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G/f texting another guy lately...
    #19265583 - 12/12/13 12:33 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Well, my GF of six months has been texting some guy pretty intimately for the past week, it doesn't sound good :/

It doesn't seem that she's mentioned to him that she has a BF, so I really don't feel any resent towards this dude... but they both keep talking about each others auras n shit... and how she 'felt something' the moment they met each other. Now they are going skating and shit in the next few days...

What pains me the most? The fact that I treat her so damn well and basically saved her ass because she didn't have a place to live, and have done so much for her. Also, we are moving into our own place in just 2 weeks which i've never done before with anyone, so it's a pretty big leap for the two of us. She always tells me how much she loves me, and how so many of her ex boyfriends have cheated on her etc. etc.

And now here I am... with this feeling of emptiness and betrayal, feeling that it's only a matter of short time before they sleep with eachother. I don't know what to do... obviously I don't want to just tell her that I read her txt message... but then again should I just wait for the imminent deed to be done before I say/do anything?

I've never had this feeling before, but man does it suck. I can't look at her the same anymore... feelsbadman.


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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: foliocb] * 1
    #19265631 - 12/12/13 12:43 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Maybe you should rethink moving in with her if you think she may leave you?


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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: Herbologist] * 1
    #19265672 - 12/12/13 12:52 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Six months is WAY too soon IMO to move in with someone.  I have been in 4 long-term relationships and they all started to wane around the 1-2 year mark.  I would personally wait at least 1.5 years - at that point you're generally out of the honeymoon phase of your relationship and really know if you guys click.

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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: foliocb]
    #19265884 - 12/12/13 01:41 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

I think the fact that she's telling you is a good sign. I tend to be that other guy a lot and almost every single one of the girls I talk to and end up doing something with don't say anything about me to their boyfriends/fiances.


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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: foliocb]
    #19266379 - 12/12/13 03:26 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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foliocb said:
obviously I don't want to just tell her that I read her txt message... but then again should I just wait for the imminent deed to be done before I say/do anything?

I've never had this feeling before, but man does it suck. I can't look at her the same anymore... feelsbadman.




just tell her you read her text messages, that you shouldn't have, but that what you found makes you uncertain and untrusting of her (even though, hypocritically, you read her texts - which makes you untrusting in the first place.  i made this same self-fulfilling prophecy mistake 6months into my last long-term relationship.  it ended in a similar fashion 3 years in).

don't move in with her.



just end it now :shrug:

if she and him get together, and they later break up and it seems as though you still want her and she wants you again/still, then go for it.... but it seems like at THIS juncture - she's got someone else on her mind and you've got mistrust and infidelity on yours:  a dangerous pairing


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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: memes] * 3
    #19266935 - 12/12/13 05:37 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

we broke up today :/

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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: foliocb] * 1
    #19267025 - 12/12/13 06:00 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

:feelsbadman: but i'm glad you did it.


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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: foliocb]
    #19267148 - 12/12/13 06:29 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Shitty, but it had to happen. Now all ya have to do is dust yourself off & get back out there.


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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: Dark_Star]
    #19267497 - 12/12/13 07:29 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

she's cheating. that's what i do whenever i'm committing the act.


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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: lunarpiscean]
    #19268586 - 12/12/13 11:15 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

You've cheated on guys you've been with? How do you usually go about it? I kinda wanna know so in case I'm ever being cheated on.


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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: lunarpiscean]
    #19268594 - 12/12/13 11:17 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Feels bad man.

Right now I might be the douche.

There's a girl in town who always had a good "aura", just seemed genuine, nice, and pretty to boot, but I was always too scared to asked her out cause I wasn't in the best of time.

Recently I've been doing better, but she literally just started going out with this dude like within a month. I said fuckit, I'd still like to know her, and asked her to go see a concert with me.

I kept it friendly cause I don't want to deliberately split a relationship or anything, but she also made some comments like how she got paranoid the first time ever smoking with him last weekend and how its longish distance and they dont see eachother alot.

We had a great time and laughed alot and were friendly, but I went out of my way to not to cross any boundaries, or share anything about how I felt about her relationship which seemed iffy just to better my chances with her.

