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what would you do if your partner cheated on you?
    #19281888 - 12/16/13 12:01 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

I would beat the shit out of him and dump that bitch


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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: spixce]
    #19281903 - 12/16/13 12:07 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Depends on the situation honestly. Like if it meant anything, or not. I'd also try to
figure out to the best of my ability whether or not leaving said significant other
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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: spixce] * 1
    #19281906 - 12/16/13 12:08 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

she did, and i forgave her and still love her. i'm not angry or jealous but i was for a while. at some point you realize that love is the only thing worth living for, really


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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: Envix]
    #19281909 - 12/16/13 12:09 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Already happened, I still want to kill the guy, but in his defense he didn't know the situation. I forgave her for it but it eventually led to things being too fucked up to continue the relationship.


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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: schwarg]
    #19281913 - 12/16/13 12:11 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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schwarg said:
Already happened, I still want to kill the guy, but in his defense he didn't know the situation. I forgave her for it but it eventually led to things being too fucked up to continue the relationship.



That's some backwards-ass logic right there.


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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: pwnasaurus]
    #19281920 - 12/16/13 12:13 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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pwnasaurus said:
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schwarg said:
Already happened, I still want to kill the guy, but in his defense he didn't know the situation. I forgave her for it but it eventually led to things being too fucked up to continue the relationship.



That's some backwards-ass logic right there.




Hahah I don't think I was the least bit logical the 6 months after it happened, messed me up good.


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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: schwarg]
    #19281926 - 12/16/13 12:15 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Uh yeah, kill someone else because your girl cheated on you.. makes sense:cookiemonster:

Kill em both is what I would do...


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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: LordSenate]
    #19281934 - 12/16/13 12:18 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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Uh yeah, kill someone else because your girl cheated on you.. makes sense:cookiemonster:

Kill em both is what I would do...



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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: spixce]
    #19281936 - 12/16/13 12:19 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)



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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: The_Ghost] * 1
    #19281942 - 12/16/13 12:20 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Good ol' fashion duel.


I think a bow and arrow fight would be pretty interesting.


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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: LordSenate]
    #19281947 - 12/16/13 12:21 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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LordSenate said:
Uh yeah, kill someone else because your girl cheated on you.. makes sense:cookiemonster:

Kill em both is what I would do...



At least you're consistent :lol:


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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: spixce]
    #19281952 - 12/16/13 12:23 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Depends heavily on the situation and how much I actually cared for the person.

If it was a one time thing and I really cared for the person I'd probably give them a second chance, otherwise probably not.


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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: pwnasaurus]
    #19281953 - 12/16/13 12:23 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Seriously though.. Unless the guy was a friend and knew how things were, I wouldn't be mad at him.

I would probably leave the girl though, depends on how much is invested in the relationship. It's really hard to repair a relationship when the trust is broken.


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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: LordSenate]
    #19281961 - 12/16/13 12:25 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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Seriously though.. Unless the guy was a friend and knew how things were, I wouldn't be mad at him.

I would probably leave the girl though, depends on how much is invested in the relationship. It's really hard to repair a relationship when the trust is broken.



Could always break her legs and lock er in a dungeon. Then there wont be a need for trust.  :aweface:


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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: LordSenate]
    #19281967 - 12/16/13 12:28 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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LordSenate said:
Seriously though.. Unless the guy was a friend and knew how things were, I wouldn't be mad at him.

I would probably leave the girl though, depends on how much is invested in the relationship. It's really hard to repair a relationship when the trust is broken.



same but if the guy knew she was in a relationship i would kick his ass


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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: spixce]
    #19281991 - 12/16/13 12:36 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Well im not in a relationship atm but if it was just sex I honestly wouldnt really care that much and probs have a sit down with her about why it happened and how we can improve it. IMO sometimes a bit of cheating sex can help a relationship. Like I always listen to people and say cheating is an instant dump, but like why? come on its human nature to make sexy time. But if it was like a whole other relationship then I would be very angry.


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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: kakashi68]
    #19282003 - 12/16/13 12:39 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

I know how you could improve it.. Not having a back stabbin slutty whore as your girlfriend.

Saying its human nature sounds like an excuse to have a reason to shrug it off.

It's not hard to not be dickin or getting dick from whoever you feel like. If you're in a relationship then you should act like it.

