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cez

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Tripping with friends then gets weird
#19260081 - 12/11/13 01:05 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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On LSD with 2 buddies. Night was great but it got to a point where I wanted to meditate and do my own thing.
They didn't want to meditate but kept talking about this "feeling."
I genuinely sensed they were trying to get down on some gay sex or something, but I wasn't into it..They never admitted to it but there were moments that seemed perfectly clear that's what they were trying to beat around the bush and get at without openly suggesting it..Baiting me to take the initiative.
Anyways, this weirdness fucked up the rest of the night and my perceived dishonesty from them crashed what was an awesome time 
This has been our third trip in a row too were one of them led the trip in that direction...I feel like either one of them are gay or they both are and it doesn't bother me but the fact that they don't admit it kills the vibe.
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Re: Tripping with friends then gets weird (moved) [Re: cez]
#19260096 - 12/11/13 01:08 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Reason: Wee! 
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cez

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Re: Tripping with friends then gets weird (moved) [Re: Sell Your Soul]
#19260104 - 12/11/13 01:10 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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How would you handle an experience like this? The vibe was not the same after that all night.
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Re: Tripping with friends then gets weird (moved) [Re: cez] 2
#19260110 - 12/11/13 01:11 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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I don't trip around with people I don't trust completely, because I always assume they want to fuck with me, and usually, they do.
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Re: Tripping with friends then gets weird [Re: cez]
#19260116 - 12/11/13 01:13 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Ok well a year ago someone sent me a request to meet them in a park to trip together. We both knew we wanted this. We wanted to be together for a little. I told him I wouldn't let him go no matter what, then I tugged his wrist to make him understand how important it was for me to tell him this. I began to see him in my dreams. I saw him as a dance teacher. I was coming from France and found him one day. He was outside a store & was trying to persuade someone tlo play golf later. We go places together, I take him along. I make him come. I took him to New Jersey once. We met so many ppl. I was with him a year ago. Met in Chicago but three years later we crossed paths again in Sweden. I knew him from a show. I went to one a year ago. With only one friend.
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cez

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Re: Tripping with friends then gets weird (moved) [Re: Sell Your Soul]
#19260146 - 12/11/13 01:20 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Sell Your Soul said: I don't trip around with people I don't trust completely, because I always assume they want to fuck with me, and usually, they do. 
It literally derailed the trip. One guy just had this nervous energy pacing back and forth and the other kept talking in place of the nervous guy, as if they were on the same page and I wasn't...But I think I was I'm just not into that 
Fucking buzz kill.
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Re: Tripping with friends then gets weird [Re: drkkenny]
#19260197 - 12/11/13 01:34 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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that sounds horrible. nothing against gay people but it doesn't sound very fair to you for them to put you in that situation if they knew it wasn't going to happen.
you say it doesn't bother but kills the vibe. sounds like to me it does bother you. not the fact that they want your butthole but that you have to deal with it when you're wanting to just trip.
if you're willing to put yourself in that situation again you might want to have a serious talk with them beforehand ya dig ....
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cez

