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245willow19

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Relative dating a twitchy druggie foreigner
#19200800 - 11/28/13 01:09 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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I don't care who she dates but she told me her boyfriend smokes 5 sticks (joints) a day and when he smokes, he starts to shake weirdly and I assume he probably talks to himself and hears voices too (since it's rampant among them but never spoken of) if you dig a little further. I know a lot of people here who smoke weed and they are relatively fine, relax and peaceful, but mental illnesses, although ignored and often brushed under the carpet by many, is probably a lot more common than previously thought by the general population and could explain the stange incidents that occur here like antisocial behaviour etc. I don't even know this guy since they're dating abroad and I suppose I can't really judge him but it is of a great concern for me becaus I am the only person she has told about this little "affair" at the moment.
I've already lost one relative to senseless murder and don't want another added to my list...she is very beautiful and smart and I would seriously never forgive myself and my family would also be angry at me for not tell them sooner if anything bad happened to her. She is my favourite relative by the way . I am very protective
Cannabis generally doesn't make a person do bad things or go crazy, but sometimes, there are those who just can't handle drugs and have a psychotic breakdown and commit antisocial behaviour or worse. Maybe I am being a bias ignorant bigot but I do strongly believe some people aren't equip for drug usage.
Any suggestions for what I should say to her? I told her to get him to cut down his weed smoking habit and seek help in case his problems is a little more serious...
Thank you, EK
Edited by 245willow19 (11/29/13 06:20 AM)
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Re: Relative dating a weed smoker [Re: 245willow19]
#19200823 - 11/28/13 01:16 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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sometimes if I get hella baked I will twitch a little.
I don't know how you made the jump from that to talking to yourself though...
he could be a normal dude
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Re: Relative dating a weed smoker [Re: NWlight]
#19200838 - 11/28/13 01:19 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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NWlight said: sometimes if I get hella baked I will twitch a little.
I don't know how you made the jump from that to talking to yourself though...
he could be a normal dude
That's a possibility...Maybe I am just paranoid and overprotective . She's aboard though...and that's why I am concerned because I don't know this guy and there's no family members there to help or advise her.
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Re: Relative dating a weed smoker [Re: 245willow19] 10
#19200850 - 11/28/13 01:22 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Another ridiculous thread that could only be the creation of E.K.
Don't you have a (self-admitted) mental illness? Why are you judging others that you don't truly know?
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Re: Relative dating a weed smoker [Re: 245willow19]
#19200861 - 11/28/13 01:24 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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You don't seem to have any basis for your conclusions. I get very twitchy and even shaky at times when my anxiety is already through the roof before vaping. You may be correct in your worries but I'd work try to have a bit more information before jumping to conclusions. Five joints a day is certainly more than the average but not unrealistic for a grower or someone who knows growers. The amount itself isn't to the point where I'd be concerned (personally).
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Re: Relative dating a weed smoker [Re: 245willow19] 7
#19200863 - 11/28/13 01:25 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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The man is obviously a weed junkie save her while you can
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Re: Relative dating a weed smoker [Re: gzuf]
#19200919 - 11/28/13 01:39 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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what gzuf said.
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Re: Relative dating a weed smoker [Re: suniced]
#19200975 - 11/28/13 01:59 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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he starts to shake weirdly and I assume he probably talks to himself and hears voices too (since it's rampant among them but never spoken of) if you dig a little further.
You assume this? I have a ton of friends who smoke pot, none of which hear voices and talk to themselves whilst stoned. He probably is just an extremely chill guy, you shouldn't worry so much about it. Also, if he smokes 5 joints a day, he probably has a super high tolerance and doesn't really get silly high anymore. Back in my heavy smoking days, when I smoked it was almost like another type of "normal", I was never fucked up or anything, just relaxed. I bet you could hang out with him all day and not know if he was high or not.
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Re: Relative dating a weed smoker [Re: TrippyTubby] 9
#19201012 - 11/28/13 02:10 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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OP wants to bang his cousin and is jealous that she's bangin' a stoner and not a junkie
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Re: Relative dating a weed smoker [Re: MrBlueYoMind] 2
#19201037 - 11/28/13 02:19 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Keep him away! Everyone knows how violently a stoner can attack a buffet so just imagine what he could do to an innocent woman.