Shit happens and sometimes things can be forgiven but it certainly isnt anything to not be upset about and just shrug off like its nothing.


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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: spixce]
    #19282004 - 12/16/13 12:39 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

I'm gonna be the only pussy here and admit that I'd immediately cry until my eyes dried out, call all my friends for comfort, and go into a mini-depression. My boyfriend & have known each other for a while & were like best friends before we starting dating, so we are really close ya know? My heart would be seriously broken.


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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: HappyHooligan]
    #19282007 - 12/16/13 12:41 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Yeah.. that doesn't make you a pussy. People cry whether most men want to admit it or not.

Being betrayed hurts to your very core.. I've had times where I literally felt like I was having a heart attack because my heart hurt so bad.

I don't consider anyone that shows emotion in this way a "pussy"

There is a limit to how you can act IMO and not be going overboard but crying and being really hurt isn't where the line is drawn.


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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: LordSenate]
    #19282025 - 12/16/13 12:46 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

i've been cheated on double bad because the girl was cheating on another dude with me without really letting me know, and then went back to that other dude after getting with me. ouch.

i kind of opened my heart to it and it didn't really 'hurt' but it did put me through some stuff for sure...i think i grew and learned from it though.


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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: g00ru]
    #19282061 - 12/16/13 01:01 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

pretty sure ive been cheated on. definitely emotional cheating as my gf was completely invested in another guy the last few months of our relationship. she finally broke up with me and was pregnant with his kid a month later. i later saw a facebook post of hers saying their anniversary, which was before she had even broken up with me. cut all ties with her at that point. at the time i was pretty fucked up over it, but now i dont really care, just dont care to ever see either of them again.

if i was cheated on again, nothing crazy, i would just break it off with the girl and stay single. i really enjoy being single.


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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: Envix] * 2
    #19282089 - 12/16/13 01:14 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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she did, and i forgave her and still love her. i'm not angry or jealous but i was for a while. at some point you realize that love is the only thing worth living for, really





you're a stronger man than most. :thumbup:


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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: Prisoner#1]
    #19282160 - 12/16/13 01:45 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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Envix said:
at some point you realize that love is the only thing worth living for, really




i found that video games and football are pretty good things to live for as well


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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: ManianFH]
    #19282168 - 12/16/13 01:47 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Forgive her like a chump then get cheated on again.

first and last time i make that mistake.


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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: Shins] * 1
    #19282198 - 12/16/13 02:00 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

you'd have to be content with seeming like a chump and getting cheated on again.

if they chose to hurt you again, that's their choice. and if you chose to stay with them, that's your choice. you'll only be happy with the decisions you really want to make, and so will they.

if you go with decisions you know you'll regret, that's called a "mistake". and hopefully, we can learn from them

if you go with a decision you know you won't regret, then there's no need to worry because you already know you made the right decision

sometimes you won't know if you'll regret your decisions or not. but that's okay, because no one can predict the future. and if future circumstances do present themselves conflicting with a past decision, then that will just be another level of decisions you'll have to come to terms with.

what's the point in it all, you ask? just to learn more about yourself, and to learn more about your preferences in decision-making

some day you'll become a master-refined-decision-maker. but until then, you're going to have to keep making a lot of shitty mistakes. can we all learn to live with that? i mean, can we accept the fact that people are poor decision-makers for a percentage of their lives, until they eventually learn how to follow their hearts instead of their egos?


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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: Envix]
    #19282334 - 12/16/13 03:26 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

my most recent woman did this to me, she didn't really cheat, and we were never really "together" but she started dating someone else and basically just screwed me over. i was pretty pissed and shattered at first. and i still wish her the best and all, but i'm done with that. if she's going to go as far as to do that then shes on her own.


i've been avoiding her for about a month now, and its pretty shitty cos we work together, know the same people at work, catch the same train, at similar times. and go out for drinks with the same work people. so dodging her has been pretty difficult and an on going thing.


but to be honest i just dont want to see her anymore. she fucks with me and its not good for me to be around her. the lame thing is that even though i don't like to admit it, i still want her and want to be with her and all that but she has shat all over everything and enough is enough.


kinda shitty situation to be in though, its shit to not have her around or have her to look forwards to, and its shit to be around her. ???? shit+shit=shit. i don't even know how i got myself into this situation. theres really no good result or option here


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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: Soulidarity]
    #19282400 - 12/16/13 04:16 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

realistically? I'd probably cry


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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: spixce]
    #19282556 - 12/16/13 05:58 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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I would beat the shit out of him and dump that bitch




I would hang up when you called for bail.


