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What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex 1
#19249731 - 12/09/13 11:45 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Ok folks I figured this thread would be a good idea for members of the opposite sex to pick each other's brains when it comes to sex.
So I'll start,
Girls, when giving head:
Most girls just think going up and down on your dick with their mouth passes for a blowjob, it doesn't and will more than likely lead to a limp dick in your mouth and then you gotta start over. Look up a few porno's and learn a few techniques. Your man will be quite pleased and will be more likely to return the favor, at least I would.
Make sure no teeth scraps the dick, this should go with out saying but it still happens.
Enjoy it, get into it, don't just go through the motions. I know it can be a lot to take in but its worth it, a good blowjob goes a long way.
Don't forget to stroke it too when giving a blowjob.
During sex::
Don't let the guy do all the work, get involved a little bit.
Be sexy and confident, show off your curves, stick you ass up in the air,etc..
VERY IMPORTANT: Don't get all self-conscious about any perceived insecurities that may be fostering inside you. "Am I jiggling too much", "does my stomach look fat," etc.. Let go off all that nonsense and enjoy the moment.
That's all i can think of off the top of my head but I am eager to here from my fellow men and women!
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: thedream] 4
#19249934 - 12/09/13 12:37 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Yeah, one thing: please disregard any advice along the lines of "guys like such-and-such" because honestly, just like you, we are all different
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: thedream]
#19249967 - 12/09/13 12:45 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Cool idea!
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: gulper2323] 1
#19250252 - 12/09/13 01:49 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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how about, treat the clit gently and with respect. in real life you dont rub it as fast and as hard as you possibly can.
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: babydoll]
#19250578 - 12/09/13 03:08 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Like this? Good ole Jay n Silent Bob for the lolz
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: Corporal Kielbasa]
#19250650 - 12/09/13 03:18 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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when the guy is on top throw your hips into it girls!
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: thedream]
#19250843 - 12/09/13 03:52 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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thedream said: VERY IMPORTANT: Don't get all self-conscious about any perceived insecurities that may be fostering inside you. "Am I jiggling too much", "does my stomach look fat," etc.. Let go off all that nonsense and enjoy the moment.
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: Sleepwalker]
#19250869 - 12/09/13 03:58 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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thedream said: VERY IMPORTANT: Don't get all self-conscious about any perceived insecurities that may be fostering inside you. "Am I jiggling too much", "does my stomach look fat," etc.. Let go off all that nonsense and enjoy the moment.
when the girl is clearly enjoying herself this is possibly the biggest turn on in my opinion.
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: psyconaught]
#19251380 - 12/09/13 05:32 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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For me personally that moment is awkward when you have to stop all the forplay and fumble around in the drawer for a condom and put it on. Not to mention they need a little more lubrication than is common naturally. A dab inside and a generous amount on the outside helps condoms to suck a little bit less. Girls, grab that bottle and lube that shit up. You might be extremely wet at the moment, but it likely won't last. Plus, it might help to make this moment less awkward and the sex better for the guy.
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: fbi365]
#19252109 - 12/09/13 07:39 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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fbi365 said: For me personally that moment is awkward when you have to stop all the forplay and fumble around in the drawer for a condom and put it on. Not to mention they need a little more lubrication than is common naturally. A dab inside and a generous amount on the outside helps condoms to suck a little bit less. Girls, grab that bottle and lube that shit up. You might be extremely wet at the moment, but it likely won't last. Plus, it might help to make this moment less awkward and the sex better for the guy.
the only time not awkward is if you are 69'ing n she puts on it on for you.
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: fbi365] 1
#19252734 - 12/09/13 09:34 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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fbi365 said: For me personally that moment is awkward when you have to stop all the forplay and fumble around in the drawer for a condom and put it on. Not to mention they need a little more lubrication than is common naturally. A dab inside and a generous amount on the outside helps condoms to suck a little bit less. Girls, grab that bottle and lube that shit up. You might be extremely wet at the moment, but it likely won't last. Plus, it might help to make this moment less awkward and the sex better for the guy.
Is that an issue specifically with condoms? I've never had a problem with a girl not being soaking wet.
