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Re: Feel lost in life. [Re: Malcolm_Xtasy]
    #19281502 - 12/15/13 09:53 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

OP-life truly is what you make of it.

if you are unhappy with it, take a hard look at what you dislike about it and find ways to make actual change to improve it.

there are 4 steps in solving any problem:
step1- recognition of the problem.
step2- exporting possible solutions.
step3- implementing the best solution.
step4- understanding there is no permanent solutions.


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Re: Feel lost in life. [Re: broken]
    #19281550 - 12/15/13 10:05 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Try learning a trade. That or work your way into a union job, a lot of which pay MUCH higher than what your work is actually valued at, and a great deal of them don't require much education.


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Re: Feel lost in life. [Re: viking101] * 2
    #19281576 - 12/15/13 10:12 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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Feeling like I have no direction and im lost in life. Im only 19 years old and im depressed and feel like shit and am bored with my life. I just got kicked out of college for low GPA, I have no Girlfriend, Shitty minimum wage dead end job, and I have like... 3 friends. All I enjoy doing in life anymore is drugs and riding my skateboard. Fucking sick and tired of living life like this I need to figure this out. To top it off I just vented my problems to a drug forum.



hey there, stick around, you'll love it here. i was the person you're describing once. then i found the shroomery and everything changed. i made my best friends on the shroomery, learned about the best drugs on the shroomery, and even met my girlfriend on the shroomery. you shouldn't be so down on yourself. so you like skateboarding and drugs? that's a good start! those are both cool interests. now all you need to do is expand on that. what other interests could those interests lead you to? just think of ways to explore life and to have more adventures, consider more alternatives, and keep open to all opportunities. you can do it, man. you just need a

CHANGE  IN  PERSPECTIVE


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Re: Feel lost in life. [Re: Envix] * 1
    #19281849 - 12/15/13 11:48 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

dude you're only 19


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You may be suffering from Stockholm Syndrome.
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Re: Feel lost in life. [Re: HappyHooligan]
    #19281857 - 12/15/13 11:51 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Your life has just begun, so you have a shitty start on it? Going through shit will only make you appreciate your future life so much more.


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Re: Feel lost in life. [Re: The Doobie Dude]
    #19282006 - 12/16/13 12:41 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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The Doobie Dude said:
Get a prescription for ADD medicine, this will help you in school and be confident.




This is awesome advice


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Re: Feel lost in life. [Re: schwarg]
    #19282063 - 12/16/13 01:01 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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Try learning a trade. That or work your way into a union job, a lot of which pay MUCH higher than what your work is actually valued at, and a great deal of them don't require much education.



I agree with this all but the part about education. Most unions offer free training to their members. Most union workers make at the very minimum 15.00 an hour and prevailing wage jobs make that double iron workers for example make around 23.00 an hour add in your "package" you are looking at around 35 an hour you can get lots of over time and if you are willing to travel you get per-diem and if you are going to be out of town for an extended time get 4 or 5 guys together and rent a small house and rent furniture some friends of mine do it this way and end up banking half of their per-diem.


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Re: Feel lost in life. [Re: viking101] * 1
    #19282186 - 12/16/13 01:55 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Your only 19 lil nigga a whole lot more shit is going to happen in the future.

For now just wait it out and start taking steps in the right direction, whatever that may be


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Re: Feel lost in life. [Re: Soulidarity] * 2
    #19282261 - 12/16/13 02:38 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

UNHOLY FUCK.

I spent seriously 15 fucking minutes typing you out a SHIT TON of advice and then got a "He's Dead, Jim" from Google Chrome. Guess windows didn't think asking me before shutting down was worth hassling me. I'm going back to Mac. Why the fuck did I sell my Alienware........



Fuck GOD DAMMIT PISS SHIT PENIS SARAH PALIN JANKEM!!!!!



OP I see a passion and direction already that could turn into an interesting avocational field of study: drooooogs.

Would you like to borrow my copy of Stahl's Essential Psychopharmacology? It's a neat jumping-off point, although I'll admit what I know of pharmacology/psychiatry, I know the way a car mechanic knows the field of physics but it's been rewarding learning about things and has gotten me an "in" with a renowned psychiatrist (except I haven't talked to him in a few weeks and I'm terrified he doesn't want to work with me anymore so I'm hiding like a little fucking bitch.

What kind of advice are you looking for? Maybe it'd have been presumptuous to text-wall you a magnum opus of how after 3 years spent mostly in a rut, I've finally realized it's coming to an end this last week.

Maybe the Mushroom Jesus wanted it this way. Who is to tell?



I'll reconstruct at least this part of it: this summer, I'd have had a hard time coming up with 5 non-relatives that would come to my funeral if I'd caved to depression and its influence. Now, I know of at least 20 that would come, both through meeting new people and through rekindling old friendships as well as realizing that I already had and have a lot more than the blinds of sorrow and self pity allow you to see (not to mention, you get deep enough in a rut it's hard to see what's even outside it anymore).


