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Me and my ex are re-connecting
    #19234784 - 12/06/13 01:06 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Its been a few years now. Not even sure how many since we were together. She was and still is my only love.

Now shes moving back to my area, and we've hung out a couple times when shes been vising the area for holidays (and screwed around) But also had an amazingly fun time just talking to her. We re-ignited our spark, and the chemistry we have together. And it felt great.

Now shes into the idea of me teaching her to grow gourmet mushrooms, and you know, spending all that time together doing a long project like that.




So many old feelings coming up. But right now honestly I just hope I get to have sex with her, and become better friends with her again. Because even if there is a chance of getting back together, I don't know if I'd want it.

And I seriously doubt she wants to actually date me for real because we have some serious issues that I won't go into right now


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Re: Me and my ex are re-connecting [Re: Psilosopherr] * 1
    #19235584 - 12/06/13 09:03 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Remember; exes are exes for a reason


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Re: Me and my ex are re-connecting [Re: Patlal] * 1
    #19235733 - 12/06/13 10:03 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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Remember; exes are exes for a reason



You say that as if the reasons can't be embraced and dealt with rather then left behind and ran away from


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Re: Me and my ex are re-connecting [Re: Sheekle]
    #19235758 - 12/06/13 10:13 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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Remember; exes are exes for a reason



You say that as if the reasons can't be embraced and dealt with rather then left behind and ran away from




They split up over said reason, therefore it could not be embraced and dealt with


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Re: Me and my ex are re-connecting [Re: Patlal]
    #19235774 - 12/06/13 10:22 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

well the reason we split was i cheated.

but that was years ago, and I've grown up a ton since then. And I think she has taken notice of how much more mature I am.


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Re: Me and my ex are re-connecting [Re: Patlal] * 1
    #19236483 - 12/06/13 01:04 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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Remember; exes are exes for a reason




There also was a reason you dated them in the first place. If you can get over the acrimony, I think people that you were willing to date are the exact type of people you would want as friends. sometimes, what made a romantic relationship volatile can make a friendship particularly meaningful. Personally, if I don't care enough about someone that they can't make me upset, why would I want to be friends with them? Doesn't mean you should foster relationships with sociopaths,


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Re: Me and my ex are re-connecting [Re: koods] * 1
    #19236491 - 12/06/13 01:06 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Why do you guys have to be so optimistic. It's annoying


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Re: Me and my ex are re-connecting [Re: Patlal]
    #19236498 - 12/06/13 01:07 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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Why do you guys have to be so optimistic. It's annoying




Are you disagreeing with me? We should be friends.


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“if I believed she was 16 I would become unattracted to her”


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Re: Me and my ex are re-connecting [Re: koods]
    #19236522 - 12/06/13 01:14 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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Why do you guys have to be so optimistic. It's annoying




Are you disagreeing with me? We should be friends.




I thought we already were


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Re: Me and my ex are re-connecting [Re: Patlal]
    #19236816 - 12/06/13 02:19 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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Patlal said:
Why do you guys have to be so optimistic. It's annoying




Are you disagreeing with me? We should be friends.




I thought we already were




you're smothering me.


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Re: Me and my ex are re-connecting [Re: koods]
    #19236933 - 12/06/13 02:51 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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koods said:
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Patlal said:
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koods said:
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Patlal said:
Why do you guys have to be so optimistic. It's annoying




Are you disagreeing with me? We should be friends.




I thought we already were




you're smothering me.




Yeah, I think we should take a break man.


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Re: Me and my ex are re-connecting [Re: Patlal]
    #19237075 - 12/06/13 03:22 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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you're smothering me.




Yeah, I think we should take a break man.




Why are you so mean to me?


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Re: Me and my ex are re-connecting [Re: koods]
    #19237091 - 12/06/13 03:28 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

I agree with the first opinion of patlal,but who am I...best of all to you op...for real


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Re: Me and my ex are re-connecting [Re: shpngld]
    #19237395 - 12/06/13 04:44 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

I doubt we'll like, seriously date again.

But I bet we'll at least screw around a fair amount, and get to know eachother all over again.

She has the biggest tits ever so I'm not too bummed about justtt screwin around


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Re: Me and my ex are re-connecting [Re: Psilosopherr]
    #19237431 - 12/06/13 04:51 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Shes also currently my best friend. I don't have many people I hang out with. And I tell her everyyyyything. More than I'd tell a therapist.

the ONLY problem is she's anti drug. anti mushroom


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Re: Me and my ex are re-connecting [Re: Psilosopherr]
    #19237561 - 12/06/13 05:23 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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Shes also currently my best friend. I don't have many people I hang out with. And I tell her everyyyyything. More than I'd tell a therapist.

the ONLY problem is she's anti drug. anti mushroom




Wait. I thought that's what we were talking about... Being friends. I'm not sure sure how she is currently your best friend and you have seen her only a couple times since you broke up.


