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Weird Situation With This Chick
    #19234544 - 12/05/13 11:36 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Okay, So lately I've been talking to this chick. She's five years older than I am, and she has said that she thinks that's kinda weird, but is cool with it.

Other than that little situation, shit's been goin' good. She's a real cool chick, she's a manager at a local Sonic, in the Air Force, blah blah blah (I've posted it all before :lol:)

Anyways, here's where shit gets weird:

She was talking about some place where she used to work, when I said that my mother had worked there too around that time. When she realized who my mother was, she freaked out. After clarifying some shit, we realized we had met before! Specifically, when I was a short twelve year old fat kid  and she kinda had a thing with my older step-brother  :huxleyfacepalm:

We continued on with our date, and she later said it didn't bother her, but she did bring up my age again.

Should I be concerned? What do y'all think, Shroomery?


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Re: Weird Situation With This Chick [Re: ThatKidWithTheFace]
    #19234547 - 12/05/13 11:38 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

I don't think age is a direct factor in many relationships.  It can have an indirect effect depending on your respective ages, though, and where you are in your respective lives.


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Re: Weird Situation With This Chick [Re: pwnasaurus]
    #19234561 - 12/05/13 11:44 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Well, I'm 18, still in high school, and working a minimum wage job. She, on the other hand, is 23, in college, in the Air Force, and a manager at a restaurant. Quite different :lol:


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Re: Weird Situation With This Chick [Re: ThatKidWithTheFace]
    #19234611 - 12/06/13 12:04 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Yeah... that seems like a pretty tough relationship to make work.


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Re: Weird Situation With This Chick [Re: pwnasaurus]
    #19241043 - 12/07/13 01:54 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Any more input, guys? :shrug:


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Re: Weird Situation With This Chick [Re: ThatKidWithTheFace]
    #19241324 - 12/07/13 02:47 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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ThatKidWithTheFace said:
Any more input, guys? :shrug:




Why don't you just worry about yourself and your future, get out of HS before you concern yourself with relationships.

If the girl is down for sex, fuck her good a few times and then move on.


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Re: Weird Situation With This Chick [Re: qman]
    #19243144 - 12/07/13 11:46 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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ThatKidWithTheFace said:
Any more input, guys? :shrug:




Why don't you just worry about yourself and your future, get out of HS before you concern yourself with relationships.

If the girl is down for sex, fuck her good a few times and then move on.




The thing is, I don't have a problem gettin' pussy. I just want something more meaningful


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Re: Weird Situation With This Chick [Re: ThatKidWithTheFace]
    #19243340 - 12/08/13 01:22 AM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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qman said:
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ThatKidWithTheFace said:
Any more input, guys? :shrug:




Why don't you just worry about yourself and your future, get out of HS before you concern yourself with relationships.

If the girl is down for sex, fuck her good a few times and then move on.




The thing is, I don't have a problem gettin' pussy. I just want something more meaningful



Why don't you just worry about yourself and your future, get out of HS before you concern yourself with relationships.

But then again this is often a lesson that you must learn yourself. I'm 22, I've been looking for 'something more meaningful' since I was 16 and instead I've just wasted a lot of time dealing with drama.


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Re: Weird Situation With This Chick [Re: ThatKidWithTheFace]
    #19245082 - 12/08/13 01:39 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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ThatKidWithTheFace said:
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qman said:
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ThatKidWithTheFace said:
Any more input, guys? :shrug:




Why don't you just worry about yourself and your future, get out of HS before you concern yourself with relationships.

If the girl is down for sex, fuck her good a few times and then move on.




The thing is, I don't have a problem gettin' pussy. I just want something more meaningful



I know how you feel somewhat dude. I'm 19, graduated at 17 and have been in CC since. I think people my age are stupid as hell and specifically girls my age are completely immature but the answer I get from my mom in that situation is that I have gone through more and been forced to mature quicker. I don't know. But I always have a much stronger attraction to women (yep, girls are my age, women are 21+ to me) that find attraction to me. With girls, I just feel like it's them wanting "love" based just on my physical appearance and such.

I'd suggest maybe just working on yourself. Get to a good college or university and search for what you want there. Do you really want to get involved with someone who's passed has a somewhat interesting role in yours? I read something while in high school saying like 40% of marriages happen with someone you met before you were 16. Fuck that noise.


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Re: Weird Situation With This Chick [Re: Atrium]
    #19246858 - 12/08/13 07:46 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

I see nothing wrong with this, but you've just got to sidestep the obvious areas where this would affect things, e.g. she can afford more than you, she has more freedom than you (assuming you live with parents), she has more experience and may be more mature, etc.

Just make sure you don't let any of these things start to seem like--or become--conflicts of interest.

