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Re: i just bombed on some guy [Re: pcplease]
#19238503 - 12/06/13 09:17 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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and all extroverts what...? go outta their way to "ape on" anyone whom offends them... it seems to me that alot of extroverts (not all) are more likely to not snap under such unimportant issues, and actually facilitate a more useful and satisfactory conclusion for anyone involved in an incident like this. except for jock douche bags who love to get drunk and fight because they get an adrenaline rush.
it's just the same thing here... someone snapped and got a nice big adrenaline rush, and instead of co-opting for a more timely and congruent solution, he opted for "fuck this guy, he's goin' down bro".
just sayin', it was a mistake. plain and simple. there might be repercussions for this in the long run, and also, the guy might have been a douche, but you can't go around punching all douches that piss of you or your GF, in their faces... it doesn't help anything... unless you're Batman.
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Re: i just bombed on some guy [Re: pcplease]
#19238528 - 12/06/13 09:23 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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pcplease said: I know right? "Practicing pacifism" doesn't mean anything if you're naturally scared of conflict.
Koods is just jealous that gays don't do romantic stuff like this; We all know what happens during a "conflict" between gays- "I could punch this guy, or I could donkey punch this guy"
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Re: i just bombed on some guy [Re: Can-i-bus]
#19238532 - 12/06/13 09:24 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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we all know what happens. LOLOLOL
all us guys who aren't really chicks knows what happens, right bro?!! right?
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learning sponge said:
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akira_akuma said:
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pcplease said: I know right? "Practicing pacifism" doesn't mean anything if you're naturally scared of conflict.
Koods is just jealous that gays don't do romantic stuff like this; We all know what happens during a "conflict" between gays- "I could punch this guy, or I could donkey punch this guy"
more assumptions. great. keep going guys. because you act like big apes, it's "supposed to be how things are done".
nah, maybe although OP doesn't have a "violent streak", he certainly proved here that he can be completely belligerent. hey, live and learn. no one is saying that he should castrate himself because he acted out... we're all just pointing out the obvious here, according to the story... three days of some guy heckling your GF does not permit you to go ape on his ass.
only in APE LAND, does that happen. but you, dudes usually like to have that big ole' ape goodbye, when they get offended to a certain point. because they're apes.
he wasn't just heckling hes been actually touching her.today he actually pulled her hair clip out of her hair.and one minute of some guy messing with my GF is going to constitute an ass whipping from me.u don't know a damn thing akira,you sound like an idiot,thinking you can "talk things out"with some bully.you obviously have no real life experience
people keep saying theres a better way to handle it.like what?asking him nicely to quit drawing on my GF and whispering dirty shit in her ear?or maybe I should have called the cops,and tell them "help me,i cant protect my GF from a bully?"they would have laughed at me and id be labled a snitch and im sure the cops wouldn't have done shit
This was a work related issue, her employer is responsible for her safety in regards to other employees, if they don't protect her from harassment, they would be held liable.
This is how the civilized world works, this type of situation happens everyday in the work force, there are proper procedures to take and they don't involve violence.
Does she have a human resource department? Did she report the harassment? What did her employer do? If they did nothing, did she seek legal representation?
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Re: i just bombed on some guy [Re: koods]
#19238569 - 12/06/13 09:31 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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koods said: But he wrote on her. Lol Plus, it's been going on for THREE DAYS! That's more than half a week!
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this thread is funny, now that i think about it... "oh G, don't worry yo... i'll fix this..."
FALCON PUNCH!
"yay my hero!1" *jump jump*
this is a cartoon.
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Re: i just bombed on some guy [Re: akira_akuma] 2
#19238600 - 12/06/13 09:39 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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I think "Girlfriend for 8 years" painted the rest of this picture perfectly in my mind
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Re: i just bombed on some guy [Re: akira_akuma]
#19238603 - 12/06/13 09:39 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Extroverts handle conflict in whatever way suits them or comes naturally, be it aggressively or pacifistic or neutral. The main difference between the two is that more outcomes are possible.
When did Sponge say he was getting drunk, and looking for a fight? That actually happens, and nothing Sponge said made it seem like those were his intentions, nor has anything he has posted.
