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Re: Do I just say fuck it and date an unattractive girl? [Re: Alexestalex] 6
#19182950 - 11/24/13 02:43 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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you've got to start somewhere.
date her with the expectation of breaking up when you find something better.
everyone does it. people are fucking horrible
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Re: Do I just say fuck it and date an unattractive girl? [Re: NWlight] 3
#19182961 - 11/24/13 02:46 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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I wouldn't, sexual attraction is too important for me. I'd rather be lonely and jerk off than date I girl I can't find attractive
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Re: Do I just say fuck it and date an unattractive girl? [Re: Alexestalex] 2
#19182966 - 11/24/13 02:47 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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I'm with you dude but don't seek that girl out at least wait for it to happen at the right time, your chances of scoring with a hottie go up like 300%.
I'm good looking(sometimes my lips are pretty fucked I had to go to the doctor) but before I was like this relationship cant work
and now I'm like we don't match each other or I hate vying for a girls attention for more then a day, week, month lol
my friend is good looking and dates like 6-7's either nice body or nice face but in the long run it helps out
write down what kind of characteristics you want in a girl and next time you meet that girl it should click right away and you can woo here from that point on
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Re: Do I just say fuck it and date an unattractive girl? [Re: Patlal]
#19183010 - 11/24/13 02:55 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Some of the girls i've dated have certainly been less attractive than others. They were pretty oddball cases though. I never sought them out. Thangs just happened. Imo you really shouldn't seek out any "type" of girl. You can't checklist things like sexual attraction and personality or any other surface qualities. Date a hot girl, you can still get bored of her. Date a less attractive girl, you can get bored of her lack of attractiveness. Best thing to do is just be friendly with woman until something starts to develop between you and one of them. If you have a strong enough connection, you tend to be a little more blind to the flaws.
Same works the other way. If you don't consider yourself an attractive guy who cares. I know i don't, but i've managed to stay in the dating game pretty well the past few years. Some girls are going to dig you regardless. Just don't push to "date" them. Just let things happen
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Re: Do I just say fuck it and date an unattractive girl? [Re: JacksonMetaller]
#19183073 - 11/24/13 03:08 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Dude,if you're ugly, you shouldn't be so picky. You don't have to date 2's, but why not go for 4-5's if that's your match.
I take it you must be pretty young. As you get older, you will find more girls attractive that you probably wouldn't have before. At least that's what happened to me. I can see attractive qualities in *most girls my age as long as they're not fat. That just skeeves me out.
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Re: Do I just say fuck it and date an unattractive girl? [Re: toader123]
#19183089 - 11/24/13 03:12 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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pay a good looking hooker
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Re: Do I just say fuck it and date an unattractive girl? [Re: JacksonMetaller]
#19183097 - 11/24/13 03:13 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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JacksonMetaller said: Some of the girls i've dated have certainly been less attractive than others. They were pretty oddball cases though. I never sought them out. Thangs just happened. Imo you really shouldn't seek out any "type" of girl. You can't checklist things like sexual attraction and personality or any other surface qualities. Date a hot girl, you can still get bored of her. Date a less attractive girl, you can get bored of her lack of attractiveness. Best thing to do is just be friendly with woman until something starts to develop between you and one of them. If you have a strong enough connection, you tend to be a little more blind to the flaws.
Same works the other way. If you don't consider yourself an attractive guy who cares. I know i don't, but i've managed to stay in the dating game pretty well the past few years. Some girls are going to dig you regardless. Just don't push to "date" them. Just let things happen
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Re: Do I just say fuck it and date an unattractive girl? [Re: Konyap] 1
#19183200 - 11/24/13 03:35 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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How unnatractive are you talkin' about? I wouldn't recommend you settle for somebody in whom you can't find something attractive, you'd just land yourself in an unsatisfying relationship (however breif) while fucking with the poor girl's head. If your definition of attractive just means that the girl falls outside of the conventional, main-stream, westernized sense of the word attractive (and the many variations thereof), and you can find something beautifull about the person, I say go for it. Years ago I hung out with a girl that looked a lot like a gelfing from the Dark Crystal, only older and not quite as cute. She was awesome: realy fun, quirky, smart, had great taste in music. It didn't take me long to recognize how beautiful she was despite her quite goofy physical appearance. My friends gave me some shit, but I didn't care. We were having a great time. Our relationship didn't last very long, nor was it very serious-- just drinking, staying up late listening to music, and having sloppy sex.