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: pwnasaurus]
#19252803 - 12/09/13 09:45 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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fbi365 said: For me personally that moment is awkward when you have to stop all the forplay and fumble around in the drawer for a condom and put it on. Not to mention they need a little more lubrication than is common naturally. A dab inside and a generous amount on the outside helps condoms to suck a little bit less. Girls, grab that bottle and lube that shit up. You might be extremely wet at the moment, but it likely won't last. Plus, it might help to make this moment less awkward and the sex better for the guy.
Is that an issue specifically with condoms? I've never had a problem with a girl not being soaking wet.
S'what I was thinkin'.
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: ThatKidWithTheFace]
#19252831 - 12/09/13 09:50 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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fbi365 said: For me personally that moment is awkward when you have to stop all the forplay and fumble around in the drawer for a condom and put it on. Not to mention they need a little more lubrication than is common naturally. A dab inside and a generous amount on the outside helps condoms to suck a little bit less. Girls, grab that bottle and lube that shit up. You might be extremely wet at the moment, but it likely won't last. Plus, it might help to make this moment less awkward and the sex better for the guy.
Is that an issue specifically with condoms? I've never had a problem with a girl not being soaking wet.
S'what I was thinkin'.
yeah getting the girl dripping wet has never been an issue for me, condom or not
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: thedream]
#19254052 - 12/10/13 06:08 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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VERY IMPORTANT: Don't get all self-conscious about any perceived insecurities that may be fostering inside you. "Am I jiggling too much", "does my stomach look fat," etc.. Let go off all that nonsense and enjoy the moment.
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: thedream]
#19257376 - 12/10/13 08:00 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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As a long stayer kinda guy, when a girl interrupts the starting up tempo it delays the orgasms by a lot, which can make girls sore sometimes.
It works out real smooth if the girl kinda lets go for the first few mins of penetration, to let the guys build up towards climax. Then it gets easier for the guy to just keep "skirting" the orgasm and let it out when the time is right for the woman once she reached the pace she likes and are both starting to 'peak'.
But the initial few minutes of 'calibration' make it a much better experience when having sex with strangers to get a better feel for each other.
I noticed it's only an issue for myself when sleeping with girls I've just met and there hasn't been enough rapport built up lol.
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: Watamiseh]
#19259931 - 12/11/13 12:33 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: psyconaught]
#19262743 - 12/11/13 09:00 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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fbi365 said: For me personally that moment is awkward when you have to stop all the forplay and fumble around in the drawer for a condom and put it on. Not to mention they need a little more lubrication than is common naturally. A dab inside and a generous amount on the outside helps condoms to suck a little bit less. Girls, grab that bottle and lube that shit up. You might be extremely wet at the moment, but it likely won't last. Plus, it might help to make this moment less awkward and the sex better for the guy.
Is that an issue specifically with condoms? I've never had a problem with a girl not being soaking wet.
S'what I was thinkin'.
yeah getting the girl dripping wet has never been an issue for me, condom or not 
It's an issue mostly with condoms. They start out wet, but after some time of going at it the wetness goes away if you say that's never happened to you, you are either lucky or I don't believe you...
Edit: some girls get wetter than others. Thats a fact.
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: fbi365]
#19263341 - 12/11/13 10:42 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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I've hardly ever used condoms, mostly been in LTR.
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: fbi365]
#19263613 - 12/11/13 11:48 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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fbi365 said: For me personally that moment is awkward when you have to stop all the forplay and fumble around in the drawer for a condom and put it on. Not to mention they need a little more lubrication than is common naturally. A dab inside and a generous amount on the outside helps condoms to suck a little bit less. Girls, grab that bottle and lube that shit up. You might be extremely wet at the moment, but it likely won't last. Plus, it might help to make this moment less awkward and the sex better for the guy.
Is that an issue specifically with condoms? I've never had a problem with a girl not being soaking wet.
S'what I was thinkin'.
yeah getting the girl dripping wet has never been an issue for me, condom or not 
It's an issue mostly with condoms. They start out wet, but after some time of going at it the wetness goes away if you say that's never happened to you, you are either lucky or I don't believe you...