Here's one thing to start doing right now: when you start "ruminating", deliberately think of something positive.

->You don't have a girlfriend? Nah: You're young, single, and can flirt with or admire any girl you damn well please without getting in trouble! :cookiemonster:

->You only have 3 friends? Blah! You have three people you can share experiences with and also use to help you meet new people!



Also, find a place in public that you'll start to become known. I used to go to a Starbucks several days a week (same one; this is important) and the baristas started getting to know me. In just the past few days, I've started going to this pub within walking distance of my house and the bartender greets me by name and I've already met two people that I can tell I'm going to be doing a lot with in the coming months, and have even heard about a potential job lead/plug offer (I work at McDonalds right now so I feel your pain, but I'm 23).


I'd also post here more, open up, let people get to know you and even see your flaws. You might just find that you'll grow as a person from talking to others on here, many of whom have spent some of their earlier years zooted on any drug you can think of and in any sort of rut imaginable.


Have you looked into spirituality at all? Also, have you done any psychedelics? I did my first canonical 'psychedelic' tonight and I can see how it can really benefit people. I seriously feel like my soul took a shower :sun:

Hang in there. PM me if you're ever feeling too down. Do you have people you can call and talk to about stuff if you find yourself in crisis or if things seem to continue south?


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Re: Feel lost in life. [Re: st1llnox]
    #19282272 - 12/16/13 02:47 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

st1llnox, don't mean to be a tease but didn't you just make one of these "feelin' lost in life" threads like a week ago?


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Re: Feel lost in life. [Re: Envix] * 1
    #19282281 - 12/16/13 02:51 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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st1llnox, don't mean to be a tease but didn't you just make one of these "feelin' lost in life" threads like a week ago?




Yeah and I got my answers. :sun:

That's also not to say I haven't come quite a ways in the last few months, but a lot of my "improvement" has simply been being less off-track.

Now I've got a ton of stuff figured out and I know the next year's going to be an amazing adventure. :zomgzomgzomg:


But yeah you're totally right and I work at McDonalds too, but then again me and OP aren't far apart on similar roads, but I felt for OP and felt compelled to give him every bit of info that's helped me make what progress I have in the last 8 weeks or so.


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Re: Feel lost in life. [Re: st1llnox] * 3
    #19282746 - 12/16/13 08:12 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

i feel like a lot of us shroomerites can relate with eachother, eachother's circumstances and eachother's lives, really well.
it's not a mystery, i mean we were all attracted to this place together for that reason


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Re: Feel lost in life. [Re: Prisoner#1]
    #19282819 - 12/16/13 08:37 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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viking101 said:
Feeling like I have no direction and im lost in life. Im only 19 years old and im depressed and feel like shit and am bored with my life. I just got kicked out of college for low GPA, I have no Girlfriend, Shitty minimum wage dead end job, and I have like... 3 friends. All I enjoy doing in life anymore is drugs and riding my skateboard. Fucking sick and tired of living life like this I need to figure this out. To top it off I just vented my problems to a drug forum.





sounds like you should have lost the board and the drugs before the GPA dropped



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Re: Feel lost in life. [Re: Envix] * 1
    #19283402 - 12/16/13 11:29 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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Envix said:
i feel like a lot of us shroomerites can relate with eachother, eachother's circumstances and eachother's lives, really well.
it's not a mystery, i mean we were all attracted to this place together for that reason



Quote:

Envix said:
i feel like a lot of us shroomerites can relate with eachother, eachother's circumstances and eachother's lives, really well.
it's not a mystery, i mean we were all attracted to this place together for that reason



Quote:

Envix said:
i feel like a lot of us shroomerites can relate with eachother, eachother's circumstances and eachother's lives, really well.
it's not a mystery, i mean we were all attracted to this place together for that reason




My iPhone thought QFTing this three times was better than one apparently and who am I to argue :shrug:


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st1lln0x: I feel like a fucking Gundam
Click to friend me on Steam for Counter-Strike
:crankey: IS LIFE SKULLFUCKING YOU!? HAVE SOME FREE MORALE! :awesomenod:
Click if you want to feel you alone can do it! Click if you want to feel confident and beastly! Click if you want courage to let go and move on! And click the message if you need someone to talk to -- I'll understand, even if we "hate" each other on here :hug: :sun:


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Re: Feel lost in life. [Re: st1llnox] * 1
    #19283495 - 12/16/13 11:51 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

OP, you feel lost in life: I'd tell you to join the club, but there's a 10 mile long waiting line. You're not alone dude.

Low GPD: Start reading. Anything. Just pick up a book and read it. Repeat, find better books, read it. Sure you might not like that, but you can't only do what you want and like in life.

I figure that if you're here, you do drugs. You gotta stop this shit, or least cut down by a lot. You're gonna be bored sure, but that's you cue to read a book.

If you have extra time on your hands, go do charity work or something. You'll meet people and get a good reputation.

Or, find a new job?

I was as lost as you we're, still (somewhat). The only real tip I can give you is to keep your mind busy


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