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Alexestalex
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Do I just say fuck it and date an unattractive girl? *DELETED*
#19182932 - 11/24/13 02:40 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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NWlight
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Re: Do I just say fuck it and date an unattractive girl? [Re: Alexestalex] 6
#19182950 - 11/24/13 02:43 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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you've got to start somewhere.
date her with the expectation of breaking up when you find something better.
everyone does it. people are fucking horrible
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Re: Do I just say fuck it and date an unattractive girl? [Re: NWlight] 3
#19182961 - 11/24/13 02:46 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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I wouldn't, sexual attraction is too important for me. I'd rather be lonely and jerk off than date I girl I can't find attractive
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Re: Do I just say fuck it and date an unattractive girl? [Re: Alexestalex] 2
#19182966 - 11/24/13 02:47 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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I'm with you dude but don't seek that girl out at least wait for it to happen at the right time, your chances of scoring with a hottie go up like 300%.
I'm good looking(sometimes my lips are pretty fucked I had to go to the doctor) but before I was like this relationship cant work
and now I'm like we don't match each other or I hate vying for a girls attention for more then a day, week, month lol
my friend is good looking and dates like 6-7's either nice body or nice face but in the long run it helps out
write down what kind of characteristics you want in a girl and next time you meet that girl it should click right away and you can woo here from that point on
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Re: Do I just say fuck it and date an unattractive girl? [Re: Patlal]
#19183010 - 11/24/13 02:55 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Some of the girls i've dated have certainly been less attractive than others. They were pretty oddball cases though. I never sought them out. Thangs just happened. Imo you really shouldn't seek out any "type" of girl. You can't checklist things like sexual attraction and personality or any other surface qualities. Date a hot girl, you can still get bored of her. Date a less attractive girl, you can get bored of her lack of attractiveness. Best thing to do is just be friendly with woman until something starts to develop between you and one of them. If you have a strong enough connection, you tend to be a little more blind to the flaws.
Same works the other way. If you don't consider yourself an attractive guy who cares. I know i don't, but i've managed to stay in the dating game pretty well the past few years. Some girls are going to dig you regardless. Just don't push to "date" them. Just let things happen
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Re: Do I just say fuck it and date an unattractive girl? [Re: JacksonMetaller]
#19183073 - 11/24/13 03:08 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Dude,if you're ugly, you shouldn't be so picky. You don't have to date 2's, but why not go for 4-5's if that's your match.
I take it you must be pretty young. As you get older, you will find more girls attractive that you probably wouldn't have before. At least that's what happened to me. I can see attractive qualities in *most girls my age as long as they're not fat. That just skeeves me out.
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Re: Do I just say fuck it and date an unattractive girl? [Re: toader123]
#19183089 - 11/24/13 03:12 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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pay a good looking hooker
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Re: Do I just say fuck it and date an unattractive girl? [Re: JacksonMetaller]
#19183097 - 11/24/13 03:13 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Quote:
JacksonMetaller said: Some of the girls i've dated have certainly been less attractive than others. They were pretty oddball cases though. I never sought them out. Thangs just happened. Imo you really shouldn't seek out any "type" of girl. You can't checklist things like sexual attraction and personality or any other surface qualities. Date a hot girl, you can still get bored of her. Date a less attractive girl, you can get bored of her lack of attractiveness. Best thing to do is just be friendly with woman until something starts to develop between you and one of them. If you have a strong enough connection, you tend to be a little more blind to the flaws.
Same works the other way. If you don't consider yourself an attractive guy who cares. I know i don't, but i've managed to stay in the dating game pretty well the past few years. Some girls are going to dig you regardless. Just don't push to "date" them. Just let things happen
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Re: Do I just say fuck it and date an unattractive girl? [Re: Konyap] 1
#19183200 - 11/24/13 03:35 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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How unnatractive are you talkin' about? I wouldn't recommend you settle for somebody in whom you can't find something attractive, you'd just land yourself in an unsatisfying relationship (however breif) while fucking with the poor girl's head. If your definition of attractive just means that the girl falls outside of the conventional, main-stream, westernized sense of the word attractive (and the many variations thereof), and you can find something beautifull about the person, I say go for it. Years ago I hung out with a girl that looked a lot like a gelfing from the Dark Crystal, only older and not quite as cute. She was awesome: realy fun, quirky, smart, had great taste in music. It didn't take me long to recognize how beautiful she was despite her quite goofy physical appearance. My friends gave me some shit, but I didn't care. We were having a great time. Our relationship didn't last very long, nor was it very serious-- just drinking, staying up late listening to music, and having sloppy sex.
That particular relationship was a mind expanding experience that matured me greatly, and changed the way I look at people-- especially women.
