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I don't think I've ever been so infurated
    #19266424 - 12/12/13 03:35 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

My parents came back from a meeting with a lawyer about 6 weeks ago with a Manila envelope which my dad tucked into a computer bag. I asked what it was or what they were looking into and all they would say was that "it was very informative".

I looked through it when I noticed it just sitting there in his open bag. I am for people's privacy but they've given me none of mine and I have a vested interest.

Turns out they had or have been looking into getting guardianship/conservatorship over me.

Pardon the learned-helplessness and slightly excessive blame of them, but they've driven me so fucking close to suicide parenting 23-year-old me to death.

Nothing is sacred. I'm going to take them to court if I can get a lawyer to represent me on contingency and get the $9,000 car payout that was in my name and I'm out of here. I'm out of here anyway but seeing that just made me realize that yes, they are fucking my life up and I'm not as delusional as I'd hoped.



I'm very tempted to get them a bag of coal for Xmas. I'm going to go get one of the title pages on the "Adult Conservatorship" material which I will paste to the front of the bag of coal.

Humbug. I'm sure some of you will say "You need one omg blah blah" and you know what? Piss off in advance. I did all the drugs I fucking wanted when I lived on my own and I set the record for most A's in honors classes in one semester at my university. The problem is when people make it a problem, but it's not even about the drugs.

They've been borderline psychotic anyway to the point where a friends mom--a crisis counselor--had suggested that I might need to force treatment on them if they kept something up about a year ago, and now I realize they may need a reduction in family size.



And you know what? I feel happy for the first time because I know I'm not going to be anyone's bitch pretty soon, nor will I be chasing any carrots on a stick.


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Re: I don't think I've ever been so infurated [Re: st1llnox] * 5
    #19266435 - 12/12/13 03:37 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Cool story bro


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Re: I don't think I've ever been so infurated [Re: deladude]
    #19266449 - 12/12/13 03:39 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

The guy who thinks it's helpful if they think someone's addicted to respond to a 4/5 rating with a 0/5... so glad you could join us.


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Re: I don't think I've ever been so infurated [Re: deladude] * 2
    #19266455 - 12/12/13 03:40 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Your 23 and they want guardianship! LOL! Unless you are completely incompetent there is No way that will happen


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Re: I don't think I've ever been so infurated [Re: Magicman69]
    #19266463 - 12/12/13 03:41 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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Magicman69 said:
Your 23 and they want guardianship! LOL! Unless you are completely incompetent there is No way that will happen




You're fucking right; they're not going to know shit about my life from now on except that it's really hard for them to get ahold of me.


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Re: I don't think I've ever been so infurated [Re: st1llnox]
    #19266466 - 12/12/13 03:41 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

And thanks for the encouraging reply; you're good people MagicMan :vibin: :aweyeah:


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Re: I don't think I've ever been so infurated [Re: st1llnox]
    #19266502 - 12/12/13 03:49 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Quote:

st1llnox said:
The guy who thinks it's helpful if they think someone's addicted to respond to a 4/5 rating with a 0/5... so glad you could join us.



lol umad??


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Re: I don't think I've ever been so infurated [Re: st1llnox] * 1
    #19266527 - 12/12/13 03:56 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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st1llnox said:
My parents came back from a meeting with a lawyer about 6 weeks ago with a Manila envelope which my dad tucked into a computer bag. I asked what it was or what they were looking into and all they would say was that "it was very informative".

I looked through it when I noticed it just sitting there in his open bag. I am for people's privacy but they've given me none of mine and I have a vested interest.

Turns out they had or have been looking into getting guardianship/conservatorship over me.

Pardon the learned-helplessness and slightly excessive blame of them, but they've driven me so fucking close to suicide parenting 23-year-old me to death.

Nothing is sacred. I'm going to take them to court if I can get a lawyer to represent me on contingency and get the $9,000 car payout that was in my name and I'm out of here. I'm out of here anyway but seeing that just made me realize that yes, they are fucking my life up and I'm not as delusional as I'd hoped.



I'm very tempted to get them a bag of coal for Xmas. I'm going to go get one of the title pages on the "Adult Conservatorship" material which I will paste to the front of the bag of coal.

