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I don't think I've ever been so infurated
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My parents came back from a meeting with a lawyer about 6 weeks ago with a Manila envelope which my dad tucked into a computer bag. I asked what it was or what they were looking into and all they would say was that "it was very informative".
I looked through it when I noticed it just sitting there in his open bag. I am for people's privacy but they've given me none of mine and I have a vested interest.
Turns out they had or have been looking into getting guardianship/conservatorship over me.
Pardon the learned-helplessness and slightly excessive blame of them, but they've driven me so fucking close to suicide parenting 23-year-old me to death.
Nothing is sacred. I'm going to take them to court if I can get a lawyer to represent me on contingency and get the $9,000 car payout that was in my name and I'm out of here. I'm out of here anyway but seeing that just made me realize that yes, they are fucking my life up and I'm not as delusional as I'd hoped.
I'm very tempted to get them a bag of coal for Xmas. I'm going to go get one of the title pages on the "Adult Conservatorship" material which I will paste to the front of the bag of coal.
Humbug. I'm sure some of you will say "You need one omg blah blah" and you know what? Piss off in advance. I did all the drugs I fucking wanted when I lived on my own and I set the record for most A's in honors classes in one semester at my university. The problem is when people make it a problem, but it's not even about the drugs.
They've been borderline psychotic anyway to the point where a friends mom--a crisis counselor--had suggested that I might need to force treatment on them if they kept something up about a year ago, and now I realize they may need a reduction in family size.
And you know what? I feel happy for the first time because I know I'm not going to be anyone's bitch pretty soon, nor will I be chasing any carrots on a stick.
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Re: I don't think I've ever been so infurated [Re: st1llnox] 5
#19266435 - 12/12/13 03:37 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Cool story bro
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Re: I don't think I've ever been so infurated [Re: deladude]
#19266449 - 12/12/13 03:39 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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The guy who thinks it's helpful if they think someone's addicted to respond to a 4/5 rating with a 0/5... so glad you could join us.
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Re: I don't think I've ever been so infurated [Re: deladude] 2
#19266455 - 12/12/13 03:40 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Your 23 and they want guardianship! LOL! Unless you are completely incompetent there is No way that will happen
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Re: I don't think I've ever been so infurated [Re: Magicman69]
#19266463 - 12/12/13 03:41 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Magicman69 said: Your 23 and they want guardianship! LOL! Unless you are completely incompetent there is No way that will happen
You're fucking right; they're not going to know shit about my life from now on except that it's really hard for them to get ahold of me.
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Re: I don't think I've ever been so infurated [Re: st1llnox]
#19266466 - 12/12/13 03:41 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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And thanks for the encouraging reply; you're good people MagicMan
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Re: I don't think I've ever been so infurated [Re: st1llnox]
#19266502 - 12/12/13 03:49 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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st1llnox said: The guy who thinks it's helpful if they think someone's addicted to respond to a 4/5 rating with a 0/5... so glad you could join us.
lol umad??
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Re: I don't think I've ever been so infurated [Re: st1llnox] 1
#19266527 - 12/12/13 03:56 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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st1llnox said: My parents came back from a meeting with a lawyer about 6 weeks ago with a Manila envelope which my dad tucked into a computer bag. I asked what it was or what they were looking into and all they would say was that "it was very informative".
I looked through it when I noticed it just sitting there in his open bag. I am for people's privacy but they've given me none of mine and I have a vested interest.
Turns out they had or have been looking into getting guardianship/conservatorship over me.
Pardon the learned-helplessness and slightly excessive blame of them, but they've driven me so fucking close to suicide parenting 23-year-old me to death.
Nothing is sacred. I'm going to take them to court if I can get a lawyer to represent me on contingency and get the $9,000 car payout that was in my name and I'm out of here. I'm out of here anyway but seeing that just made me realize that yes, they are fucking my life up and I'm not as delusional as I'd hoped.
I'm very tempted to get them a bag of coal for Xmas. I'm going to go get one of the title pages on the "Adult Conservatorship" material which I will paste to the front of the bag of coal.
