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andrewmurray86
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Re: Boyfriend says we have a bad relationship,I would not know a real man if he slapped me in the face [Re: Anonymous #1]
#19220721 - 12/03/13 05:27 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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That sux OP, have you tried some counselling? Just even for yourself let alone couples stuff.
This guy sounds like he is carrying some baggage too. Would he be open to getting some counselling?
I don't know what it's like to have kids but I'm sure it's better to have 2 parents who can be civil than parents who are fighting and being passive/aggressive. Kids absorb that. I mean obviously the ideal is 2 parents who get on well.
Do you have family/friends close by who can offer support/advice/shelter?
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Re: Boyfriend says we have a bad relationship,I would not know a real man if he slapped me in the face [Re: Anonymous #1]
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yeah that's rough 
I'm really sorry to hear that.
Is it maybe just a bad patch? Is there light at the end of the tunnel?
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Re: Boyfriend says we have a bad relationship,I would not know a real man if he slapped me in the face [Re: andrewmurray86]
#19221124 - 12/03/13 08:49 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Here's a life lesson for all of you:
- Don't date losers - Don't date irresponsible people
If you can only find these kind of people, stay single.
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Re: Boyfriend says we have a bad relationship,I would not know a real man if he slapped me in the face [Re: Anonymous #2]
#19221187 - 12/03/13 09:16 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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I think you should get out. I always hear people say when it is good, its good and when its bad its bad. The fact is, you are unhappy, and it is affecting your well-being. People always worry that splitting up is the worst thing for their children, but honestly, I think the hostile living environment is much worse. You shouldn't be afraid of being alone. Since you already feel that way, don't you think it is time to give it up so you can actually find somebody worth your time?
You didn't say so, but it doesn't seem like he is a very attentive father either. Especially if you had been paying all of his bills while he was unemployed and not looking for a job. I think you should drop your pride and leave. If there is financial issues, you can get assistance from the state. Even if it is just for a short while to get yourself back on your feet.
The thing I find worse than being alone is being with somebody that makes me feel alone. Get out and start living your life again before it is too late.
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Re: Boyfriend says we have a bad relationship,I would not know a real man if he slapped me in the face [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Honest opinion, you aren't hanging on by a thread. He can say that because words are cheap. Trust me, being alone isn't as scary as you think. It is insecurity that makes you feel that way. I moved 4000 miles from anybody that I knew after finally splitting off from my fiance. It was tough at first, but now I am happier than I have ever been in my life. I am not trying to be a dick about it, but trying to hold on to something that has been broken for a long time already is just a waste of your youth. You say that you want somebody that is going to make you happy, but that person will NEVER enter your life as long as you are willing to stay in your current relationship and staying miserable.
I can understand what you might be feeling though. I had a very rough childhood and I have been on my own since 17. Mother walked out on us at the age of 4 and never saw her again. Father is a bad alcoholic and coke head. Very angry and abusive man. I am also of mixed blood and grew up in a place where racism is the norm.
I am just trying to say, if you want something better for yourself, don't wait around for it to come to you, because it probably won't. Stand up with your own two legs and move yourself towards happiness and a brighter future. Trust me, if I can do it, anybody can if they try.
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Re: Boyfriend says we have a bad relationship,I would not know a real man if he slapped me in the face [Re: Anonymous #1]
#19222880 - 12/03/13 03:44 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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It's no problem. I don't have any kids of my own, but I've been in a long, dead end relationship where I was under appreciated. I wish you the best in your endeavors.
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