Humbug. I'm sure some of you will say "You need one omg blah blah" and you know what? Piss off in advance. I did all the drugs I fucking wanted when I lived on my own and I set the record for most A's in honors classes in one semester at my university. The problem is when people make it a problem, but it's not even about the drugs.

They've been borderline psychotic anyway to the point where a friends mom--a crisis counselor--had suggested that I might need to force treatment on them if they kept something up about a year ago, and now I realize they may need a reduction in family size.



And you know what? I feel happy for the first time because I know I'm not going to be anyone's bitch pretty soon, nor will I be chasing any carrots on a stick.



Why don't you just move out it seems to me like your way to old to be living with your parents. There are lots of affordable schools to go to if money is an issue. Or you could just work for a bit and save up honestly man just move out youll be happy you did.


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Re: I don't think I've ever been so infurated [Re: st1llnox] * 1
    #19266530 - 12/12/13 03:58 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Hummm OP. Do you realize how easily you could get out of this? Your parents will have to prove that you are either incapable of making decisions by yourself because you are either too sick, in coma or have severe mental issues.

Based on what you've written on this website so far, you clearly can think straight (you did just write this entire thread without help I suppose). Just ask the court for an IQ test, a therapy session and any other test they require to prove that you are capable of making decisions by yourself. You'll more than  likely ace all the tests.

Do you currently have an incapacitating mental health issue?


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Re: I don't think I've ever been so infurated [Re: Patlal]
    #19266546 - 12/12/13 04:02 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Quote:

Do you currently have an incapacitating mental health issue?




Just that my parents think they need to do everything for me and run my life/make my decisions. I thought maybe I had a bad perspective and entitlement issues or something, but finding these docs totally confirmed this.

I decided before I found this (today, with encouragement from my therapist) that I was going to get the fuck out of there, get a shitty car, and in doing so get a fucking AMAZING LIFE once more! :cookiemonster:



My parents can't understand my English sometimes; if I were sober, I'd spank them sideways in court, but the fact that they were going after this, trying to put me on food stamps and shit... that's the issue.


Gilgamesh, your advice is another gust to the wind at my back! :aweyeah:

I'm gettin the fuck out of here, shroomery. My life is about to start again! :zomgzomgzomg:


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st1lln0x: so i'm on weed, temazepam, adderall, dexedrine, dxm, dph, alcohol, nicotine, caffeine, tryptophan, GABA, and kratom
Cavemen_savemen: st1lln0x, do you feel like a robot yet?
st1lln0x: I feel like a fucking Gundam
Click to friend me on Steam for Counter-Strike
:crankey: IS LIFE SKULLFUCKING YOU!? HAVE SOME FREE MORALE! :awesomenod:
Click if you want to feel you alone can do it! Click if you want to feel confident and beastly! Click if you want courage to let go and move on! And click the message if you need someone to talk to -- I'll understand, even if we "hate" each other on here :hug: :sun:


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Re: I don't think I've ever been so infurated [Re: st1llnox] * 3
    #19266570 - 12/12/13 04:07 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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st1llnox said:
a Manila envelope



Sorry to go off topic, but I always thought it was "Vanilla envelope" until now. I've been living a lie.


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Re: I don't think I've ever been so infurated [Re: ModestMouse] * 2
    #19266588 - 12/12/13 04:10 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

lololol ^


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Re: I don't think I've ever been so infurated [Re: st1llnox] * 1
    #19266590 - 12/12/13 04:10 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

You know what you're doing. Good luck bro, still here for ya.


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Re: I don't think I've ever been so infurated [Re: King Klick]
    #19266602 - 12/12/13 04:13 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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You know what you're doing. Good luck bro, still here for ya.





This place is populated with some of humanity's most resplendent, I must say :highfive1: Thanks a ton dude!

Glad my path is so glaringly obvious too.



