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Sexual anxiety/dysfunction after drug abuse?
    #19216594 - 12/02/13 10:26 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Hey Sexy Shroomery, so my girlfriend and I had sex for the first time this passed week and I experience some anxiety and possibly dysfunction.  I wasn't really able to get totally erect or turned on.  It's like I was just going with it but not enjoying it to it's full.  The first time we had sex I was on the nervous side and not even totally in the mood, so when I was sticking it in it took some effort cause I wasn't too hard.  We started making love and it was great and all, but I still wasn't feeling it! She tried to get on top, and I was being all soft served so I told her I wasn't really feeling it and she was cool with it cause she wasn't really either.  We continued fooling around, and although I was able to finish, my dick still wasn't that hard.

We had sex again a few days after and the same thing happened, except I actually finished during intercourse.  I'm just wondering if this is me being nervous or if sexual dysfunction is going on.  I've abused a lot of drugs, mostly psychedelics, but I did get addicted to Klonopin and MDMA.  I abused the FUCK out of those 2 drugs.  I almost died once from taking too much MDMA, Klonopin, and coke and almost died another time due to taking like 19mg of klonopin.  I've had months where I roll like 10 times on large doses or I'll binge on MDMA, and I used to have an almost daily 8mg k-pin habit.

Could that have anything to do with my sex parts? That's just kind of to show how much I was abusing that shit.  If this is sexual dysfunction, how can I get over it? I could tell my gf's pussy was realllly nice, but I've lost some feeling down there and I can't get the full pleasure of her vagina :thumbdown:


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You are my sunshine, my only sunshine, you make me happy, when skies are grey
You are my heroin, but there's an abscess... God damn, I miss the vein!


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Re: Sexual anxiety/dysfunction after drug abuse? [Re: sanchothestoner]
    #19216718 - 12/02/13 11:02 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Are you still on the k-pins and xtc? It's not entirely clear from your message. Apart from that, I'm inclined to think that the problem isn't so much the drugs, but the anxiety in itself. It's likely to go away/alleviate by itself. If it persists, please do see a doctor.


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Re: Sexual anxiety/dysfunction after drug abuse? [Re: koraks]
    #19216771 - 12/02/13 11:16 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

I am not, it's been a while since I've done either.  I am a pretty anxious person, so it is likely that it's just anxiety.  Thinking back, it usually takes me a few tries to get in the groove with a new partner.  I like to adjust my love making from person to person, since everyone like different stuff.

Well, I'll just have to wait and see what's up.


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I fucking hate you... God damn, I love you...
But we both know if we stick together, we'll just tear ourselves apart
You are my sunshine, my only sunshine, you make me happy, when skies are grey
You are my heroin, but there's an abscess... God damn, I miss the vein!


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Re: Sexual anxiety/dysfunction after drug abuse? [Re: sanchothestoner] * 1
    #19216920 - 12/02/13 11:59 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Don't try to suffer too much from performance anxiety. It's good to keep an eye on what the other person likes, but be sure to have some fun yourself too. Makes it all the more enjoyable for your partner as well :thumbup:


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Re: Sexual anxiety/dysfunction after drug abuse? [Re: koraks]
    #19221093 - 12/03/13 08:40 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

For sure.  I'll just relax and let things happen.


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I fucking hate you... God damn, I love you...
But we both know if we stick together, we'll just tear ourselves apart
You are my sunshine, my only sunshine, you make me happy, when skies are grey
You are my heroin, but there's an abscess... God damn, I miss the vein!


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Re: Sexual anxiety/dysfunction after drug abuse? [Re: sanchothestoner]
    #19222057 - 12/03/13 12:50 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

This is definitely something psychological. Our emotions drive us. They dictate our every move and thought. I too had SERIOUS emotional issues after abusing ungodly amounts of benzos. I honestly dont know how i bounced back from it. The MDMA abuse is also something that amplified your problem. Luckily the human brain can come back from a GREAT deal of trauma and neglect. Its amazing just how much we can abuse our own minds, then heal from it. This problem is most definitely anxiety related... So trying to resolve the sex issue will not be much help until you are able to deal with your general stress and anxiety better. Do you exercise daily and eat right? From my experience, practicing different breathing techniques and exercise.... ESPECIALLY Yoga played the biggest role in helping my anxiety. On top of that, it made the quality of my sex life and performance 100 times better too :thumbup:

In short, getting to the root of your issue is what will help you greatly. Trying to fix only the sex is just scratching the surface and will ultimately fix little to nothing. I wish you much luck on your endeavors and PM me if you wanna go into more detail about eradicating that anxiety :peace:


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Re: Sexual anxiety/dysfunction after drug abuse? [Re: danlennon3]
    #19225730 - 12/04/13 08:37 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

I used to do a lot of yoga, and I'm eat alright but I'm starting to eat better.  I want my diet to be good, especially since I'm mostly vegan.  I have things to do that release me of stress, but I've always been a really anxious person..... kinda sucks.  I've almost gotten over it though, especially since my girl and I communicate really well and are always feeling the same about things.


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I fucking hate you... God damn, I love you...
But we both know if we stick together, we'll just tear ourselves apart
You are my sunshine, my only sunshine, you make me happy, when skies are grey
You are my heroin, but there's an abscess... God damn, I miss the vein!