Humbug. I'm sure some of you will say "You need one omg blah blah" and you know what? Piss off in advance. I did all the drugs I fucking wanted when I lived on my own and I set the record for most A's in honors classes in one semester at my university. The problem is when people make it a problem, but it's not even about the drugs.
They've been borderline psychotic anyway to the point where a friends mom--a crisis counselor--had suggested that I might need to force treatment on them if they kept something up about a year ago, and now I realize they may need a reduction in family size.
And you know what? I feel happy for the first time because I know I'm not going to be anyone's bitch pretty soon, nor will I be chasing any carrots on a stick.
Why don't you just move out it seems to me like your way to old to be living with your parents. There are lots of affordable schools to go to if money is an issue. Or you could just work for a bit and save up honestly man just move out youll be happy you did.
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Re: I don't think I've ever been so infurated [Re: st1llnox] 1
#19266530 - 12/12/13 03:58 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Hummm OP. Do you realize how easily you could get out of this? Your parents will have to prove that you are either incapable of making decisions by yourself because you are either too sick, in coma or have severe mental issues.
Based on what you've written on this website so far, you clearly can think straight (you did just write this entire thread without help I suppose). Just ask the court for an IQ test, a therapy session and any other test they require to prove that you are capable of making decisions by yourself. You'll more than likely ace all the tests.
Do you currently have an incapacitating mental health issue?
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Re: I don't think I've ever been so infurated [Re: Patlal]
#19266546 - 12/12/13 04:02 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Do you currently have an incapacitating mental health issue?
Just that my parents think they need to do everything for me and run my life/make my decisions. I thought maybe I had a bad perspective and entitlement issues or something, but finding these docs totally confirmed this.
I decided before I found this (today, with encouragement from my therapist) that I was going to get the fuck out of there, get a shitty car, and in doing so get a fucking AMAZING LIFE once more! 
My parents can't understand my English sometimes; if I were sober, I'd spank them sideways in court, but the fact that they were going after this, trying to put me on food stamps and shit... that's the issue.
Gilgamesh, your advice is another gust to the wind at my back! 
I'm gettin the fuck out of here, shroomery. My life is about to start again!
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Re: I don't think I've ever been so infurated [Re: st1llnox] 3
#19266570 - 12/12/13 04:07 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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st1llnox said: a Manila envelope
Sorry to go off topic, but I always thought it was "Vanilla envelope" until now. I've been living a lie.
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Re: I don't think I've ever been so infurated [Re: ModestMouse] 2
#19266588 - 12/12/13 04:10 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Re: I don't think I've ever been so infurated [Re: st1llnox] 1
#19266590 - 12/12/13 04:10 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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You know what you're doing. Good luck bro, still here for ya.
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Re: I don't think I've ever been so infurated [Re: King Klick]
#19266602 - 12/12/13 04:13 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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King Klick said: You know what you're doing. Good luck bro, still here for ya.
This place is populated with some of humanity's most resplendent, I must say Thanks a ton dude!
Glad my path is so glaringly obvious too.
I'm paying my own way through the rest of school; no strings attached.
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Re: I don't think I've ever been so infurated [Re: st1llnox]
#19266639 - 12/12/13 04:21 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Re: I don't think I've ever been so infurated [Re: st1llnox]
#19266649 - 12/12/13 04:23 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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with what your parents gone done then hold as a secret when involving yourself, and having you dig into finding the secret, why not confront your parents in a proper manner and settle this as the three of you?
sounds like you got a head on your shoulder and you got a drive to see yourself getting where you want that shouldn't be obstructed by another with different view.
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Re: I don't think I've ever been so infurated [Re: ModestMouse] 1
#19266656 - 12/12/13 04:24 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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st1llnox said: a Manila envelope
Sorry to go off topic, but I always thought it was "Vanilla envelope" until now. I've been living a lie.

OP I'm not sure why you're even worrying about this, there's no way your parents are gonna convince a judge this... unless they're extremely wealthy and influential.
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Re: I don't think I've ever been so infurated [Re: WhoManBeing]
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Thanks WhoManBeing--I love the phonetic pun in your name btw 
I am 99% sure this was just their ace in the hole, but the papers and envelope are slightly worn. If I'd known I was sleeping in a lions den this whole time... eeek.