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st1lln0x: so i'm on weed, temazepam, adderall, dexedrine, dxm, dph, alcohol, nicotine, caffeine, tryptophan, GABA, and kratom
Cavemen_savemen: st1lln0x, do you feel like a robot yet?
st1lln0x: I feel like a fucking Gundam
Click to friend me on Steam for Counter-Strike
:crankey: IS LIFE SKULLFUCKING YOU!? HAVE SOME FREE MORALE! :awesomenod:
Click if you want to feel you alone can do it! Click if you want to feel confident and beastly! Click if you want courage to let go and move on! And click the message if you need someone to talk to -- I'll understand, even if we "hate" each other on here :hug: :sun:


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Re: I don't think I've ever been so infurated [Re: st1llnox]
    #19266639 - 12/12/13 04:21 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Wtf did I just read....:shrug:


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Re: I don't think I've ever been so infurated [Re: st1llnox]
    #19266649 - 12/12/13 04:23 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

with what your parents gone done then hold as a secret when involving yourself, and having you dig into finding the secret, why not confront your parents in a proper manner and settle this as the three of you? 

sounds like you got a head on your shoulder and you got a drive to see yourself getting where you want that shouldn't be obstructed by another with different view.


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Re: I don't think I've ever been so infurated [Re: ModestMouse] * 1
    #19266656 - 12/12/13 04:24 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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ModestMouse said:
Quote:

st1llnox said:
a Manila envelope



Sorry to go off topic, but I always thought it was "Vanilla envelope" until now. I've been living a lie.




:doublefacepalm:



OP I'm not sure why you're even worrying about this, there's no way your parents are gonna convince a judge this... unless they're extremely wealthy and influential.


Edited by theRAPeutic (12/12/13 04:26 PM)


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Re: I don't think I've ever been so infurated [Re: WhoManBeing]
    #19266676 - 12/12/13 04:30 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Thanks WhoManBeing--I love the phonetic pun in your name btw :lol:


I am 99% sure this was just their ace in the hole, but the papers and envelope are slightly worn. If I'd known I was sleeping in a lions den this whole time... eeek.

Literally that would be my worst nightmare to be perma-parented; this came at the perfect time to be a gust in the wind at my back as I head out for my own life :sun:



I do feel like ruining Xmas over this might be in poor taste; I also kind of recognize that my wanting to communicate to them that I discovered this is a serious problem that does affect how I feel about them and will relate to them for a long time, but unfortunately I'm attracted to doing this in a vengeful kind of way. That's not the real me, but I have so much bent up anger. I need to figure out a compromise.


Thanks Tahp, too. I think it'd be a long shot, but I do know they're rich-ish (set for life rich, but not independently wealthy per se) and their lawyer got me out of multiple misdemeanors at once without me having to do anything, so they've got force but I'm not sweating it; the principle of the thing and the idea they'd even consider that reality. I'm getting queasy just imagining them going over my finances and shit with me at 30 or something, or worse.



Time to GTFO :awebig:


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st1lln0x: so i'm on weed, temazepam, adderall, dexedrine, dxm, dph, alcohol, nicotine, caffeine, tryptophan, GABA, and kratom
Cavemen_savemen: st1lln0x, do you feel like a robot yet?
st1lln0x: I feel like a fucking Gundam
Click to friend me on Steam for Counter-Strike
:crankey: IS LIFE SKULLFUCKING YOU!? HAVE SOME FREE MORALE! :awesomenod:
Click if you want to feel you alone can do it! Click if you want to feel confident and beastly! Click if you want courage to let go and move on! And click the message if you need someone to talk to -- I'll understand, even if we "hate" each other on here :hug: :sun:


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Re: I don't think I've ever been so infurated [Re: st1llnox] * 4
    #19266688 - 12/12/13 04:33 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

maybe its time to move outta mommys house if you want privacy.



im havin my a baby in a month.... i hope he doesn't become a whiney baby who wants to live us through his 20's  (i moved out at 18 and started my own life btw)


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Re: I don't think I've ever been so infurated [Re: P-O] * 2
    #19266697 - 12/12/13 04:37 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Quote:

P-O said:
maybe its time to move outta mommys house if you want privacy.



im havin my a baby in a month.... i hope he doesn't become a whiney baby who wants to live us through his 20's  (i moved out at 18 and started my own life btw)



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