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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: CosmicJoke]
    #19282634 - 12/16/13 07:01 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

First I'd sneak into her dildo box and rub jalapenos on her toys.  Then I'd kick her ass out the house.  Anybody who decides to cheat on you is eventually gonna do the same. 
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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: TheGreenArrow]
    #19282824 - 12/16/13 08:39 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

I've been cheated on before. It was quite upsetting.

Best thing to do is forget about it IMO.


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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: spixce]
    #19282849 - 12/16/13 08:51 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

I'd start talking to her best friend/sister/mother and DSHSB.


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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: spixce]
    #19282859 - 12/16/13 08:57 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Ultimately, it depends on the person and the situation.

Do I really love her?

Does she love me?

Did it mean anything?

Is she truly guilty and sorry for what she did?

Can I learn to trust her again?

Can she cook?


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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: thoughts]
    #19282860 - 12/16/13 08:57 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

best thing is to try to be mature. break up and get over it. no childish texts or phone calls etc etc. just get over it

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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: Bassfreak]
    #19283825 - 12/16/13 01:06 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

I dropped my ex like a bag of bricks when she cheated on me

Now that I've grown and matured since then I'd probably give her a second chance and try to work things out

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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: spixce]
    #19283878 - 12/16/13 01:18 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Initiate a 3 way.  If its just sex I probably wouldn't care that much, I would be much more pissed if my gf broke my computer.  I'd probably get back at her by fucking one of her/my friends.  Catching a girlfriend cheating on you  is a free pass to bang someone else without feeling bad.  There are upsides to doing it, also it makes you feel less bad about cheating on them in the past.


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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: fapjack]
    #19283914 - 12/16/13 01:28 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

I'd break up with the girl, and probably cut ties for a while.

I've never cheated, and never intend to.
I'd like to hold my partner to the same standard.


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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: Acaterpillar]
    #19283963 - 12/16/13 01:38 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

you walk away and forget about her/him. I would just break up with them without telling them and block them from my phone.


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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: mindgnome]
    #19283984 - 12/16/13 01:44 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

if i walked in on it, id probably slap and punch my bf then break up with him, and call the chick a fucking bitch. but it was his choice, and it shouldnt be pinned onto the person that theyre cheating on you with. chances are, they didnt know about you. unless if that bitch diiiid as in someone we/i knew, then i would get into a cat fight.

ive been cheated on a lot by my ex. like i would find out. id hate the girls, but then i realized that, that wasnt the way to go about things. and now i talk to some of the girls that he cheated on me with still to this day xD


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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: acidxprincess]
    #19284014 - 12/16/13 01:48 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

that doesn't seem healthy. I got cheated on once and the next day I saw her, she saw me and I just walked away. She knew she was never going to see me again haha.


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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: fapjack]
    #19284040 - 12/16/13 01:54 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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Initiate a 3 way.  If its just sex I probably wouldn't care that much, I would be much more pissed if my gf broke my computer.  I'd probably get back at her by fucking one of her/my friends.  Catching a girlfriend cheating on you  is a free pass to bang someone else without feeling bad.  There are upsides to doing it, also it makes you feel less bad about cheating on them in the past.



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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: mindgnome]
    #19284263 - 12/16/13 02:37 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

sex is just sex but who do you really want to be with? do they really want to be with you?


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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: Envix]
    #19284821 - 12/16/13 04:23 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

If my dude had an affair, id be upset. If he slept with some random woman I would be upset, probably, but not for long. To me, sex is sex but if he had an emotional connection w someone else, like on our level, id feel very betrayed.


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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: spixce]
    #19284838 - 12/16/13 04:26 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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I would beat the shit out of him and dump that bitch





Why beat the shit out of him?

Adding more dramatic and meaningless violence to the world. Why?


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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: XUL]
    #19284865 - 12/16/13 04:32 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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I would beat the shit out of him and dump that bitch





Why beat the shit out of him?

Adding more dramatic and meaningless violence to the world. Why?



i mean if he knew about she was in a relationship and did it anyway


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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: spixce]
    #19284872 - 12/16/13 04:33 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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XUL said:
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spixce said:
I would beat the shit out of him and dump that bitch





Why beat the shit out of him?