Literally that would be my worst nightmare to be perma-parented; this came at the perfect time to be a gust in the wind at my back as I head out for my own life 
I do feel like ruining Xmas over this might be in poor taste; I also kind of recognize that my wanting to communicate to them that I discovered this is a serious problem that does affect how I feel about them and will relate to them for a long time, but unfortunately I'm attracted to doing this in a vengeful kind of way. That's not the real me, but I have so much bent up anger. I need to figure out a compromise.
Thanks Tahp, too. I think it'd be a long shot, but I do know they're rich-ish (set for life rich, but not independently wealthy per se) and their lawyer got me out of multiple misdemeanors at once without me having to do anything, so they've got force but I'm not sweating it; the principle of the thing and the idea they'd even consider that reality. I'm getting queasy just imagining them going over my finances and shit with me at 30 or something, or worse.
Time to GTFO
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Re: I don't think I've ever been so infurated [Re: st1llnox] 4
#19266688 - 12/12/13 04:33 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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maybe its time to move outta mommys house if you want privacy.
im havin my a baby in a month.... i hope he doesn't become a whiney baby who wants to live us through his 20's (i moved out at 18 and started my own life btw)
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Re: I don't think I've ever been so infurated [Re: P-O] 2
#19266697 - 12/12/13 04:37 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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P-O said: maybe its time to move outta mommys house if you want privacy.
im havin my a baby in a month.... i hope he doesn't become a whiney baby who wants to live us through his 20's (i moved out at 18 and started my own life btw)
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Re: I don't think I've ever been so infurated [Re: P-O] 2
#19266702 - 12/12/13 04:39 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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P-O said: maybe its time to move outta mommys house if you want privacy.
im havin my a baby in a month.... i hope he doesn't become a whiney baby who wants to live us through his 20's (i moved out at 18 and started my own life btw)
Hey, maybe you don't know the whole story. I moved out at 18 after doing my 3rd internship (4th total then) at a Fortune 500 company. I've only been living here since summer. If you want to be critical without being helpful, find a different OP. I hope your child is more polite
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Re: I don't think I've ever been so infurated [Re: st1llnox] 2
#19266705 - 12/12/13 04:40 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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If you are so intelligent and well connected surely you can move out of your parents house and land a high paying job no problem.
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Re: I don't think I've ever been so infurated [Re: st1llnox]
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St1llnox I think I saw you today. I saw you running down the sidewalk holding a coffee. You had a skip in your step and a big goofy grin like "wooooooooooooooyeah I got da bomb diggity coffee!".
Was that you?
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Re: I don't think I've ever been so infurated [Re: Gilgamesh18]
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Gilgamesh18 said: If you are so intelligent and well connected surely you can move out of your parents house and land a high paying job no problem.
That's kinda the idea actually.
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Re: I don't think I've ever been so infurated [Re: Fire is Born]
#19266719 - 12/12/13 04:43 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Scratch that... fortune 1000, but still not bad.
I'm done with this rut. Time to move back up
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Re: I don't think I've ever been so infurated [Re: st1llnox] 3
#19266721 - 12/12/13 04:44 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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st1llnox said: Time to GTFO 
Living well is the best revenge. Save up, move out, distance yourself from them, be successful and content.
definately do not ruin christmas over this, or make the situation anymore dramatic then it already is (even though that is probably very tempting). Not only is that distasteful but it is also immature, and you don't need to give them any ammo.
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Re: I don't think I've ever been so infurated [Re: Fire is Born]
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OP had to know this thread was dumb when he typed it..... hes never been so mad at his mommy. and wants privacy..... and he might take her to court.
lol!!!!! I dare u to poast the on growery OP.... See the responses you get
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#19266742 - 12/12/13 04:50 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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P-O said: maybe its time to move outta mommys house if you want privacy.
im havin my a baby in a month.... i hope he doesn't become a whiney baby who wants to live us through his 20's (i moved out at 18 and started my own life btw)
Hey, maybe you don't know the whole story. I moved out at 18 after doing my 3rd internship (4th total then) at a Fortune 500 company. I've only been living here since summer. If you want to be critical without being helpful, find a different OP. I hope your child is more polite 
LOL and where do you work now again?