Edit: some girls get wetter than others. Thats a fact.
my girl does get EXTREMELY wet. Like dripping down her thigh wet. So thats possibly the reason its never been an issue But honestly i never have had to use lube when using a condom with her.
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: psyconaught]
#19264082 - 12/12/13 02:10 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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@women, if you're going to do anal for the first time, make sure you've emptied the septic tank recently. Same advice probably applies to kinky guys willing to take anal too.
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: babydoll]
#19266243 - 12/12/13 02:58 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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babydoll said: how about, treat the clit gently and with respect. in real life you dont rub it as fast and as hard as you possibly can.
Personally I like to furiously rub it between my hands like I'm trying to start a fire.
Then I use her tears as lube like a real man does.
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: deCypher]
#19266254 - 12/12/13 03:00 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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babydoll said: how about, treat the clit gently and with respect. in real life you dont rub it as fast and as hard as you possibly can.
Personally I like to furiously rub it between my hands like I'm trying to start a fire.
Then I use her tears as lube like a real man does.
sounds like the avg dude!
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: babydoll] 1
#19266338 - 12/12/13 03:19 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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babydoll said: how about, treat the clit gently and with respect. in real life you dont rub it as fast and as hard as you possibly can.

and if a dude is on top/doggy. fucking ram it bitch. dont just thrust, RAM IT. i love that slap sound.
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: acidxprincess]
#19266342 - 12/12/13 03:19 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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babydoll said: how about, treat the clit gently and with respect. in real life you dont rub it as fast and as hard as you possibly can.

and if a dude is on top/doggy. fucking ram it bitch. dont just thrust, RAM IT. i love that slap sound.
and ram it with finesse!
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: babydoll]
#19266362 - 12/12/13 03:22 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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babydoll said: how about, treat the clit gently and with respect. in real life you dont rub it as fast and as hard as you possibly can.

and if a dude is on top/doggy. fucking ram it bitch. dont just thrust, RAM IT. i love that slap sound.
and ram it with finesse!
FUCK YEAH!
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: acidxprincess]
#19266364 - 12/12/13 03:22 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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babydoll said: how about, treat the clit gently and with respect. in real life you dont rub it as fast and as hard as you possibly can.

and if a dude is on top/doggy. fucking ram it bitch. dont just thrust, RAM IT. i love that slap sound.
and ram it with finesse!
FUCK YEAH!
but don't worry, i can ram you anytime babe
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: babydoll]
#19266431 - 12/12/13 03:36 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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babydoll said: but don't worry, i can ram you anytime babe 
mmm, i definitely wouldnt mind that at all
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: acidxprincess]
#19266443 - 12/12/13 03:38 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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babydoll said: but don't worry, i can ram you anytime babe 
mmm, i definitely wouldnt mind that at all 
why haven't we exchanged numbers yet? also, do you use instagram?
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: babydoll]
#19266470 - 12/12/13 03:42 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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babydoll said: but don't worry, i can ram you anytime babe 
mmm, i definitely wouldnt mind that at all 
why haven't we exchanged numbers yet? also, do you use instagram?
honestly, that is a good question.. we definitely should though(: and i dont D: i just got an iphone 4 a month ago xD
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: acidxprincess]
#19266494 - 12/12/13 03:48 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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babydoll said: but don't worry, i can ram you anytime babe 
mmm, i definitely wouldnt mind that at all 
why haven't we exchanged numbers yet? also, do you use instagram?
honestly, that is a good question.. we definitely should though(: and i dont D: i just got an iphone 4 a month ago xD
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: babydoll]
#19266505 - 12/12/13 03:50 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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ALRIGHT  
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: acidxprincess]
#19266934 - 12/12/13 05:37 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Haha so much for the opposite sex.
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: Ballerium]
#19268999 - 12/13/13 01:15 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Wtfx didn't know you were lezbos lol.
lately girls have been telling me some of the things guys do and it amazes me at how bad it sounds.
I'm taking like > 50% of guys don't know how to treat a woman apparently...
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: Shins]
#19269633 - 12/13/13 07:26 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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What are they doing that is so bad?