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Re: Do I just say fuck it and date an unattractive girl? [Re: Alexestalex]
#19183224 - 11/24/13 03:40 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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I would, just because you go on a date doesn't make you obligated to get with her. IF nothing else it will be good practice for when you find somebody you are really attracted to.
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Re: Do I just say fuck it and date an unattractive girl? [Re: Alexestalex] 8
#19183268 - 11/24/13 03:50 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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I don't think sociopaths should date
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Re: Do I just say fuck it and date an unattractive girl? [Re: zappaisgod]
#19183288 - 11/24/13 03:54 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Quote:
zappaisgod said: I don't think sociopaths should date
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Mescalean
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Re: Do I just say fuck it and date an unattractive girl? [Re: morrowasted] 2
#19183706 - 11/24/13 05:38 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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How about bettering yourself instead of wallowing in self pity and settling for a DUFF???
Go to the gym. Dress nice. Take pride in your appearance. Any woman who claims they don't find the muscular athletic look is a lying whore or in denial that she isn't attractive enough to bag one. Also don't play the whole caring/nice guy routine. Quick trip to the friendzone. Then when the "why wont you date me I've been so nice" convo emerges you just look like a manipulative dick.
There are 3 things all the women I've fucked had in common.
1. We did not start as "friends" 2. I didn't fake that nice guy shit. They knew I wanted to ravage that ass from the get go. 3. They weren't ugly (don't settle, try)
Seriously dude don't settle. I have had so many women through compliments my way its not even funny. Is it because I'm aesthetically pleaseing? YES. But hear this my son.
A buddy of mine looks like heath ledger got smacked in the face with a shovel. But he works hard and smart for his money. Is funny as shit, and lifts weights. He 5'3" and this little shit has gotten more pussy than anyone else I know.
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Re: Do I just say fuck it and date an unattractive girl? [Re: Mescalean] 1
#19183751 - 11/24/13 05:48 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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A buddy of mine looks like heath ledger got smacked in the face with a shovel.

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Alexestalex
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Re: Do I just say fuck it and date an unattractive girl? [Re: Mescalean]
#19183800 - 11/24/13 05:58 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Mescalean said: How about bettering yourself instead of wallowing in self pity and settling for a DUFF???
Go to the gym. Dress nice. Take pride in your appearance. Any woman who claims they don't find the muscular athletic look is a lying whore or in denial that she isn't attractive enough to bag one. Also don't play the whole caring/nice guy routine. Quick trip to the friendzone. Then when the "why wont you date me I've been so nice" convo emerges you just look like a manipulative dick.
There are 3 things all the women I've fucked had in common.
1. We did not start as "friends" 2. I didn't fake that nice guy shit. They knew I wanted to ravage that ass from the get go. 3. They weren't ugly (don't settle, try)
Seriously dude don't settle. I have had so many women through compliments my way its not even funny. Is it because I'm aesthetically pleaseing? YES. But hear this my son.
A buddy of mine looks like heath ledger got smacked in the face with a shovel. But he works hard and smart for his money. Is funny as shit, and lifts weights. He 5'3" and this little shit has gotten more pussy than anyone else I know.
People underestimate the power of pleasing aesthetics though, like seriously. Getting a hot girlfriend when you are considered attractive is as easy as catching a dead fish in your home aquarium using a net. Getting a hot girlfriend when you`re ugly is like catching a fast fish with your hands in a river....
LOL.
tl;dr if you were ugly, you`d probably be single and lonely.
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Edited by Alexestalex (11/24/13 05:59 PM)
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Re: Do I just say fuck it and date an unattractive girl? [Re: Alexestalex]
#19183814 - 11/24/13 06:01 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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TL/DR
'should I settle' is the question. If yiu're unhappy single you'll be unhappy dating an ugly chick too.
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Re: Do I just say fuck it and date an unattractive girl? [Re: Alexestalex]
#19183818 - 11/24/13 06:02 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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If you're ugly you can devote more resources then the other guy being metrosexual gets you more then being an attractive nerd
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NWlight
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Re: Do I just say fuck it and date an unattractive girl? [Re: Patlal]
#19183923 - 11/24/13 06:22 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Patlal said: I wouldn't, sexual attraction is too important for me. I'd rather be lonely and jerk off than date I girl I can't find attractive
That's a good point. I guess I was going under the assumption that OP really wanted a girlfriend being a thing, in itself, to be desired
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Re: Do I just say fuck it and date an unattractive girl? [Re: NWlight]
#19184114 - 11/24/13 07:11 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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There are no unattractive girls, just unattractive opportunities.
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Re: Do I just say fuck it and date an unattractive girl? [Re: Alexestalex]
#19184118 - 11/24/13 07:12 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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I've tried to, but if she doesn't look good to me, I just don't wanna go there. Sure lowering standards or whatever, but I think there's really gotta be that spark of physical attraction for me to wanna do the no pants dance.
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