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Re: I don't think I've ever been so infurated [Re: deladude]
#19266825 - 12/12/13 05:09 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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st1llnox said:
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P-O said: maybe its time to move outta mommys house if you want privacy.
im havin my a baby in a month.... i hope he doesn't become a whiney baby who wants to live us through his 20's (i moved out at 18 and started my own life btw)
Hey, maybe you don't know the whole story. I moved out at 18 after doing my 3rd internship (4th total then) at a Fortune 500 company. I've only been living here since summer. If you want to be critical without being helpful, find a different OP. I hope your child is more polite 
LOL and where do you work now again?
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Re: I don't think I've ever been so infurated [Re: P-O]
#19266880 - 12/12/13 05:26 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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P-O said: OP had to know this thread was dumb when he typed it..... hes never been so mad at his mommy. and wants privacy..... and he might take her to court.
lol!!!!! I dare u to poast the on growery OP.... See the responses you get 
They are of pretty low quality I've noticed 
Deladude, I have my resume still. A bridging the gap, emergency job after a surprise relocation is hardly relevant.
Thanks for those of you with encouraging feedback and for the rest of you, like the original post said... F off
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Re: I don't think I've ever been so infurated [Re: st1llnox] 2
#19266900 - 12/12/13 05:30 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Man up, Get a job and move out? No-one owes you shit .
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Re: I don't think I've ever been so infurated [Re: st1llnox]
#19266912 - 12/12/13 05:33 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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st1llnox said: And thanks for the encouraging reply; you're good people MagicMan 
I've been waiting for a return rating from you for ages.
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Re: I don't think I've ever been so infurated [Re: Cepheus] 1
#19266953 - 12/12/13 05:44 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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The problem is that most go through stuff with their parents. But we all don't make a post about it and only welcome ass kissing. Good luck. Sounds like to me that they just want you working. They are parents, they tend to do stuff like this to get you moving. Sad tactic and hurtful, your right.
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Re: I don't think I've ever been so infurated [Re: st1llnox]
#19267162 - 12/12/13 06:32 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Don't ever let anyone else make your life decisions for you. Your life is for you to live.
That said, also try to burn as few bridges as possible along the way, and consider the opinions of those who care about you.
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Re: I don't think I've ever been so infurated [Re: Synthe]
#19267198 - 12/12/13 06:41 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Synthe said: St1llnox I think I saw you today. I saw you running down the sidewalk holding a coffee. You had a skip in your step and a big goofy grin like "wooooooooooooooyeah I got da bomb diggity coffee!".
Was that you?
So... I guess it wasn't you?
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Re: I don't think I've ever been so infurated [Re: Synthe]
#19267267 - 12/12/13 06:55 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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st1llnox said: And thanks for the encouraging reply; you're good people MagicMan 
I've been waiting for a return rating from you for ages. 
Haha don't worry man; I'm waiting for this thread to die and then I'm going through all my ratings making sure I recip, and going through this thread and the rut thread to make sure everyone who helped gets +5. I'm getting everyone in one fell swoop, but since you're extra awesome I'll do yours now 
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Synthe said: St1llnox I think I saw you today. I saw you running down the sidewalk holding a coffee. You had a skip in your step and a big goofy grin like "wooooooooooooooyeah I got da bomb diggity coffee!".
Was that you?
So... I guess it wasn't you? 
Sorry man I didn't see your reply! (Some of the flame distracted me haha). Was it around Kansas City?!? 
That'd be baller as fuck if you did see me I've actually been all over today too and super happy, so it could've been me
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Re: I don't think I've ever been so infurated [Re: st1llnox]
#19269500 - 12/13/13 06:23 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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st1llnox said: Scratch that... fortune 1000, but still not bad.
I'm done with this rut. Time to move back up 
That means nothing. Working in a fuel station or Walmart gives you that title.
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Re: I don't think I've ever been so infurated [Re: Fire is Born]
#19269827 - 12/13/13 08:52 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Fire is Born said:
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st1llnox said: Scratch that... fortune 1000, but still not bad.
I'm done with this rut. Time to move back up 
That means nothing. Working in a fuel station or Walmart gives you that title.