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Re: Tripping with friends then gets weird [Re: lurkmode]
#19260313 - 12/11/13 01:57 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Yes I agree.
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Re: Tripping with friends then gets weird [Re: cez]
#19260432 - 12/11/13 02:18 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Dude this has happened to me during two fucking trips!! I hate this shit!!!!!!! The first time I was tripping with two friends, and after peeing I came back in the room and went and layed down. They were talking about something that's been hiding there their whole life, and if they should act on it. And they kept talking about it, like it had to be resolved, and I automatically thought one of them was about to come out Hahahaha it kinda killed the vibe. Another time I was tripping with two other friends, and we were at one of their houses. Before we tripped they ragged on me cause I jacked it at his house before Hahahaha, and then when we started tripping, one of them said "can you imagine jacking off on this???" and the other said "it'd be impossible to jerk it while tripping!" then the other friend said "no I meant can you imagine HIM jacking it on this", talking about me. That really made me feel weird, wondering why he was imagining me jerkin it, Hahahaha.
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Re: Tripping with friends then gets weird [Re: cez]
#19260488 - 12/11/13 02:27 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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I've had trips (especially my first and second real trip) where I was with people I thought were my good friends. I learned a lot on those trips about myself and how some of my friends would not let me BE, because they couldn't let themselves be. I found that many of them still have a lot of growing to do and get over themselves.
My closest friend at the time turned out to be a massive cunt. Always trying to fuck with me while I was tripping for my first time while he was sober, even though he agreed to trip sit with a straight face. He would look for drama to start out of anything and trying to trip me out. Obviously, in my lucid shroom headscape I told him exactly why he wrong and asked him why he was acting this way, and tore down all his bullshit through logic. He couldn't handle it, and he became an even bigger bitch. I ditched him, and him and some other 'friends' who weren't tripping tried to trip me out because I left on my own. For some reason they just couldn't handle the fact that I just did that, so surprise surprise they all followed me to the park I was going to.
I had my headphones on, and while I was walking down the stairs a bunch of these 'friends' and idiots start jumping to get my attention. I just smiled and kept walking, and of course they all followed. I could tell that at this point they realized they can't do anything about what I do with my life. They have no control. Some of them embraced this idea and learned what they were doing was wrong, others (like my then-closest friend) have only gotten worse. The park was fun, because at this point I felt like a god and nothing could effect me. I have had some insecurity issues during this period of my life (last year) and felt awkward being around people. I then realized that it's because of these assholes constantly being around me. Now I feel fantastic, and strive to keep improving.
anyways OP, I understand you may be a little shaken, but at least NOW YOU KNOW.
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There's so much emphasis on SET + SETTING, people tend to forget that the people they trip with are part of their 'environment' as well.
I rarely trip with people, and the select few that I DO trip with, they know to do their own thing. If your trip is in sync, then great. If not, then do whatever YOU need to do to make your trip the best. You can't expect everyone to want to do the same thing. That's a huge rookie mistake.
If you needed to meditate, you should go and do it. If they wanted to have some gay buttsecs, then let them haha. Psychedelics are a powerful substance. That's why I don't get the people who 'plan' their trips or tell people 'how to trip'. Makes no sense. It's different for everyone. Just be prepared for ANYTHING.
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Re: Tripping with friends then gets weird [Re: DirtyTomFlint]
#19260558 - 12/11/13 02:35 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Agree with the learned folks above
Trust who you trip with... Completely Limit trip buddies... Too many people or noobs can spoil it for everyone If it's a group... Have a sitter and everyone talk about set and setting... Without peer pressure Maybe even before you start, discuss 'if I need to be alone, let me' or some such basic rules
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Re: Tripping with friends then gets weird [Re: cez]
#19260590 - 12/11/13 02:39 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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cez said: On LSD with 2 buddies. Night was great but it got to a point where I wanted to meditate and do my own thing.
They didn't want to meditate but kept talking about this "feeling."
I genuinely sensed they were trying to get down on some gay sex or something, but I wasn't into it..They never admitted to it but there were moments that seemed perfectly clear that's what they were trying to beat around the bush and get at without openly suggesting it..Baiting me to take the initiative.
Anyways, this weirdness fucked up the rest of the night and my perceived dishonesty from them crashed what was an awesome time 
This has been our third trip in a row too were one of them led the trip in that direction...I feel like either one of them are gay or they both are and it doesn't bother me but the fact that they don't admit it kills the vibe.
Are you sure your buddies weren't slipped some mushies with that "L"...that would definitely explain things.....because everybody knows that mushrooms make you....
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Re: Tripping with friends then gets weird [Re: Thayendanegea]
#19261812 - 12/11/13 06:21 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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maybe you shoulda... ya know....
SUCKED HIS DICK??
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Re: Tripping with friends then gets weird [Re: DirtyTomFlint]
#19261875 - 12/11/13 06:36 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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DatIslandLife said: There's so much emphasis on SET + SETTING, people tend to forget that the people they trip with are part of their 'environment' as well.
I rarely trip with people, and the select few that I DO trip with, they know to do their own thing. If your trip is in sync, then great. If not, then do whatever YOU need to do to make your trip the best. You can't expect everyone to want to do the same thing. That's a huge rookie mistake.
If you needed to meditate, you should go and do it. If they wanted to have some gay buttsecs, then let them haha. Psychedelics are a powerful substance. That's why I don't get the people who 'plan' their trips or tell people 'how to trip'. Makes no sense. It's different for everyone. Just be prepared for ANYTHING.
YES! One of my most important "rules" for tripping is to have a plan and be prepared to abandon it completely. I get exactly what you're saying.
I've had weird sexual tension many times. Sometimes this has been simply misunderstandings between two (or three) people whose minds are not all in the same place. I recall one very awkward moment a few years ago where a friend I was tripping with said something inane and my response to him was, "well you wanna fuck?" I don't remember what he said that made me say that, or why I said that, but as soon as I did I realized he might have taken me seriously and was like "no, dude." We're both straight so it was the most awkward fucking thing ever. We didn't speak of it ever and to this day he probably still thinks I have gay tendencies lol. It didn't help that the same night our other trip buddy had ego loss and came out of the bathroom reborn and buck-ass naked lol.
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Interesting solution there, tabora.
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Re: Tripping with friends then gets weird [Re: hendrix99]
#19305955 - 12/21/13 12:55 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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There's only a select few I can trip with otherwise it's solo for me
We just fine of right and with others shit gets weirdddd man
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Re: Tripping with friends then gets weird [Re: LandofOZ]
#19306734 - 12/21/13 07:41 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Never been in that situation but I've been in some where I could sense some weird vibes and it really bugged me but I managed to shrug it off. On LSD I have the power to do that, on mushrooms I don't so I only trip by myself.
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