Basically I think the relationship might be doomed but do I be honest with her and possibly hurry it along, or just wait my turn?

I just don't know.

Sorry to hear your story man, and sorry to maybe be "that guy", feels bad, but such is life..


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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: JPDancer]
    #19268618 - 12/12/13 11:22 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: Into The Woods]
    #19268672 - 12/12/13 11:32 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

i said sorry bro man.


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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: JPDancer] * 1
    #19268894 - 12/13/13 12:41 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

she insists that there isnt another dude she's pursuing currently. I decided to not bring up reading her txt messages, which basically shows her and some dude obviously flirt/sexting each other.

what's done is done I guess :shrug:

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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: foliocb] * 3
    #19268913 - 12/13/13 12:46 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Good for you OP. Be strong.


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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: Anonymous #2] * 3
    #19268959 - 12/13/13 01:01 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Trust me its better it ended now.


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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: Shins]
    #19269525 - 12/13/13 06:36 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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Anonymous said:
Good for you OP. Be strong.



Quote:

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Trust me its better it ended now.




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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: Everything]
    #19269580 - 12/13/13 07:06 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Just a lot of texting and facebook messaging, which I don't normally do when in a relationship...at least not when I'm with my S.O



i dunno, it'd be hard to catch me unless you went through my shit, and even then a lot of times some of it will be deleted



:paranoid:


no sex, and other things could be a hint


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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: lunarpiscean]
    #19269738 - 12/13/13 08:16 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

boom. how old are you op?


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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: unknown1123]
    #19269829 - 12/13/13 08:52 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

u did the right thing tho. in that situation you HAVE to confront her

sucks man. bitches suck so fucking bad


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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: Bassfreak] * 1
    #19269891 - 12/13/13 09:13 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

You feel that empty knot in your stomach...that fury and sadness combined..and the constant thought of her being with another guy......and the most thing driving you crazy is the one big question......why?  That one word will drive you nuts the not knowing why.......I've been there and I have found a real fast way to get over it and her.....go fuck another bitch ...the only way to get over a bitch. Is with another bitch ...I can not stress that enough...also your ego is crushed ... go to a gym work out...buy yourself something...night out with the boys or movies..... trust me you prob sit at home with the TV on and a DVD at the main screen playing the screen music over and over checking your messages over waiting on her......your boosting her ego and not yours....trust me


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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: shroomster87]
    #19269895 - 12/13/13 09:16 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

weed has always helped me with the end of a relationship. it just makes me not give a fuck and to look forward


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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: pwnasaurus]
    #19270229 - 12/13/13 11:04 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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Six months is WAY too soon IMO to move in with someone.  I have been in 4 long-term relationships and they all started to wane around the 1-2 year mark.  I would personally wait at least 1.5 years - at that point you're generally out of the honeymoon phase of your relationship and really know if you guys click.

Just :2cents:




There is way too much truth is that sentence.

6 months seems extremely fast. You're still on the oxytocin buzz.


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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: Patlal]
    #19270319 - 12/13/13 11:26 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

my homie moved in with his gf after a couple months

like 2 weeks ago she jokingly said they shud break up and dead serious he was like alright and moved out the next day hahahah

i find it hilarious


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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: Bassfreak]
    #19270511 - 12/13/13 12:18 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

I think you are better off without honestly.  I had a lease on an apartment with my ex-fiance, and that was a total disaster when I broke things off with her.  Not only dealing with her, but her new b/f too. 

Enjoy your single life.  It is liberating once you get the hang of it.  I refuse to date a woman that I don't feel is as smart, ambitious, or financially responsible as myself.  I won't treat anybody like a princess either just because they give it up. 

Find somebody that respects you bro.  It sucks now, but this can be a really good thing if you let it. :thumbup:


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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: Bassfreak]
    #19270537 - 12/13/13 12:24 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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my homie moved in with his gf after a couple months

like 2 weeks ago she jokingly said they shud break up and dead serious he was like alright and moved out the next day hahahah

i find it hilarious




I'm totally the kind of guy to do that.

