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Attraction to Femininity/Masculinity
    #19246092 - 12/08/13 05:02 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

So all everywhere, people I've known, male and female, have used and use phrases such as "Let's get some girls", "I wanna get my boy on" "let's get some pussy" etc. so on and so forth. Basically suggesting that there isn't a significant deal of difference between who they try and hook up with or whatever they will, so long as they're their preferred gender and have a sufficient level of physical attractiveness. Now don't get me wrong here, I can understand and empathize with this mindset - especially when one is just out and about for the sake of partying or whatever, "living for the night" if you will. :headboard:

That being said, I sort of have trouble believing that this is a truly satisfactory way to go about doing things.  Again, I'm not in any way trying to suggest that this sort of behavior is incorrect or anything, as everybody obviously has the right to do whatever it is that they please so long and everybody involved is happy in the end. But on a level beyond instant gratification, I can't really see this being much of a worthwhile endeavor. However, it seems like in our society this sort of mindset has almost become the encouraged and expected norm for the masses.

I remember a few years back, a friend of mine ended his life. I thought there were some warning signs beforehand, and upon asking some of his usual crowd what was up, the response I got from a couple people was *literally* "Nah, he has a hot girlfriend he wouldn't do that." Now that being said, just to clarify I have nothing but the utmost respect for this gone friend of mine and am in no way trying to use him as an example in any sort of negative context, but only to try and get across what it is that I'm getting at here.

Now here is the question for all of you, do you just want a bitch to fuck and make you sandwiches or would you prefer something different? Polygamy or Monogamy?  To what extent does gender make a difference to you? Commitment vs. no commitment? Are you attracted to masculinity/femininity, or the people themselves, both?

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Re: Attraction to Femininity/Masculinity [Re: Sheekle] * 3
    #19246112 - 12/08/13 05:06 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Ya take stimulants much?... :blah:  . . . :peace:


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Re: Attraction to Femininity/Masculinity [Re: vinsue]
    #19246120 - 12/08/13 05:07 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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Ya take stimulants much?... :blah:  . . . :peace:



I take as much stimulants as a sub-par version of Coaster would, because it's obvious all I have to offer is aimless drug-induced ramblings and I'd like to personally thank you for taking on the burden of pointing that out for me :mypleasure:

p.s NOT! LOL


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Re: Attraction to Femininity/Masculinity [Re: Sheekle]
    #19246148 - 12/08/13 05:12 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

I think the best life-parter is the one you're not looking for.


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Re: Attraction to Femininity/Masculinity [Re: Scarab74]
    #19246151 - 12/08/13 05:13 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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I think the best life-parter is the one you're not looking for.



Does the universe bring people together when they're meant to meet?


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Re: Attraction to Femininity/Masculinity [Re: Sheekle]
    #19246154 - 12/08/13 05:14 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Not interested in relationships with the opposite sex, short or long-term.

Will be single and alone for life, have surveyed the field, and realized that for me, this is the way to go that will bring me the most peace.

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Re: Attraction to Femininity/Masculinity [Re: JesusIsLord]
    #19246161 - 12/08/13 05:16 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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Not interested in relationships with the opposite sex, short or long-term.



even like aquantince friendships?


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Re: Attraction to Femininity/Masculinity [Re: Sheekle]
    #19246182 - 12/08/13 05:20 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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Not interested in relationships with the opposite sex, short or long-term.



even like aquantince friendships?



yeah, even them. Not that that is too hard to avoid. Usually it's a sexual relationship, a long term one, fling, or whatever, and that's it. Pretty much can't even recall knowing a girl as just a friend in my life, ever.


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Re: Attraction to Femininity/Masculinity [Re: Sheekle]
    #19246186 - 12/08/13 05:22 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

my take is that all beings are attracted to female image, period.

i feel that a male's role is to do male things.  so a good male would be, essentially, a girl with a penis that does manly stuff (like get buff, get smart, etc.) and worship the female.

females, already having what they want, want to be worshiped.  so a good female would be one that is beautiful and curvy and is turned on by their own image, and gets off on more guys worshiping them too.

males can only have one orgasm and then it's done.  females can have orgasm after orgasm after orgasm and just keep going like a machine gun.  so, really, a flirty female is just being what nature intended them to be.  likewise, a threesome or group sex involving multiple guys and only one female would be more balanced than a single guy and multiple females.

still, though i've tried to dispute it, i think females are attracted to a big cock.  like they may prefer to watch someone massage their big oily cock for them as opposed to watch a girl touch herself for them.

this may be skewed or something, but this is how i see it.


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Re: Attraction to Femininity/Masculinity [Re: Sheekle]
    #19246388 - 12/08/13 06:04 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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Scarab74 said:
I think the best life-parter is the one you're not looking for.



Does the universe bring people together when they're meant to meet?




I don't want to ascribe intention or volition to the universe, but I do like to think important things, like folks' coming together in a variety of ways, happen for important reasons.

Take my parents.  They had a horrible marriage that probably should not have lasted beyond the wedding day but instead limped along for 15 miserable years.  Without that union between two people who just about hated each other, I would not be here as I am to have met and married my husband who is the bees' knees, or to have become a teacher who (hopefully) is making the world a better place.  I have a younger sister who has a son, and he is smart and funny and destined for greatness.  Without our parents' trying to stick it out, he wouldn't be here as he is.

Shit rolls downhill, but sometimes it gathers emeralds and buttercups and spores along the way.


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Re: Attraction to Femininity/Masculinity [Re: Scarab74]
    #19246439 - 12/08/13 06:17 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

having a bitch to just fuck is nice and all, but I much prefer an actual partner that not only can I fuck, but is also my best friend.


