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Re: Guy I've been suspicious about trying to bang my gf and I just got him [Re: pwnasaurus]
    #19268087 - 12/12/13 09:14 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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Azurascender said:
I have a hard tie believing that the conversation got that far on his end without provocation from your girl, but that's just me, bro...



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pwnasaurus said:
I was thinking the same thing.



You two weren't the only ones.






It was this line from the convo that got me:
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me: Friends don't make such creepy comments
him: Such as?
me: Sorry I meant suggestive
him: Well you like me. And neither of us wants to do anything about it



I just dont know anyone who is that forward in assuming what another person feels about them, ESPECIALLY if it's a presumption of the mutual interest from someone who is in a dedicated relationship.  AKA - she probably said something or did something or implied something at some point in the past to put him in this mental frame of mind.








THAT BEING SAID:
-everything we're saying is an assumption
-to detrimentally affect your relationship with your girl based off of our internet assumptions is a dangerous game to be playing


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Re: Guy I've been suspicious about trying to bang my gf and I just got him [Re: memes]
    #19268126 - 12/12/13 09:22 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

You guys make some perfectly valid points, but I think it's a stretch to say that because you don't know anyone who is that forward in assuming things, means that this guy is like those people. I've heard how he interprets interactions with other woman, and it's hilariously sad, and the same way he's interpreting my girlfriends interaction with him.

As I mentioned in a previous post, he met one of my gfs friends ONCE and INNSTNATLY thought they were in love, and meant to be together forever. So yea, he's pretty forward assuming if that makes any sense.


I WILL SAY though, that while he was texting me I turned around to talk to her and say "This is kind of funny that this is happening..." and she started getting really defensive and anxious being no no no now you're going to think that I actualyl did something with him. All I was going to say is that "This makes me trust you more"

:shrug:

That was the only thing that made me think otherwise, but those thoughts vanished pretty quickly as my conversation with him went on. His only rational for her being into him, was her being a good friend and not pushing him away. That's pretty pathetic rational to me. If you like someone as a friend, of course your not pushing away. To conclude that one doing that means they are into you is an insanely far stretch.


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Re: Guy I've been suspicious about trying to bang my gf and I just got him [Re: deadwk]
    #19268216 - 12/12/13 09:45 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Of course you don't want to allow yourself to see what we all immediately thought.  While you sat there saying this all makes me trust you more, we all saw major red flags.  There have been girls I've wanted to get with in the past, and yeah I would flirt with them, in texts also, but if they didn't give it back, it fizzles out really quickly.  It doesn't lead to the manner of conversation that he was trying to send to your girlfriend unless they are flirting back and keeping up the other end of it, at least to some degree.


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Re: Guy I've been suspicious about trying to bang my gf and I just got him [Re: Shpongle1]
    #19268259 - 12/12/13 09:56 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Again I don't particularly think you guys are correct. I've seen other people post relationship issues on shroomery before, and more than half of the people go "cheating" etc...

AS I said before, this dude met oen of my gfs friends ONCE and thought they were in love, meant to be together forever, and soul mates. This dude is genuinely a little out there, not to mention he told my gf earlier last week he was just recently taken off his antipsychotic pills.


There was one thing that made this conversation with him seem bad, there's been a ton more things that just point to this guy being crazy and far out there.


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Re: Guy I've been suspicious about trying to bang my gf and I just got him [Re: deadwk]
    #19268341 - 12/12/13 10:14 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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I WILL SAY though, that while he was texting me I turned around to talk to her and say "This is kind of funny that this is happening..." and she started getting really defensive and anxious being no no no now you're going to think that I actualyl did something with him.



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thedeadwalkk said:
His only rational for her being into him, was her being a good friend and not pushing him away. That's pretty pathetic rational to me. If you like someone as a friend, of course your not pushing away. To conclude that one doing that means they are into you is an insanely far stretch.




First quote:  ehhhhhh defensiveness is never good. while i dont think she cheated on you, i'm sticking by my guns that she threw him some morsole of something at some point in their past communications or encounters. 