Adding more dramatic and meaningless violence to the world. Why?



i mean if he knew about she was in a relationship and did it anyway




It just seems pointless to me is all. It could land you in prison and it is bad for the environment.


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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: VivaLaMushie]
    #19284875 - 12/16/13 04:34 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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If my dude had an affair, id be upset. If he slept with some random woman I would be upset, probably, but not for long. To me, sex is sex but if he had an emotional connection w someone else, like on our level, id feel very betrayed.




There is a big difference cheating emotionally vs cheating physically, and there is a big difference.  Even if sex isn't involved.


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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: fapjack] * 1
    #19284948 - 12/16/13 04:50 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

I'd put on some heels, wear a nice dress that was fitting enough to show off my figure, but not too short so I don't look like a slut. Fix my hair just the way I know he likes, put on a little eyeliner & a little smokey eye shadow, then show up to his house to pick up my stuff at his house.... is what I wish I would do, in reality I'd have on an oversized hoodie with ice-cream stains on it, sweatpants, houseshoes, bags under my eyes from the lack of sleep, and hair looking like a birds nest. I'd start crying in the car in my driveway & decide to go back in the house.


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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: HappyHooligan] * 1
    #19303785 - 12/20/13 04:33 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Wats da big deal about "cheating" neway

Ohh noo dey fuqd sum1 big wh00p

Lol nah i could understand the feelings of betrayal thT would stem from it i guess

what's up with fighting after getting cheated on, is that supposed to actually solve anything?

I don't think many people say "I'm in a committed monogamous relationship and my partner is suiting all of my needs and leaving me in a state of constant satisfaction. I am aware that if I were to go to somebody else for my needs of intimacy and sex (which are already being met), my partner who I love would feel betrayed. I'm just going to go on and do it anyways though"

Maybe having an honest no-pressure  talk about why they felt the need to cheat and what better ways both parties could contribute to the relationship to make it a more satisfactory one, or mutually deciding to break it off because both partners needs being met isn't in the realm of possibility, would be the most logical options, instead of just getting all like "FIGHT YELL EMOTION OVERLOAD, PUSH EACH OTHER AWAY RED ALERT" which doesnt actually do anything


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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: Sheekle]
    #19303820 - 12/20/13 04:41 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

I would just break up with her. Seems pretty simple. It might sound cold but I have my reasons. Life is too short to waste on doubts.


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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: spixce]
    #19303852 - 12/20/13 04:48 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

the only time it would really piss me off is if the bitch gave me an STD that she got from cheating.

other than that scenario, if i truly loved a girl and we had an agreement to not cheat, i would try to work it out and give her a second chance, but that's it.

if it was just infatuation i would move on with no second thoughts.

if i was with a girl in an open relationship, well obviously i wouldn't give a fuck as long as she didn't give me STDs.

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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: larry.fisherman]
    #19303857 - 12/20/13 04:50 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Zappa cheats on me all the time but I just let it go cause his dick is so delicious.

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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: TheFakeSunRa]
    #19304207 - 12/20/13 06:01 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: Kayla Faye] * 2
    #19304214 - 12/20/13 06:02 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

I'd pick up a 6 pack, get some pizza, smoke a bowl and then post on the shroomery about how I just got cheated on.


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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: Uzziel]
    #19304250 - 12/20/13 06:07 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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I'd pick up a 6 pack, get some pizza, smoke a bowl and then post on the shroomery about how I just got cheated on.



:lol:

This is actually probably exactly what I would do :igor:


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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: Acaterpillar]
    #19304275 - 12/20/13 06:11 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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I'd pick up a 6 pack, get some pizza, smoke a bowl and then post on the shroomery about how I just got cheated on.



:lol:

This is actually probably exactly what I would do :igor:



Can I pretend I got cheated on and do this anyways?  Throw in skyrim and ignore my GF for the night


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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: TheMovement]
    #19304296 - 12/20/13 06:14 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

It's not so much about what I would do, as how I would feel. I would probably give her a second chance though :shrug:


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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: spixce]
    #19304343 - 12/20/13 06:19 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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I would beat the shit out of him and dump that bitch





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Re: what would you do if your partner cheated on you? [Re: Konichiwaffle]
    #19304534 - 12/20/13 07:00 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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I would beat the shit out of him and dump that bitch





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