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My friend's girlfriend is pissing me off
#19259567 - 12/11/13 10:53 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Soooo, a close friend and I have been doing a lot of experimenting recently- DMT, LSD, coke, smoking copious amounts of pot, you name it.
We both have a lot of fun and he's even told me that these seshes help him get through the week because it gives him something sick and fun to look forward to. I don't blame him considering he works 20 hours a week and is a full time student.
Anyway, he's dating this straight edge girl who only drinks (alcohol's the worst drug >.<). Somehow she checked his text messages and found all the crazy drug combos we've discussed, done, and planned to carry out. She messaged me on facebook telling me straight up that I'm a horrible influence that will probably lead her boyfriend into addiction and to cut contact with him ASAP. She said that if I ever even mentioned another illegal drug, she would call the police on me.
Who the fuck does this bitch think she is? I don't even know if my friend's aware that his girlfriend is snooping through his phone.
I don't really know what to do tbh. I don't want to be the reason they break up because me and this guy go pretty far back. I also don't know how much he really cares about her, he's never been an overly romantic guy.
But yeah, I'm just frustrated that she labelled me as a bad influence but at the same time I don't blame her... I would have probably done the same thing a few years back when I was young, naive, and believed the government about how bad all illicit drugs are, despite tobacco and alcohol, the two biggest killers, being perfectly legal.
A month back we decided to candy flip when our exams ended. There's one more week of school left...should I even bring it up to him? Should I respect his girlfriend and totally stop doing drugs with him? What do you think.
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Edited by Alexestalex (12/11/13 10:58 AM)
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Re: My friend's girlfriend is pissing me off [Re: Alexestalex]
#19259572 - 12/11/13 10:55 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Looks like you either lose the drugs or lose the friend. Threatening to call the police would be enough for me to back the fuck off.
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Re: My friend's girlfriend is pissing me off [Re: Alexestalex] 2
#19259593 - 12/11/13 11:00 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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tell your bro about her snooping anyone who threatens to put you in a cage needs to be outed
i would also maybe hide my stuff really well till the storm blows over
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Re: My friend's girlfriend is pissing me off [Re: mpd]
#19259594 - 12/11/13 11:00 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Straight up sounds like a cunt, cut contact as in all contact especially considering how far back you guys go is kinda fucked. A " please don't bring that stuff around" would have sufficed
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Re: My friend's girlfriend is pissing me off [Re: mpd]
#19259604 - 12/11/13 11:03 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Yeah, man. I'd tell him that his girlfriend got a hold of you and that would be enough for me to consider breaking up... especially if she is snooping through my phone.
Aside from that, a lot of the illegal drugs in their pure form may be safer, but that's not what you get all the time. It's easy to manipulate that. If drugs were legal and regulated, then they'd be safer. But people shouldn't be allowed to decide what they do with their body, right? It's all good, though, they make-up for it with the whole body toxin of ethanol.
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Re: My friend's girlfriend is pissing me off [Re: mpd]
#19259606 - 12/11/13 11:04 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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She should have been talking to her bf about this not to you. So I would just talk to your friend about the message you got. That way, he and his girl can discuss whatever they have to discuss.
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Re: My friend's girlfriend is pissing me off [Re: Alexestalex]
#19259613 - 12/11/13 11:05 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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If it were me, I'd tell him TBH.
Doing drugs is his choice, if she can't live with that, maybe they shouldn't be together (who knows what else she might try to control/change?) Either way it's definitely something that they need to address.
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Re: My friend's girlfriend is pissing me off [Re: Alexestalex]
#19259630 - 12/11/13 11:08 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Definitely show him the message. And don't discuss this stuff with him by text message any more while they're together.
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Re: My friend's girlfriend is pissing me off [Re: GoldenEye]
#19259638 - 12/11/13 11:11 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Oh, I think they are having discussions on this matter.
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Re: My friend's girlfriend is pissing me off [Re: mpd]
#19259688 - 12/11/13 11:29 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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mpd said: Oh, I think they are having discussions on this matter.
This is the part that's bugging me....
I got this message yesterday and I haven't spoken to my friend since monday. I have no idea whether he knows or not about his snooping gf... Maybe she didn't tell him. For starters, it's really unpleasant to talk to your SO about their drug usage and he would probably get pissed off that she was deliberately going through his phone.
Maybe she thought that by threatening to call the cops, she would scare me off for good and her boyfriend would never touch another substance again. Who knows...
I don't even want to bring it up with him.