That particular relationship was a mind expanding experience that matured me greatly, and changed the way I look at people-- especially women.
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Re: Do I just say fuck it and date an unattractive girl? [Re: Alexestalex]
#19183224 - 11/24/13 03:40 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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I would, just because you go on a date doesn't make you obligated to get with her. IF nothing else it will be good practice for when you find somebody you are really attracted to.
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Re: Do I just say fuck it and date an unattractive girl? [Re: Alexestalex] 8
#19183268 - 11/24/13 03:50 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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I don't think sociopaths should date
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Re: Do I just say fuck it and date an unattractive girl? [Re: zappaisgod]
#19183288 - 11/24/13 03:54 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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zappaisgod said: I don't think sociopaths should date
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Re: Do I just say fuck it and date an unattractive girl? [Re: morrowasted] 2
#19183706 - 11/24/13 05:38 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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How about bettering yourself instead of wallowing in self pity and settling for a DUFF???
Go to the gym. Dress nice. Take pride in your appearance. Any woman who claims they don't find the muscular athletic look is a lying whore or in denial that she isn't attractive enough to bag one. Also don't play the whole caring/nice guy routine. Quick trip to the friendzone. Then when the "why wont you date me I've been so nice" convo emerges you just look like a manipulative dick.
There are 3 things all the women I've fucked had in common.
1. We did not start as "friends" 2. I didn't fake that nice guy shit. They knew I wanted to ravage that ass from the get go. 3. They weren't ugly (don't settle, try)
Seriously dude don't settle. I have had so many women through compliments my way its not even funny. Is it because I'm aesthetically pleaseing? YES. But hear this my son.
A buddy of mine looks like heath ledger got smacked in the face with a shovel. But he works hard and smart for his money. Is funny as shit, and lifts weights. He 5'3" and this little shit has gotten more pussy than anyone else I know.
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Re: Do I just say fuck it and date an unattractive girl? [Re: Mescalean] 1
#19183751 - 11/24/13 05:48 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Re: Do I just say fuck it and date an unattractive girl? [Re: Mescalean]
#19183800 - 11/24/13 05:58 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Mescalean said: How about bettering yourself instead of wallowing in self pity and settling for a DUFF???
Go to the gym. Dress nice. Take pride in your appearance. Any woman who claims they don't find the muscular athletic look is a lying whore or in denial that she isn't attractive enough to bag one. Also don't play the whole caring/nice guy routine. Quick trip to the friendzone. Then when the "why wont you date me I've been so nice" convo emerges you just look like a manipulative dick.
There are 3 things all the women I've fucked had in common.
1. We did not start as "friends" 2. I didn't fake that nice guy shit. They knew I wanted to ravage that ass from the get go. 3. They weren't ugly (don't settle, try)
Seriously dude don't settle. I have had so many women through compliments my way its not even funny. Is it because I'm aesthetically pleaseing? YES. But hear this my son.
A buddy of mine looks like heath ledger got smacked in the face with a shovel. But he works hard and smart for his money. Is funny as shit, and lifts weights. He 5'3" and this little shit has gotten more pussy than anyone else I know.
People underestimate the power of pleasing aesthetics though, like seriously. Getting a hot girlfriend when you are considered attractive is as easy as catching a dead fish in your home aquarium using a net. Getting a hot girlfriend when you`re ugly is like catching a fast fish with your hands in a river....
LOL.
tl;dr if you were ugly, you`d probably be single and lonely.
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Re: Do I just say fuck it and date an unattractive girl? [Re: Alexestalex]
#19183814 - 11/24/13 06:01 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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TL/DR
'should I settle' is the question. If yiu're unhappy single you'll be unhappy dating an ugly chick too.