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: Ballerium]
#19270308 - 12/13/13 11:23 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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One of the recent ones I heard was sending dick pics on the first or second message on online dating sites... apparently this is very common.
then there is the classic not knowing what to do with a clitoris
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: Shins]
#19270439 - 12/13/13 11:57 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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then there is the classic not knowing what to do with a clitoris
Half of the battle is apparently knowing where it is.. If you pass that hurdle, I recommend using the tongue over the finger, it's difficult to be too rough unless you are gnawing like a damn rat...
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: Microppose]
#19270533 - 12/13/13 12:23 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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then there is the classic not knowing what to do with a clitoris
Half of the battle is apparently knowing where it is.. If you pass that hurdle, I recommend using the tongue over the finger, it's difficult to be too rough unless you are gnawing like a damn rat...
how do guys not know where the clit is its pretty straight forward
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: psyconaught]
#19270637 - 12/13/13 12:50 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Haha that's why I said apparently...
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: psyconaught]
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then there is the classic not knowing what to do with a clitoris
Half of the battle is apparently knowing where it is.. If you pass that hurdle, I recommend using the tongue over the finger, it's difficult to be too rough unless you are gnawing like a damn rat...
how do guys not know where the clit is its pretty straight forward
Because they don't have one. IMO guys are much better at pleasing themselves (or other guys).
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: sukhavati12]
#19271753 - 12/13/13 05:25 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Because they don't have one. IMO guys are much better at pleasing themselves (or other guys).
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: sukhavati12]
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then there is the classic not knowing what to do with a clitoris
Half of the battle is apparently knowing where it is.. If you pass that hurdle, I recommend using the tongue over the finger, it's difficult to be too rough unless you are gnawing like a damn rat...
how do guys not know where the clit is its pretty straight forward
Because they don't have one. IMO guys are much better at pleasing themselves (or other guys).
i don't have a clit and i've never had an issue "operating" ( ) one i don't think its a matter of having one or not (though that would help no doubt). Some guys are just fucking ignorant i guess
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: psyconaught]
#19272127 - 12/13/13 07:23 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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psyconaught said: Some guys are just fucking ignorant i guess
Ignorant with no desire to learn, evidently.
I don't have a frenulum but I know what it is and that licking it usually turns out good. I know what a glans penis is but I don't have one. Vas deferens? Yep. Epididymis? Yep. Spermatic cord? Yep.
I'm sorry but guys have no excuse. If you really wanted to find a clit and pleasure it, it is not that hard to look up a diagram FFS.
I also don't understand why guys shy away from anything menstrual-related. I get it, its blood coming out of a cooch and it isn't fun to think about. But can't you guys get past that for one second and try to LEARN something? I don't know how many times my boyfriend has asked me, "Is it safe yet?" and I go well...it depends. And he's like "well how bad is it?" And I'll start to go into detail to explain the process and at what point at it I am in, to try to get him to understand why I can't just give him a simple answer, but its like he cowers in fear or something and doesn't want to hear anything about it. Is it really that bad?
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: Ballerium]
#19272271 - 12/13/13 08:07 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Ignorant with no desire to learn, evidently.
I don't have a frenulum but I know what it is and that licking it usually turns out good. I know what a glans penis is but I don't have one. Vas deferens? Yep. Epididymis? Yep. Spermatic cord? Yep.
I'm sorry but guys have no excuse. If you really wanted to find a clit and pleasure it, it is not that hard to look up a diagram FFS.
I also don't understand why guys shy away from anything menstrual-related. I get it, its blood coming out of a cooch and it isn't fun to think about. But can't you guys get past that for one second and try to LEARN something? I don't know how many times my boyfriend has asked me, "Is it safe yet?" and I go well...it depends. And he's like "well how bad is it?" And I'll start to go into detail to explain the process and at what point at it I am in, to try to get him to understand why I can't just give him a simple answer, but its like he cowers in fear or something and doesn't want to hear anything about it. Is it really that bad? 
i feel bad that your BF is like that personally i love when my GF is on her period because she gets horny as hell! And theres something kinky about period sex haha
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: psyconaught]
#19272320 - 12/13/13 08:19 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Yeah I get horny as hell when I am on it too. Probably because I know I can't get any, unless I want to get off by myself.