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Re: Attraction to Femininity/Masculinity [Re: Sheekle]
    #19246540 - 12/08/13 06:38 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

In the animal kingdom, the definition of success is basically equivalent to how many bitches you fuck. We're pretty much monkeys so we operate on the same way.

Girls are nothing but symbols. Dating or hooking up with a hot, attractive girl represents that you are successful, rich, have a lot of resources, are considered cool by society, and so on. Dating a fugly girl means you're a loser. Not dating a girl at all means you're equally a loser.

It's all symbolism man.


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Re: Attraction to Femininity/Masculinity [Re: Alexestalex]
    #19246543 - 12/08/13 06:40 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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Girls are nothing but symbols. Dating or hooking up with a hot, attractive girl represents that you are successful, rich, have a lot of resources, are considered cool by society, and so on. Dating a fugly girl means you're a loser. Not dating a girl at all means you're equally a loser.



Now when you say this, do you mean it in like a metaphorical sort of way or is this your actual belief? Like do you really look at females as "nothing but symbols"?


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Re: Attraction to Femininity/Masculinity [Re: Sheekle]
    #19246577 - 12/08/13 06:46 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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Girls are nothing but symbols. Dating or hooking up with a hot, attractive girl represents that you are successful, rich, have a lot of resources, are considered cool by society, and so on. Dating a fugly girl means you're a loser. Not dating a girl at all means you're equally a loser.



Now when you say this, do you mean it in like a metaphorical sort of way or is this your actual belief? Like do you really look at females as "nothing but symbols"?





Obviously girls are breathing, living, sentient human beings just as men or monkeys but the point I'm making is that in today's world (and probably for most of history), you can tell a lot about a person from the kind of girls they hook up with and the frequency with which they do so.

The sexier the girl, the more successful the guy is considered. Since we're monkeys and can't get over our lust for dominance and showing off, women simply become a medium through which we demonstrate our success. It's analogous to having a nice car, a rolex, and so forth. All symbols.


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Re: Attraction to Femininity/Masculinity [Re: Alexestalex]
    #19246582 - 12/08/13 06:48 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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In the animal kingdom, the definition of success is basically equivalent to how many bitches you fuck. We're pretty much monkeys so we operate on the same way.

Girls are nothing but symbols. Dating or hooking up with a hot, attractive girl represents that you are successful, rich, have a lot of resources, are considered cool by society, and so on. Dating a fugly girl means you're a loser. Not dating a girl at all means you're equally a loser.

It's all symbolism man.



that's a pretty close minded way of looking at it if you ask me. there are plenty of people who don't give a shit about banging a bunch of chicks or constantly being in a relationship, nothing wrong with that.


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Re: Attraction to Femininity/Masculinity [Re: mushroom_sandwich]
    #19246592 - 12/08/13 06:50 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Femininity is about acting like a chick. I love how a girl walks. Shit drives me cray cray. Shit masculinity is bullshit and pisses me off that dudes wanna front. Shit I don't wanna fight you but I'm sure as fuck gonna destroy you if you keep steppin to me.


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    #19246599 - 12/08/13 06:51 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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In the animal kingdom, the definition of success is basically equivalent to how many bitches you fuck. We're pretty much monkeys so we operate on the same way.

Girls are nothing but symbols. Dating or hooking up with a hot, attractive girl represents that you are successful, rich, have a lot of resources, are considered cool by society, and so on. Dating a fugly girl means you're a loser. Not dating a girl at all means you're equally a loser.

It's all symbolism man.



that's a pretty close minded way of looking at it if you ask me. there are plenty of people who don't give a shit about banging a bunch of chicks or constantly being in a relationship, nothing wrong with that.




No shit bro. Some people care more about literature, science, philosophy, making a difference, and so forth.

Generally people whose lives are based around going to raves, getting hammered, and finding hook ups aren't very intellectual. Hence why they behave like animals, as mentioned in my post.

But you can't argue that in society, having a hot girlfriend is nothing but bragging rights. It's identical to walking into a room with a rolex, people just look at you differently. Simple minded people enjoy that.


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Re: Attraction to Femininity/Masculinity [Re: Alexestalex]
    #19246607 - 12/08/13 06:53 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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But you can't argue that in society, having a hot girlfriend is nothing but bragging rights.



Well I can understand that having a hot girlfriend may give someone the ability to have bragging rights, but I wouldn't say it's "nothing but bragging rights".


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Re: Attraction to Femininity/Masculinity [Re: Sheekle]
    #19246639 - 12/08/13 06:59 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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But you can't argue that in society, having a hot girlfriend is nothing but bragging rights.



Well I can understand that having a hot girlfriend may give someone the ability to have bragging rights, but I wouldn't say it's "nothing but bragging rights".



When you have a hot girlfriend it's about nothing but tapping that ass.


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Re: Attraction to Femininity/Masculinity [Re: Sheekle]
    #19246643 - 12/08/13 07:00 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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But you can't argue that in society, having a hot girlfriend is nothing but bragging rights.



Well I can understand that having a hot girlfriend may give someone the ability to have bragging rights, but I wouldn't say it's "nothing but bragging rights".




My point was that since we're animals, we associate a hot girlfriend with being the epitome of success. A hot girlfriend is source of great envy, maybe far more than you can imagine, and it is something that's desired by basically all straight men who lost the genetic lottery, have shitty jobs and ugly wives, and so forth.

This is why your friend's suicide doesn't make sense to a lot of people. From THEIR perspective, they're thinking "wow, what a selfish cunt, if I had a girl like that, I'd be happier than heroin, suicide would be the last thing on my mind." To them, it's like being a starving man in a restaurant and seeing somebody complaining about their food and just throwing it straight out. What these fools don't realize is how quickly we get accustomed to what we have and how immediately we begin taking it for granted. We all want what we can't have aha, that's the sad part of life.


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