Second quote:  most of my female friends quickly run at the first sign of creepy, overtly sexual or aggressively flirtatious behavior.  they gossip with their friends and call the guys creeps.  they seem get off on applying the label.  (maybe its just the girls i know.  but this seems to be a common thing).  was your girl friends with this guy for a long time?  with him only recently trying to bang her?  if he's just some new friend and she isn't creeped out by his creepiness, thats creepy :feelscreepyman:


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Re: Guy I've been suspicious about trying to bang my gf and I just got him [Re: deadwk]
    #19268377 - 12/12/13 10:20 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

He may be crazy, but that doesn't mean there wasn't some reciprocation. I'm with the other guys, one of my first thoughts was there had to be some kind of reciprocation at some point. I mean just from reading the way he was texting.. that's the impression I got.

Yeah sure, we could all be dead wrong.. but there are some major red flags there.


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Re: Guy I've been suspicious about trying to bang my gf and I just got him [Re: Shroomism]
    #19268408 - 12/12/13 10:27 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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Shroomism said:
He may be crazy, but that doesn't mean there wasn't some reciprocation.





And again, i'll stress (becuase it's important) that you shouldn't change your relationship with her at all as a result of these assumptions of ours, AND that "reciprocation" doesn't mean anything actually happened.  Odds are, he's just some random dude and she's been with you long enough to have enjoyed a passing interest and some random flirtation (i'm a devoutly loyal guy, but i enjoy an empty flirt - i'm too extroverted).  But file this all away for some day in the future, as it may help you see any flags down the road


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Re: Guy I've been suspicious about trying to bang my gf and I just got him [Re: memes]
    #19268446 - 12/12/13 10:36 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Yeah.. I mean... I don't mean to make him cast doubt or change the relationship or anything.. it's just..  the way he was texting.. combined with the way OP said she first reacted when confronted with it.. is very suspicious to me . I would at the very least be extremely wary.

It also seems that OP is completely trusting of what she says, which is a good thing.. but could also be a bad thing if she is obscuring the truth. I'm not saying she was sexting with him or anything, but it seems likely/possible to me that she was at least responding to some of his texts and possibly giving him some kind of impression, instead of flat out telling him to fuck off or ignoring him.


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Re: Guy I've been suspicious about trying to bang my gf and I just got him [Re: Shroomism]
    #19268785 - 12/13/13 12:02 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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Shroomism said:
He may be crazy, but that doesn't mean there wasn't some reciprocation. I'm with the other guys, one of my first thoughts was there had to be some kind of reciprocation at some point. I mean just from reading the way he was texting.. that's the impression I got.

Yeah sure, we could all be dead wrong.. but there are some major red flags there.



This is what I thought when I first read this too.


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Re: Guy I've been suspicious about trying to bang my gf and I just got him [Re: deadwk]
    #19269780 - 12/13/13 08:30 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

pump and dump,
same scams can be said about stocks


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Re: Guy I've been suspicious about trying to bang my gf and I just got him [Re: Shroomism]
    #19269991 - 12/13/13 09:49 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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Yeah.. I mean... I don't mean to make him cast doubt or change the relationship or anything.. it's just..  the way he was texting.. combined with the way OP said she first reacted when confronted with it.. is very suspicious to me . I would at the very least be extremely wary.

It also seems that OP is completely trusting of what she says, which is a good thing.. but could also be a bad thing if she is obscuring the truth. I'm not saying she was sexting with him or anything, but it seems likely/possible to me that she was at least responding to some of his texts and possibly giving him some kind of impression, instead of flat out telling him to fuck off or ignoring him.




I agree. However it doesn't necessarily mean she was actively intentionally flirting with him. Sometimes people respond in a certain manner than can be interpreted falsely by the other party as a sign the person likes them.
I wouldn't let this eat away at you OP, don't be blind but don't spend your time attempting to "find her out", as that will just cause the demise of the relationship.


