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How much concordance is there between "rut" and "living with parents in your early 20s"?
    #19257897 - 12/10/13 09:58 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Have you guys found that "rut" corresponds to living with your parents?

I'm starting to think that the answer to my problems is a lot less nuanced than I thought.


Edit: Also, I've been in a rut for around 3 years, but during the intervals where I wasn't living with my parents I didn't think of myself as being in a rut, and if or when I did, it was both different in type and not as severe.


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Re: How much concordance is there between "rut" and "living with parents in your early 20s"? [Re: st1llnox]
    #19257909 - 12/10/13 10:00 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Living with parents fucking sucks. Sure not paying rent is awesome, but jesus nutfucks. I could never live with my parents again.... ever


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Re: How much concordance is there between "rut" and "living with parents in your early 20s"? [Re: Uzziel]
    #19257927 - 12/10/13 10:04 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Things were definitely better when I missed them instead of wished I could get away from them.


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Re: How much concordance is there between "rut" and "living with parents in your early 20s"? [Re: st1llnox]
    #19258869 - 12/11/13 06:17 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

I'd say there's almost 100% correlation, but the key difference is whether or not you have a plan.

If you're living with your parents for a good reason, and have a plan that you're working towards, then I think you're fine.  If you're living with your parents because you haven't done anything since highschool, and are just kind of aimlessly floating through life, then that's more than just a "rut".


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Re: How much concordance is there between "rut" and "living with parents in your early 20s"? [Re: badchad]
    #19258875 - 12/11/13 06:23 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Hmm very good point chad.

I'm looking for general consensus on this thread rather than personalized advice, but do mind that it's not quite that black and white (i.e. moved back in with parents for good reason, but now can't tell if things are going poorly because the living situation is not working or if it's because of personal perspective and state that might make being on your own worse... wow that came out poorly... I'm going to sleep).


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Re: How much concordance is there between "rut" and "living with parents in your early 20s"? [Re: badchad]
    #19273015 - 12/13/13 11:52 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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badchad said:
I'd say there's almost 100% correlation, but the key difference is whether or not you have a plan.

If you're living with your parents for a good reason, and have a plan that you're working towards, then I think you're fine.  If you're living with your parents because you haven't done anything since highschool, and are just kind of aimlessly floating through life, then that's more than just a "rut".



This is exactly where I am... I really think I would be happier being away at school but I've been so depressed (multiple suicide attempts and stays at the psych ward) that I don't think I could keep up with the work. Having all my friends away at school doesn't help either.


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Re: How much concordance is there between "rut" and "living with parents in your early 20s"? [Re: rigadoog]
    #19273056 - 12/14/13 12:03 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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rigadoog said:
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badchad said:
I'd say there's almost 100% correlation, but the key difference is whether or not you have a plan.

If you're living with your parents for a good reason, and have a plan that you're working towards, then I think you're fine.  If you're living with your parents because you haven't done anything since highschool, and are just kind of aimlessly floating through life, then that's more than just a "rut".



This is exactly where I am... I really think I would be happier being away at school but I've been so depressed (multiple suicide attempts and stays at the psych ward) that I don't think I could keep up with the work. Having all my friends away at school doesn't help either.




Get the fuck out of there man. You and your parents will be mutually poisoning eachother otherwise. I regret not telling my parents to fuck off and die a long time ago, although I'm at a point now where I realize I brought this on myself for listening to them and their plans/ideas.

Go back and be with your friends man. Get humble if you have to. I used to make $20 an hour at my programming internships and now I'm just a hair above minimum wage working at McFuckingDonalds, a position so low that even pimple's on societies ass like volcomstoner will make fun of you for it*, but it's money and I'm getting the fuck out of my parents house.

I am lucky I haven't killed myself with how shit's gone with them and if they got guardianship or whatever like I recently found out they had looked into doing (since I was so out of control, even though all my friends agree it was because of their retarded interventions), I would be dead as fuck right now.

I've been in a psych ward 6 times. 4/6 were because of them, and that's not counting the 2 times I used psych wards as a way to get out of their fucking house before I went murder-suicide mode lol. These people fucking committed me against my will for 6 out of the first 8 weeks of a semester and when---sur FUCKING prise---I wasn't able to catch up and complete those classes I was enrolled in at the time, they used that as reason they should try to prevent me from getting back to college since I "couldn't do it". The guy who holds the fucking record for most honors classes in one term. :facepalm:

GTFO for your own sake. Someone was being a little girl in one of my threads about how he was about to talk to someone who lost her son and how I'm being a little bitch and my problems are petty, but you know what? If I hadn't realized I need to get out of here, there'd be some fuck just like him talking to my mom about her recently-deceased son.

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Re: How much concordance is there between "rut" and "living with parents in your early 20s"? [Re: st1llnox]
    #19280280 - 12/15/13 05:08 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Lived with my mom for about a year now. I think it's not soul-destroying for everyone, but for me, definitely it's time to go.

It's on a case by case basis. If you live with your folks but it's not making you revert back into a vegetable, then go for it. If it's ruining your personality, making you devolve the fuck back into mindless goo (like it did me) then apply yourself to moving the fuck out is what I say Life is too short as it is, no need to actively ruin it by living in places that are bad for you.


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Re: How much concordance is there between "rut" and "living with parents in your early 20s"? [Re: Spacerific]
    #19280989 - 12/15/13 07:57 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Haha right on dude. I definitely have realized/decided the same and am getting out of here shortly :sun: Good luck plotting your escape as well bro!


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st1lln0x: I feel like a fucking Gundam
Click to friend me on Steam for Counter-Strike
:crankey: IS LIFE SKULLFUCKING YOU!? HAVE SOME FREE MORALE! :awesomenod:
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