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Re: Me and my ex are re-connecting [Re: koods]
    #19238108 - 12/06/13 07:36 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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Shes also currently my best friend. I don't have many people I hang out with. And I tell her everyyyyything. More than I'd tell a therapist.

the ONLY problem is she's anti drug. anti mushroom




Wait. I thought that's what we were talking about... Being friends. I'm not sure sure how she is currently your best friend and you have seen her only a couple times since you broke up.



We just talk all the time.

Thats how the requirements are for being my best friend right now. I don't do shit with people in person lately.


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Re: Me and my ex are re-connecting [Re: Psilosopherr]
    #19240890 - 12/07/13 01:13 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Me and my ex from about a year and a half ago recently got back together.  So far things are going great.  I am very happy and thankful to have her back in my life.  Somehow, things seem different to me this time; better, less forced, very comfortable, more genuine.  So, these things can and do work out.  Especially if one or both of the parties has matured during the break.

You say you're not sure you want a relationship with her again.  That's for you to decide, but my ex and I were just hanging out being friends, then sex happened, and it sort of just grew into a relationship again from there.  These things have a way of creeping back up in these types of situations.


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Re: Me and my ex are re-connecting [Re: fbi365]
    #19247516 - 12/08/13 10:00 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

:popcorn:


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Re: Me and my ex are re-connecting [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #19247791 - 12/08/13 10:54 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Still just talking to her a lot via texting and IM'ing. Waiting for her to finish with her quarter of college and move back near me :hug:


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Re: Me and my ex are re-connecting [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #19248260 - 12/09/13 12:43 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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:popcorn:




You needed to be anonymous to do :popcorn:?


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Re: Me and my ex are re-connecting [Re: koods]
    #19254620 - 12/10/13 10:11 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Your best friend is not your girlfriend, ever. While I agree that its cool to share everything with your SO, it helps to have an impartial friend that you can confide in. And try to find out what she wants from this whole ordeal, sometimes there can be hidden motives.


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Re: Me and my ex are re-connecting [Re: lucydforme]
    #19254969 - 12/10/13 11:42 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

DONT DO IT


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Re: Me and my ex are re-connecting [Re: lunarpiscean]
    #19257496 - 12/10/13 08:35 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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DONT DO IT



lol don't do it in all caps with no reason attached


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Re: Me and my ex are re-connecting [Re: unknown1123]
    #19258045 - 12/10/13 10:35 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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DONT DO IT



lol don't do it in all caps with no reason attached



yeah it was really persuasive :lol:


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Re: Me and my ex are re-connecting [Re: lucydforme]
    #19262714 - 12/11/13 08:53 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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Remember; exes are exes for a reason




Sometimes for no good reason.

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Your best friend is not your girlfriend




I don't get this statement.  Don't you think that your significant other should also be your best friend?


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Re: Me and my ex are re-connecting [Re: fbi365]
    #19360193 - 01/02/14 06:50 PM (10 years, 28 days ago)

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Your best friend is not your girlfriend




I don't get this statement.  Don't you think that your significant other should also be your best friend?




Date a person that is your friend, not your best friend, its good to start with boundaries. There is no problem if that person becomes your best friend down the road, but starting by dating your best friend can lead to complications. Turning down your best friend that asked you out is awkward, they know a lot about you, especially if you confide to them, so there may not be much to talk about between you and the relationship can go stale quickly both emotionally and physically. Its my preference to not date a girl with best friend status, i'd rather date a friend and work them up to best friend by dating them.


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Re: Me and my ex are re-connecting [Re: lucydforme]
    #19375384 - 01/06/14 12:16 AM (10 years, 25 days ago)

My girlfriend is my best friend both before and after we started dating.  So :justdontknow:


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Re: Me and my ex are re-connecting [Re: fbi365]
    #19376284 - 01/06/14 08:29 AM (10 years, 25 days ago)

now I'm dreaming about my other, newer ex.

I had a dream she came over, and I made a move to cuddle with her, then stopped myself. And she noticed.

I hate dreaming about exes


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Re: Me and my ex are re-connecting [Re: Psilosopherr]
    #19376310 - 01/06/14 08:36 AM (10 years, 25 days ago)

If to people, exes as they may be are to be together.. it depends on the people involved.. if they are idiots that broke up for no reason.. then what? If they forgot that reason, was it so important? If they had a good reason and want to hook up again, then what?  I usually keep out of such matters...


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