When it comes to breaking up, I don't question myself. If I start thinking about it, I break it off. Most people think like "oh I'm gonna be alone", "Oh I'll break his/her heart" etc. Every excuse they can find to tolerate the relationship their questioning. I don't do that. I pull the trigger 15 minutes after I start thinking about it.


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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: foliocb]
    #19270607 - 12/13/13 12:43 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Monogamy is such a bummer


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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: shroomster87]
    #19270655 - 12/13/13 12:56 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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You feel that empty knot in your stomach...that fury and sadness combined..and the constant thought of her being with another guy......and the most thing driving you crazy is the one big question......why?



Because people are whores and like to fuck other people.  The belief that we can deny our nature in the name of being "good" is what's making us miserable.

So she texted another guy which apparently is "not ok."  Where do you draw the line?  Can she look at another guy?  Can she speak with another guy?  Do you really think that attempting to deny someone any potential relationship with 50% of the world's population is a healthy way to behave?  Do you really think that women want to be treated that way?  Do you like to be treated that way?


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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: TheWiz]
    #19270695 - 12/13/13 01:09 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Not everyone is a polygamist like you.


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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: lunarpiscean]
    #19270699 - 12/13/13 01:10 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

I used to be a polygamist, then I started respecting myself.


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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: lunarpiscean]
    #19270868 - 12/13/13 01:52 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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Not everyone is a polygamist like you.




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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: empty space]
    #19270970 - 12/13/13 02:14 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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I used to be a polygamist, then I started respecting myself.




There are good reasons to be non-monogamous and there are bad reasons, I personally would consider it a mar on my self-image to become monogamous again. There are simply too many disadvantages and no advantages for the switch to be made.

If I couldn't be happy by myself, then I couldn't be happy leaning on anyone else.


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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: lunarpiscean] * 3
    #19270981 - 12/13/13 02:16 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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Not everyone is a polygamist like you.




From what I've read on these forums you are essentially a polygamist, at such a young age already having cheated during multiple relationships. That breaking of trust is the reason behind too many juvenile switches to non-monogamy, people who really want a relationship but developed trust issues from being cheated on and keep moving for emotional security.


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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: Repertoire89]
    #19270997 - 12/13/13 02:19 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

I am open minded, not a polygamist.

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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: lunarpiscean] * 2
    #19271005 - 12/13/13 02:20 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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I am open minded, not a polygamist.

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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: lunarpiscean]
    #19271008 - 12/13/13 02:21 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

just tell her you had a feeling she was up to no good so you took a
look at her text and your gut was right.


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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: urbannerd]
    #19271926 - 12/13/13 06:18 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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    #19280088 - 12/15/13 04:27 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Well, she came today to get the remainder of her things, and we both said what we wanted to say, I felt a true sense of letting go of her which, though painfully sad, feels right.

I brought up the other guy she's been getting 'intimate' with, and she basically denied it until I brought up his name(which i gathered from her texts). She basically said once she had 'wandering eyes' that she knew we were not meant to go any further. I guess I can't blame her for that :shrug: I would have done the same had I felt the same feelings.

Strange thing is, I feel a certain sense of neutrality to the whole thing really. Like it doesn't really matter, and life will go on, etc..

Im exercising more and eating better already... life is fucking crazy sometimes :mushroom2:


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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: foliocb]
    #19280156 - 12/15/13 04:42 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

:thumbup: good shit mang.


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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: foliocb]
    #19283242 - 12/16/13 10:50 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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Well, she came today to get the remainder of her things, and we both said what we wanted to say, I felt a true sense of letting go of her which, though painfully sad, feels right.

I brought up the other guy she's been getting 'intimate' with, and she basically denied it until I brought up his name(which i gathered from her texts). She basically said once she had 'wandering eyes' that she knew we were not meant to go any further. I guess I can't blame her for that :shrug: I would have done the same had I felt the same feelings.

Strange thing is, I feel a certain sense of neutrality to the whole thing really. Like it doesn't really matter, and life will go on, etc..

