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Marc11
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emotional problems
#19259745 - 12/11/13 11:47 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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I'm broken emotionally. What should i do?
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Re: emotional problems [Re: Marc11]
#19259775 - 12/11/13 11:57 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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itchmynipple
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Sometimes there is so much things happening, you don't feel the point in listing
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rigadoog
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Quote:
itchmynipple said: Sometimes there is so much things happening, you don't feel the point in listing
Yeah, sometimes i cant even start. sometimes i have so much stuff worrying me and keeping me down that i couldnt even tell you what was bothering me if i tried. I got shit genetics (suicide history), my parents were never very supportive of me, and im a middle child. kind of a perfect storm i guess, ive been depressed for as long as i can remember.
sorry for jacking your thread lol
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Re: emotional problems [Re: rigadoog]
#19273118 - 12/14/13 12:22 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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My sisters a Middle child and ended up the favorite
Anyways, usually the best place to start is to be PRO ACTIVE. This is a list I've formulated for myself, it works.
1. Go to a therapist, 2. Pick up meditating atleast 2-3 times a day to reset your stress levels (add yoga and,or exercise) 3 Get back to a better sleeping pattern 4. Try not to over indulge in one thing(drugs, video games, masturbating, tv, fatfood) 5. Try to eliminate Shame and regret from the bad things you've done 6. Always think outside of the box when you find your selection of thoughts limited. your thoughts are so depressing because there being choked narrow by a broken record mindstate 7. Lastly don't try so hard to be yourself, and remember, this is process, its a skillset one has to unlock and obtain through gentle urgency and persistence. It'll soon become a walk in the park
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Either that or you're going to try and fail and try and fail again and again until you get old and are ready to die and you wonder why the fuck you were ever born into this miserable fucking life in the first place.
Just another possibility.
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Marc11
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Hey. Sorry for such a short and vague post. 8 days ago I really was in a state of utter shit and was too tired and depressed to express exactly what i'm going through. Okay well then, here it goes. My family is comprised of conceited judgmental pretentious assholes. They have always been like this even when I was a child. My dad however was different I wouldn't say that he was a horrible disgusting person but he had problems with his social skills all his life pretty much up until a year ago. He also abused me physically and verbally and I feel like this has impacted me greatly. Whenever I would drive in a car with my mom, my grandmother, or my grandmothers husband they would constantly have nasty things to say about people that we would see walking around, sometimes they would say nice things but still very rarely.
It seemed as if they picked away at my insecurities and made me feel like a worthless piece of shit and this was when I was 5 and 6 and these people are fucking adults!!! I assumed that almost everybody in the world was like this so for the most part I didnt grow up properly I never really developed a sense of identity or any type of maturity or confidence, all I did was joke about things. I constantly thought people were judging me and i'm pretty sure that i still judged them up until I was about 14 or 15 (I started smoking pot at this time).
I was okay with being disconnected from people and just being an asshole. Now things are different. I want more friends! I want a girlfriend! I think i'm ready for these things I want to change. These last few trips have really shown me the light. Also is there any chance that girls would actually want to go out with me? Even in this state of personal transition? Despite the fact that i am insecure lonely fuck-up I have an enormous amount of love to give. Will women accept me for who I am or will they dump my ass?
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Re: emotional problems [Re: Marc11]
#19301538 - 12/20/13 06:16 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Good man. Wanting a woman shows you want to live love and feel. You just got to try.
Here's something many men don't get
Asking a girl out and being rejected equals some contact but no pussy
Not asking girl out equals no contact and no pussy.
So even being rejected is better than nothing. Let that interaction be good for you. I've seen guys get all pissy when they get shot down but I knew better. When I got shot down I would say thanks for you time have a good day or whatever. Occasdionally women who shot me down had second thoughts and I got sum. Some guys think you have to act like this or that or tell lies. Fuck all that. Just be yourself. No matter what, there's women out there for you as you are. One time I went a whole year without pussy when I moved to a new city. I decided, fuck this and asked a girl out everyday. In line at the store, waitresses, chicks in bars, on the bus, at work, where ever. After a couple weeks I was fucking this beautiful Italian chick who worked a grocery store. I asked her out while she working. She said yeah. We went out to eat on the way back she said lets stop at the store and get some condoms. I came so fast I barely got it in. She didn't care. It turned her on. I loved making out with her and fucking her. It's out there for you bro. I swear.
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And as for getting dumped. Fuck it. It happens. It hurts. Then you focus on the next one. That's a part of the game.
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Re: emotional problems [Re: Marc11]
#19307152 - 12/21/13 09:43 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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I can personally relate with your upbringing that you describe.
Why do you say you father had social problems up until a year ago? What happened a year ago?
A couple things that help me grow are cognitive behavioral therapy, and staying on task. CBT is great for changing how you think about things. It helped a little with insecurities and social anxiety. And 'staying on task' is just a mantra I tell myself to keep working on things. Whenever I want to avoid something or quit I just tell myself to do it anyway.
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It sounds to me like you have a broken psyche. Do you feel a heavy pressure in your chest, particularly when upset, that can be vaguely compared to a "black hole"?
There are a couple of ways to repair a broken psyche that i am aware of. The first method is to find meaningful work, even if it is only for a few hours each day, since that will contribute to a sense of purpose and usefulness which naturally strengthens the confidence and self-esteem. This also naturally contributes to a more stable psyche, and gives the mind a reason to focus on the task at hand, rather than spinning around in agonizing circles. The work does not have to involve gainful employment, and can simply involve doing chores around the house, or it can involve any other kind of work that imparts a sense of contribution.
The second method (that i know of, at least) is a lot more drastic and involves using an African plant substance called tabernatha iboga. Iboga is a psychedelic that is reportedly 1000x stronger than LSD, and which lasts for 36 hours approximately. Therefore it is not an easy, or recreational, trip whatsoever - but if you are suffering with a broken psyche, then it may be an option that is worth consideration. The legality varies worldwide, though, so i urge you to know the legal status of it first.
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