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Re: Do I just say fuck it and date an unattractive girl? [Re: Alexestalex]
#19183818 - 11/24/13 06:02 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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If you're ugly you can devote more resources then the other guy being metrosexual gets you more then being an attractive nerd
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Re: Do I just say fuck it and date an unattractive girl? [Re: Patlal]
#19183923 - 11/24/13 06:22 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Patlal said: I wouldn't, sexual attraction is too important for me. I'd rather be lonely and jerk off than date I girl I can't find attractive
That's a good point. I guess I was going under the assumption that OP really wanted a girlfriend being a thing, in itself, to be desired
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Re: Do I just say fuck it and date an unattractive girl? [Re: NWlight]
#19184114 - 11/24/13 07:11 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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There are no unattractive girls, just unattractive opportunities.
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Re: Do I just say fuck it and date an unattractive girl? [Re: Alexestalex]
#19184118 - 11/24/13 07:12 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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I've tried to, but if she doesn't look good to me, I just don't wanna go there. Sure lowering standards or whatever, but I think there's really gotta be that spark of physical attraction for me to wanna do the no pants dance.
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Re: Do I just say fuck it and date an unattractive girl? [Re: sanchothestoner]
#19184167 - 11/24/13 07:20 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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JacksonMetaller said: Some of the girls i've dated have certainly been less attractive than others. They were pretty oddball cases though. I never sought them out. Thangs just happened. Imo you really shouldn't seek out any "type" of girl. You can't checklist things like sexual attraction and personality or any other surface qualities. Date a hot girl, you can still get bored of her. Date a less attractive girl, you can get bored of her lack of attractiveness. Best thing to do is just be friendly with woman until something starts to develop between you and one of them. If you have a strong enough connection, you tend to be a little more blind to the flaws.
Same works the other way. If you don't consider yourself an attractive guy who cares. I know i don't, but i've managed to stay in the dating game pretty well the past few years. Some girls are going to dig you regardless. Just don't push to "date" them. Just let things happen
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Re: Do I just say fuck it and date an unattractive girl? [Re: openmind]
#19184511 - 11/24/13 09:03 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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maybe I should have talked to that asian girl more
ignoring the shit out of family might have been mutual
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Re: Do I just say fuck it and date an unattractive girl? [Re: Konyap]
#19184561 - 11/24/13 09:15 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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if ur lonely, do whatever u want to fill the void. to me though, it basically sounds like ur bored.
if it were me, i would find a chick that you can't help but like - despite her flaws. i wouldn't just seek out someone dumpy that is easily controllable, or will follow you around and do whatever you ask. i mean sum dudes get off on that, and then spit out boys with egos the size of a motherfucker.
iono, i'm a romantic. i like to lay it on reeeeeeal thick, even if it annoys the hell out of the chick. but most of the time i dun even think i have a chance at hookn up, lol...
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Re: Do I just say fuck it and date an unattractive girl? [Re: Alexestalex] 1
#19184628 - 11/24/13 09:33 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Post an example of a girl you find attractive and the type of girl you're considering asking out, so we can get an idea just how much you're lowering your standards.
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Re: Do I just say fuck it and date an unattractive girl? [Re: Alexestalex]
#19184669 - 11/24/13 09:44 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Having relationship a woman who is in your opinion "too ugly" for you is an oddly freeing thing. Some guys don't seem to give a shit about their SO no matter how long they've been seeing each other or how great they are. I'm not that way with some women, but a couple I have not really cared about. It was odd to see the relationship in a completely objective way and so easy to handle.
I don't know if you're familiar with the D E N N I S system, and I'm not saying this to be a jackass. Being with a woman you deem beneath you ends like a lot like that fucking scene for me. Boarder line manipulative, it's not a great feeling. But it's better than some woman you care about fuckin with your mind.
And on a side note, as long as you're confident you'll get hard shes pretty enough.
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Re: Do I just say fuck it and date an unattractive girl? [Re: Juicin]
#19184738 - 11/24/13 10:16 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Pretty much, as long as she walks on two legs you're good to go!