And my point, if it wasn't obvious with a simple "It happens " is just that- It happens. Adrenaline and aggression is very hard to control. And as I went on about in my next posts, it's pretty easy to control that aggression when it doesn't exist. And then there's the main, bigger point Pretty much impossible to know if it was wrong. At first glance without knowing much, yes- it's safe to say that hitting someone is a bad thing, and can literally always be avoided. But what if this is a regular thing for that guy? Hitting on any/all women, regardless of them saying no, making physical advances that cause discomfort? Yes, some will still say that because hitting him isn't actually necessary, it's still inherently wrong. But personally? I could care less what happens to the scumbags
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Re: i just bombed on some guy [Re: akira_akuma]
#19238608 - 12/06/13 09:41 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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akira_akuma said: we all know what happens. LOLOLOL
all us guys who aren't really chicks knows what happens, right bro?!! right?
Huh? Gay guys are chicks?
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Re: i just bombed on some guy [Re: pcplease]
#19238633 - 12/06/13 09:49 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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pcplease said: I could care less what happens to the scumbags 
how do you know he was a scumbag? nobody here knows what really happened, cept the girlfriend.
not even OP has the full story. 
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akira_akuma said: we all know what happens. LOLOLOL
all us guys who aren't really chicks knows what happens, right bro?!! right?
Huh? Gay guys are chicks?
i don't know who is a chick or not... which is why the comparison is stupid. homo to non-homo... making gay jokes, in a thread about pummeling some Indian dude, is so passe.
was that a joke? maybe... still, nonetheless passe.
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learning sponge said: today he actually pulled her hair clip out of her hair.and one minute of some guy messing with my GF is going to constitute an ass whipping from me.
Well, you already tried the ass whippin' route with your super sweet Muay Thai. But it doesn't seem to have discouraged him at all. Now you must kill him.
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Re: i just bombed on some guy [Re: pcplease]
#19238667 - 12/06/13 09:55 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Honestly dude you do need to teach your girl to handle her own shit. Coming from someone who can get violent it gets taxing man. The anger and energy put out towards it will drain you. Work related incident happened with my girl recently and she was smart enough to go straight to human resources. I can't say I would have acted any differently.
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Nah brother, what you did was holy. Principles matter more than some stupid law that doesn't even make sense.
If she's really your girlfriend, that must mean you love her. What kind of love is it if you don't stand up to some creep who harasses your girlfriend. No one, especially someone who's that close to you, should be insulted at work let alone drawn on. Lol if someone drew on me like that, I'd definitely start shit.
Just remember, even though you may get a small fine, a criminal record, and all that, your GF will be 10x more attracted to you knowing you didn't pussy out and acted like a man.
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Re: i just bombed on some guy [Re: Alexestalex]
#19238678 - 12/06/13 09:59 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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So a dude hit on your chick, so she filed a report ticket and BEFORE anyone could address it you hit the dude?
 
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Re: i just bombed on some guy [Re: Alexestalex]
#19238685 - 12/06/13 10:00 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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in principle, she could have gone to human resources or just tell the guy off herself, and be "a man".
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Re: i just bombed on some guy [Re: akira_akuma]
#19238692 - 12/06/13 10:03 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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I like Koods, I thought it was pretty light-hearted- all conflict automatically leading to sex, hence the grindr link.
I didn't say I knew he was a scumbag, I said that he might be. The fact that he might be prevents anyone from being able to tell Sponge that he did the wrong thing. Or the right thing, for that matter. I didn't say I thought Sponge did the right thing either, though, all I said was "It happens". Little scuffles over girls like this do not bother me anywhere near as much as something sociopathic/psychopathic, like someone actually going out to look for a fight with someone random.
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Re: i just bombed on some guy [Re: pcplease]
#19238708 - 12/06/13 10:06 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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pcplease said: Extroverts handle conflict in whatever way suits them or comes naturally, be it aggressively or pacifistic or neutral. The main difference between the two is that more outcomes are possible.
When did Sponge say he was getting drunk, and looking for a fight? That actually happens, and nothing Sponge said made it seem like those were his intentions, nor has anything he has posted.
