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Me and my ex are re-connecting
#19234784 - 12/06/13 01:06 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Its been a few years now. Not even sure how many since we were together. She was and still is my only love.
Now shes moving back to my area, and we've hung out a couple times when shes been vising the area for holidays (and screwed around) But also had an amazingly fun time just talking to her. We re-ignited our spark, and the chemistry we have together. And it felt great.
Now shes into the idea of me teaching her to grow gourmet mushrooms, and you know, spending all that time together doing a long project like that.
So many old feelings coming up. But right now honestly I just hope I get to have sex with her, and become better friends with her again. Because even if there is a chance of getting back together, I don't know if I'd want it.
And I seriously doubt she wants to actually date me for real because we have some serious issues that I won't go into right now
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Re: Me and my ex are re-connecting [Re: Psilosopherr] 1
#19235584 - 12/06/13 09:03 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Remember; exes are exes for a reason
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Re: Me and my ex are re-connecting [Re: Patlal] 1
#19235733 - 12/06/13 10:03 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Patlal said: Remember; exes are exes for a reason
You say that as if the reasons can't be embraced and dealt with rather then left behind and ran away from
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Re: Me and my ex are re-connecting [Re: Sheekle]
#19235758 - 12/06/13 10:13 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Patlal said: Remember; exes are exes for a reason
You say that as if the reasons can't be embraced and dealt with rather then left behind and ran away from
They split up over said reason, therefore it could not be embraced and dealt with
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Re: Me and my ex are re-connecting [Re: Patlal]
#19235774 - 12/06/13 10:22 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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well the reason we split was i cheated.
but that was years ago, and I've grown up a ton since then. And I think she has taken notice of how much more mature I am.
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Re: Me and my ex are re-connecting [Re: Patlal] 1
#19236483 - 12/06/13 01:04 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Patlal said: Remember; exes are exes for a reason
There also was a reason you dated them in the first place. If you can get over the acrimony, I think people that you were willing to date are the exact type of people you would want as friends. sometimes, what made a romantic relationship volatile can make a friendship particularly meaningful. Personally, if I don't care enough about someone that they can't make me upset, why would I want to be friends with them? Doesn't mean you should foster relationships with sociopaths,
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Re: Me and my ex are re-connecting [Re: koods] 1
#19236491 - 12/06/13 01:06 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Why do you guys have to be so optimistic. It's annoying
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Re: Me and my ex are re-connecting [Re: Patlal]
#19236498 - 12/06/13 01:07 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Patlal said: Why do you guys have to be so optimistic. It's annoying
Are you disagreeing with me? We should be friends.
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Re: Me and my ex are re-connecting [Re: koods]
#19236522 - 12/06/13 01:14 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Patlal said: Why do you guys have to be so optimistic. It's annoying
Are you disagreeing with me? We should be friends.
I thought we already were
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Re: Me and my ex are re-connecting [Re: Patlal]
#19236816 - 12/06/13 02:19 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Patlal said: Why do you guys have to be so optimistic. It's annoying
Are you disagreeing with me? We should be friends.
I thought we already were
you're smothering me.
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Re: Me and my ex are re-connecting [Re: koods]
#19236933 - 12/06/13 02:51 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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koods said:
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koods said:
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Patlal said: Why do you guys have to be so optimistic. It's annoying
Are you disagreeing with me? We should be friends.
I thought we already were
you're smothering me.
Yeah, I think we should take a break man.
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Re: Me and my ex are re-connecting [Re: Patlal]
#19237075 - 12/06/13 03:22 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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you're smothering me.
Yeah, I think we should take a break man.
Why are you so mean to me?
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Re: Me and my ex are re-connecting [Re: koods]
#19237091 - 12/06/13 03:28 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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I agree with the first opinion of patlal,but who am I...best of all to you op...for real
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Re: Me and my ex are re-connecting [Re: shpngld]
#19237395 - 12/06/13 04:44 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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I doubt we'll like, seriously date again.
But I bet we'll at least screw around a fair amount, and get to know eachother all over again.
She has the biggest tits ever so I'm not too bummed about justtt screwin around
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Re: Me and my ex are re-connecting [Re: Psilosopherr]
#19237431 - 12/06/13 04:51 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Shes also currently my best friend. I don't have many people I hang out with. And I tell her everyyyyything. More than I'd tell a therapist.
the ONLY problem is she's anti drug. anti mushroom
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Re: Me and my ex are re-connecting [Re: Psilosopherr]
#19237561 - 12/06/13 05:23 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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rbalzer said: Shes also currently my best friend. I don't have many people I hang out with. And I tell her everyyyyything. More than I'd tell a therapist.
the ONLY problem is she's anti drug. anti mushroom
Wait. I thought that's what we were talking about... Being friends. I'm not sure sure how she is currently your best friend and you have seen her only a couple times since you broke up.
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Re: Me and my ex are re-connecting [Re: koods]
#19238108 - 12/06/13 07:36 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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rbalzer said: Shes also currently my best friend. I don't have many people I hang out with. And I tell her everyyyyything. More than I'd tell a therapist.
the ONLY problem is she's anti drug. anti mushroom
Wait. I thought that's what we were talking about... Being friends. I'm not sure sure how she is currently your best friend and you have seen her only a couple times since you broke up.
We just talk all the time.
Thats how the requirements are for being my best friend right now. I don't do shit with people in person lately.
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Re: Me and my ex are re-connecting [Re: Psilosopherr]
#19240890 - 12/07/13 01:13 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Me and my ex from about a year and a half ago recently got back together. So far things are going great. I am very happy and thankful to have her back in my life. Somehow, things seem different to me this time; better, less forced, very comfortable, more genuine. So, these things can and do work out. Especially if one or both of the parties has matured during the break.
You say you're not sure you want a relationship with her again. That's for you to decide, but my ex and I were just hanging out being friends, then sex happened, and it sort of just grew into a relationship again from there. These things have a way of creeping back up in these types of situations.
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Re: Me and my ex are re-connecting [Re: fbi365]
#19247516 - 12/08/13 10:00 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Re: Me and my ex are re-connecting [Re: Anonymous #1]
#19247791 - 12/08/13 10:54 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Still just talking to her a lot via texting and IM'ing. Waiting for her to finish with her quarter of college and move back near me
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