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Atrium
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How the hell do I even get myself to approach?
#19222032 - 12/03/13 12:46 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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I always find myself in these situations where I see a girl in class or whatever who seems to look back or whatever making mad eye contact.
Ex: Today, last day of human sexuality, a girl I noticed before looking back eying me I find her sitting right in front of me at the computer lab after the test. I was looking at BTC prices and whatever actually focusing on some money issues and as soon as I saw her pass me by, suddenly no more focus. She ended up sitting in the computer right in front of me which was face to face and I could even see her catching small glimpses then I'd look up to her looking back down quick. Then she'd dip down and it'd happen for about an hour. And I just left...
Shit I'm actually tired of being alone and I think it makes me see something that's not actually there but I've never really approached a random girl before, only expanded on general talks to lead to something. MEaning, I've never actually gone out of my way to talk to a particular girl although I always have one which I would like to or see what I believe to be mutual attraction but I never approach.
I just feel like shit over it now.
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Lynnch
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Re: How the hell do I even get myself to approach? [Re: Atrium]
#19222296 - 12/03/13 01:39 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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You did bad and you should feel bad 
Just try it some time, go in with the intention of getting a 'no' out of the way. Also, practice saying hi and talking to people without trying to ask them out, talk to them just for the hell of it.
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Re: How the hell do I even get myself to approach? [Re: Lynnch]
#19222329 - 12/03/13 01:46 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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you don't necessarily have to ask her out the first time. That same situation happened to me before, girl in class kept making eye contact and looking over, so i just went up and said 'hi i'm xxxx whats your name?" its not like she'll think its weird if she's checking you out
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st1llnox
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Re: How the hell do I even get myself to approach? [Re: psyconaught]
#19224408 - 12/03/13 09:18 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Honestly, showing them your dick might get you further than you think if you're who I think you are lol.
Sounds like you need some confidence, but I'd be kind of evil if I suggested throwaway dates to practice the process (women are gentle and sweet and oughtn't be used IMO).
What's it gonna take to get your swag going man?
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Atrium
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Re: How the hell do I even get myself to approach? [Re: st1llnox]
#19224519 - 12/03/13 09:48 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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st1illnox, you probably are thinking of me.
Shit I don't know what it is, but I have begun getting looks and smiles from many women over the past 2 weeks. Like, suddenly, I awoke from a dream or something. I just am not entirely awake yet really. I am in CC right now so maybe, what I am doing positive now will actually pay off better if I focus on that more and when I move into the CC dorms in the Fall, I will be successful in getting blown bunch. What do you guys think?
But what is suddenly bringing an interest to me even from random girls all around town? Shit... longer hair?
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st1llnox
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Re: How the hell do I even get myself to approach? [Re: Atrium]
#19224753 - 12/03/13 10:38 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Jamesdnh said: st1illnox, you probably are thinking of me.
Shit I don't know what it is, but I have begun getting looks and smiles from many women over the past 2 weeks. Like, suddenly, I awoke from a dream or something. I just am not entirely awake yet really. I am in CC right now so maybe, what I am doing positive now will actually pay off better if I focus on that more and when I move into the CC dorms in the Fall, I will be successful in getting blown bunch. What do you guys think?
But what is suddenly bringing an interest to me even from random girls all around town? Shit... longer hair?
I think that's how it will play out with the dorms you're gonna have plenty of fun I'm sure.
I bet just the attention itself could help your confidence. Anything change in the last couple weeks? Hair can make a huge difference even on guys... From meh to model looks in exceptional cases.
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Atrium
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Re: How the hell do I even get myself to approach? [Re: st1llnox]
#19224821 - 12/03/13 10:56 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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My hair has grown out a bit and I changed bodywash. That seems to be it really. I always have great hygiene and I workout so compared to 6 months ago, I've changed a little but overall, I'm still the same yet turn slightly to see another girl looking every 5 minutes.
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Re: How the hell do I even get myself to approach? [Re: Atrium]
#19225230 - 12/04/13 03:20 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Today, last day of human sexuality...
Fuck. I didn't see this on the news. That's it? No more sex? Fuck.
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