lonely sucks
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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: spixce]
#19283878 - 12/16/13 01:18 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Initiate a 3 way. If its just sex I probably wouldn't care that much, I would be much more pissed if my gf broke my computer. I'd probably get back at her by fucking one of her/my friends. Catching a girlfriend cheating on you is a free pass to bang someone else without feeling bad. There are upsides to doing it, also it makes you feel less bad about cheating on them in the past.
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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: fapjack]
#19283914 - 12/16/13 01:28 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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I'd break up with the girl, and probably cut ties for a while.
I've never cheated, and never intend to. I'd like to hold my partner to the same standard.
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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: Acaterpillar]
#19283963 - 12/16/13 01:38 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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you walk away and forget about her/him. I would just break up with them without telling them and block them from my phone.
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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: mindgnome]
#19283984 - 12/16/13 01:44 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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if i walked in on it, id probably slap and punch my bf then break up with him, and call the chick a fucking bitch. but it was his choice, and it shouldnt be pinned onto the person that theyre cheating on you with. chances are, they didnt know about you. unless if that bitch diiiid as in someone we/i knew, then i would get into a cat fight.
ive been cheated on a lot by my ex. like i would find out. id hate the girls, but then i realized that, that wasnt the way to go about things. and now i talk to some of the girls that he cheated on me with still to this day xD
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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: acidxprincess]
#19284014 - 12/16/13 01:48 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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that doesn't seem healthy. I got cheated on once and the next day I saw her, she saw me and I just walked away. She knew she was never going to see me again haha.
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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: fapjack]
#19284040 - 12/16/13 01:54 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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fapjack said: Initiate a 3 way. If its just sex I probably wouldn't care that much, I would be much more pissed if my gf broke my computer. I'd probably get back at her by fucking one of her/my friends. Catching a girlfriend cheating on you is a free pass to bang someone else without feeling bad. There are upsides to doing it, also it makes you feel less bad about cheating on them in the past.

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