And my point, if it wasn't obvious with a simple "It happens " is just that- It happens. Adrenaline and aggression is very hard to control. And as I went on about in my next posts, it's pretty easy to control that aggression when it doesn't exist. And then there's the main, bigger point Pretty much impossible to know if it was wrong. At first glance without knowing much, yes- it's safe to say that hitting someone is a bad thing, and can literally always be avoided. But what if this is a regular thing for that guy? Hitting on any/all women, regardless of them saying no, making physical advances that cause discomfort? Yes, some will still say that because hitting him isn't actually necessary, it's still inherently wrong. But personally? I could care less what happens to the scumbags 
this guy is a fuking mid 30s scumbag and has harassed and fucked with lots of women at her work(busy call center)...hes made my GF's life hell at work for the past few day after shes has told him to stop LOTS of times.even other coworkers were telling this guy to leave my GF alone.he was literally obsessed w/ her.if I wouldnt have acted today,who knows what he woulda pulled Monday.i wanted to personnly let this guy know its not okay to hurt my loved ones.hes very lucky I didnt hurt him worse.i did smash his glasses though and when I was done "stealin' on him,he had dropped a water bottle on the ground and I smashed it over his head.coffee all over his punk ass
@alex thanks man spot on,finally some common sence instead of over analyzing work that's clearly cut out for me.and thanks for not asking some stupid question that's already clearly posted like a few people on this page
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Re: i just bombed on some guy [Re: akira_akuma]
#19238710 - 12/06/13 10:08 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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She did to to HR, but 15 minutes later they still hadn't addressed the issue and considering that the GF's life was in jeopardy, he took action. Whoopee, what a hero. 
PC, yeah. I got it. I've never had an all out brawl, but angry sex can be hot as shit. Wait.. What grindr post...you mean the little nips pics? My man raisins?
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Re: i just bombed on some guy [Re: pcplease]
#19238715 - 12/06/13 10:09 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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fair assessment. all i'm saying, too, is that it was a mistake, and that it happens; and that next time he should just wait and let things play a bit first, and have his girl deal. after all she's crying over spilt milk... "oh this guy is berating me and being lewd and saying bad things, my virgin ears!"
just could have not said anything, and let the people at her job resolve the issue.
then if the issue could not be resolved, and the guy didn't get fired, and kept up the harassment; then i can see how where this went makes sense. right now... i simply don't.
it happens though, you're right. i'm not baggin on OP for doing what he did, just saying he could have done a better job of keeping his cool. that's all i said to him, in general... everything i else i've been saying, just to note, has been to other posters... not to him, personally. i'm just explaining (like many people are) how this could have been handled better.
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Re: i just bombed on some guy [Re: pcplease]
#19238716 - 12/06/13 10:10 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Hooooooooooly at so many of these posts.
So Sponge's GF has reported this guy for harassment after he has touched her, made grotesque comments towards her, etc. Nothing has been done. And some of my fellow members here are saying that she "probably enjoyed it some way" 
Accusing Sponge of being a caveman? Sounds like you guys are the cavemen "Oooh female exhibiting negative reactions to my sexually empowering behavior she must want it", this is ACTUALLY HOW MANY ANIMALS ACT IN THE REAL WORLD

Sponge, you said this guy is an acclaimed homosexual? Yet he's harassing a woman in this way, it makes him seem like a sexual predator to me, and I'd smack the bitch whether or not the person being bothered is my girlfriend, or even female. The fact is that sexual predators deserve to get their ass beat.
You may get some questioning from the police Sponge, but IMO you won't get any sort of sentence for the following reasons A: If the guy pulls the hate crime card for being Indian, it won't work well because white judges in America don't give a shit about Indians. Hell they barely give a shit about people of African descent and they have the ultimate race-card here. B: If the guy pulls the hate crime card for being gay, it won't work because he was sexually harassing a female. An assumed to be white female at that. Minority male attacking white women is a big nono in the American judicial system. C: Do you live in a low income area? If so, then any attorney assigned to prosecute a (probably) white male for hitting a minority sexual predator might not be extremely talented, might not receive an awesome pay/hours, etc.
Sponge the odds are in your favor.
Also for beating the dude he deserved it from what I'm reading.
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