Eh, I was writing healthcare IT software Little different but clever point you 
Back on topic before this becomes a dick-wagging contest...
This whole thing kinda serves me right for waiting for more parental handouts and I think I'll feel not just better about my life, but more secure about it when I'll be earning it all myself.
It would've been nice if we had none of the hiccups we did and all of my college and car got paid for, but my autonomy is not for sale at this point.
I had dinner with a close friend from college last night and he said he had two cousins just like me. Both were exactly like me, coping psychotropically. One manned up and got the fuck out of there and is kicking life's ass--things immediately got much better.
The other has been in the same rut doing the same thing for nearly 9 years now.
Again, serves me right for waiting on handouts but I'm glad I cleared this up.
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Re: I don't think I've ever been so infurated [Re: st1llnox]
#19269838 - 12/13/13 08:58 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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time to deal with it head on if you intend to live there any longer. You will have to sit down and have a CALM conversation about what misguided steps they are taking and why they are taking them. Remember: you have to be calm because they are alleging you are too crazy to look after your own affairs.
Calm down and work it out. Or move. Either one gets you to where you want to be.
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Re: I don't think I've ever been so infurated [Re: mpd]
#19270156 - 12/13/13 10:39 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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I'm totally moving; I do, though, need to work out how I'm going to be able to process this with them without becoming malicious, vengeful, or overly-angry.
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Re: I don't think I've ever been so infurated [Re: st1llnox]
#19270188 - 12/13/13 10:51 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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They will use your anger as an example of how out of control you have become so you have to be extra careful not to get into a shouting match or act out your disappointments. You can do this.
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Re: I don't think I've ever been so infurated [Re: st1llnox] 1
#19270203 - 12/13/13 10:56 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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st1llnox said: Back on topic before this becomes a dick-wagging contest...
, written by the Shroomery's #1 dick-wagger since Yageman.
You just called off the contest as soon as it seemed someone else might show up.
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Re: I don't think I've ever been so infurated [Re: mpd]
#19270252 - 12/13/13 11:09 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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st1llnox said: Back on topic before this becomes a dick-wagging contest...
, written by the Shroomery's #1 dick-wagger since Yageman.
You just called off the contest as soon as it seemed someone else might show up.
I didn't say I wouldn't win. I said I didn't want to play . I'm working on that, although I think when I'm in a more auspicious role (as opposed to working at McDonalds), I won't feel the need to defend myself so pettily .
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mpd said: They will use your anger as an example of how out of control you have become so you have to be extra careful not to get into a shouting match or act out your disappointments. You can do this.
Thanks man and very good point. I don't think they're at all actively pursuing this, as talk of the future has been more about me eventually getting back to college, etc.
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Re: I don't think I've ever been so infurated [Re: st1llnox]
#19270497 - 12/13/13 12:14 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Yeah seems like you got it figured out man. I would if I was in your situation. That's jus bullshit, trying to enforce rules on a 23 year old. I do have to ask if you cOntribute any money ex: rent food for the house hold? If not then then you have really no levaryg or entitled to privacy. It is there house after all.
I'll be turning 25 next month and I've been living with my folks for the last 2 years now, ever since I got out of the military. I pay rent, buy groceries take care of some daily chores and my folks stay out of my way. I get high, drunk and there is not much my folks can do. I pay my dues and live my life like I want.
I don't Plan to live with the forever but I honestly don't mind it. Home cooked meals from scratch everyday? Cmon how can I say no to that.
Best of luck to you my friend
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Re: I don't think I've ever been so infurated *DELETED* [Re: st1llnox]
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Re: I don't think I've ever been so infurated [Re: Greendreams]
#19270573 - 12/13/13 12:33 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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OP, what are your parents concerns, what reason have you given them to take such drastic actions?
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Re: I don't think I've ever been so infurated [Re: qman]
#19271173 - 12/13/13 03:01 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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OP....I'm getting together with a female friend in a little while whose son was shot 23 times over a fucking $50.00 drug debt.
Somehow, in the grand scheme...your problems seem awfully petty. Man up and get the fuck out of the house ...you're 23 yrs. old for Christs sake. Take charge of your life.
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