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Re: Sexual anxiety/dysfunction after drug abuse? [Re: sanchothestoner]
    #19225765 - 12/04/13 08:49 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Yea I have always been the anxious type. Im SO dependent on a female friend because thats really the only time Im not anxious out in public.


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Re: Sexual anxiety/dysfunction after drug abuse? [Re: danlennon3]
    #19229825 - 12/05/13 01:46 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

I totally relate bro..

Spent around three years of my life binging on pretty much whatever drugs I could get my hands on. Now that I'm sober sex is completely different.

I've been sober and back into society (from prison) for about four months now. I've had three ladies grace my bed with their presence in that time and it's steadily getting more natural? Idk. Things were just so much easier when I was doing lines off their tits and could barely see straight. Things just seem so... Forced now.

I can tell you that the MDMA is a common bond between us. My mixture of choice was MDMA and alcohol though. I posted a similar thread a couple of months ago. I'll pass on the knowledge that has helped me from that post... Just relax and enjoy yourself. Don't worry about expectations or any of that junk. Maybe focus on getting heroff a few times and see where that takes you.

Best of luck to you man :peace:


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Re: Sexual anxiety/dysfunction after drug abuse? [Re: ilike_trees]
    #19230357 - 12/05/13 08:44 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

It's simple, Sancho.....All those drugs stop your mind from wandering...stops most rational thoughts. When you remove them from the equation....it's like holly shit! Did I lock my car?....Gee, she smells kinda different....My foot itches :wink: Just to mention a few, but you get my point. Your mind is like a blister where you just pulled the skin off....it reacts to everything.

I experienced this after stopping drinking after decades of alcoholism...even used the little blue pills to help for a while. TIME....was the only thing that it took...I stayed with the same girl...who knew of my dilemma and was willing to take things easy and slow...I had to learn to slow things down and feel all of the wonderful feelings created from skin against skin...eventually the problem just disappeared. Also, doing things to please her help to take your mind off of you and this helps. :sunny::peace:M


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Re: Sexual anxiety/dysfunction after drug abuse? [Re: Thayendanegea]
    #19231638 - 12/05/13 03:01 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Hey man, how old are you?


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Re: Sexual anxiety/dysfunction after drug abuse? [Re: Endure]
    #19233881 - 12/05/13 08:53 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

I'm 20.

I definitely tend to think a lot during sex.  My mind just starts racing.  That happens to me all the time though, not just during sex.  I think I just let it get to me because of the situation.  Luckily, my girlfriend is amazing and doesn't care about my current sexual dilemma.  I'll take your advice and try to get her off and pleasure her.


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I fucking hate you... God damn, I love you...
But we both know if we stick together, we'll just tear ourselves apart
You are my sunshine, my only sunshine, you make me happy, when skies are grey
You are my heroin, but there's an abscess... God damn, I miss the vein!


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Re: Sexual anxiety/dysfunction after drug abuse? [Re: sanchothestoner]
    #19234122 - 12/05/13 09:45 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Lol, ill ask this one time only, are you sure you are sexually attracted to her. She could be beautiful but are you sexually attracted to her, craving kinky things?

Do you masturbate a lot also?


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Re: Sexual anxiety/dysfunction after drug abuse? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #19234154 - 12/05/13 09:54 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

I am VERY sexually attracted to her.  In fact, I don't think I've ever been more attracted to anyone else.  And I masturbate almost everyday, I was thinking that this could be effecting my sex life.  I was thinking about not jerkin it for a while and see where things go.


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I fucking hate you... God damn, I love you...
But we both know if we stick together, we'll just tear ourselves apart
You are my sunshine, my only sunshine, you make me happy, when skies are grey
You are my heroin, but there's an abscess... God damn, I miss the vein!


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Re: Sexual anxiety/dysfunction after drug abuse? [Re: sanchothestoner]
    #19234314 - 12/05/13 10:32 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Quote:

sanchothestoner said:
I am VERY sexually attracted to her.  In fact, I don't think I've ever been more attracted to anyone else.  And I masturbate almost everyday, I was thinking that this could be effecting my sex life.  I was thinking about not jerkin it for a while and see where things go.




if you dont masturbate for a week you will notice a huge difference trust me, the longer you dont masturbate and you only have sex in real life, the more you will crave real sex instead of a quick boredom release


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Re: Sexual anxiety/dysfunction after drug abuse? [Re: Endure]
    #19235525 - 12/06/13 08:35 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Yeah, I was gonna take a break and just get off from sex or other stuff with her.  Thing is, we still live with our parents and live about 45 minutes away from eachother so we don't get too many opportunities to fuck :shrug: But we definitely release that sexual tension through other ways :awehigh:


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I fucking hate you... God damn, I love you...
But we both know if we stick together, we'll just tear ourselves apart
You are my sunshine, my only sunshine, you make me happy, when skies are grey
You are my heroin, but there's an abscess... God damn, I miss the vein!


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Re: Sexual anxiety/dysfunction after drug abuse? [Re: Endure]
    #19236011 - 12/06/13 11:11 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Quote:

Endure said:
Hey man, how old are you?



If you're asking me.....soon to be 54:grin:


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