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Re: Do I just say fuck it and date an unattractive girl? [Re: Konyap]
#19184779 - 11/24/13 10:27 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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OP I would jus try and fuck an ugly bitch until u can Do better after being to prison I had to resort to getting A women an I did just to get laid she might have been A 1 lolzzz. Now im dating a sexy ladie
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Re: Do I just say fuck it and date an unattractive girl? [Re: Polk_Audio3]
#19185060 - 11/24/13 11:40 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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the last girl i was interment with i thought she was cute, but ultimately i wasn't sexually attracted to her. I thought that i'd go for gold any ways. Not a good idea. It is incredibly humiliating to be hot and heavy and not be able to deliver the goods. She tried sucking it, and i tried pulling it (not that, that's very sexually stimulating to women i'm sure) and i just couldn't get a decent erection. keep that in mind bro.
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Re: Do I just say fuck it and date an unattractive girl? [Re: Magenta]
#19185064 - 11/24/13 11:41 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Anybody can lower their standards but a real douche hit it and quit it
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Re: Do I just say fuck it and date an unattractive girl? [Re: Konyap]
#19186735 - 11/25/13 12:11 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Seriously every girl ive dated that doesnt have a special attractive quality to her has lasted 2 weeks most. The one im with now reminds me of joanna angel :,)
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Re: Do I just say fuck it and date an unattractive girl? [Re: Mescalean]
#19186763 - 11/25/13 12:16 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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I couldn't be with someone who I didnt find physically attractive. I did once, and it wasnt fair to the girl.
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Re: Do I just say fuck it and date an unattractive girl? [Re: EdibleStereos]
#19186774 - 11/25/13 12:19 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Hit it, son! We have no idea how they pass out the pussy in heaven so you need to get all you can here.
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Re: Do I just say fuck it and date an unattractive girl? [Re: EdibleStereos]
#19186784 - 11/25/13 12:22 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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EdibleStereos said: I couldn't be with someone who I didnt find physically attractive. I did once, and it wasnt fair to the girl.
This. Not the most fun thing breaking someones heart. Random slut idgaf but what if you start seeing her as a still a chill person and want to be friends? Happened to me. Felt shity sacrificing someone elses feelings so your not lonely for a bit until something better comes along. Fat/ ugly girls are usually really nice too.
PS THEY HAVE HOT FRIENDS every fat girl has hot friends because they are the "Designated Ugly Fat Friend (duff)". All women have one to look better by comparison when they go out.
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Re: Do I just say fuck it and date an unattractive girl? [Re: Alexestalex]
#19186787 - 11/25/13 12:22 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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ugly girls are meant for ugly guys so if you whistle at them you're breaking their natural codes of conduct,they will think they're beautiful and won't give some ugly dude that was meant for her a chance
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Re: Do I just say fuck it and date an unattractive girl? [Re: NWlight]
#19186805 - 11/25/13 12:27 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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everyone does it. people are fucking horrible 
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Re: Do I just say fuck it and date an unattractive girl? [Re: thilfee]
#19186815 - 11/25/13 12:30 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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thilfee said: ugly girls are meant for ugly guys so if you whistle at them you're breaking their natural codes of conduct,they will think they're beautiful and won't give some ugly dude that was meant for her a chance
Does this include drunk hookups with fatties? Because if I ruined an ugly dudes chance at pussy I feel kinda bad. Like that was their chance to be happy
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Re: Do I just say fuck it and date an unattractive girl? [Re: Mescalean]
#19187416 - 11/25/13 02:53 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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One of the very few regrets in my life is that I didn't let more fat chicks have their way with me.
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Re: Do I just say fuck it and date an unattractive girl? [Re: Alexestalex] 2
#19187714 - 11/25/13 04:14 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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If you want to be happy for the rest of your life
never make a pretty woman your wife
So from my personal point of view
get an ugly girl to marry you
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Re: Do I just say fuck it and date an unattractive girl? [Re: Juicin]
#19187727 - 11/25/13 04:19 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Juicin said: And on a side note, as long as you're confident you'll get hard shes pretty enough.
yea, definitely if she's givin' u a hardon show her the knife. i mean u dun have to have kids with the chick or have coitus or even openly date her long term... at least show her she's worth a fat jizz tho! c'mon, it'll brighten the planet more anyway.
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