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Re: Guy I've been suspicious about trying to bang my gf and I just got him [Re: Shroomism]
    #19270055 - 12/13/13 10:11 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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Yeah.. I mean... I don't mean to make him cast doubt or change the relationship or anything.. it's just..  the way he was texting.. combined with the way OP said she first reacted when confronted with it.. is very suspicious to me . I would at the very least be extremely wary.

It also seems that OP is completely trusting of what she says, which is a good thing.. but could also be a bad thing if she is obscuring the truth. I'm not saying she was sexting with him or anything, but it seems likely/possible to me that she was at least responding to some of his texts and possibly giving him some kind of impression, instead of flat out telling him to fuck off or ignoring him.



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He may be crazy, but that doesn't mean there wasn't some reciprocation. I'm with the other guys, one of my first thoughts was there had to be some kind of reciprocation at some point. I mean just from reading the way he was texting.. that's the impression I got.

Yeah sure, we could all be dead wrong.. but there are some major red flags there.





This is what I believe.

Also, she may not have been doing it INTENTIONALLY but it just doesn't add up.  He seems utterly convinced and attached based on what were told is 'nothing'.


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Re: Guy I've been suspicious about trying to bang my gf and I just got him [Re: Herbologist]
    #19270101 - 12/13/13 10:23 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

I find it funny how many of you are ignoring the fact that this guy was just taken off his antipsychotics, and is diagnosed as schizophrenic. I went through drug induced psychosis just like this person, and I interpreted interactions wiht other woman the exact same way.

I've been suspicious about my gf at one time or another in the past, and from what I've seen this just points to hte guy being coco.


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Re: Guy I've been suspicious about trying to bang my gf and I just got him [Re: deadwk]
    #19270137 - 12/13/13 10:34 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

It's just our opinions, were not saying you're wrong


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Re: Guy I've been suspicious about trying to bang my gf and I just got him [Re: Herbologist]
    #19270147 - 12/13/13 10:37 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

I know it's opinions and that's completely understandable, it just seems like everyone is quick to say "she's lying" etc... And isn't considering the fact that this guy is not exactly the most normal thinker.

Sorry if I'm coming across as being an asshole.


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Re: Guy I've been suspicious about trying to bang my gf and I just got him [Re: deadwk]
    #19270184 - 12/13/13 10:50 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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I know it's opinions and that's completely understandable, it just seems like everyone is quick to say "she's lying" etc... And isn't considering the fact that this guy is not exactly the most normal thinker.

Sorry if I'm coming across as being an asshole.




I didn't say she was lying.. Re-read what I wrote. Many times people misinterpret friendliness to be a sign of interest.


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Re: Guy I've been suspicious about trying to bang my gf and I just got him [Re: Cyclohexylamine]
    #19270194 - 12/13/13 10:52 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

@tymo: I think I forgot to respond to your post in the previous post I made, but I agree with what you said 100%. I was just referring to the other people who was saying she was being flirtatious and that she wasn't innocent.


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Re: Guy I've been suspicious about trying to bang my gf and I just got him [Re: deadwk]
    #19270215 - 12/13/13 11:00 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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I know it's opinions and that's completely understandable, it just seems like everyone is quick to say "she's lying" etc... And isn't considering the fact that this guy is not exactly the most normal thinker.

Sorry if I'm coming across as being an asshole.



I notice this trend a lot. On almost every thread that someone posts about my gf this my bf that, I find a large majority of S&R strongly suggests that he/she is lying/cheating. It really is curious.


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Re: Guy I've been suspicious about trying to bang my gf and I just got him [Re: empty space]
    #19270603 - 12/13/13 12:42 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

everyone is either paranoid or have been cheated on/lied too previously.

Never been cheated on, but always the cheater :facepalm: So many great girls, so little time.


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Re: Guy I've been suspicious about trying to bang my gf and I just got him [Re: unknown1123]
    #19270690 - 12/13/13 01:08 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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Never been cheated on,



That you know of :rofl: birds of a feather


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