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Re: My friend's girlfriend is pissing me off [Re: mpd]
#19259704 - 12/11/13 11:34 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Ya you should never get into a relationship with a somebody who wants to change you. In the long run one of the people ends up being unhappy from what I've seen. It's sort of like getting into a car with a blindfold on and then smashing on the accelerator. Eventually your gonna smash into something. Its only a matter of time IME. That being said there is no reason I can see to get caught up. And in some respect, I can understand where she is coming from OP. Having been in a relationship with somebody for a while, I feel like I would be pissed with my other for some of the substances on that list. At least if I was basically never told about it/lied to about it. Some of those are actually pretty addictive and can be abused fairly easily. I would want to know how often/what dosages was going on.
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Re: My friend's girlfriend is pissing me off [Re: Alexestalex]
#19259706 - 12/11/13 11:35 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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You HAVE to bring it up with him. His girlfriend's being snoopy, whether you tell him or not doesn't change that.
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Re: My friend's girlfriend is pissing me off [Re: Alexestalex] 3
#19259717 - 12/11/13 11:40 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Alexestalex said:
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mpd said: Oh, I think they are having discussions on this matter.
This is the part that's bugging me....
I got this message yesterday and I haven't spoken to my friend since monday. I have no idea whether he knows or not about his snooping gf... Maybe she didn't tell him. For starters, it's really unpleasant to talk to your SO about their drug usage and he would probably get pissed off that she was deliberately going through his phone.
Maybe she thought that by threatening to call the cops, she would scare me off for good and her boyfriend would never touch another substance again. Who knows...
I don't even want to bring it up with him. 
Let him know that his GF is seriously threatening your legal status with a heavy duty drug charge.
What do you think happens when you get charged for possession of LSD, DMT, weed, coke, and MDMA? Your life will never be the same.
She made allegations and a threat, I would take it seriously.
Edited by qman (12/11/13 11:41 AM)
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Re: My friend's girlfriend is pissing me off [Re: LittleDaddy]
#19259731 - 12/11/13 11:45 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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OP be careful 'cause she has the power of pussy and if you tell your friend about what she did, dude I'm tellin you bitches got some kind of magic to twist things around and there's a chance she'll warp your buddy into thinking you're the bad guy and she that was only just trying to do the best thing for him. And he'll end up thanking her for all of it in the end. Unless your friend's got a backbone some dudes do.
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Re: My friend's girlfriend is pissing me off [Re: qman]
#19259743 - 12/11/13 11:47 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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qman said:What do you think happens when you get charged for possession of LSD, DMT, weed, coke, and MDMA? Your life will never be the same.
He has advance warning to get rid of anything incriminating though. She may or may not actually call them (and in the worst case make things up) but the only evidence is her word and perhaps a phone she stole from her boyfriend.
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Re: My friend's girlfriend is pissing me off [Re: abltsandwich] 3
#19259752 - 12/11/13 11:49 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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cut contact from all people involved, move out of state, maybe out of the country. maybe change your name too.
thats what i would do if a straight-edge found out i had drugs, and chose to threaten me.
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Re: My friend's girlfriend is pissing me off [Re: psi] 1
#19259767 - 12/11/13 11:54 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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I doubt the police could get a warrant or subpoena to get up in OP or his friend's shit based on the word of some chick. Without that, the worst I'd imagine they could do is a knock and talk type approach which OP should either clean house before hand or just not open the door for the police unless they get a warrant. Unless OP is caught with drugs all it is, is talk. He'd never see a charge based on just text messages about doing drugs, that's retarded.
EDIT: Unless the text messages talk about manufacturing and she shows it to them directly... then OP I'd get rid of everything if I were you. If you talk to your friend maybe he can delete all the texts forcing the police to submit a subpoena to the phone company for text records and that's unlikely based on hearsay.
Edited by abltsandwich (12/11/13 12:20 PM)
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Re: My friend's girlfriend is pissing me off [Re: Envix]
#19259796 - 12/11/13 12:03 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Envix said: cut contact from all people involved, move out of state, maybe out of the country. maybe change your name too.
thats what i would do if a straight-edge found out i had drugs, and chose to threaten me.
That seems a bit extreme.
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Re: My friend's girlfriend is pissing me off [Re: Mescalean]
#19259798 - 12/11/13 12:03 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Mescalean said: Straight up sounds like a cunt, cut contact as in all contact especially considering how far back you guys go is kinda fucked. A " please don't bring that stuff around" would have sufficed
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Re: My friend's girlfriend is pissing me off [Re: psi]
#19259801 - 12/11/13 12:04 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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psi said: Definitely show him the message. And don't discuss this stuff with him by text message any more while they're together.
yea also needs to be mentioned
never! text about drugs
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