Im exercising more and eating better already... life is fucking crazy sometimes :mushroom2:





It is good that you are still taking care of yourself afterwords.  I think that is the best way to get over any kind of sadness or depression.  Hopefully the discussion didn't go too badly for you.  For some reason, women feel the need to strike me when they realize that I refuse to argue with them, which usually just ends up with them hurting their own hands smdh. 

Allow yourself to know that you are the shit, dust yourself off, and get back out there lol.


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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: Cheezymold]
    #19286785 - 12/17/13 12:47 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: Bassfreak]
    #19286977 - 12/17/13 03:00 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Yeah, I have to agree, you did the right thing!
Now, pout for a few, and get them big boy pants on and get you some different pussy, you sound as if you are pretty young, and there are plenty of fish in the sea, ones that will not fuck you over as this girl obviously has, but then again this coming from a guy who married the chick who did almost the same thing to me!


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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: Imperfect Iam]
    #19286992 - 12/17/13 03:08 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Confront her about it, communication is key.


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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: DirtyTomFlint]
    #19290967 - 12/17/13 10:47 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

[not appropriate]


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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: butchugbeer4lyfe]
    #19290985 - 12/17/13 10:52 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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Have you tried hitting her?



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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: pwnasaurus]
    #19292966 - 12/18/13 11:47 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

So it turns out she's been 'seeing' this guy for at least 3-4 weeks now. Would you say that this constitutes as 'emotional cheating'? Where exactly does one draw the line? She said she had 'wandering eyes'... but don't all humans have that condition? She has only been 'seeing' this one person in particular...

Funny thing is, I finally got to see this dude, he's a cashier at a health food store. I don't know what she sees in this dude(i'm not the best looker by the same token, but at least I have a great job that allowed me to pamper her :shrug2:)


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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: foliocb]
    #19293017 - 12/18/13 12:02 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

"wandering eyes" and "emotional cheating"... Whatever, id be unhappy about it too.

yeah all humans probably have 'wandering eyes', but to admit to your partner idk it just seems insensitive


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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: Herbologist]
    #19293303 - 12/18/13 01:11 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

sure everyones eyes stray from time to time. What exactly does 'seeing' this other guy mean? Emotional cheating isn't as bad as physically cheating, however imo its the death rattle of a relationship.


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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: foliocb]
    #19293469 - 12/18/13 02:00 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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Funny thing is, I finally got to see this dude, he's a cashier at a health food store. I don't know what she sees in this dude(i'm not the best looker by the same token, but at least I have a great job that allowed me to pamper her :shrug2:)



You can get a girl to date you by pampering her but that will never make her love you. She is using you, bud!


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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: foliocb]
    #19293581 - 12/18/13 02:28 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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Funny thing is, I finally got to see this dude, he's a cashier at a health food store. I don't know what she sees in this dude(i'm not the best looker by the same token, but at least I have a great job that allowed me to pamper her :shrug2:)




:lol: there's a lot more to life than money.


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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: empty space]
    #19293669 - 12/18/13 02:44 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

ABSOLUTELY TRUE, I hate to say it, OP, but this guy is right, this bitch used you! But don't feel bad, they are very good at this, and it has happened to a lot of guys, but think about it have you ever used a chick? I know I sure in the fuck have!


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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: Imperfect Iam]
    #19293777 - 12/18/13 03:16 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

you broke up with her, right?


if so, dont think about whether you were 'emotionally cheated on' or not.  just be glad that wench is behind you.


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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: memes]
    #19294971 - 12/18/13 08:03 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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you broke up with her, right?


if so, dont think about whether you were 'emotionally cheated on' or not.  just be glad that wench is behind you.




:hug:

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:lol: there's a lot more to life than money.




Like what?
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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: foliocb]
    #19295011 - 12/18/13 08:15 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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you broke up with her, right?


if so, dont think about whether you were 'emotionally cheated on' or not.  just be glad that wench is behind you.




:hug:

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:lol: there's a lot more to life than money.