That she'd seen you before while you were young and not quite as, err... charming, is an interesting variable but frankly just sounds like something neat you could tell people about yourselves as a couple at parties. If you're worried this is a genuine clam slam to her (the girl equivalent of a cock block), think of all the (probably mostly horrible lol) movies where something like this has happened. Usually the guy is older but again, I don't see why you should quit perusing this if you're interested :sun:. If she pursues back, the chase is on.

If you were 40 and she were 45, would it be worth a thread? :smilingpuppy: :aweyeah: :highfive:


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Re: Weird Situation With This Chick [Re: st1llnox]
    #19246995 - 12/08/13 08:16 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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If you were 40 and she were 45, would it be worth a thread?



Of course not, but that's not the situation at hand.  When you are still in high school you are at SUCH a different point in your life then when you are 23, have graduated university, and are in the air force.


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Re: Weird Situation With This Chick [Re: ThatKidWithTheFace]
    #19247381 - 12/08/13 09:31 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

You are 18. Hit that shit as hard and often as you can. Sure be a good boyfriend and respect her.

but don't get hung up.

"you are young and life is long and there is time to kill today"
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Re: Weird Situation With This Chick [Re: pwnasaurus]
    #19247395 - 12/08/13 09:33 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Man, that's such a good point.

I'm 23 right now and I tried imagining dating one of the older high schoolers at my work, like 18ish and I can see how that might be a weird fit and how the differences are dilated at that age.

OP let us know how it goes... now I'm really curious too, although if she's that mature and all, she'd let you know if it bothered her and/or she'd simply discontinue the relationship.

Best and good luck! :sun:


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Re: Weird Situation With This Chick [Re: st1llnox]
    #19250220 - 12/09/13 01:43 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

i honestly think from what you said that shes probably less than interested, and probably is because of the age. im 22 and id never date someone 5 years younger. if she is interested, i doubt its anything more than sex.


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Re: Weird Situation With This Chick [Re: babydoll]
    #19250333 - 12/09/13 02:08 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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i honestly think from what you said that shes probably less than interested, and probably is because of the age. im 22 and id never date someone 5 years younger. if she is interested, i doubt its anything more than sex.





Leon Trout still gives me shit for this (although I worded it horribly on purpose) but last year when I was 22, I met a new friend with benefits who was 21, smoked the same kinda cigs and everything.

He was smart though; he never asked me to buy his cigs and it turns out he was 17 years old. He was extraordinarily intelligent and well-versed in drugs, and I guess the smoking plus the fact that he would plug pinecones and smoke salt if that'd get him high made him age a little bit faster. BTW this was legal and I'm sharing because it could be helpful to see how the girl might not be seeing him so "young vs old", so please spare the "OMG PEDO WOW" comments.

The point is, she's probably seeing you as a person and not as a math problem, as I did with that crazy kid when all I had to go on was personality, looks and a false age that fit the package. The stepbrother thing might put a finer point on it so I'd steer clear of that topic, but it's mostly out of your hands.



There's no typical in a relationship, so if you're really blown away don't close the door, but don't get so attached you've got to go to therapy for it or anything like that either.

Take it slow. Things will start to take form and you'll see if it's together or with someone else down the line.

Best of luck. Dating is so exciting! :zomgzomgzomg:


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Re: Weird Situation With This Chick [Re: st1llnox]
    #19252388 - 12/09/13 08:31 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

I'm 29 and have been dating a 41 year old for months. Everything is going great!


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Re: Weird Situation With This Chick [Re: Bikerfool]
    #19252461 - 12/09/13 08:44 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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I'm 29 and have been dating a 41 year old for months. Everything is going great!



That's extremely different from being 18 and dating a 23 year old IMO.  Once you're over ~25 you're at the steady point in your life and the age difference doesn't really matter in that sense anymore.


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Re: Weird Situation With This Chick [Re: babydoll]
    #19252711 - 12/09/13 09:31 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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babydoll said:
i honestly think from what you said that shes probably less than interested, and probably is because of the age. im 22 and id never date someone 5 years younger. if she is interested, i doubt its anything more than sex.




See, I would think the same thing if I had pursued her, but she was the one that initiated it. Y'know what I mean?

We've hung out a few times, and continue to talk. So I assume I got her attention, I just gotta figure out how to keep it :lol:


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Re: Weird Situation With This Chick [Re: ThatKidWithTheFace]
    #19255291 - 12/10/13 12:51 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

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I just gotta figure out how to keep it :lol:




Just keep aging... you're doing fine!


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Re: Weird Situation With This Chick [Re: st1llnox]
    #19262909 - 12/11/13 09:32 PM (10 years, 2 months ago)

Update guys!

It's been going good! We hung out and watched movies the other night, and she's been visiting me on smoke breaks.

:likeaboss:

I'm optimistic.


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