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shroomster87
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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: Bassfreak] 1
#19269891 - 12/13/13 09:13 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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You feel that empty knot in your stomach...that fury and sadness combined..and the constant thought of her being with another guy......and the most thing driving you crazy is the one big question......why? That one word will drive you nuts the not knowing why.......I've been there and I have found a real fast way to get over it and her.....go fuck another bitch ...the only way to get over a bitch. Is with another bitch ...I can not stress that enough...also your ego is crushed ... go to a gym work out...buy yourself something...night out with the boys or movies..... trust me you prob sit at home with the TV on and a DVD at the main screen playing the screen music over and over checking your messages over waiting on her......your boosting her ego and not yours....trust me
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Bassfreak
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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: shroomster87]
#19269895 - 12/13/13 09:16 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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weed has always helped me with the end of a relationship. it just makes me not give a fuck and to look forward
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Patlal
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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: pwnasaurus]
#19270229 - 12/13/13 11:04 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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pwnasaurus said: Six months is WAY too soon IMO to move in with someone. I have been in 4 long-term relationships and they all started to wane around the 1-2 year mark. I would personally wait at least 1.5 years - at that point you're generally out of the honeymoon phase of your relationship and really know if you guys click.
Just 
There is way too much truth is that sentence.
6 months seems extremely fast. You're still on the oxytocin buzz.
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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: Patlal]
#19270319 - 12/13/13 11:26 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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my homie moved in with his gf after a couple months
like 2 weeks ago she jokingly said they shud break up and dead serious he was like alright and moved out the next day hahahah
i find it hilarious
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Cheezymold
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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: Bassfreak]
#19270511 - 12/13/13 12:18 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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I think you are better off without honestly. I had a lease on an apartment with my ex-fiance, and that was a total disaster when I broke things off with her. Not only dealing with her, but her new b/f too.
Enjoy your single life. It is liberating once you get the hang of it. I refuse to date a woman that I don't feel is as smart, ambitious, or financially responsible as myself. I won't treat anybody like a princess either just because they give it up.
Find somebody that respects you bro. It sucks now, but this can be a really good thing if you let it.
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Patlal
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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: Bassfreak]
#19270537 - 12/13/13 12:24 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Bassfreak said: my homie moved in with his gf after a couple months
like 2 weeks ago she jokingly said they shud break up and dead serious he was like alright and moved out the next day hahahah
i find it hilarious
I'm totally the kind of guy to do that.
When it comes to breaking up, I don't question myself. If I start thinking about it, I break it off. Most people think like "oh I'm gonna be alone", "Oh I'll break his/her heart" etc. Every excuse they can find to tolerate the relationship their questioning. I don't do that. I pull the trigger 15 minutes after I start thinking about it.
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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: foliocb]
#19270607 - 12/13/13 12:43 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Monogamy is such a bummer
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TheWiz
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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: shroomster87]
#19270655 - 12/13/13 12:56 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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shroomster87 said: You feel that empty knot in your stomach...that fury and sadness combined..and the constant thought of her being with another guy......and the most thing driving you crazy is the one big question......why?
Because people are whores and like to fuck other people. The belief that we can deny our nature in the name of being "good" is what's making us miserable.
So she texted another guy which apparently is "not ok." Where do you draw the line? Can she look at another guy? Can she speak with another guy? Do you really think that attempting to deny someone any potential relationship with 50% of the world's population is a healthy way to behave? Do you really think that women want to be treated that way? Do you like to be treated that way?
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lunarpiscean
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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: TheWiz]
#19270695 - 12/13/13 01:09 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Not everyone is a polygamist like you.
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empty space
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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: lunarpiscean]
#19270699 - 12/13/13 01:10 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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I used to be a polygamist, then I started respecting myself.
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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: lunarpiscean]
#19270868 - 12/13/13 01:52 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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lunarpiscean said: Not everyone is a polygamist like you.
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Repertoire89
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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: empty space]
#19270970 - 12/13/13 02:14 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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empty space said: I used to be a polygamist, then I started respecting myself.
There are good reasons to be non-monogamous and there are bad reasons, I personally would consider it a mar on my self-image to become monogamous again. There are simply too many disadvantages and no advantages for the switch to be made.
If I couldn't be happy by myself, then I couldn't be happy leaning on anyone else.
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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: lunarpiscean] 3
#19270981 - 12/13/13 02:16 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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lunarpiscean said: Not everyone is a polygamist like you.
From what I've read on these forums you are essentially a polygamist, at such a young age already having cheated during multiple relationships. That breaking of trust is the reason behind too many juvenile switches to non-monogamy, people who really want a relationship but developed trust issues from being cheated on and keep moving for emotional security.
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lunarpiscean
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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: Repertoire89]
#19270997 - 12/13/13 02:19 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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I am open minded, not a polygamist.
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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: lunarpiscean] 2
#19271005 - 12/13/13 02:20 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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lunarpiscean said: I am open minded, not a polygamist.

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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: lunarpiscean]
#19271008 - 12/13/13 02:21 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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just tell her you had a feeling she was up to no good so you took a look at her text and your gut was right.
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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: urbannerd]
#19271926 - 12/13/13 06:18 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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im 24
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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: foliocb] 2
#19280088 - 12/15/13 04:27 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Well, she came today to get the remainder of her things, and we both said what we wanted to say, I felt a true sense of letting go of her which, though painfully sad, feels right.
I brought up the other guy she's been getting 'intimate' with, and she basically denied it until I brought up his name(which i gathered from her texts). She basically said once she had 'wandering eyes' that she knew we were not meant to go any further. I guess I can't blame her for that I would have done the same had I felt the same feelings.
Strange thing is, I feel a certain sense of neutrality to the whole thing really. Like it doesn't really matter, and life will go on, etc..
Im exercising more and eating better already... life is fucking crazy sometimes
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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: foliocb]
#19280156 - 12/15/13 04:42 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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good shit mang.
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Cheezymold
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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: foliocb]
#19283242 - 12/16/13 10:50 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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foliocb said: Well, she came today to get the remainder of her things, and we both said what we wanted to say, I felt a true sense of letting go of her which, though painfully sad, feels right.
I brought up the other guy she's been getting 'intimate' with, and she basically denied it until I brought up his name(which i gathered from her texts). She basically said once she had 'wandering eyes' that she knew we were not meant to go any further. I guess I can't blame her for that I would have done the same had I felt the same feelings.
Strange thing is, I feel a certain sense of neutrality to the whole thing really. Like it doesn't really matter, and life will go on, etc..
Im exercising more and eating better already... life is fucking crazy sometimes 
It is good that you are still taking care of yourself afterwords. I think that is the best way to get over any kind of sadness or depression. Hopefully the discussion didn't go too badly for you. For some reason, women feel the need to strike me when they realize that I refuse to argue with them, which usually just ends up with them hurting their own hands smdh.
Allow yourself to know that you are the shit, dust yourself off, and get back out there lol.
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