Like what?
:hmm:



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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: foliocb]
    #19295021 - 12/18/13 08:19 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Like happiness, which money can help you get, but most of all true love, now I now that sounds gay, but when you have serious denero, it is hard to tell if she likes you our your money, I was in true love once and I would pay all the money in the world to have that back, but it is beyond possible to have that girl back! And it is definitely not because I am or was rich, because I am by no means cash wise, but I am rich in other ways, as having a wonderful son who loves me unconditionally!


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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: foliocb]
    #19295195 - 12/18/13 09:08 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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Like what?
:hmm:



like everything.


i'd recommend only letting money be a focus of one's life up to the point where basic needs are met and most whims are budgetable.  past that, ignore it (except for retirement savings, obviously)


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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: memes]
    #19295270 - 12/18/13 09:30 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

After reading OP's responses I can tell he must be in denial about the situation.

If she admits she has been "seeing" this other guy for the past 3-4 weeks then I can almost garuntee she has done more that "emotionally" cheat on you! You need to ditch this bitch ASAP and move on, seriously!


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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: FruitOfLife]
    #19295278 - 12/18/13 09:33 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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After reading OP's responses I can tell he must be in denial about the situation.

If she admits she has been "seeing" this other guy for the past 3-4 weeks then I can almost garuntee she has done more that "emotionally" cheat on you! You need to ditch this bitch ASAP and move on, seriously!



He already said they broke up like 15 posts ago.


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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: pwnasaurus]
    #19295293 - 12/18/13 09:38 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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FruitOfLife said:
After reading OP's responses I can tell he must be in denial about the situation.

If she admits she has been "seeing" this other guy for the past 3-4 weeks then I can almost garuntee she has done more that "emotionally" cheat on you! You need to ditch this bitch ASAP and move on, seriously!



He already said they broke up like 15 posts ago.



Oh shit my bad. The last few posts he made sounded like they were still together haha.

Good for you OP  :thumbup:


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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: FruitOfLife]
    #19297771 - 12/19/13 12:18 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Yeah, she lied to my face about a few more things unfortunately about her and this dude.

Sad thing is, when she caught me in half-truths and small ounces of bullshitting her, she flipped the fuck out and became so sad about it... saying shit like 'if you lie about this, what else do you lie about to me?'

And here she is now... insisting she was never doing shit with another guy, but for nearly a month has been getting close to some guy and having the audacity to still mooch off of me and share the same damn bed for all those days.

Lesson learned: all men/women betray and trust no one. :satansmoking:


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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: foliocb]
    #19297796 - 12/19/13 12:26 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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Yeah, she lied to my face about a few more things unfortunately about her and this dude.

Sad thing is, when she caught me in half-truths and small ounces of bullshitting her, she flipped the fuck out and became so sad about it... saying shit like 'if you lie about this, what else do you lie about to me?'

And here she is now... insisting she was never doing shit with another guy, but for nearly a month has been getting close to some guy and having the audacity to still mooch off of me and share the same damn bed for all those days.

Lesson learned: all men/women betray and trust no one. :satansmoking:



same thing happened to me. Girl found my porn browser history one time after i lied about watching is because i didn't want to deal with her freaking out about something stupid. And of course she acted like it was the worse fucking thing in the world. A few months later i caught her lying about spending the night alone with a guy at his house and her having him stay the night at her place :facepalm:


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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: foliocb]
    #19298716 - 12/19/13 04:27 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

That last statement is completely true , I think it was Ben Franklin who said two people can keep a secret as long as one of them are dead, but that has nothing to do with THIS post, but it does apply to a lot on the shroomery!


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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: foliocb]
    #19298974 - 12/19/13 05:14 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Trust is for suckers.


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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: Repertoire89]
    #19299130 - 12/19/13 05:40 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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Trust is for suckers.




what ya mean?


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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: Repertoire89]
    #19299141 - 12/19/13 05:42 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

I know EXACTLY what he means


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Re: G/f texting another guy lately... [Re: foliocb]
    #19299181 - 12/19/13 05:52 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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Repertoire89 said:
Trust is for suckers.




what ya mean?




There's no need to trust anyone, shit I don't even trust myself.
Some people have a naive ideology concerning trust


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