I mean I can understand if a guy wouldn't want to..it is kinda gross. I'm not really complaining about that though. Its more like..come on, stop being childish for 5 seconds and try to learn how a menstrual cycle works.
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: Ballerium]
#19272721 - 12/13/13 10:18 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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psyconaught said: Some guys are just fucking ignorant i guess
Ignorant with no desire to learn, evidently.
I don't have a frenulum but I know what it is and that licking it usually turns out good. I know what a glans penis is but I don't have one. Vas deferens? Yep. Epididymis? Yep. Spermatic cord? Yep.
I'm sorry but guys have no excuse. If you really wanted to find a clit and pleasure it, it is not that hard to look up a diagram FFS.
I also don't understand why guys shy away from anything menstrual-related. I get it, its blood coming out of a cooch and it isn't fun to think about. But can't you guys get past that for one second and try to LEARN something? I don't know how many times my boyfriend has asked me, "Is it safe yet?" and I go well...it depends. And he's like "well how bad is it?" And I'll start to go into detail to explain the process and at what point at it I am in, to try to get him to understand why I can't just give him a simple answer, but its like he cowers in fear or something and doesn't want to hear anything about it. Is it really that bad? 
Totally agree with you as far as girls getting horny on their period.
However-- made the mistake of indulging one of my girlfriends back in the day during her period and ended up perma-smearing the backseat of my car with period blood. That ain't something that comes out even with repeated scrubbings with shampoo and water.
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: deCypher]
#19273436 - 12/14/13 04:22 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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It confuses me that women have a clit. Some can only get off from clit stimulation, something that doesn't even have anything to do with the actual sex (Penis=>Vagina, Sperm into Uterus for proliferation.). To find a feeling for the playfulness that a woman requires can be very difficult. I knew a girl who only got off when I rung her uteral cervix with my glans. Then one time she told me it hurt her like three days afterwards, I's like "Why did you do it then?", she's like "Because it felt good then!" We even had a position where she rode me and tumbled her waist back and forth just to emphasize that technique. It felt good but it was weird. Other women have cried when I did this.
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: sof4r0ckeRs1984]
#19273451 - 12/14/13 04:33 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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sof4r0ckeRs1984 said: It confuses me that women have a clit. Some can only get off from clit stimulation, something that doesn't even have anything to do with the actual sex (Penis=>Vagina, Sperm into Uterus for proliferation.)
Dude, all fetuses start female and penis grows out of clit tissue.
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: kneesocks]
#19273573 - 12/14/13 06:31 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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sof4r0ckeRs1984 said: It confuses me that women have a clit. Some can only get off from clit stimulation, something that doesn't even have anything to do with the actual sex (Penis=>Vagina, Sperm into Uterus for proliferation.)
Dude, all fetuses start female and penis grows out of clit tissue.
I know. It's just that not every woman gets good enough stimulation out of penetrational sex, that's sometimes confusing. Sry, bad expression there.
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: sof4r0ckeRs1984]
#19274955 - 12/14/13 02:21 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Well maybe thats a clue to you that there is more to sex than dick + vag from a female perspective?
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#19275269 - 12/14/13 03:48 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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yess!
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: sof4r0ckeRs1984]
#19275276 - 12/14/13 03:50 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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sof4r0ckeRs1984 said: It confuses me that women have a clit. Some can only get off from clit stimulation, something that doesn't even have anything to do with the actual sex (Penis=>Vagina, Sperm into Uterus for proliferation.). To find a feeling for the playfulness that a woman requires can be very difficult. I knew a girl who only got off when I rung her uteral cervix with my glans. Then one time she told me it hurt her like three days afterwards, I's like "Why did you do it then?", she's like "Because it felt good then!" We even had a position where she rode me and tumbled her waist back and forth just to emphasize that technique. It felt good but it was weird. Other women have cried when I did this.
The clit is actually far more extensive than most people believe.
The fabled organ in yellow:
 http://io9.com/5876335/until-2009-the-human-clitoris-was-an-absolute-mystery
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: deCypher]
#19275320 - 12/14/13 04:01 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Kissing our nipples doesn't do much for us ladies... A few kisses here and there is good but I've had chicks spend so much time on them I figured they were probably lesbian.
