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Re: How to be a player [Re: Ballerium]
#19265042 - 12/12/13 09:50 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Ballerium said: That's what I'm saying. I like being chased but I also like affection after I have been "caught". Don't just stop paying attention to me after you've won me over. Relationships take work ALL the time. Not just the first month or two that you're trying to win the girl over.
Yeah this is important in maintaining any kind of relationship. .never expect anything.
Nd do the unexpected.
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Re: How to be a player [Re: hTx]
#19265048 - 12/12/13 09:52 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Relationships are like jobs, if you want to be successful at them you have to work at them real hard and remember always that expectations ruin relationships.
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Re: How to be a player [Re: hTx]
#19265063 - 12/12/13 09:57 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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4) don't worry about rejection. Use it as fuel. You will, no matter how tight the game, always be rejected at one point or another..more so in the beginning.
If you let getting rejected fuck with your head..you already lost. Change your frame from "damn she doesn't like me..I'm a loser.." too
"Damn she doesn't like me..she is a loser" or something similar. Reality is perception and you can have powerful results by changing your own sometime.
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Re: How to be a player [Re: mpd]
#19265074 - 12/12/13 10:00 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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1. Game recognize game, and your lookin kinda unfamiliar...
2. The game ain't worth it. Take it from someone whos cheated. 100 percent not worth how everything ended up. Back together but it's a huge long process earning a womans trust back.
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Re: How to be a player [Re: brokentv]
#19265098 - 12/12/13 10:06 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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brokentv said: Thanks ballleriam i've been wondering about this. there is a girl I am interested in, and we text every day mostly from me initiating. So I've been wondering if I should keep it up or lay low from time to time. It looks like letting the lady breath is a good idea.
Escalate the relationship. Get some real time with her. I hate text and calling. Initiate a "hang out chill session" where you can spend real time with her. Don't make it a date..to much pressure for both parties even if she may say yes...A smoke session nd a movie work wonders.
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Re: How to be a player [Re: Mescalean]
#19265114 - 12/12/13 10:12 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Mescalean said: 1. Game recognize game, and your lookin kinda unfamiliar...
2. The game ain't worth it. Take it from someone whos cheated. 100 percent not worth how everything ended up. Back together but it's a huge long process earning a womans trust back.
I'm talking about being a player not whether or not you approve of the game.  Notice how many here went to talking about relationships..I'm the anti-relationship.
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Re: How to be a player [Re: mpd]
#19265120 - 12/12/13 10:15 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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hTx said: 1) be mysterious, get her(s) number.
2) act like she doesn't matter, you got other bitchs. (Even if you dont)
3) maintain the mystery, have her over..bang and repeat.
Yeah man, you should totally treat people like they don't matter. That's an awesome and satisfying way to go through life.Quote:
mpd said: Honest communication is what is needed. Playing games just leads to the requirement to continue playing false games and making shitty pronouncements about the love you don't have. Honesty is the best possible policy when it comes to the love game.
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Re: How to be a player [Re: Sheekle]
#19265145 - 12/12/13 10:25 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Not people..girls. girls you are interested in fucking. Showing you care comes later if she passes your tests and proves she won't take your heart rip it out and shit on it. Obviously you have to show interest. .but girls will flake / test you for reactions all the time. Honest communication is what this is all about, believe it or not.
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Re: How to be a player [Re: hTx]
#19265163 - 12/12/13 10:31 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Oh the hypocrisy of love and LUST!
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Re: How to be a player [Re: mpd]
#19265170 - 12/12/13 10:33 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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And how often one is mistaken for the other
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Re: How to be a player [Re: hTx] 1
#19265199 - 12/12/13 10:47 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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I've found that if you're dating women over 25, a good job and respect works even better than all of the above.
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Re: How to be a player [Re: hTx]
#19265211 - 12/12/13 10:52 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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hTx said: 1) Cocaine
2) GHB
3) Amphetamine
if it's mindless sex you want
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