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When one person in the relationship wants a baby
#19170238 - 11/21/13 01:59 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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This thought comes from another thread which got me wondering... I am going to list two hypothetical scenarios and you tell me if you see them as equal in your eyes...
A. The man wants a baby while the woman does not. So he pokes holes in the condoms in order to try and get her pregnant.
B. The woman wants a baby while the man does not. So she tells him that she's on birth control, but really isnt.
In both situations, One party WANTS a baby but tells their partner's otherwise. Im not making this thread to start a war. let's try to act like civilized human beings and take a step back to think before you give your answer.
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Re: When one person in the relationship wants a baby [Re: Anonymous #1] 4
#19170299 - 11/21/13 02:13 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Of course it's wrong, you shouldn't ever manipulate somebody into having a baby. Even if you do and you are successful, if they don't want it, there's no guarantee they are staying. Congratulations you now have a screaming annoying baby and no partner to help you raise it.
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Re: When one person in the relationship wants a baby [Re: Crystal G] 1
#19171954 - 11/21/13 07:21 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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What is the purpose of this thread? In my eyes they are equivalently messed up situations. What is your opinion OP?
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Re: When one person in the relationship wants a baby [Re: Anonymous #1]
#19173411 - 11/22/13 02:00 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: I am going to list two hypothetical scenarios and you tell me if you see them as equal in your eyes...
Yes, they are equally retarded.
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Re: When one person in the relationship wants a baby [Re: koraks]
#19173864 - 11/22/13 07:11 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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She tells you she's pregnant?
Push her down the stairs.
Run to Mexico.
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Re: When one person in the relationship wants a baby [Re: Patlal]
#19174279 - 11/22/13 09:45 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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if she just decides against you to get pregnant, then you decide against her to drug her, tell her 'babe, these papers are for blahblah' n have that baby signed off to adoption.
that is the closest you will get.
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Re: When one person in the relationship wants a baby [Re: pwnasaurus]
#19174548 - 11/22/13 11:19 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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pwnasaurus said: they are equivalently messed up situations
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Re: When one person in the relationship wants a baby [Re: Tripsurfer]
#19174863 - 11/22/13 01:25 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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I pick option C
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Re: When one person in the relationship wants a baby [Re: The5thElement]
#19175071 - 11/22/13 02:33 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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I thought this thread was going to be about someone wanting a baby and trying to talk the other partner into it with them, not deception on both ends.
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Re: When one person in the relationship wants a baby [Re: Herbologist]
#19175277 - 11/22/13 03:27 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Me too.
THREAD FAIL!
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Re: When one person in the relationship wants a baby [Re: Herbologist]
#19177472 - 11/23/13 02:05 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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You mean, you can TALK in addition to tricking someone into making a baby by messing with their contraceptives?
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Re: When one person in the relationship wants a baby [Re: koraks]
#19182082 - 11/24/13 10:50 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Well do you all think its fair if one person decides to want a baby while the other person is against the idea? Do you think that both the male and female have equal say in the matter? I just feel that the woman ultimately has the say... because it doesnt matter what the male says or feels, he cant stp the woman from having the baby. And then if its the male that wants the baby, its STILL ultimately the female's choice still!
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Re: When one person in the relationship wants a baby [Re: Anonymous #1]
#19182099 - 11/24/13 10:54 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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one kind of question is that, obviously its not fair lol
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Re: When one person in the relationship wants a baby [Re: Anonymous #1]
#19182180 - 11/24/13 11:12 AM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: Well do you all think its fair if one person decides to want a baby while the other person is against the idea?
It's fair to want a baby; it's not fair to actually have one without the consent of the other party.
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Do you think that both the male and female have equal say in the matter?
Yes, of course! It really surprises me that there are apparently still people who doubt this!
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I just feel that the woman ultimately has the say... because it doesnt matter what the male says or feels, he cant stp the woman from having the baby.
You mistake power for equality, and even then, you're wrong. Firstly, the fact that either person can do it without the other person's consent doesn't make it right. The US could nuke all Central-African nations if they wanted to, but that wouldn't make it right. Secondly, what if the man is physically stronger and he can literally make the woman not have the baby (by forcing her to have an abortion, for example)? Would that make it "ultimately the man's choice"?
Now, all politically correct talk aside (and don't get me wrong, I believe both partners should and must have an equally heavy say in matters like these!), there is some truth to what you say. In my personal experience, it's often the woman who really wants the baby, and the man consents - or rather, doesn't object to it (any longer.) So I'd definitely say that more often than not, the woman is the driving force behind the decision to procreate. But the man is and should be the essential enabling factor (assuming we're talking regular, mixed-sex relationships here.)
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Re: When one person in the relationship wants a baby [Re: Tripsurfer]
#19182658 - 11/24/13 01:25 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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pwnasaurus said: they are equivalently messed up situations
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Re: When one person in the relationship wants a baby [Re: Anonymous #1]
#19197202 - 11/27/13 04:21 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: I just feel that the woman ultimately has the say... because it doesnt matter what the male says or feels, he cant stp the woman from having the baby.
It's not really that difficult to keep her from getting pregnant. Even if she says she's on the pill, wear a rubber just in case. In the event that the rubber is faulty, do the quick pull so you don't splooge inside of her, and if she pulls the ol' waist wrap leg-lock on you, picture grandma's wrinkled old jugs and breathe deeply. (In the event that you do cum thinking about granny's deflated blouse balloons, you may want to seek professional psychiatric help.)
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Re: When one person in the relationship wants a baby [Re: Camwritesgonzo]
#19198356 - 11/27/13 09:16 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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Man cumming inside is the best, everyone should do it despite the consequences. Just think positive
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Re: When one person in the relationship wants a baby [Re: The5thElement]
#19198384 - 11/27/13 09:32 PM (10 years, 2 months ago) |
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