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: GoldenEye]
#19275381 - 12/14/13 04:10 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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i dunno, i have a friend who can orgasm from having her breasts and nipples played with. it's different for everyone.
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: Acidic_Sloth]
#19275494 - 12/14/13 04:34 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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For HER, I can imagine.
I'm a he, I was speaking for the guys. I wanted the ladies to know that it doesn't do much for guys.
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: GoldenEye]
#19275501 - 12/14/13 04:36 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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oh, right right.
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: Acidic_Sloth]
#19278784 - 12/15/13 11:07 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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So when you guys tell us that you like our thunder thighs and big asses, are you telling the truth or just trying not to hurt our feelings? Why do so many guys say that they like girls with "a little meat on their bones", yet the body types of the women they date (skinny little petite things) do not reflect what they said?
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: Ballerium]
#19278803 - 12/15/13 11:11 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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We tell the truth. At least I do when I say that. Try cuddling a sack of bones. It's not good.
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: GoldenEye]
#19278823 - 12/15/13 11:14 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Maybe girls and guys defenitions of "a little meat" are just different?
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: GoldenEye]
#19278843 - 12/15/13 11:18 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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It probably has more to do with body shape than weight.
I think we most likely mean we want the hour glass instead of the banana:
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: GoldenEye]
#19278863 - 12/15/13 11:21 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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That makes sense. I guess that is what I was trying to figure out. How you guys define "a little meat". Thanks!
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: Ballerium]
#19278897 - 12/15/13 11:27 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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I read once that the ratio between hips and waist is imporant.
waist circumference divided by hip circumference should equal 0.71
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: Ballerium]
#19278934 - 12/15/13 11:36 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Ballerium said: So when you guys tell us that you like our thunder thighs and big asses, are you telling the truth or just trying not to hurt our feelings? Why do so many guys say that they like girls with "a little meat on their bones", yet the body types of the women they date (skinny little petite things) do not reflect what they said?
That's not the kind of woman I date usually. Solid legs and a big ass are sexy as hell, come on now.
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: GoldenEye]
#19278984 - 12/15/13 11:48 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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GoldenEye said: I read once that the ratio between hips and waist is imporant.
waist circumference divided by hip circumference should equal 0.71

That is interesting. So basically according to that formula, a woman's waist would need to be 12 inches smaller around than her hips in order to achieve the perfect ratio of 0.71. Mine ended up being 0.75.
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: Ballerium]
#19279007 - 12/15/13 11:53 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Muscular legs/ass = sexy.
Flabby legs/ass = not sexy.
That is the split for me. Obviously if you have bigger muscles you might have a bit more fat. That's not a big deal. But when the size is predominantly fat and not muscle it's gross (cellulite ).
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: pwnasaurus]
#19279034 - 12/15/13 11:59 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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you can still be curvy and not a sack of bones and be petite. Like someone else saids its mainly body type. its hard to have wide hips with a flat ass and no thighs haha
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: Ballerium]
#19279048 - 12/15/13 12:02 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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GoldenEye said: I read once that the ratio between hips and waist is imporant.
waist circumference divided by hip circumference should equal 0.71

That is interesting. So basically according to that formula, a woman's waist would need to be 12 inches smaller around than her hips in order to achieve the perfect ratio of 0.71. Mine ended up being 0.75.

12 inches? That all depends on what her hips turn out to be. It's a ratio...
But 0.75... that's pretty damn close!
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: GoldenEye]
#19279153 - 12/15/13 12:26 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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My bad. Tried the formula on several different sets of measurements but I guess I just got lucky.
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: Ballerium]
#19279194 - 12/15/13 12:34 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Sometimes guys do say that to fat girls though if they're desperate to get laid.
I hate to throw you for a loop but its true.
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Come on man. Don't just give away our secrets like that.
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Re: What would you like the opposite sex to know about sex [Re: GoldenEye]
#19279287 - 12/15/13 12:52 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Might as well lock the thread then if y'all are going to be stingy with your secrets. I will be sure not to divulge any of mine.
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