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Re: Relative dating a weed smoker [Re: MrBlueYoMind] 5
#19201046 - 11/28/13 02:21 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Yeah be careful OP. I had a friend who was assaulted by a hemp addict brandishing a dirty pot needle at a gas station. The THC junkie wouldn't stop yelling WELCOME TO THE REEFERZONE while acting like a violent zombie.
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Re: Relative dating a weed smoker [Re: Constantine]
#19201082 - 11/28/13 02:32 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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are you sure that wasn't you?
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Re: Relative dating a weed smoker [Re: NWlight] 1
#19201095 - 11/28/13 02:35 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Nope, I am reefer-free and proud. Stay away from the THC hemp bongs/reefer tokes my friend.
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Re: Relative dating a weed smoker [Re: Constantine]
#19201116 - 11/28/13 02:45 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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I took the Highway through the ReeferZone.
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Re: Relative dating a weed smoker [Re: Murph]
#19201144 - 11/28/13 02:53 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Re: Relative dating a weed smoker [Re: Murph]
#19201160 - 11/28/13 02:58 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Murph said: I took the Highway through the ReeferZone.
I'm riding the highway through reeferzone and I find this hilarious
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Re: Relative dating a weed smoker [Re: Synthe]
#19201182 - 11/28/13 03:05 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Quote:
I don't care who she dates but she told me her boyfriend smokes 5 sticks (joints) a day and when he smokes, he starts to shake weirdly and I assume he probably talks to himself and hears voices too (since it's rampant among them but never spoken of) if you dig a little further.
Who is "them"
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Re: Relative dating a weed smoker [Re: TrippyTubby]
#19201191 - 11/28/13 03:07 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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TrippyTubby said:
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he starts to shake weirdly and I assume he probably talks to himself and hears voices too (since it's rampant among them but never spoken of) if you dig a little further.
You assume this? I have a ton of friends who smoke pot, none of which hear voices and talk to themselves whilst stoned. He probably is just an extremely chill guy, you shouldn't worry so much about it. Also, if he smokes 5 joints a day, he probably has a super high tolerance and doesn't really get silly high anymore. Back in my heavy smoking days, when I smoked it was almost like another type of "normal", I was never fucked up or anything, just relaxed. I bet you could hang out with him all day and not know if he was high or not.
Did I mention she is in a country notorious for gang rapes and stonings? If you knew your relative was in that country, I bet my left balls you'd worry. At the moment I am very concerned...girls are easily fooled and mislead by weird rich ass guys who smoke weed and occasionally punch walls in a psychotic rage ...she should date someone else who is a little more on the sane side . The rest of you guys don't know what you are talking about . I am not trying to bad-mouth this guy, but that country has a lot of mentally sick people, no wonder they worship inbred six-legged children and boast about talking with gods and angels
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Re: Relative dating a weed smoker [Re: NotTheDevil]
#19201198 - 11/28/13 03:08 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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i think he means weed smokers when he says "them"
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Re: Relative dating a weed smoker [Re: 245willow19] 2
#19201208 - 11/28/13 03:09 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Esekon Kelly said:
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TrippyTubby said:
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he starts to shake weirdly and I assume he probably talks to himself and hears voices too (since it's rampant among them but never spoken of) if you dig a little further.
You assume this? I have a ton of friends who smoke pot, none of which hear voices and talk to themselves whilst stoned. He probably is just an extremely chill guy, you shouldn't worry so much about it. Also, if he smokes 5 joints a day, he probably has a super high tolerance and doesn't really get silly high anymore. Back in my heavy smoking days, when I smoked it was almost like another type of "normal", I was never fucked up or anything, just relaxed. I bet you could hang out with him all day and not know if he was high or not.
Did I mention she is in a country notorious for gang rapes and stonings? If you knew your relative was in that country, I bet my left balls you'd worry. At the moment I am very concerned...girls are easily fooled and mislead by weird rich ass guys who smoke weed and occasionally punch walls in a psychotic rage ...she should date someone else who is a little more on the sane side . The rest of you guys don't know what you are talking about . I am not trying to bad-mouth this guy, but that country has a lot of mentally sick people
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...girls are easily fooled and mislead by weird rich ass guys who smoke weed and occasionally punch walls in a psychotic rage
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