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Two girls from my group
#19250481 - 12/09/13 02:41 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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(Edit: I'm a guy) I hang out with this group of people, it's thoroughly mixed, workers, students, all frequent to occasional stoners except for one guy, but he's accepted. Funny people. There's two girls who get there frequently. Let's call them Carolina and Georgia. Georgia is quite a little guysy, often wears sneakers, pants and hoodie, but is a really nice girl and a nice person and has a really unexplainably attractive radiation. She often looks most sober, even when she's not, she gets giggly and loud when too drunk, but even then she shows that she can function from time to time. She's been together with Simon, the only non-stoner of the group for a week, which was before I knew the group. But the others fucked with him (for fun) and tried to manipulate him into thinking that Georgia has a very maleish face and one week later he broke with her because he started to think it himself. One has to say that she hardly ever wears makeup. I find her so hot.
Carolina on the other hand is more out there, goes clubbing, wears chic clothes, leggings, skirts and hangs out with hipsters. She's a bit of a bitch, but I like her although, because she's often on my side when the rest of the group is against me. She's been together with another guy of our group, Tim, for over a year, who is a more frequent stoner but broke with him, we don't know why. I was having the impression that even though they were still together, she was expecting more initiative from him and she wanted somebody with more possibilities. Carolina is a bit of a partyslut, but not the kind of "FUCK ME I'M A PARTYSLUT", more like "Oh, very interesting, let's do something together".
So, I meet them every week give or take. We sit, drink, smoke weed. Talk, laugh, make funny things and listen to music. The cruel thing is that Carolina and I started chatting each other up every now and then and I think I only didn't take the chance with her because I feel sorry for her ex-boyfriend Tim who is another important part of our group and I like him. He's a lot younger than me. I've got to say I'm the oldest of the regular people and I don't want to fuck with the group. But it feels quite good to have a person on your side who finds you attractive. Last time we went home by train I sat opposite of Carolina and Georgia sat on the other side and I was soo drunk that I had to close and open my eyes off and on because everything started to turn. I smelled Carolina getting wet opposite to me and then opened my eyes to found her get very nervous. At the same time I could formly watch Georgia getting envious. I had loved to take Georgia in my arms and kiss her. Well. I feel Carolina wanting me too in some way and I wonder why she's still so patient with me because I've been leading her on for quite some time now.
Nowadays Georgia is getting to our sessions more frequently, I found her to be emotionally more attractive to me. I love laughing and making fun with her and I even love to clean up together with her afterwards, she's so cool! So as I fuck around with my friend Carolina, I can see her ex-boyfriend Tim and Georgia get envious, which I don't like, but I figure as long as I don't do anything explicit with her it's nothing that he should care about, also he has a new girl that he meets off and on. Then when I try to talk to Georgia alone, she's pretty mean like I never experienced her in the group. I think she has a strong emotional life and she's mad because I'm shy to her while I'm open to Carolina.
Now I think I screwed my luck with Georgia, who I really wanted and I'm teasing Carolina who is pretty sexy but on the other hand quite a nono.
I don't have any idea what I could say to Georgie to make her understand the way that everything has turned out now.
Edited by Anonymous (12/10/13 04:52 PM)
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Black_Sunset
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sof4r0ckeRs1984



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Second opinion anyone?
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llama_police
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Anonymous #2
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sof4r0ckeRs1984 said: Second opinion anyone?
Having chick friends like you described on your personal no fly list will help you get laid 1000x more, more than is worth boning one of them.
Fuck outside of your social order or suffer the fate of the guy who doesn't leave his comfort zone (and shares std's with guys hes 'friends' with).
By the way, dumb fucking question.
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Murzelpfrumpft
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Ganz interessante Konstellation. Klar gibts im Normalfall so ein Zeitfenster in dem mans auf die sexuelle Schiene lenken sollte, weil es nachher deutlich schwieriger wird. Aber gerade wenn du der Älteste aus der Gruppe bist, muss das für dich nicht zwingend gelten. Ich kann das gewissermaßen nachvollziehen weil ich jetzt noch ein neues Studium angefangen hab und daher bezüglich der Altersstruktur meistens in der selben Situation bin. Ist ein unschätzbarer Vorteil ein Plus an Lebenserfahrung zu haben.
Und ich würd die Finger ganz besonders von der Partygöre lassen. Ist nix wert wenn du schon vorher merkst dass das nicht so das Gelbe vom Ei ist. Und ich finde Anonymous#2 hat auch Recht, weibliche Freunde zu haben hat ne Menge Vorteile (mein Studiengang hat 82% Frauenquote...) und wenn du kannst, halt deinen Schwanz echt aus deinem Freundeskreis raus.
Schau einfach wie sich das entwickelt und mach einen auf genügsam. Du hast gegenüber den andern doch den Vorteil dass du dich leichter beherrschen kannst.
Willste mir die Stadt sagen oder n Hinweis drauf geben?
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sof4r0ckeRs1984



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The City is about threehundred years old and consists mainly of construction sites.
It's not about keeping the dick out, it's about a girl who is quite special to me, the more I know her the more I want to get to know her.
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Murzelpfrumpft
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So go ahead. The city I started studying in made me meet a girl from berlin, who is super cute and theres a little sexual tension, too. But she's in a committed relationship 600+ km far away. I'd like to get to know her no matter sex is probably not going to happen. I'm somewhat sure I could make it happen but I'm not keen on that and so I'll keep my dick out.
And I think it indeed is about keeping your dick out. Getting sexually involved with C would probably fuck up your friendship.
Try adjusting a certain distance to C and see how G reacts, and go get to know her gently.
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sof4r0ckeRs1984



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Murzelpfrumpft said: So go ahead. The city I started studying in made me meet a girl from berlin, who is super cute and theres a little sexual tension, too. But she's in a committed relationship 600+ km far away. I'd like to get to know her no matter sex is probably not going to happen. I'm somewhat sure I could make it happen but I'm not keen on that and so I'll keep my dick out.
And I think it indeed is about keeping your dick out. Getting sexually involved with C would probably fuck up your friendship.
Try adjusting a certain distance to C and see how G reacts, and go get to know her gently.
Seems quite a good advice. Thanks. funny is I'm also about 600 km from Berlin ^^
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dude just use fake names following those letters is useless.
--also you smelled her getting wet on a train? wtf??!?
----no idea what to even say or what ur asking?
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sof4r0ckeRs1984



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Re: Two girls from my group [Re: Gorlax]
#19256267 - 12/10/13 04:37 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Gorlax said: dude just use fake names following those letters is useless.
--also you smelled her getting wet on a train? wtf??!?
----no idea what to even say or what ur asking?
Yeah ok, I'll see what I can do.
Smelled her getting wet opposite to me when I tried to relax, yes and as I opened my eyes she was looking away and didn't know how to sit and where to put her legs.
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